#shit has me wishing i was a heterosexual….. truly sickening

[grahamcore]

the “dating girls is just easier!!” rhetoric is so deceptive like what the actual fuck have you ever met a lesbian

[theproofinthisong]

oh my god you fools are still at it. unbelievable. can’t believe you’re still arguing about this post in my notes have you got nothing better to do. apparently not. so let’s go again!

@nikabear488 : point to me where exactly did i say shawn needed to come out. where did i say this. right i didn’t. i would never force someone to come out when he’s not ready yet. i’m bisexual and it took me two years to come out. it can take you 6 months, 3 year, a decade or more. i will never judge that. what i’m judging is his label’s decision to prevent him from doing so, not shawn. next time check my posts before coming at me for absolutely no reason. as for the music part i really hope this is a joke because?? your other argument means nothing because it’s the same old, cringey, tiring argument i’ve heard about a thousand times. everytime us lgbt people say a celebrity we like is gay we’re getting these messages “ok but you’re the homophobic one for saying this!!” it’s pathetic and disrespectful as fuck. once again i’m not saying shawn is gay based only on mannerisms and if you read my post you could have known. i’m pretty sure you’re one of these people that think photographing men with flowers in their beards will end sexist culture and defending straight men’s platonic hugs is more important than actually protecting gay, trans and bi men from homophobia and transphobia. i’ve got nothing more to say except you’re the close minded one and if you see someone being discussed as gay as an insult, my dear friend, you are the one with a problem, not me.

@anti-radfem: that url name got that URL NAME. nauseating. you talk as if you’re stuck in tumblr circa 2011 and that’s honestly ridiculous. also i’m too kind for answering you because your words mean absolutely nothing to me, you dumb republican trashbag. go fuck yourself and never come back. i don’t give you the right to even talk to me.

@crystalgem18: you know what? i said before i wasn’t bisexual. not because i wasn’t aware of it or didn’t want to say it. because i knew i couldn’t. i knew i was exposed to homophobic violence and i didn’t want to take the risk. there are countless examples of lgbt people not saying they’re gay when they are. and shawn being closeted by his label is a good reason not to say it. you are all talking about a conspiracy, needing evidence, and that is purely disgusting. antis are pulling the same shit when talking about harry and louis as if it wasn’t fucking obvious they are dating. why do you always need more proof? why? when we give you your precious proofs, y’all suddenly become blind. closeting in the music industry is a thing, as much i don’t want it to be. i would rather live in a world where it doesn’t fucking exist and lgbt people can love and live freely. i would fucking love it. but you’re fucking deluded if you can’t see most of the cultural industries are still deeply homophobic. you dumbasses all talk as if closeting is something we created when it has been, tragically, going on for ages. 

just talking about singers? ricky martin was closeted. olly alexander was told he should hide the fact that he was gay to protect his band (and brand). george shelley from union j? closeted too. i could go on for a decade. closeting is fucking evewhere. in sport, acting, music, all kinds of art. and the common point, everywhere? management does it because money matters more to them than anything else. they want the conventionally attractive men to appeal to the largest female audience. because it makes MONEY. they don’t care about anything else. cash, public image, marketing. the music industry is rotten, extremely racist, sexist and homophobic and half of the managers should be in jail for what they have done to the artists they are in charge of. 

and before you come at me and ask me why shawn would sign with a label that wants to closet him it’s because the people writing these documents are clever. they willingly take advantage of legal loopholes and trick young, impressionable artists into thinking they’re protecting their image or they put a vague line in the middle of thirty other pages knowing exactly what they’re doing. they know the youngs artist don’t have the knowledge in law or music marketing to have the upper hand in this. sure people were already talking about shawn being gay before but as soon as he got signed, it became more important to give him an heterosexual image because he was gaining visibility. and that article, depicting him as crying about the nasty gay rumors? it’s calculated. it is meant to convince the general public that he’s not gay, will never be (how my god how can you even imply it, which is what you hetties sound like) while keeping the progressive card intact (the “it shouldn’t matter” line). all music labels have different strategies. sony wants louis to be seen as homophobic. harry’s label as an ally but nothing more, except a nasty womanizer. mostly, they want them to be represented as straight. just like shawn. and that printed interview? it came out right when the hailey bieber topic was super popular. it’s marketing GOLD. they posted it at the right time. at the time where it would be the most efficient. i wish their nasty techniques wouldn’t work. most of us lgbt people are not fooled by the press because we actually have eyes and brains.hearts. but you are and i fucking hate it. so stop talking about conspiracies, theories and disrespectful shit like that. you’re hurting me and thousand of lgbt fans with those words.

also the fact that you’re the second one to hit me with this reverse homophobia argument is absolutely sickening. i’m a bisexual girl. don’t you think i know about prejudices and the harm they do to people? i’m fucking hurt by everything you said. you don’t have a fucking clue what i went through and you’re assuming you know when you don’t fucking know shit. i wish i could make fun of the fact that you said “what if i’m straight what’s the problem” but i fucking can’t. yes it matters. it matters because lgbt voices matter more than straight voices in this kind of discussion. and if you can’t see why, you’re incredibly tone deaf. i’m not “obsessed” with shawn’s sexuality. i’m not doing anything wrong to him. i’m not harassing him and stalking him following him to his hotel. and who does? the nasty het fanbase that thinks he will sleep with them as soon as he meets them. not me. not us.

and honestly? if the interview was legit and shawn was truly straight and hurt by the rumors? (which i don’t believe at all) i would drop him right on the spot. because when these interviews are published, with denials that EXTRA, it always means something is up. the guy is either homophobic (if he really believes those words) or closeted (the label wants to protect the straight image so bad they’ll wrote anything that will sound the MOST straight and gay repulsed)

the fact that you’re EVEN asking why a label would closet its lgbt artists speak for itself. you’re ignorant as fuck and you are writing me paragraphs to give me a lecture but the truth is you know nothing. i don’t want to start a civil discussion with you. i don’t want your straight opinion on the matter. i don’t fucking want it. take it back and never come to my blog again.

i started writing this post knowing that it would make me mad. y’all make me fucking mad. you should be ashamed of yourselves.