#sick of you guys running around like tweedledee and twiddledum jerking each other off with your tears

[cataclysmic-cadenza]

LMAOO ☠️ cry me a river

im sorry but the reason this even exists is because you guys are so used to being self-pitying dipshits that you call every abuser a narcissist or psychopath because of a criteria you literally pulled out of your ass. you spout the most outlandish bullshit about an entire group of people that have nothing to do with you and then start bitching and moaning when said group calls you out.

and y’all really just like to lie apparently because the majority of you DO believe that all narcissists are abusers and evil. so that’s why we’re sensitive to people like you perpetuating the rhetoric then acting like you have a right to be a piece of shit to us because…what?? your sucky parents abused you and you decided in your head that they had npd?? you went through suffering and recovery, all the while blaming npd for your pain when it was just your shitty abuser?

are you genuinely ignorant enough to believe that any person on this planet earth has the right to be anti-(enter trait that cannot be controlled) because you’ve had bad experiences with people with that trait?

“nO sHiT yOu HaVe NpD” dude if you think that calling out bigotry is a narcissistic trait, i understand how each and every one of you ALL have narcissistic abusers. you’re incapable of separating random negative traits from actual npd symptoms, so when you see something you dislike, you assume it’s npd. when we disagree with you, you cry abuse and say “look, guys! i was right! they’re a bunch of meanies :(“

we can’t take you seriously because you sound idiotic as fuck, and the reason i say that is because no one with working brain cells believes that one has a right to bigotry and abuse just because it’s in a “victims space”. nor do they believe that calling out your hatred is abuse ☠️ you are the only one making abuse victims sound stupid and unreliable, because you’re swearing with your heart of hearts that comments on tumblr responding to YOUR abusive behavior are abusive. not a single soul despises you because “you’re just a stupid liar, you never got abused, you’re not a real victim”. we despise you because you use those traits to demonize literally everyone who’s vaguely associated with your botched idea of “narcissistic abuse” and then act like we committed treason when we’re like “hi girly, erm this is kinda ableist as fuck, please stop lumping us together, please don’t pretend we’re sll the same, please dont use our disorder as an adjective that is ALWAYS used in a negative context, please dont look at someone who’s a piece of shit and armchair diagnose them with npd despite knowing pitifully little about it, please don’t fucking justify being anti-our-existence.

do better. if we said this about you guys we’d be crucified.

If you crash a post made by a victim discussing their experiences with narcissistic abuse with walls of text and preface it all with "I have NPD": ...yeah, no shit you do.

Literally no one is saying "all NPD people are abusive", but those who aren't wouldn't be going out of their way looking up certain tags on tumblr just to finger wag and play victim on strangers' tumblr posts.