#so you're saying that most “pro shippers” are mature adults. more so than you.

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Why is Tumblr showing me anti and terf posts in my already fragile mental state

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I'm gonna use this ask to delve into a specific aspect of what I mentioned in the previous ask, because I think that this is something you need to know when interacting with me. Bullies or bullying supporters are NOT welcome in my space.

CRITICALLY exploring & enjoying "problematic" SHIPS doesn't make you a bad person / psycho / pervert / whatev they wanna call it.

Almost anyone who's had a fandom experience, no matter how brief, has run into this topic. The whole big war "antis vs pro-shippers"...even if personally I'd call it the endless "in this episode of how antis start another witch hunt against people who just want to stay in their corner and do their thing..." series.

Btw, to be precise, "pro-shipper" doesn't mean only what everyone seems to think. At the very start, the term was used for people who apply the very healthy, very mature philosophy of the "Ship and let ship", variation of that "live and let live" so many people (even antis, and damn, hello, hypocrisy) loves to throw out to justify their not so popular behaviour.

So, "pro-shipper" isn't a bad word. Actually, it means that you're acting like the adult you're supposed to be. And this means that if you follow what I wrote up there, then technically, you are a pro-shipper.

Gonna leave that there, for pondering purposes. For the rest of the ask, I'm gonna use the term with the most common meaning that's used online nowadays. Back on track.

Are these ships "problematic"? According to our social standards, yes. That's undeniable and no one denies it, not even the shippers (mind, I'm talking about people who critically consume this kind of content, the actual pervs are NOT considered here). They know and have the common sense to explore their ship never losing sight of the fact that 1. it's fiction and 2. this doesn't equal supporting those things IRL. Because yeah, I'll say it (unpopular opinion inside the unpopular opinion):

Fiction does NOT equal reality.

Being intellectually curious about something doesn't equal doing it or even just wanting to do it. Most people fantasise about killing one or more people during their life (and this is a scientifical fact, there are studies on this shit), and this fantasies are pretty enjoyable too for most of them. Would you call them murders? Just because they have explored a scenario without having intention of reproducing it in reality?

I don't think so.

And the same goes for anyone who is interested in the theory and the psychology of "problematic" ships (and content in general). Toxic relationships, abusive relationships, underage, big age differences, incest, power imbalance...and there's more than I can't recall right now, but you got the gist. All this stuff is bad IRL, no one can argue with that (and if they do, then they need to get professional help or go to jail). But on a fantastical level, with fictional characters? It's not different from enjoying a horror movie or being fascinated by a fictional serial killer. Which doesn't mean wanting to become the next John Kramer (Saw) or Michael Myers (Halloween) or being an actual groupie.

So let's put things into the right context before starting to throw around real heavy words, shall we?

Then, on the other hand, as I've already said, we have the ones who bully real people, who accuse real people of being really disgusting thing, who tell real people to kill themselves. People who write on their fucking blog descriptions, for everyone to see, stuff like "pro-shippers killed on sight / if you ship X go hang yourself / if you like Y I hope you OD", etc. I'm not making these up, btw, I've actually seen this shit.

I won't add anything else about this last point because I have already stated what I think and, especially, it should be really fucking obvious. And if it's not to you...whelp, maybe you need to go out and touch some grass. Just saying.

You're allowed not to like this stuff. You're allowed to be uncomfortable about. You have all the rights not to want to see it. You're allowed to avoid / block the people who engage in it. This is all valid.

You're not allowed to be a fucking cowardly bully who uses the anonymity of the internet offers to be an asshole and a criminal. Because that's what you are when you tell someone to take his life, even more when it's about fiction and stuff that doesn't affect anyone's fucking existence. You're a bad person.

So, once again. If you're one of aforementioned people who think that acting this way is all right and cool and just, well...Kindly get the fuck off my blog. I don't want actual toxic people in my life. I hope karma gets to you -fingerguns-

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Junii's About Me/DNI/BYF

I can legally say tits now

Hi, I'm moving from doing nothing in the trash hell of twitter to tumblr; I'm "new-ish" to tumblr so get to know me:

Yes I am a mature [otherwise known as nsfw] blog, instead of harassing me pls just block me; if you are a "sfw only interact" acc or a minor and I interact with you I'm sorry I wasn't aware and pls politely block me, I will understand

Hey hey, it's ur self proclaimed uncle Junii Crow. I'm hispanic non-binary that goes by he/they pronouns and I'm age 20. I'm polyromantic and bisexual, can't get more queer than this/j (yup when casually texting I use tone tags to clarify my messages).

I'm an aspiring webcomic artist aka unemployed. I sometimes draw, sometimes I write rants or blogs but most of the time I talk about silly stuff. Because I'm an adult I want to be around other adults because my content might get sexually graphics at times especially with my taboo kinks like cnc.

Note: I am not interested in looking for others so pls avoid flirting with me.

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I'm an atheist even if I tend to say "omg", bit of a cultural thing lol. I believe in human rights, tolerance of all religions as long as they don’t violate a human’s right, and ethical consumption of meat. 

I have a side blog which is more... sfw in nature, doing doc templates and maybe share a doodle or two here and there. Basically, content anyone can interact with unlike here which is strictly mdni.

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I like aesthetic; psychological horror, gore/guro and angst, roleplay, usually intense and edgy ones but I also enjoy a good fluff rp; art, I draw every full moon; oc talk, I could endlessly talk about them lol; aaaand memes of ocs.

Basically, don't be an asshole.

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I dislike pretty much anyone in my dni list, mean and purposely edgy ppl without chance of talking; big personal pet peeve is ppl always rping in character even when just normally talking like pls just stop, I'm talking about memes I don't need u pretending to be ur pfp.

Do Not Interact

➸ minors/ sensitive adults

➸ anti/ pro-shippers [both can politely stfu]

➸ political speaker, no right wings no leftist this is a political free zone

➸ the rest: racists, homophobes, terfs, radfems, super straights, nazis, white supremacists, exclusionists, toxic/ problematic ppl, fake disorders for attention, pedophiles/ maps/ zoophiles, promote eating disorders/ self harm, simp for serial killers, clout chaser, romanticize abusers/ killers, like “dark romance”, spread misinformation about topics [anti-vaxxers/ conspiracy theorists], art thieves/ tracers,

Will block if. . .

You’re a minor/ have an ageless account, fit any of the criteria in my dni, are agere (the idea personally makes me uncomfortable) are a sex primary account/porn bot, are toxic/ have a “dark” humor, you call abuse “romance”, you shame artists for using references, your blogs make me uncomfortable in any way, you’re an anti-shipper who gets out of their way to harass others/ are a pro-shipper who ships underage characters, both: ew.

Before You Follow I am...

a rape victim who’s rape led to hypersexuality and a rape fetish (cnc), if non-con/ dub-con make you uncomfortable pls block me. I like speaking of dark and mature topics so if any make you uncomfortable pls block me [side note: I WILL NOT ROMANTICIZE SAID DARK TOPICS, IF YOU DO... FUCK OFF].

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Interact if... You're like me, a chill mature blogger :3