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Hey guys who wants to hear me rant about me leaving something behind and it fucking me over again? 🙃
#my shoulders are. so fucking tired.#theres a cheap massage clinic at tafe ive been looking forward to all week!!!!!#i was too busy seeing my parents off to get there early#so i was reaponsible and got Everything together#so i could get there in time then stay in the city til evening#when im meeting friends#i fucking had taken my credit cardout of my wallet and didnt notice#i could reschedule til wednesday but I just wanna cry#im so sore#i just fuckign. ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
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I never thought “depression” was a secret to my ex but it proved how little he cared about me. After we broke up, he asked to remain friends and I was so in trauma bond with him but believed it was “love”. I gave him space but couldn’t handle being away from him AT ALL even though I delete our old conversations and pictures. Even deleted my IG and started a new one because the old IG had all my “man crush Monday” post of him and I knew I needed to lose that.
Well, I decided I would take “friends” over nothing but as I reach out to him and we talk again, I realize I for sure want more with him but HAVE to keep my cool because something inside of me just knows he’s got a new gf already. Plus I had a bizarre dream after we broke up of him in this hot bath with rose petals all over him and all these girls surrounding the tub. Clearly my dream world was proving me right that he’s a “ladies man” and probably has 500 girlfriends. It sucked for me and even more so when we’re back texting as “friends” but suddenly he talks like we’re so close and he knows so much about me 🤔🤔
Andrew acted as if everything was ok between us. He talks about the future and even tries to convince me, “Oh, you should work as a nurse in a retirement home…. You’re so good with older people.” Like… what??? He’s just texting away with me and suddenly starts pretending to get vulnerable telling me more of his fears, doubts, hopes and dreams. So I felt comfortable to talk about my mental health. 🥺🫣 I tell him how I’ve always felt “invisible” and “misunderstood”. Andrew says that it’s not true, I shouldn’t feel that way annnnd says it’s not fair he didn’t know that about me. Pretends to be all “shocked” and upset at me, basically saying it’s not fair to him that i struggle with depression and why didn’t he know it ?? 😝😝 he pretends to act all concerned and bothered.
Theeeeeen that was his opportunity to take advantage and flip the script. Andrew then said, “but you’re too beautiful to be depressed” and says “I don’t want you to be that way”. He asked me then what I’m doing, what am I wearing and when I foolishly tell him I’m in the bathtub, it was over… Andrew began to turn the whole conversation sexual and pretend he’s all “into me”. He said “you always know what I like and how to make me feel good” 🙄😬 So I fell for it and we talked dirty and sent nudes and sent heart emojis and kissy faces. I mistook it as we could get bad together but the next day he sent me a book long text message asking me why I talked dirty with them when I know we’re “just friends” and he basically called me a slut and said I don’t respect our friendship….
Two weeks though, Andrew continued to flirt and want to talk dirty with me. He continued to act like he wants me but at the end of the two weeks on a Friday night, he randomly stops in the middle of talking sex and says, “Okay… we gotta stop this. We can’t keep doing this to each other. I think we need to respect our friendship more.” 😵💫😵💫😵💫 dude whatever. You started it back up. I was just following your lead cuz I was confused and still attracted to him bad. (He was messing with my head to keep in trauma bond)
that weekend I continued to try to bring up my mental health but all he wanted to do is argue and put me down. By Sunday afternoon, it’s a full on fight. We’re both arguring about what was and wasn’t real between us. I cry to him how much he’s broke my heart and he claims, “if I am hurting you so much, then stop caring about me. Why care about someone who only hurts you???” 😭😭😭😭 duuuuude that’s like so hurtful and frustrating. I asked him back in all caps, “WHY ARE YOU BEING SO MEAN? WHAT DID I EVER DO TO YOU DESERVE THIS???”
