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The worst part is not that i procrastinated my term paper to the last minute. I always do that. The worst part is having to send my lecturer the topic proposal a week before the deadline which will undoubtedly be met with some extreme judgment of my time management and i am not in the mood for that
#like boy#if we didn't need to message you about the topic I'd have made one up a week from now and written everything#within 2 days#don't judge me for how i get this done#just evaluate the end result thank you very much#but ok i finally send him an email#you know what's funny is that I'm not even anxious about this#idk what happened to me but the usual panic and mental breakdown i have when it comes to proposing topics and#sending emails is just not present#I'm just so done lmao#i have my first quiz tomorrow morning in one lecture and i have to give my first peer tutoring session in another seminar#next tuesday which involves writing a 14 pages long summary of the topics of the last 2 lectures and then presenting it to my peers#and I have that interview on Tuesday as well#i love everything#at least time flies by this way#I've been counting days until i get back home and this way it feels like I'll be back in no time#(it's not that i hate it here. i just don't know what else to look forward to so seeing my dogs again seems appropriate#i just generally don't enjoy anything so this is not different which i knew beforehand#love to get judged for it ♡)#void screams#academic misery
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#just emailed my bosses to go F themselves letss gGGOOOOOO#not really but my sup. send a message this moring with italics and red font 🙄#vaguing about how my 'team' needs to be present for specific hours regardless of appts#🤔 but all the other campuses are free to leave when no appts 🤔#and i get no raise for this mandatory change becuz 'its in my contract'#uhhhh not the one i signed ho if the one you updated 10 times since then says that not my issue#i said 'k my new hours are 8-3 effective immediately 💘'#they took all day to send me the 'youre not allowed to work from home' email so lets see how long this response takes#my reply was fired off less than 15 mins later 🫡 test me#vent post#sfs
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me turning in my thesis idea paper at 3:25am & ~51 hours late from the actual deadline:
#god i hope my supervisor wont be mad. i was just. very unmotivated during the week and couldnt get the writing done in time#also the fact i had to send the paper via email......... let's just hope she won't look at the timestamp 🫡#since i didnt even have an excuse i just had to write 'sorry for submitting this late and missing the deadline by two days'#i hope that she doesn't care bc it was weekend & easter. i have to present the paper on thursday....#my posts
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i'm procrastinating again LMFAO someone please make me productive this is gonna take at least like 1 hour i think
#chatterye#i got everything else done#i just need to crank this out#and practice it#this is my presentation btw#that's why i'm pushing it off#i need to have it down by tmr (mon) so i am ready for tuesday#someone send me help#i don't know anything#also someone manifest that my schools get back to me#they're pissing me off#and i don't know when i'm supposed to email back the first people because it's been a while#but also i need to know funding WAH but i haven't gotten the official letter so i was waiting for that#but idk if it's gonna come anytime soon
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does everyone like this lil guy I drew on my ipad during my lecture 😙😙
#hes so me frfr#thats actually what i look like guys#this is my gender#im so painfully bored#and ive been sending emails to all my lectuerers telling them im too autism for group work or presentations its soso fun#just a lil guy#i also have a headache and i am not being brave about it
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it's so hard to just. not give up as someone who uses they/them. i am sick of everyone constantly defaulting to she her
#it's syllabus week rn and i am just so sick of that and having to send emails telling professors my “preferred name” instead of my deadname#im just so sick of it idk how to present more nonbinarily it's just not going to happen
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every year i’m in college i learn more & more that most of the time, trying to use my accommodations is just a drain on my time & energy than anything. it’s almost never worth it
#so much dealing with red tape sending emails and planning ahead for what?#our professor rescheduled the exam to the day i have to give a presentation in another class#after i literally chose that presentation date around when the midterm for his class was gonna be based on what the syllabus said#and now he expects me to do alternate testing on the exact same day which for me would be after 2 back to back classes that end at 4 pm#i hate the class anyway & it’s general education so ig i’m just gonna take the l#midnight chatters
