#since 2019 I’ve cut off two irl friends I’ve had since my early teens
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It’s funny how much I changed the way I see friendships, both irl and online, after I got sick and realized my time is more limited than others.
I’m always the one having to reach out first?
Signs of someone being two-faced?
Ignorance?
I’m out. Right away. Moving on.
I have spent too much time feeling like a last resort, only an afterthought.
It’s not my job alone to make it work, and I’ve been trough this enough times to know that it won’t ever change.
There are so many good people out here, I’m not gonna spend my precious time and energy on that shit.
#since 2019 I’ve cut off two irl friends I’ve had since my early teens#it have sucked ofc but that hurt is nothing compared to the feeling of it being RIGHT#the people they grew into were not meant to be my friends#and it appears a looot of other people feel the same sooo#but seriously#online too#I’m way too forgiving here#‘i was sooo busy’ ‘I’m just going trough something’ etc only works a certain amounts of times#i am also busy. i am also going trough things. but I choose to make room for you.#you do not do the same for me#and that is okay#but then I am not gonna make room for you either#it sucks and hurts but damn#better to realize it now#vent#irl#personal
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