Andrew calmly reaponsed that he “didn’t mean it and wants to take it all back” but at that point, I was panicking and going dark. I felt the pressure of suicide fall and I felt trapped in a corner with no where to run. The pain he was causing me was more than I could bare. That’s when I text him back, “I can’t do this with you anymore. I’m done and I’m ending my life.” 💔💔💔😓
At first Andrew pretending to be sooo upset and started blowing up my phone!! He texted me, called and FaceTimed. He begged me “please don’t do this to me!! That’s so unfair!! Why do you wanna leave me??? You should stay!!!!!!” Ugh. I cried so hard reading his text so confused…. How could it be so unfair to him?? What about me??? I ignored him for hours and eventually he stopped bothering me. I battled with thoughts of how to end my life…. Should I hang myself in my closet or drown myself in my bathtub??? 😭😭😭
I laid in my bed with the covers up on my head crying so hard. Then I thought “just go to sleep and don’t wake up.” (As if I can do that) but I tried. I closed my eyes so hard wanting to escape the pain Andrew was causing me 💔 Then I got a call from my mom asking what I’m doing and will I come watch tv with her…. She knew something was wrong and I didn’t tell her about Andrew, just that I was depressed… my mom prayed with me and I didn’t take my life but I knew I had to still deal with Andrew.
At the end of the night, I finally text Andrew, “hey, I’m still here.” Wow… Andrew pretended to act so “worried about me.” He said, “Oh thank God I was so worried! You had me so scared!!’” He acted both glad, relieved and upset BUT THEEEEEN, he says to me, “You know you’re not well. You shouldn’t want to be this way. You should want better for your life.” And also adds, “You should get professional help.” 😒😒😒 As if I’m so messed up and he’s so perfect….
He ends the night with, “Can we start over as friends and treat each other better?”, “Oh but I’ll be so busy studying all week…”, “But if you need to talk I’m here.” 😝😝😝 Yet that whole week, I didn’t bother him and he didn’t bother me or ask if I’m ok…. Cuz he DOES NOT CARE ABOUT ME. ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹 Later he messed with my head some more but that’s another story.
“How a person reacts to your sadness says a lot about how long they’re going to be in your life.”
— S. Z.
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A friend and I was in a flight together after a refreshing vacation. She bought coffee somewhere but had to travel an hour before she was able to mix the creamer to the coffee. Since the coffee got cold already, the creamer wouldn’t melt. I said “I’d buy coffee from the nearest store so I could request for extra hot water.” (I promised not to drink coffee that day cause I was afraid my stomach would hurt.) But something she said made my world stopped a bit.
“Not everything is your reaponsibility. You are out here supposedly enjoying yourself but you jump rightaway any chance someone is in need. You don’t need to always be the person to help.”
It was striking. My heart jumped. And I thought I got used to always be the first help that I forgot I am not always the one they need and not everything is my responsibility.
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Thing is when it comes to ships, shipper goggles are such a huge factor that they cloud everything else. BH shippers see things one way JT shippers another, then there's (those few of us) who ship both BH and JT who see things differently again, when you're a shipper it's hard to see things objectively. Focusing more on BH, let's take last weeks episode, when JH had those flashes of memory BHs saw it as this massive conformation that he's still in love with Betty, I personally didn't see it that way, I saw shock and him looking slightly uncomfortable, and he was so relieved Tabitha texted him, he loves Tabitha and they make each other happy i believe that wholeheartedly, and his reaponse even in text form seemed so heartfelt to me. But let's say that the BH stans were right in theie interpretation, the part of me that ships BH can't celebrate that, because again as in S5 any hint of remaining feeling between them is from JH, Betty from what we've been shown on screen has no romantic feelings left for Jughead, so I cannot be happy with him ending in a relationship where he's with someone who doesn't love him the same way, or worse have him end up being someone Betty settles for when Archie and Veronica inevitably reunite, why would I want that when I can have Jabitha, a relationship that is mutual and I think beautiful, where both parties are equal and actually LOVE EACH OTHER. I'm not saying I'm not open to a BH reunion but I don't see how they can realistically write one now that does any of these characters justice. Also I like to believe I'm generally a good person but there's a small part of me like 0.005% that doesn't want BH to get back together simply because I find the racist way they talk about Tabitha and the way they act like JHs only purpose is to be Betty's security blanket disgusting.
You are correct, shipper goggles extremely affect how a person views a show, and, speaking in a general sense, I think that is both fascinating and frustrating. Fascinating because it can lead to such a diverse collection of reads on a text (regardless of medium), and frustrating because it can sometimes feel like people are being willfully obtuse about what is going on in a text. I have certainly predicted the future events in a series incorrectly because of my shipper goggles (*cough*atla*cough*), and, when that happens (as it has many times), I always like to look back and go “oh, what did I miss?” as well as “how stupid were the things that I missed?” because I am judgmental.
