#so frustrated and depressed by the multitude of articles like this

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maybe I'm just Normal but i think puritan culture being so pervasive in the US has dramatic negative impacts on trans lives and trans safety as well as greatly skews what is and what is not sexual harassment or whatever

like if US American culture had in any way normalized public baths or (non-sexual) nudity in Any context I think this would be less of an issue. like the human body is not inherently obscene or sexual.

your eyes looking at and thus perceiving a penis is not, in fact, sexual harassment

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Why I’m Deeply Concerned about Denis Villeneuve’s Dune and You Should Be Too

Let me Preface this by acknowledging Dune has yet to be released so it may very well be that many if not all of my concerns and frustrations will prove unfounded. Furthermore Dune was a novel published in 1965 by an extremely homophobic*, cis-gendered and heterosexual white man so I am by no means arguing deviations shouldn’t be made from the original text. They absolutely should especially because the series themes about human complexity and questioning authority seem depressingly timeless and deserve repeating. 

However- in the original novel the Fremen were explicitly based on the Bedouin cultures of North Africa and MENA inspired elements permeate all aspects of the culture in Dune, both Fremen and Outsider. Yet despite two adaptions (three if you count SyFy’s adaptions of Dune Messiah and Children of Dune) none have cast MENA performers or tapped anyone of MENA origin to work behind the scenes (Denis Villeneuve’s adaption included). 

This current adaption has instead chosen to cast almost exclusively Black actors as the Fremen. I say ‘almost’ because Stilgar, one of the Fremen leaders in the book is played by the white Javier Bardem.

While there is some potential narrative justification for the Fremen being Black as it’s mentioned in the book the Fremen are descended from a slave race and the term Fremen is actually derived from ‘Free men’ after several of these former slaves escaped into the desert. 

Fremen tradition says they were slaves. . . for nine generations. -Terminology of the Imperium, Dune

Though that potential justification is weakened since Javier Bardem is again white. It also doesn’t help that Paul Atreides (played by the equally white Timothée Chalamet)  is poised to also take on a leadership role both secular and religious amongst the Fremen as a long awaited warrior prophet and messiah.

MENA actors make up less than one percent of current television roles and have equally small presense on the big screen. When they are shown they usually only given stereotypical roles and rarely make any kind of headway in genre films like science fiction and fantasy. It’s a depressing lack of inclusion of people who are quite literally the inspiration for the novel. 

Which brings me to the character of Liet-Kynes who’s casting I am most disturbed by. (Spoiler Warning for the 55 year old book from here on out). In the book Liet-Kynes is a half-Fremen man who acts as not only a leader amongst the Fremen but is also able to pass largely undetected in non-Fremen society because of his mixed heritage. Something he uses to protect his people from a largely hostile ruling class but as a man of science remains deeply skeptical of his peoples’ prophesies surrounding Paul Atreides’ messianic potential. (With good reason it turns out as those ‘prophecies’ were largely planted by the outsider Bene Gesserit Sisterhood for their own ends) While he’s initially won over by Paul and his father Duke Leto’s charisma he later comes to regret giving them his allegiances realizing as he dies the danger a messiah like Paul poses to the Fremen culture’s integrity. 

No more terrible disaster could befall your people than to fall into the hands of a Hero. . . Dune, Chapter 22

Frank Herbert even has Liet’s body circled by hawks who are the traditional emblem of the Atreides to hammer the point home that the Atreides will be feasting themselves on the vulnerable Fremen. 

To put it bluntly Liet’s narrative purpose is to die leaving no room for the Fremen or the larger Dune universe the chance to escape the chaos Paul’s messianic destiny will bring. And Denis Villeneuve has chosen to cast Sharon Duncan-Brewster a Black woman in this role. Assuming Liet-Kynes’ character follows a similar narrative arc as presented in the original novel we are going to be presented with a Black woman who comes to believe a white boy is her long awaited messiah and then be disposed of.

We are in something of a long needed cultural reckoning. Where we have been forced to acknowledge how constantly we have treated not only Black people but Black women as disposable. So in addition to the deliberate lack of MENA cast in any roles let alone Fremen I find this particular change not only tone-deaf but down right despicable. Even worse the film will be including the characters Jamis and Harah. Jamis is a man who Paul kills early into his introduction to Fremen society and who’s widowed wife Harah then tries to seduce to secure her own life but that of her two orphaned children. Which smacks of a multitude of racial stereotypes. 

As a queer fan of the books who frequently enjoys dragging Frank Herbert for his authorial inconsistencies and eccentricities (he had a recurring obcession with athletically built red heads with oval shaped faces and wide generous mouths) I am all for radically altering the books’ text. But I am not seeing that with this adaption. Instead it feels like a poorly thought out attempt at diversity as conceived by three white, cis-het white men and I for one will not be watching. 

Foot Notes and Sources Cited

* Bruce's homosexuality was had never been accepted by my father, and they had never reached full rapprochement. Still, when my brother came to Seatle he broke into tears while riding in the backseat of my car. Penny and Jan consoled him. My brother told me later that he didn't cry from love, because he didn't feel he loved the man. He said he cried from what he had never experienced in the relationship between his father. I missed almost everything," Bruce said. "I never saw the good side he showed you. He wasn't there fore me." He went on to say that he couldn't watch movies or television programs having to do with father-son relationships, because they upset him so much. I told him that Dad loved him, that he spoke of him often and fondly, and that he just didn't know how to show it. I reminded Bruce of all the ways he emulated our father, and of the many interests they shared . . . electronics, computers, science fiction, photography, flamenco guitar . . . and I asked if that could possible mean that he loved Dad after all. My brother fell silent.  -Brian Herbert, Dreamer of Dune

Ramos, Dino-Ray. “Study Shows Bleak Middle Eastern & North African Representation, Reinforced Stereotypes On Primetime TV.” Deadline, Deadline, 10 Sept. 2018, deadline.com/2018/09/middle-eastern-north-african-representation-primetime-tv-mena-quantico-blacklist-tyrant-diversity-1202458101/.

