#so if youre cishet you're more likely to absorb those cozy romance vibes which adds to the positive associations for Christmas
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So I went on a ramble in the tags, for anyone interested lol
I am calling for a total and complete ban on tiktok pop psychology until we can figure out what the hell is going on
#i mean theyre not wrong#but also-#I find folks more norm aligned tend to love christmas while more queer aligned tend to love halloween#so those things correlating to good/bad childhood makes some sense#ALSO#christmas is about family so if you have good relationships with your family then you're more likely to love christmas#ALSO ALSO#90% of Christmas movies are cishet romance movies which then aligns you to think of those vibes for Christmas#songs too#so if youre cishet you're more likely to absorb those cozy romance vibes which adds to the positive associations for Christmas#while likely causing the opposite effect for queer folks#queer ND or otherwise “abnormal” folks would also associate family visits with hiding yourself and masking#this also aligns with any norm aligned person who had a bad childhood/shitty family#meanwhile halloween is about expressing yourself and being with your friends- often without your family around at all#its being a little gremlin and getting candy and being free to just run around and be a little weirdo#so I don't know if norm aligned but shitty family = likes halloween but it would predispose more towards dislikes christmas#the less norm aligned you are the more halloween feels like home#but obviously this isnt like- a rule lol#I do think the trends make sense tho
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