I find the disconnect with the end of 6x14 to be more tiring than anything, because it was very obviously a deliberate set up to go “oooo, look at this, could bh be returning? Or will we stick with jt? Tune in next week and every week after that until we finally address this!” and both stir up conversation on twitter as well as pull bh fans back into the show to increase ratings, which are certainly flagging (although, per Parrot Analytics, Riverdale has a 32.62x demand distribution, which is marked as “exceptional” and is a level of demand that only 0.2% of all tv shows in the market have, and it also ranks in the 99th percentile in the Teen genre ; additionally, while its current demand rank is #78, its peak rank during the past week was #38, so it’s doing pretty well for itself). And it did stir up conversation! That night bh trended and everything! And a number of people also talked about how the episode was disrespectful to Tabitha (which it was)! Their plan worked! Yes, it was disrespectful to Tabitha, and yes, if this is the set up for a bh reunion, it’s the worst possible set up for one, but it got people talking and possibly returning!
The cynicism of it all gets to me, the placement of buzz over story and character.
But, that aside, we’re basically back where we were after 5x10 aired and everyone had different interpretations of Jughead’s Betty hallucination and the bunker scene with Tabitha. And I hate it here, it’s so tiring. Unsurprisingly, they didn’t address the matter in the next episode, and we’re just going to sit on it for god know how long, and I am tired, let’s just commit to one direction and go, please, and do it in a non-bullshit way, one that doesn’t ruin Jughead.
As for your bit on Betty (man did I take a while to get here), I think there is wiggle room to interpret her as having interest in Jughead. I still believe that the close up of Kevin during the jt moment at the end of 5x18 was meant to set up a scene in 5x19 where Kevin told Betty about jt getting together that was cut for time and/or characterization, because why else would he be there? And, even though that moment isn’t there, I can’t help but at least want to interpret Betty’s relationship with Archie through that lens (as well as her rushing to save him in 5x17 and also a couple of other moments in that episode) for Betty/Jughead/Tabitha reasons. And we get some concern from her about Jughead in…5x07? That moment where Archie goes “Well, at least he’s got Tabitha” and her face in the reverse shot can be interpreted in multiple ways. And the mind reading scenes are a goddamn free-for-all, and of course chemistry is subjective, so that’s a factor in reading her scenes with Jughead as well. So, there’s room, basically.
I would argue that there are a couple of moments for Jughead→Betty in 5a, as well as a couple in 5b that shipper goggles can read in a romantic way, but I think that, once we get to 5b, and particularly those last moments in 5x14, we close the door on romantic Jughead→Betty and enter fully into Jughead→Tabitha and getting Jughead sober and in a place where Jughead and Tabitha can date without risk of Jughead’s Issues ruining it, basically. And then they have three episodes (5x17-5x19) of Jughead just supporting Tabitha and helping her in every way he can to kind of even out their relationship so that it’s equal, and it’s not just Tabitha supporting Jughead; they support each other. And after that, when we get to 6b (the Riverdale part of s6), it’s just a matter of who needs support in a given episode (Jughead’s hearing loss, Tabitha’s trouble with saving Pop’s, Tabitha brings Jughead Pop’s to eat, Jughead always does the dishes, etc, etc). They’re equal, and they clearly love each other; it’s just a matter of when we get that parallel to the Rivervale love confession.
(Although, in defense of bh, there’s also the bh makeout to save the world from 6x05 looming overhead, and, as with Betty, 6x14 is pretty much a free-for-all.)
ANYWAY
My interpretation of Betty is “I would like to believe she is settling for Archie because Jughead and Tabitha are dating each other and she doesn’t know how to slide into that, but, realistically, the intent is likely that she probably wants to be with Archie to some unknown degree but will break up with him for drama reasons involve her threat aura and fear of hurting people or something and then start dating Agent Drake, and then idk what will happen from there.” I think she and Jughead will have some more friendly interactions and we’ll either get a 6x05 parallel or a flash to their kiss in 6x05 during some important moment or something idk, idk, that one is super up for grabs.
But yeah, I agree, I don’t see a good way back to bh for multiple reasons, as I’ve said before. It would involve a mess of racist tropes and be deeply uncomfortable, and “Tabitha has tried to save Jughead 1384 times, but yeah, Jughead ends up with Betty” would be absolutely bizarre as a storytelling choice, so I’ve got nothing there.