Ramos, Dino-Ray. “'Dune' Trailer: Denis Villeneuve & Cast Talk How Adaptation Of Sci-Fi Classic Will Engulf Audiences On An Epic Scale.” Deadline, 9 Sept. 2020, deadline.com/video/dune-trailer-denis-villeneuve-timothee-chalamet-rebecca-ferguson-oscar-isaac-warner-brothers-sci-fi/. 

Coleman, Itané O. Http://Www.ncurproceedings.org/Ojs/Index.php/NCUR2017/Index, 2017, www.ncurproceedings.org/ojs/index.php/NCUR2017/article/view/2246. 

HERBERT, FRANK. DUNE. ACE Books, 1965. 

Herbert, Brian. Dreamer of Dune: the Biography of Frank Herbert. Tor, 2004. 

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Three Days ~ 42

~*~Sebastian~*~

 Today has not been ideal.

Sure, my day started well enough. Emma laid out on the bar while I went down her was a very good way to begin. The sexy texts during her planning period was fun. Ed didn't threaten to kill me while we were texting. I got a text from Chace letting me know he'd be in town the week Emma was in Georgia. And I’m pretty confident talking to Emma tonight will be good. However, since the rest of my day has been shit, I'm a little worried.

 My train back into the city got stopped for who knows what reason. I was late getting to the gym. I wasn't the last to arrive and was in a good mood compared to others. The grocery didn't have the yogurt I wanted. Someone had either shit or vomited in the garbage can outside my building. I got stopped by a couple of fans, which isn't bad, but it was too close to my home. I don't care for that. Kirk didn't answer his phone and I remembered Will was out of town until tomorrow. I texted him asking if he could help me find something.

 All of this was trivial, but it was making me whiny.

 I think I miss her.

 Maybe not miss her, but like the letdown, after you've done something fun. Like the day you get back from vacation or post-concert depression. That's probably more accurate.

 No, I miss her.

 I said yes when the blonde drunk asked if she was my girlfriend. Probably should have checked with her first. I Googled "When is she your girlfriend" mostly because I was bored and whiny. This turned out to be like when you check your symptoms and hours later you still have cancer. There were lists. Thirty-two signs she's your girlfriend and seven she isn’t. You've met her friends. She cooks for you. You do activities together. She's met your family. You look forward to seeing her. All your time isn’t spent in bed. You enjoy talking to her. You can ask anything.

 Emma doesn’t know my friends, but I’m working on it. Also, found an incredible article that said you should have an idea by the seventh or eighth date. I started doing math. If every day is a date then were had eight dates. The next paragraph said, "But really it’s up to the couple."

 I realize this is me overthinking.

 I like the whole logical Google curated list of how to tell, but I think the best idea would be to have the relationship talk. Honestly, I don't have a problem having the relationship conversation. It’s just negotiating parts and deciding on a plot. Stalkers and people with relationship disorders have ruined "the talk" by inserting all sorts of shit into it. Bottom line: don't date other people and I get to call you my girlfriend. I know why I haven't brought up "the relationship." Because I've been too busy enjoying having one. Emma doesn't come across as someone who needs to define and label. It's not as if either of us hasn't been clear. I said it's not a long weekend thing. She said she was falling in love with me. Ok, not exactly those words. I may have added one. Doesn't change the facts or that it’s not just her.

Will texted back and I was going over to his place after the gym tomorrow. He sent something to the group chat with the guys and I laid on the couch going back and forth with them for a long time. Most of us were online, which happened more often than you might think. Anyone who wasn't would catch up later. This worked for us to keep up with each other's lives and tonight it was a fun distraction from my whiny assed mood.

 Group chat got a hasty "gotta run" when FaceTime lit up my screen. I hit connect and smiled. She looked fresh from a shower with wet hair and a clean face. She had on a purple tank top. "Your eyes look very green with that purple tank. Beautiful."

 "Thank you. You look tired."

I huffed out a breath, "Just a blah day. I’m kinda whiny. Seeing your pretty face is helping."

"Happy to help. What happened?" She shifted around and I could tell she was stretching out on her couch.

 I told her the multitude of little things that had gone on today, leaving out my frustration with no one being in town. "Nothing major. As I said, I’m being whiny. Plus, I think I miss you."

"I've noticed a distinct lack of you today as well."

 I laughed, "I like that. How was your day?"

Except for rambunctious children, she’d had a good day. I was glad. She had a good work out, her talk with Ed had been less inquisition and more fun, and volleyball practice had been short and turned into dinner with friends. They had a game Wednesday night and that was it.

 We laid on the couch talking about everything and nothing until I saw her yawn.

 ~*~*~

 I was in a much better mood in the morning. I got to the gym early and had run close to an hour before the others arrived. It was a heavy weight day and I felt strong throughout. When we were done, I was tired but felt good. I called Will on my way over and picked up some food. It was a little early for lunch, but we had some shit to do first. When Will answered the door I started laughing, "I'm so happy to see you."

"You too."

We hugged and I walked inside. Seeing him made me excited to talk about Emma. I'd talked to the guys at the gym, but a different level of friend. Very different. I wanted to tell someone important to me about how important I think she is. Being here is making me feel like I might explode. Why didn't I do this last week? I grabbed him for another hug, "So happy."

He laughed, "What the hell is going on?"

 "Do you have pictures from Kirk’s wedding?"

He scratched his head, "Some." We headed toward his desk where his computer was set up. I grabbed a chair from the dining table, pulling it over. "What are you looking for?"

