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allisluv · 3 months ago
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spencer reid sfw alphabet?
pairing: spencer reid x gn!reader
content warnings: none but if you think of any lmk!
A = affection (how affectionate are they? how do they show affection?)
spencer shows affection by rambling off random facts that he's memorized. it's his love language, in some ways.
B = best friend (what would they be like as a best friend? how would the friendship start?)
spencer isn't good with social interactions so i think at first, you'd have to initiate conversation. he might pass a compliment, either, and that's how your friendship might start. spencer's a really good friend and you know he won't lie-- he'll lay out the facts while also being sympathetic.
C = cuddles (do they like to cuddle? how would they cuddle?)
spencer isn't a big fan of physical touch but he does like to cuddle at the end of a hard day. he likes being the small spoon but he'll be the big spoon, too.
D = domestic (do they want to settle down? are they good at cooking or cleaning?)
spencer wants to settle down but he wants to make sure it's with the right person first. hes very good at both cooking and cleaning, mainly because he had to do it as a child when he was taking care of his mom
E = ending (if they had to break up with their partner, how would they do it?)
spencer is really gentle when he's breaking up with someone but he's also a little tone deaf and doesn't know how to pick a time and a place when he tells you how many relationships actually make it past the first year etc.
F = fiancé (how do they feel about commitment? how quick would they want to get married?)
spencer isn't scared of commitment but he is afraid of screwing things up. he plans out your proposal for so long that derek nearly lets the cat out of the bag just so he'll just grow a pair and ask you to marry him already.
G = gentle (how gentle are they, both physically and emotionally?)
spencer is all tender touches and gentle caresses and he is so soft emotionally too. he tells you if he needs space, rather than making you feel like you've done something wrong.
H = hugs (do they like hugs? how often? what are their hugs like?)
spencer isn't a big fan of hug. it would have to be a rare occasion, like an anniversary or a holiday or maybe if you've even just had a bad day. his hugs are super tight, comforting and grounding
I = i love you (how fast do they say the l word?)
i'm not sure of the time frame, but i just know spencer tells you he loves you really quickly. he believes if you love someone, whats the point in hiding it?
J = jealousy (how jealous do they get? what do they do when they're jealous?)
spencer doesn't get jealous but he does get insecure. he's afraid that you'll find someone better than him, but that stems from his own abandonment issues.
K = kisses (what are their kisses like? where do they like to kiss you? where do they like to be kissed?)
spencer's kisses are sweet and soft. he likes to kiss you on the knuckles and he likes to be kissed on the cheek.
L = little ones (how are they around children?)
spencer is super good with kids and we see this both in the field and with his co-workers children. he loves teaching them lots of new things and he has a really good imagination, too!
M = morning (how are mornings spent with them?)
mornings with spencer include a lot of caffeine, especially if the both of you work for the BAU and have an early start. he likes to spend as much time in bed with you, cuddling, first and then he'll make breakfast or hover in the doorway as you get ready.
N = nights (how are nights spent with them?)
nights with spencer are spent winding down. he likes reading to you before you go to sleep, if that's something you're interested in, obviously. if not, he's happy enough to lay in bed with you and talk about how your days were.
O = open (when would they start revealing things about themselves? do they say everything all at once or slowly tell you things?)
i feel like spencer is pretty guarded until you get to know him, especially when it comes to, like, stuff about his mom and his childhood, but once you're friends and he trusts you enough, he doesn't mind sharing personal things. he's the kind to randomly drop bombshells on you and be like "lol lore drop."
P = patience (how easily angered are they?)
spencer might just win an award for being the most patient person in the world. he's so soft with you and if you're getting frustrated or overwhelmed, he's there to help you and remind you to take breaks.
Q = quizzes (how much would they remember about you? do they remember every little detail you mention in passing, or do they kind of forget everything?)
spencer remembers everything about you, from your favourite snack to the day your pet hamster died when you were seven. any little thing you say, even in passing, is being tucked away into the back of his mind.
R = remember (what is their favorite moment in your relationship?)
spencer likes remembering your first date story and he frequently brings it up. he was so nervous that he knocked over a candle and nearly set the restaurant on fire. he was terrified that he'd screwed it all up but you just laughed and said it was your most memorable first date.
S = security (how protective are they? how would they protect you? how would they like to be protected?)
spencer is more protective than he lets on, especially if we are talking about unsubs. if someone threatens you, he's in there as quick as a flash and he's directing their attention away from you and onto him.
T = try (how much effort would they put into dates, anniversaries, gifts, everyday tasks?)
spencer gets really anxious so he likes to plan everything out in advance-- meticulously, might i add. he puts so much effort into everything, from his outfit to all the things that might go wrong. he also loves doing mundane tasks for you, like laundry or the dishes, especially if he knows you find them tedious or boring.
U = ugly (what would be some bad habits of theirs?)
spencer excessively bites his tongue and the inside of his cheek to the point where it starts pouring blood sometimes.
V = vanity (how concerned are they with their looks?)
spencer isn't all that concerned with his looks. he knows he looks goofy in his outfits sometimes, especially with his mismatched socks, but he feels comfortable and he isn't going to change that for anyone.
W = whole (would they feel incomplete without you?)
oh absolutely. if you get something as small as a papercut, spence is so worried for you, so if god forbid something more serious was to happen, he wouldn't know what to do with himself.
X = xtra (a random headcanon for them)
spencer loves hot sauce!
Y = yuck (what are some things they wouldn’t like, either in general or in a partner?)
spencer doesn't like people who put others down. that's a big turn off for him and it can make or break his relationship with someone
Z = zzz (what is a sleep habits of theirs?)
spencer sleeps with a stuffed animal that he's had since he was a child.
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