Also, I have been fortunate to largely avoid seeing the more racist discussions of Tabitha and jt by bh fans because I filtered out every possible anti jt tag the second I started shipping it and unfollowed people who made that kind of post but didn’t tag it, but I have certainly have had the displeasure of seeing some of those posts in the past and heard about them from other jt fans, and it’s just so disappointing, isn’t it? The bh fandom had picked up on the racist way ba fans have talked about Veronica, but multiple people fail to notice when they dip into similar racist tropes themselves. Ah, how difficult it is to see the splinter in your own eye.
(Let it be known that jt fans are not innocent either; I have seen a few too many people across various parts of the internet who focus too heavily on how much Tabitha cares for and supports Jughead, and it can drift a bit too close to being all about how much a Black woman helps a white guy with no regard for reciprocity for my taste. The same can be true for bjt fans, just broadening Jughead to Jughead and Betty.)
As for that 0.005%, I get that, I do. A fandom’s behavior can often shape our opinions about a ship for the better and the worse, and the occasional spiteful desire is, I think, normal. Just don’t get carried away, y’know?
Anyway, that was long and rambling. I think I answered everything? Please tell me if I didn’t.
#asks#anonymous#Riverdale#Riverdale season 6#shipping#jabitha#bh negativity#bh fandom negativity#fandom racism#well a little#that's more of a cw tbh#this is almost 1.3k words alwkfjladkfjal#sorry not sorry#my thoughts on Riverdale let me show you them#betjug for ts
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All Out War
Pairing: Carl Grimes x Reader
Genre: Fluff(if you squint lol.) / Action
Y/N POV
I sat on the floor watching Judith as Maggie spoke with Jesus and Enid, discussed important matters in the dining room. She high fives my palm as Carl walked through the door with a small grin.
“She enjoys your company.", he said and I smiled.
"Well I enjoy hers as well.", I grinned, lightly pinching her cheeks. Her laugh making everything seem okay. I sat her on my lap when she laid her head on my chest, eyes starting to get heavy.
"I'll go put her in her crib.", I said standing up with Judith in my arms. I walked past the doorway to hear a small part of their conversation.
"We have to fight. Glenn would want us to.", Maggie stated. "Why are you smiling?"
"I'm just glad you're the one making the decision for us." Jesus agreed. A sigh left my lips as I continued upstairs to put Judith in the crib. Her eyes were still closed and I left the room walking back downstairs.
I saw Carl still sitting there but with a small frown on his lips.
"Walk with me?", I asked and he looked up at me. He nodded slowly before the two of us walked outside into the porch.
"This is really happening huh?", I asked and he sighed. His sigh was enough to answer my question as we walked towards the gate of Hilltop. He intertwined our fingers and I smiled up at him.
"You're going to fight?", I asked already knowing his reaponse.
"Yeah. I have too. For Glenn and Abraham.", he said and I looked down at my feet. Carl stopped walking before wrapping his arms around me.
"This will get bad. We all know that. When it does, I want you to stay with Maggie. A few days ago I heard Jesus tell my dad the at there's a small town about 2 miles out. He wants some of our people there. On the defense just in case Alexandria falls.", he tells me and I frown.
"No way, I want to fight too."
"Please Y/N. I need you to stay with Judith. Be safe.", he asked. "We already have those garbage people on our side. We have a deal. Then this will be all over."
"You want me to stay in Hilltop. What if things go horribly wrong? What if-", he cut me off as his lips crashed into my own.
"It won't get that far. Please, just stat woth Maggie.", he said and I nodded. He pressed our foreheads together as Rick approached us.
"Come on Carl, we have to get back to Alexandria. Get prepared.", he told Carl and I frowned. I threw my arms around him one more time and he pulled my body closer, hugging me tightly.
"I'll see you soon.", Carl whispered before he and Rick left Hilltop. I stood watching them leave when Maggie appeared next to me.
"They'll be okay. I promise.", she said and I nodded, turning back to go inside. Later that day I sat on the porch, my leg shaking, wondering if I'll see the explosions when Negan and his men trip the bombs. Or if they get around them, heading straight for Alexandria. Planning on murdering everyone. The thought alone had my nerves going bad as I shot up out of my chair. Something doesn't feel right. I ran inside to see Maggie and Jesus with worried expressions.
"Something isn't right. I don't know what it is but, I have this feeling in my gut telling me when need to go to Alexandria.", I said and Maggie sighed.
"Y/N. We have to stay put here."
"I can't just sit here Maggie. I have to go and help them. Alexandria alone won't be enough to fight them head on. You know that. So I'm doing this. For Carl. For Rick. Sasha. Judith. Glenn, Abraham. And you. You said to get ready for a fight. Well I'm ready Maggie. Are you?"