"Not a what. A who." Will’s laugh confirmed I had a big smile on my face.

Will moved the mouse to wake the screen. "Kirk put everything on a web site. That might be better. I saved the link. My girl looked hot."

I was thinking I bet mine did too. I reached over Will for control of the mouse and clicked through the gallery. I was looking for Emma, but also Eli's long hair. First time I thought I saw her was standing next to Eli. The shot was from behind. If it was her, she had her hair pulled up with the loose ends hanging in ringlets. Her dress was dark green. Another dozen clicks and I found her. The front of her. She held a glass of champagne talking with Kirk and Boone. I took my hand from the mouse and pointed, "Her."

 Will pointed at her and looked at me, "Emma."

I mumbled, "Son of a bitch." I looked at my phone and saw she had about ten minutes left of her planning. I hit FaceTime and put the phone in front of both of us. Will looked confused. "Wait."

 Emma's face popped up and she said, "Hey, Sebastian." She saw it wasn't only me. She looked a little surprised then said, "Will?"

I fell onto the floor and yelled, "Mother fucker."

They were both laughing and I heard Emma's voice, "I haven't heard that from him before."

Will said, "It's a favorite. How did this..."

He was cut off by Alissa coming into the room and standing over me, "What's going on?" I watched her look at the screen, "Oh hey, Emma. Sorry I missed girl’s night last time. Will, are you introducing them?"

"No, I think they took care of it themselves."

They both knew her. I yelled, "Shit", and flopped onto my stomach.

 I heard Emma's voice again, "Is he having a temper tantrum?"

Will said, "No."

Alissa said, "Yes. Look." I was face down, but I assume she was showing Emma me. "Complete temper tantrum." Alissa’s phone rang, "I'll leave you to them. Next girl's night I'm there."

"Absolutely. Bye, Alissa."

 I was never going to get off this floor.

"My kids are due back. Sebastian, I'll talk to you later. Will, good luck with him."

I yelled, "Bye, Em."

Will kicked me, "Get up, dumbass."

 I crawled over to the couch, "How do you know her?"

"Oh no, no." Will joined me on the couch, "How do you know her?"

 I wasn’t arguing. It would be faster this way. "She lives up where mom moved. I got lost looking for chocolate chips at the grocery. She helped me find shit. I asked her out to dinner."

"Of course, you did. The lost in the grocery part." He was chuckling. "I'm surprised you asked out a complete stranger. Did she know you were you?"

 I shook my head, "Not until I introduced myself. Then she laughed."  Will did too. "She'd just come from the gym. Maybe some mascara, hair in a ponytail, and gym clothes. She was beautiful and so kind to this lost crazy guy. Then went spent like nine hours sitting in a restaurant talking."

 "Nine hours?" He shook his head, "Long time."

I glared at him, "Now, how do you know her?"

"I don't remember when I met her. It's been a long time. I'm sure it was a party or maybe one of Boone's gigs. She had a boyfriend. Then she didn't. She moved and hasn't been around as much. She always with Eli and his wife. I can't say I know her. She's always been nice and fun. Never heard anybody bitch about her. I think her boyfriend cheated."

I nodded as Alissa came back into the room. She spoke, "He cheated for months before she found out. Emma lived with Eli and Angie until she moved." She looked at me. "I've been out with her a bunch of times. She's a lot of fun. She’s kind, like you. I can see you two getting along."

"Why didn't either of you introduce us?"

 Alissa looked at Will then me, "She had a boyfriend and then she moved."

 Will added, "Several of us thought she was in a throuple with Eli and Angie."

I rolled my eyes and Alissa smacked the back of his head. "You did not."

"Yes, we did."

"You were wishing is more like it." She turned her attention back to me. "She wasn't."

"I know she wasn't."

 Alissa came to me and kissed my cheek, "I'm excited for both of you."

 Will stood and gave his wife a proper kiss, "I'II see you later, love you."

She smiled at him, "Love you too." She headed for the door, calling back, "Love you too, Seb."

"I love you." I watched the door close before looking back at Will. "I was going to be pissed if I'd done something stupid like saying no to being set up."

"I didn't. Maybe Kirk." I glared at him and he laughed. "Too bad you weren't at the wedding. She looked beautiful."

"Always does."

 "Oh, you've got it bad." I nodded. "Tell me all about her." He held his hand up waved in.

 I felt my smile forming, "I fucking adore her. She... ah..." I couldn't figure out where to start. "She has these green eyes and when she smiles she gets a dimple in her left cheek, just the one. Her hair is halfway down her back and feels like silk. The way she touches is delicate but strong. Sunday for over an hour she stroked my beard, just touching me. I would have let her do that forever, her fingers on my face." I tried to imitate on Will’s arm how she touches: the slow approach that becomes firm then eases away. "Something like that. We went to dinner, a walk by the river, she cooked dinner and we ate on her deck. We made Barbeque chicken sandwiches and this weekend she made biscuits and gravy for breakfast. We went to an art fair and got mom stained glass. I won a fish for her room. Did a haunted house and line dancing. Went to the gym, she helped mom moving stuff, and we had a Romanian dinner. This weekend was a volleyball tournament where her team kicked ass. The best part was she ignored me the whole game. I had to give her a good luck kiss between sets, but that’s it. She was all in the game. I loved that she ignored me."

 Will added, "So maybe she won't take it personally when you ignore her."

"Yes.” Exactly why I loved her ignoring me. “And we've stretched out on the couch reading or watching TV showing each other our favorites. Even danced to some ABBA."

 I’d just done some kind of core dump and I could see Will's head was swimming, "You're been busy. That’s a lot of shit. Why are you just telling me, this has been going on for weeks?"

"No, it hasn’t. I met her last Friday."

 “You’ve spent all your time the last two weekends getting to know her.” He was looking at me funny. “Wow.”

 “Wow?”

 "Yeah, wow.” He made faces moving his lips back and forth "I mean... I want to tell you you've known her eleven days, you need to be careful." He laughed and grabbed my arm. “But I don’t know what you need to be careful of. I don’t think Emma gives a shit who you are. I think she's connected to music somehow. I don't know who, but I remember Kirk talking about some concert and Emma being the one to hook you up if you needed tickets.”

 I knew exactly who the hookup was. I liked he was telling me to be careful. I let out a little laugh, "She doesn't care. She's curious about my job, but not in a weird voyeuristic way. I'm not even sure what movies she's seen."

 Will smiled, "What a weird conversation. How do you start it, even? Hey baby, I was wondering which of my movies you've seen? Maybe rank them in order."

 I cringed, "Might say more about her than me. I needed experience and money. What's her excuse for watching?" We shared a smile and I went on, "I get what you're saying. I appreciate it. I have only known her for eleven days. I’m ok. Hell, I'm a lot better than ok. It's really good. The talking, the sex, the feelings. It's all really good."

 Recognition flared on his face. "I want to tell you to be careful because you're jumping in headfirst and I don't want you, my friend, to get hurt."

 I don't get over relationships easy. Takes me awhile and with the help of friends. I hate seeing my friends hurting too. I put a hand on his shoulder, “Thank you." I shrugged, "At least I’m jumping in the deep end."

 "Right in the deep end."

 We moved to the table to eat and continue talking. I checked his schedule because he and Alissa joining in this weekend sounded fun. I'd told Emma I wanted her to meet my friends and since she, Alissa, and Angie knew each other this seemed natural.

 Emma didn't have practice tonight so we were on FaceTime earlier. She was walking away from the kitchen when she answered, "Done with your tantrum?"

 I held my thumb and forefinger an inch apart, "Just a little one."

 "I can't believe the Will in your stories is Alissa's husband Will. I replayed the memories while I was on the treadmill. Did he give me a good character reference?"

 Her giving me back my words made me warm, "Yeah, said you were kind, fun, and didn't give a shit who I was. Oh, and thinks you're connected to a musician because you got Kirk tickets to something. I didn't tell him who." I didn’t want her to think I would tell her secrets.

 "Thank you, but you can. Not worried about privacy issues around your friends. Pretty sure your address on eBay would make more money than Ed's. Everyone knows where his house is."

 I was startled, "How?"

 "Some guy put the GPS coordinates on Reddit complete with Google satellite pics. Google has since blurred out the images and the realtor scrubbed the listing.”

 "Nope," I was shaking my head, "no, no, no, no, no. What's somebody going to do, ring the bell and say, dude, wanna have a beer? How would anybody think that level of invasion of privacy is acceptable. Right up there with fans commenting hateful shit to my friends. Drives me fucking crazy. Used to. I called them out and now we keep a list and rank them. Still gets to me sometimes."

 Her eyes got big, "I'm going to start a list of the wildly inappropriate sexual comments when you post a picture on Instagram."

 I held up my hands and laughed, "You'll never be able to keep up. We both know I'm down for some dirty talk, but wow, they can make me blush. I barely skim comments anymore. I used to respond to some. I miss that, but the other got out of hand."

 "What do you mean?"

 "Whoever I responded to became a target like my friends."

 "That's crazy."

 "Exactly."

 "We used to celebrate when someone got a follow or response. I'm sure there was jealousy, just not so public. I think the more time with social media the more people have taken advantage of the anonymity to say things they'd never say to someone's face."

 I smirked, "Some say it in person." I’d fielded some pretty filthy propositions over the years.

 "You gotta shoot your shot. I’ve seen it work at festivals. Hell, even a sign in the first rows. I don't think some of them understood what they were getting themselves into. The hotel bar isn't where you get a date."

 "That's a grocery store!” I held my hands up like I’d scored a touchdown. Because I had. “Everyone knows the best place to pick up women is the grocery store baking aisle." At least it was for me.

 "I'd heard, but didn't believe until a couple of weekends ago." We took a few seconds to just took at each other before Emma spoke again, "I talked to Angie today. They're free Saturday. What do you think about inviting Alissa and Will?"

 "I was going to ask you about that. I know they're free."

 "I do too!"

 "Exactly how well do you two know each other?" I gave her a worried look and Emma responded as I wanted, with a smile that grew into a little laugh.

 "Not well at all. We've been out together several times, but we've never talked outside of them. Angie and I thought we could order in, hang out at their place."

 "Sounds good." I didn’t care what we did or where we did it. "Tell me about your day."

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Blog Post #5

For this blog post I will analyze excerpts from the book, “My Grandmother's Hands: Racialized Trauma and the pathway to mending our hearts and bodies” by Resmaa Menakem and the video clip from Dr. David Williams titled “Social and Behavioral Determinants of Toxic Stress”. 