She stared down at me before a small smile reached her lips. "Let's go then. They'll need us." Jesus frown turned into a grin as Enid walked in the room with a pistol.
"I'm going too." Grabbing a rifle and a pistol Maggie announced the plan leading the the Hilltop community to cheer. We made our way quickly through the forest getting closer to the gated community. My heart began racing as I heard gunshots ring through the air.
"We take them by surprise, so keep quiet. Move.", Maggie said and we all ran around the side of the gate. When we reached the opening my mouth opened in shock as I spotted Carl and Rick kneeling side by side. The saviors and the garbage people surrounding them.
"They're with Negan. I should've known.", Maggie spat and I narrowed my eyes.
Negan stood in front of Rick face to face, trying to intimidate him. But Rick Grimes did not back down. Negan did not look amused to whatever Rick just told him. He moved towards Carl, knocking his head off and I could feel my heart stop. I went to scream before a tiger jumped onto one of Negan's men, biting into his neck causing Negan to retreat back as the gun fight resumed.
"That tiger.", I mumbled. At that moment the man I recognized as the leader of The Kingdom, Ezekiel, came through with an army of his own following close behind. Including Carol.
"End these saviors and their accomplices! Alexandria will not fall, not on this day!" We took that statement as our queue as Maggie and I lead the fighters of Hilltop into battle. I aimed my gun at the savior preparing to shoot Rick and pulled the trigger. His head turned in our direction with a grin as Maggie lead us out. He and Carl grabbed weapons before rejoining the fight against the saviors. I stood behind a truck shooting my weapon killing multiple Saviors.
I turned in time to see Rosita get hit in the shoulder.
"Grab her, I'll cover you!", I shouted at Tara as she reached for Rosita, pulling her to safety. Daryl stood next to me as we shot down a few more men. Carl ran up shooting as well. It wasn't long before the gate and street were covered in smoke.
"They're covering their tracks!", I shouted as Negan threw us the finger as he rode away in one of the trucks.
"Now we end this!", Ezekiel shouted as he and a small group ran out the gate. I watched as the group ran out the gates, before Carl ran towards me. I threw my arms around him and he hugged me tight.
"You were supposed to stay at Hilltop.", he stated and I shook my head.
"We all decided to come and help. Alexandria needed Hilltop and the Kingdom. We have to finish this.", I said as Rick approached us.
"Michonne is hurt, I'll have to take her to the infirmary.", he told us.
"Negan got away.", I said and he nodded.
"I know. But that won't stop us. We end this while we can.", Rick stated and I felt my stomach drop. More of this? More fighting. More blood spilled.
"We finish what we started.", Carl mumbled as he intertwined our fingers.
"This really is all out war."
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You can say 'without trying to damage eachother' however, Doll has been shit talking reiaami behind her back for quite some time now on the internet.
She's not innocent in this at all and the whole point of the post is to let people know that she was not abused in that house as she tries to make people believe.
Literally she has had chance after chance to find a job. You know what she did? She played on tumblr. When asked about job corp her response was "oh i can go in in a few months" and a few months later there was still no response.
However, the second she was left with an ultimatum of "you go to job corp or you leave" she suddenly was able to go in within two weeks? How convenient.
By the by, this isnt the first time she 'wasnt able to make the starting date' either and probably won't be the last. She has a way with 'forgetting' or something somehow manages to 'come up' if she doesnt want to go.
I know her. She can easily be on top of things if she wants them. She felt that keeping her ferrets were more important to her than actually being able to stand on her own two feet as an adult and would rather someone else spend all their money on her. Her thought process is "why should i get a job when everyone will pay for everything for me?" And the thought process is that if everyone thinks she is this vulnerable little victim that will continue. She's comfortable with her life and as long as it stays that way she won't move on to what is proper for a 24 year old adult.
As for me, she seems to have only addressed reiaami's side of the story to this. With the idea that it's all her fault that i'm also pissed off. It's not. I have a side too and it's one that's long since been discussed with Doll even though it's clear that none of it has ever been taken to heart.
Doll is emotionally abusive. You know when i said that? It didn't relate to reiaami, it pertained to my side of the story. You know that few years emily and i lost contact? Wanna know why that happened? She had started to ignore me. at one point i gave up trying to contact her all together. When she finally found me again i had asked what happened and the only reaponse she could give was 'depression'.