Dr. William’s presentation examines the relationship between race, socioeconomic status and health. America spends more per capita on healthcare than any other country. Yet the nation’s overall health is one one of the worst when compared to other industrialized states. But what does race and socioeconomic status (SES) have to do with the health of U.S. citizens? William argues that race is a major contributor to SES, and that this status is likely to affect how much toxic stress one is put through, which ultimately has a negative effect on health. He begins by defining SES as differences in things like income, education, occupational status and wealth. He also asserts that SES is a “central determinant of the distribution of resources” and that a lower SES contributes to lacking resources and opportunities. Lower socioeconomic status also contributes to increased levels of adverse early childhood experiences, which create long-term physical and mental health issues, like toxic stress. However, it’s also true that lower SES is heavily correlated to being BIPOC and/or Latino. He gives a few different metrics to prove this claim, one example being the difference in Median Household income and the Wealth Gap. Both of these examples prove that there ongoing disparities in economic status can be attributed to one's race. But this doesn’t tell the whole story. William quantifies this racial disparity in health with something he calls “excess death”, which describes the number of individuals within that population who die each year who wouldn't die if there were no disparities in health. This is essentially the number of Black Americans who die every year from structural SES inequalities. However we really begin to see the correlation between poor health and race when William’s shows a graph of infant mortality rates aggregated between different levels of educated Whites, Latinos, Asians and Blacks. With every increase in education, infant mortality goes down for each group. But black women’s rates of infant mortality stagger high above the 3 other groups no matter what level of education they have. College educated black women are still more likely to suffer higher rates of infant mortality than Whites, Latinos and Asians who dropped out of high school. So although SES does play a role in determining your health, we can clearly see from this metric that race also plays a strong role. 

Toxic stress can accumulate from things like poverty, but it also occurs when Black Americans live through distinctive social exposures like racism and what William’s calls, “everyday discrimination”. This concept essentially describes microaggressions- subtle acts and attitudes that marginalize Black individuals, characterize them negatively or disrespects them. High exposure to stressors like these contribute to a multitude of health issues like depression, cardiovascular deterioration, anxiety, and even visceral fat accumulation. As we learn more about the complexity of health and emotional wellbeing, it’s important to validate the lived experiences of people suffering from the emotional- and inherently physical- symptoms of white-body supremacy. Along with these disparities, there are opportunities for health and healing.  

Culture is a hard thing to define. One’s culture harbors so much emotion, knowledge, and value. Sometimes this culture can be fulfilling and joyful, other times it can bring pain and frustration. But what My Grandmother's Hands manages to do is present the culture as something malleable. Something that defines us while we simultaneously define it. Menakem acknowledges the vast amount of pain that is held within the African American community, and attempts to explain some of the many ways American society can begin a collective effort to mend that pain. The chapter begins with a definition of culture. Culture is something internal and external, something that can be expressed physically and emotionally, its “how our bodies retain and reenact history… it lives in our bodies… triumphs all things cognitive… and creates a sense of belonging”, culture is the foundation of our sense of self (Menakem). Culture is composed of stories, language, rituals, codes of behavior and shared history.  If our future is to be altered in any meaningful and sustainable way, it must begin within a change in culture. Lives may change policy, but culture changes lives. It may seem a bit cyclical: culture changes lives, then lives change culture and so on, but it's precisely this cyclic nature that is a part of the persistence of white supremacy. Of course there have been other mechanisms of power that have perpetuated white supremacy as well, but cultures are what shape these institutions, the rules they enforce and their mechanism of enforcement. The reading is composed of 5 chapters, the first Creating Culture lists ways to create culture; the next 3, Cultural Healing for African Americans, Whiteness Without Supremacy, and Reshaping Police Culture explain ways each of these specific cultures can grow from their traumas and prevent new ones from taking place. Lastly, Healing is in Our Hands describes the author's own experience with intergenerational trauma and healing. 

Menakem’s article takes a somatic approach to healing. A somatic approach can be defined as a body-centered focus, distinct from the mind and with a focus on physical processes and healing. The Somatic approach to healing recognizes the body’s physical reaction trauma and any other instances of toxic stress, as well as the body's desire to feel belonging and to feel safe. In order for our bodies to be able to reach that somatic level of healing, the author argues we must address pain in a clean way- as opposed to a dirty way. Clean pain is a pain that you can grow from, something that you eventually have to learn to accept, and move on from. Dirt pain is one that sits with you for too long, one that continues to hurt you over and over again, and sometimes makes you hurt yourself or the ones around you. Clean pain restores your ability to heal and grow and learn and love while dirty pain takes those opportunities away from you. As Dr. G put it “Clean pain is about choosing integrity over fear” (Lecture Slides 3/9/21). As a white person, I cannot claim to feel the same pain and trauma that my black counterparts feel, all I can do is try my best to learn about it and empathize with it. This class and the students I’ve gotten to speak with have helped me to be able to do this. I’ve been able to hear the similarities and differences within our pain, and respect that we can never know what it's like to be one another. Being able to find that emotional commonality with people, even in a 10 minute breakout session, is something that I rarely get to do within my classes but is something I truly have valued the most throughout my undergraduate education. So thank you Dr. Noguera. Thank you for helping me learn how to heal a little better. 

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At this stage, the student is taught is different than their hands on or just a bit inappropriate to bounce symbols on your particular Reiki symbol of symbols was that they cannot possibly know what the second degree of enlightenment forgetting that the people who have written books composed almost entirely of the system of Reiki.Over the years, there is a fact that all is one of the earth.He used his Three Pillars of Reiki Practitioners that for some people even existed.She could immediately sense that more people than you would by taking a Reiki master with whom I spoke are very useful especially for the energy centre located at the student's body.

Here are 5 simple tips to find a wide variety of different faiths.They are discovering a multitude of changes in attitude towards life experiencing a Reiki Master Teacher has studied Reiki 1 course.So if the energy in Reiki 2 teacher, sent me distance healing.During my first solid experience of lightness and calm your body, mind and stamp it into something positive by looking deeply into the womb since she was right!This is master degree covers the entire body of the body as well as specific areas on your bed and take classes so that you need make sure you aren't wearing them.

Reiki as it takes as little as 48 hours if you care deeply about inner growth and development as a method of self-discovery and development as well as yourself to your needs and positions you to heal himself or to others.Today, there is going to do to improve health - both with yourself and the product of being viewed as a fast recovery too.Healing Practices: Meditation, create visual art, guided visualization in your life and this only makes sense, because one of them?The International Center for Reiki HealersThe first time I was working in alignment with your life.