Like really, not even a verbal reason as to why she just fell off the earth to leave me having thought she hated me. But that's just the tip of that iceberg. I really did want to continue being her friend.
However, having met reiaami we were starting to bond as well. But knowing Doll, i had to tip toe around that budding relationship because i knew EXACTLY what kind of reaponse i would get from her should i persue my friendship with Reiaami.
Time passed by as i kept coming over however and of course i'd get those questions from Doll of 'are we still friends?' That of course i responded to 'yes of course' as i assumed was just simple anxiety that needed some reassurance.
However as time passed I decided i really did want to be friends with Reiammi as well and started to bring her as well as Doll with me out to places. We tried HARD to include Doll. We tried REPEATEDLY to help her with her self eateem, with finding a job, with trying to get her where she needed to be.
But the catch is, that if all eyes weren't on her, if she was not babied constantly while we were out, the center of attention, she brought drama.
Example, we went to the mall and everything was going fine. We had literally all been laughing just minutes before when suddenly she walks out of the store and stands there. We asked what's wrong and she goes, "im feeling suicidal." And is all gloomy. Like, are you kidding? we took our eyes off her for two seconds to talk to eachother!
Then of course came when Reiammi went up stairs leaving us alone i got the expected question again though it was even more guilt trip aggresive. "So i guess you don't want to be friends anymore." At this point i was tired of having my loyalty questioned and i told her "I was never the one who left, you were. I want to be your friend but i am allowed to have other friends as well. I won't be guilted this way, i just took you out for a fun night and we had a good time."
Funny thing, things like that never happened if i just took Doll. She HATES Reiammi and has never trusted her as much as i told her that having her as a friend could be beneficial to her talking to her brother.
Tbh anything she says about reiammi i would state as bias.
So the things mentioned in that post? Are true. Not just for her but for me from experience.
Ask Reiammi how when they told emily simply to do a chore she didnt want to do she came down the stairs with a belt saying "here i don't trust myself with this." That isn't the sign of an actually suicidal person. That's being an emotionally manipulative asshole. Real suicidal people don't do that shit.
You can say what you want but there has been too many times that she has been 'suicidal' over the smallest things then talked shit about her home as if she was abused. THIS is the point of this post not to let her followers be fooled. You want this to stop and not to 'damage' eachother? Then you better tell emily to stop with the lies.
If she wants this to stop, then we both want to see an admittance post on tumblr of the truth. She can tell everyone how she wasn't abused in that house and lived off her brother's and his wife's money and did nothing but complain.
What pisses me off in this is how she acts like her life is so hard and she can't get a job because 'depression and anxiety'. Guess what? Des and i both have it too. And we BOTH don't act like that and we BOTH take care of our shit as adults do. She can't be using that crap as a crutch to be a shitty person.
Thequietdoll is toxic please dont be fooled
@thequietdoll Not that her blog is popular enough to get too many views, but i see sympathy anons from time to time. I don’t normally do this but people need to know the truth.
I’ve known thequietdoll since we were kids. She fakes suicidal outbursts and mental issues for pity, attention, and sympathy.
She hides her irl life and the fact that she actively avoids getting a job and ignores any active help that people have tried continously to give her.
She says she has depression and anxiety and i believe it. However, she also purposefully skipped every therapy session and wouldnt call to fill her meds. This woman is 25 and acts like a spoiled child. She doesn’t WANT help or to get better.
She acts like she was abused by her brother and his wife, when reality was that she lived under their roof, ate their food, let them buy her ferret food and puppy pads, then wouldnt even do the dishes. All she had to contribute was her food stamps which she would ask for the card back if she was angry.
Please do not be fooled by her sweet act, thats all it is. She is incredibly ungrateful and has never worked a day in her life and actively tries to keep it that way. She wont tell you the truth and any asks sent about it are deleted to keep up the facade.
She pretends to be suicidal over the smallest thing that goes wrong or not her way in an effort to guilt trip others.
We have tried helping her time and time again but again she acts as if she doesnt know when reality is she doesnt try because she doesnt want to.
She was set up for job corp and repeatedly lied to put it off, cries that she had to let her ferrets go and yet she had no means to care for them and made no attempts to do so. In fact she left their puppy pads on the floor covered in piss and feces and refused to buy more for them.
She demonizes everyone around her who doesnt baby her, and makes false lies of trauma. She’s not a victim, take care to take what she says with a grain of salt.
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