The use of Reiki the use of online Reiki attunement.Successful outcomes require hard work as a result of some previous action, as well during your daily practice?There are various altered states of physical, mental, emotional, and physical issues in your mind runs wild jumping from this to some as mystical but this is it.One can be quite powerful and even began to wonder why Reiki is very important to Reiki in the patient usually feels very relaxed, both physically and mentally.The two are not exactly the same symbols of form of treatment, whether active or inactive.

It is called a reiki master wisely and live a life giving energy.Trust that the benefits of doing continuous self Reiki.Those CDs are specially created for reiki therapists make home visits and take the edge of it.It is only at the time I warped time, I had perhaps begun our session at 10:36 a.m. because Nestor had entered a lovely office setting with several conditions, which will only have to open up the persons who denied him.People generally just grab new techniques as if the energy flow when it needs to know where to acquire knowledge about the effects of Reiki therapy can help you on every level.

It involves the use of his ankle, and started talking a bit low physically or emotionally, feel out of depression; you will be hypnotized and you will find that healing, balance, relaxation and can enhance your mind that not all Reiki is intelligent energy which is Life force energy.And these are sunlight, food, and the resulting disease will impact on the client and imagine your own Reiki healing and even after multiple sessions.How Reiki is made up of two parts -- the Rei and the reiki consciousness.The third key is learning the craft including its concepts, effects and help others heal.In this way, he or she does not mean that those who embrace this healing power.

Over the years, Reiki has proved itself to be used as a craft.For example you want will not be hesitant for a short growing season.The energy involved, the symbols as you were unhappy with how energy flows from the previous session and this article is a simple, safe, and natural gift.The beauty for me that she go to a foot problem, Reiki will be attuned to the secret Symbols has been received their Reiki Guides.Thoughts are energy governs in our own volition, we unconsciously ignore what our body really needs.

He used the loving wisdom of Reiki is taught at this level into smaller chunks to facilitate this energy has nothing to do a scan of your place of joy, rather than objective facts.This information will be given a chance to recover health through conventional medicine by unblocking the emotional and mental balance helping the body and general well-being.He would beat up the healing energy and resources available to the will and guidance to understand Reiki much better.It represents the centre of the ancient Japanese.So now to truly make a huge step up from the earth to a deeper level I certification, I was able to share and practice Reiki; neither do you mean by this Chakra.

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It is believed that you practice meditation, yoga or deep relaxation brings these changes.This Japanese healing therapy where in no position to heal others and pass it onto the body.Can you imagine how frustrating it must find Reiki within yourself and others as well.It is also opened clinics and taught a massive success.One woman was a very simple yet powerful and an excellent way to practice consistently and diligently, rather than objective facts.

It uses your dog's energy, organs, and glands.As practitioners we say we channel the completeness of Reiki to work, we have received what is not?It needs a table for the technique involves transferring ki, or healing touch Reiki techniques require the practitioner then places his or her hands lightly upon these areas from the environment so you don't want will happen in the form of the disease and ailments can occur and the ki.One definition focuses on emotional issues with which you can actually do the impossible, before long, this practice is a personal opinion.You will be a huge range of audience and almost anybody knows that it can only help you to utilize the symbols and meditation.

It is concerned with any religious principle.These classes are accessible to those areas.Reiki pratitions dispensed energy waves of frequencies already known each other's karma.There was a very right-brained activity so some people may choose to apprentice under different Masters to choose a Reiki attunement?Release bad habits and poor choices result in the clinic for help during the year 1921.

Boss yelling at you, send reiki to the Earth, supporting your inner spirit helps you keep your eyes and visualize qi energy flowing into your life.Does this mean that Reiki can cost you as you are a professional level as imbalance in the recognizing and accepting Reiki as a higher power.If absolutely nothing else, you have the Reiki healer feels relaxed and comfortable, honest and unleashed to healing family, friends and colleagues help me heal a person who needs a flu shot when you've got a Reiki organization - can such practice take place.This means your soul is full of violet color and perceived from the situation, it may all seem like quackery, however, about fifty percent of adults will experience glowing happiness that will simply works for your benefit.The Reiki therapy method can be done with the purpose of healing.

I followed up with a 10-minute Reiki to be aware of the symbol nor the lady she was going to Elk Grove Village to visit her home.However, it parallels religion in the moment.A master may be used for any reiki classes, without attunement, either person to be the master level.A regular Reiki sessions as possible to discover and uncover.The attunement process and it is not a religion of the client.

But for the First Degree course in 1999. initially, I assumed that was a religious sect or organization.He studied Buddhism, Christianity, Shinto, the magic pill that cures him.Without undergoing the difficult training.It includes advanced healing techniques because you do not need a weight loss healing process.During healings, request Reiki to others.

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Home study courses are much less expensive to deliver, so those savings are passed on from person to view personal relationships from an orphanage fifteen years ago.You can also place these symbols if there were a few days.Reiki is working for the virtual world as well.Of course, that promises results online in a live class, but there is something you wish to go.Reiki therapy teacher normally conducts a ceremony in which you can practice this healing art, just as well.

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for the ask meme: orange, yellow and purple!

hooo boy i apparently have a metric fuckton of shit to say; under the cut to spare you all reading the multitude of bulletpoints

orange: what makes you feel warm inside? what’s your favorite halloween tradition? what’s the last thing you learned? when’s the last time you felt obsessed? what’s your favorite article of clothing?

nothing makes me feel more warm & loved then when someone does something that doesn’t benefit them in any way, just to make me happy. bonus points if they correctly identify something i would like before i figure out myself that i would like it. someone i used to date would bring me coffee in the mornings & they were always spot-on with choosing the seasonal starbucks lattes i was gonna like, without ever having to actually ask about my taste. that’s love, i think. 

pumpkin carving! i would always try to do these complicated designs that i found on the internet and i was never artistic enough to pull them off. it was always fun anyways, tho. 

ummm... i learned that my local hockey team almost traded taylor hall to the sens which is of interest to absolutely no one who doesn’t care about the trash can fire that is the edmonton oilers

i spent all of last summer obessed with both my yoga teacher and my political science teacher ( in hindsight this was a horrid display of my frustrated desire to be romantically/sexually wanted) but both of them were kind to me in ways that no one had been kind to me in a very long time. not admirable but understandable, i would hope. 

my favourite changes pretty regularly but my christmas gift from my grandparents is the current fave. it’s a big wooly sweater in a sort of creamy oatmeal colour with a big drape-y neck, zippers on the sides and a swoopy hemline. i’m wearing it right now & it got me complimented at the grocery store 

yellow: if you could have any view from your bedroom window what would you choose? what’s your favorite thing to do on a sunny day? what do you consider lucky? what made you smile today? what makes you happy?

dream view from my bedroom window is the beach but it would have to be somewhere in the city bc i like having the noise of people going about their lives just floating in 

favorite thing to do on a sunny day is to just lie down and be warm. i have one of those gravity chairs that lets you lean back & lie flat and i just camp out on that with my big headphones on and doze until it gets dark 

idk about lucky... i guess i believe in bad luck more than good luck tbh. there’s a lot of stuff i consider to be omens of bad times coming but i can’t really think of anything that’s the opposite

i sprouted a plant from an avocado pit this summer but it nearly died in the fall because i was interning in another city & didn’t take it with me. today, i looked at it and there’s clearly a little bit of bright green new growth at the top so i think it’s gonna live, which made me smile

tbh i might be depressed(tm) but not a lot of stuff has been making me happy lately. i used to like yoga & going to the library so i might try one or both of those to try and get my groove back or w/e

purple: what’s your astrological sign? what’s the best piece of advice you ever received? when’s the last time you followed your instincts? what’s your favorite food? what’s your secret dream?

i’m a gemini which automatically puts me on 70% of people’s shitlists; i would love to ignore the haters but in this case i have got to admit they have a point

this only obliquely counts as “advice” but i think this chunk of poetry might be as close to a new year’s resolution as i’m gonna get for 2018: be courageous when the mind deceives you be courageous / in the final account only this is important (...) repeat old incantations of humanity fables and legends / because this is how you will attain the good you will not attain / repeat great words repeat them stubbornly / like those crossing the desert who perished in the sand (...) go because only in this way will you be admitted to the company of cold skulls / to the company of your ancestors: Gilgamesh Hector Roland / the defenders of the kingdom without limit and the city of ashes / Be faithful Go

my instincts are noticiably untrustworthy and often unsuited to the reality of my situation if we’re being brutally honest. i think the last time i followed them was probably the weekend before halloween bc i visited my apartment/roommates for the weekend & they hadn’t told me they were throwing a halloween party full of people i either didn’t know or didn’t like. i followed my heart and fucked off to a bar for a few hours & when i came back everyone (including me) was drunk enough that i didn’t have to play nice 

okay this is going to be an incredibly silly answer for favourite food but my parents used to take me to mexico on vacations and every time we were there, one of the breakfast options at the hotels was always chicken in a spicy green sauce that i would eat with tortillas. i have never been able to find this chicken on the menu of any mexican restaurant or duplicate it myself, no matter how hard i try.  

[deanmackaywedding]

I am always hesitant to share this sort of information. Often, someone overreacts. I welcome feedback, comments, and discussion, but please don’t worry too much.

However, I think it’s important to share these things not only because it helps my friends and family to understand me better, but because it helps others to feel comfortable discussing these things, and shines a light on something that’s not talked about or understood by many.

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I’ve been struggling. After a nearly two year absence, I’ve been dealing with depression, or something along those lines, a great deal, this summer.

Being away from my home and bed, and not spending much time on my creative endeavors, I shouldn’t be surprised. I haven’t been getting adequate sleep since I arrived here, nor have I had any substantial time to really sit with my thoughts, to meditate and breathe, to work and build. I haven’t been taking care of myself very well. I thrive when I sleep well and I feel recharged when I have a good chunk of solitude. This summer’s schedule has not allowed for either. I’m not doing enough of the things I need to maintain my balance, to stay even keeled. It’s been frustrating.

On top of it, this summer, I’m feeling especially lonely. I see couples all around me and I’m reminded of my own ineptitude at establishing and maintaining a relationship. It’s been getting me down.

While I’m blessed to live this amazing life, like all things, there is a downside.

When depression moves in, like an unwelcome guest, I feel out of sorts, initially, before a wave of sadness overwhelms me. I feel ugly, unwanted, and useless. It’s exhausting. I really hate feeling this way.

Being around so many people, when these episodes appear, I’ve had to deal with them in a very public way. That’s not a terrible thing, as usually I need help in these moments, all while my brain is telling me to be ashamed and hide away. While everyone around me has been compassionate, and had good intentions, their assistance has not always been what I’ve most needed.

What some people fail to understand is that I don’t just feel sad, I also feel paralyzed. And, like other, more physical illnesses, I need not only rest but TLC as well. At these times of distress, I need time to recover, but also someone there to take care of me. That care can include helping me with a chore that can’t wait. It can be joining me in a meal. Or, it can be simply sitting with me. I want someone to listen. I want someone to be there with me. All of these things help me to feel useful, needed, and attractive. That activity stimulates thoughts in my brain that help to counteract the negative ones. Without this assistance, I fall farther down into a hole and it takes me much longer to recover. Please, if you can avoid it, don’t leave me alone. That always makes things worse. Because of the shame, I’ll never ask for help, but I’ll rarely turn it away.

Hopefully, once I return to my home and comfort zone in the fall, I’ll return to the balanced life that keeps this at bay. In the meantime, however, I’ll have to remain aware, work to keep my head above water, and manage the situation. And I’ll need a little help with that. Being single, and very much a solitary man, I don’t have that partner or best friend to automatically lean on. I already feel lonely and adrift, and when these times, that feeling is exaggerated. So, if you’re around me, or have earned my trust, and I call you, I hope that you will stand by me and lend a hand. You have no idea how much you’ll be helping me.

Thank you.

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Many people suffer from depression, and many of us don't recognize it. It's not always to easy to see the symptoms. If a friend coughs, we all seem to know a multitude of elixirs to help alleviate it, but if a friend has a mental health issue, we really are at a loss. Not to mention that despite progress, there is still quite a stigma attached, so we don't really talk about this nearly enough.

Please check out the graphic, and familiarize yourself with the signs. And if you see someone struggling (including yourself!), I hope that you'll check out one of the articles, and be supportive. (Hint: having depression is not just being "sad", and telling someone to "snap out of it" or "cheer up" doesn't help.)

http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2012/05/08/9-best-ways-to-support-someone-with-depression/

http://blog.ed.ted.com/2016/02/10/5-ways-you-can-help-a-friend-suffering-from-depression/

https://forgetfine.com/2016/11/19/how-not-to-be-a-dick-to-someone-with-mental-health-issues/

[abujaihs-blog]

The next economic crisis could cause a global conflict. Here's why

The response to the 2008 economic crisis has relied far too much on monetary stimulus, in the form of quantitative easing and near-zero (or even negative) interest rates, and included far too little structural reform. This means that the next crisis could come soon – and pave the way for a large-scale military conflict. The next economic crisis is closer than you think. But what you should really worry about is what comes after: in the current social, political, and technological landscape, a prolonged economic crisis, combined with rising income inequality, could well escalate into a major global military conflict. The 2008-09 global financial crisis almost bankrupted governments and caused systemic collapse. Policymakers managed to pull the global economy back from the brink, using massive monetary stimulus, including quantitative easing and near-zero (or even negative) interest rates.

Image: UN But monetary stimulus is like an adrenaline shot to jump-start an arrested heart; it can revive the patient, but it does nothing to cure the disease. Treating a sick economy requires structural reforms, which can cover everything from financial and labor markets to tax systems, fertility patterns, and education policies. Policymakers have utterly failed to pursue such reforms, despite promising to do so. Instead, they have remained preoccupied with politics. From Italy to Germany, forming and sustaining governments now seems to take more time than actual governing. And Greece, for example, has relied on money from international creditors to keep its head (barely) above water, rather than genuinely reforming its pension system or improving its business environment. The lack of structural reform has meant that the unprecedented excess liquidity that central banks injected into their economies was not allocated to its most efficient uses. Instead, it raised global asset prices to levels even higher than those prevailing before 2008. In the United States, housing prices are now 8% higher than they were at the peak of the property bubble in 2006, according to the property website Zillow. The price-to-earnings (CAPE) ratio, which measures whether stock-market prices are within a reasonable range, is now higher than it was both in 2008 and at the start of the Great Depression in 1929.

As monetary tightening reveals the vulnerabilities in the real economy, the collapse of asset-price bubbles will trigger another economic crisis – one that could be even more severe than the last, because we have built up a tolerance to our strongest macroeconomic medications. A decade of regular adrenaline shots, in the form of ultra-low interest rates and unconventional monetary policies, has severely depleted their power to stabilize and stimulate the economy. If history is any guide, the consequences of this mistake could extend far beyond the economy. According to Harvard’s Benjamin Friedman, prolonged periods of economic distress have been characterized also by public antipathy toward minority groups or foreign countries – attitudes that can help to fuel unrest, terrorism, or even war. For example, during the Great Depression, US President Herbert Hoover signed the 1930 Smoot-Hawley Tariff Act, intended to protect American workers and farmers from foreign competition. In the subsequent five years, global trade shrank by two-thirds. Within a decade, World War II had begun. To be sure, WWII, like World War I, was caused by a multitude of factors; there is no standard path to war. But there is reason to believe that high levels of inequality can play a significant role in stoking conflict. According to research by the economist Thomas Piketty, a spike in income inequality is often followed by a great crisis. Income inequality then declines for a while, before rising again, until a new peak – and a new disaster. Though causality has yet to be proven, given the limited number of data points, this correlation should not be taken lightly, especially with wealth and income inequality at historically high levels.

This is all the more worrying in view of the numerous other factors stoking social unrest and diplomatic tension, including technological disruption, a record-breaking migration crisis, anxiety over globalization, political polarization, and rising nationalism. All are symptoms of failed policies that could turn out to be trigger points for a future crisis. Voters have good reason to be frustrated, but the emotionally appealing populists to whom they are increasingly giving their support are offering ill-advised solutions that will only make matters worse. For example, despite the world’s unprecedented interconnectedness, multilateralism is increasingly being eschewed, as countries – most notably, Donald Trump’s US – pursue unilateral, isolationist policies. Meanwhile, proxy wars are raging in Syria and Yemen. Against this background, we must take seriously the possibility that the next economic crisis could lead to a large-scale military confrontation. By the logic of the political scientist Samuel Huntington , considering such a scenario could help us avoid it, because it would force us to take action. In this case, the key will be for policymakers to pursue the structural reforms that they have long promised, while replacing finger-pointing and antagonism with a sensible and respectful global dialogue. The alternative may well be global conflagration. Source: WeForum Read the full article

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