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#ok so like this is fine bc im not in a horrible mood rn. this is more i feel like complaining bc what im doing is kinda ridiculous#but my memory is so bad that ill probably forget if i dont write it out. but basically 4 days a week i have to come in starting at 7.30 to#water and prep for measurements. then from 9am to 6.15pm i have to nonstop take the measurements. and theyre timed so that means#i get abt 4 min to do anything before i have to take another measurement. which is abt enough time to start to focus and then have to stop#which is very fucking frustrating. and i have to manage data. coordinate for this fucking paper. and keep track of like 10 other things for#work stuff. which means that it takes me like and hour to send easy emails and they come out all fucked uo bc my brain is so shot#but on top of that i also have to fucking do the steps to get set up for my new school in the fall. and like ive officially accepted the#offer but havent talked to my new advisor since then so now theres this weird gap where im like. uh fuck do i ask for wtf im supposed to#do? bc ive been able to do things for like 2 or 3 weeks but then my life started collapsing in around me. and like there r probably#instructions somewhere but i cant fucking read lol. whatever. hes nice i just need to find the energy and words to email him and b like lol#srry everythings been insane. but bc ive waited so long i have to compulsively keep going back to check that ive been accepted like somehow#that would change while im not looking. ugh. and ive also fucked myself over housing wise bc theres a housing shortage in the city and huge#demand of housing on camus so theres a wait list for everything but i cant fucking apply bc i cant get my id to work. and fucking idk who#to call or email abt that. but idk i might have to have roomates for a semester. or my parents offered to give me some extra money for an#apartment until i can get one that doesnt put me in the red on a grad student budget. ugh. i dont wanna do either of those things#but christ do i not want roommates. ill figure something out. its just annoying and difficult from so far away#and it makes me kinda sad bc ppl r like: r u excited?! and im like. i cant really think abt that. partly bc im constanly putting out fires#in the present so theres not really space for it. partly bc i dont allow myself to b excited abt things so as not to get my hopes up.#but just after i accepted i was excited. and now it feels like im reaching my hand out toward a floating light just out of reach. like#its a nice idea but i wont believe until it happens. but that just bc ive become distorted about things#and i dont even get a weekend bc the 4 days of measurement r friday to Monday and i cant fucking relax on weekdays bc ppl r like hey can u#do this??? and there r things i can only do on weekdays so its like ok i guess ill just suffer forever thrn. and my boss texts me like: hey#did u do X? and am like: uuuuuh i fucking dont kno what day it is anymore. i dont understand y we have to meet. lets just not talk bc im#afraid ill say something worrying. so yea its pretty fucked up rn. but this stuff ends on the 24th#then ill probably not take a break and fucking finish the measurements for another project bc i just really need it to b done. i need it#all to b done so i can fucking wash my hands of this and fucking quit and move away at the start of july... or August if i decide i hate#myself that much. ugh. at least the lab has been pretty empty so no ones seen me crying lol#also thr fucking rutgers guy emailed me yesterday like: hey u want this position? and im like bitch u r like a month too late also im in#my cringe fail era. i would not survive at ur school. ugh everything is terrible. 2 or 3 more months then i csn leave this place forever#unrelated
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im fighting my demons rn (trying to focus on my assignments instead of writing the sagau post)
#miyo.chatting#i have to finish like#two essays n send out emails for a study we're conducting#all due on monday but i gotta finish today#god i am not your strongest soldier#how am i supposed to write a persuasive essay about my stance on the value of ethics in present times#when all i can think of is my horribly self-indulgent sagau thoughtspost#i dont even want to think about all the people i have to email for our survey either#dilemma: be an absolute academic menace (be a good student) or just be a menace (post on tumblr dot com)#both give me equal amounts of joy so i cant really decide#maybe ill just flip a coin on google
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sent my professor a lengthy email asking for an extension for my presentation so I'd have one week more to prepare and. he just answered "Sure. Best [first name]"
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[Begin ID: A screenshot showing an email. The sender and recipient are blurred. The subject of the email is "reschedule [redacted] presentation?". The text says "Sure. Best [redacted first name]". End ID]
#im like begging on my knees crying and sobbing and having a breakdown abt not managing to stick to the deadline and asking for an extension#and he's like. idk. reading my email during his evening tea in the bathtub or whatever quickly checking his mailbox one last time before#clocking out for the day he sees my email chuckles and just types 'sure. best [first name]' deletes 'sent from my iphone' and hits send#then he puts his phone down on the rim of his bathtub and sips from his favourite tea#meanwhile i'm here like 😣😓😢😞😭🥲🫠😵😵💫 *screams*#i feel a little pathetic for overexplaining myself now but i feel when i'm asking him for a favour#it's only fair that i explain my motivations ig. maybe i was too polite like i was like#If you will allow me to give my presentation at a later date I will be very grateful. If not I completely understand.#and he's just like lol. i mean ig the stark difference between how i wrote my email and how he wrote his email makes me uncertain and unsur#but! why do i worry! ivegot my extension! it's fine! now i can actually focus on that presentation! it's fine! stop worrying and overthinki#g!#not fandom related#personal log stardate
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maybe she's trying to make me feel better about something i never hated myself for in the first place. A sort of, it's okay, you still count.
It's not that i'm against the inclusivity, per se, but it hurts when i'm trying so hard to leave the category altogether.
#transmasc#trans ftm#context for the unaware: i likely have juuuust slightly enough higher levels of t to have facial hair#so it's not that i want - say - an intersex woman to be excluded on the basis of being seen as 'gnc'#i'm just grrr bite bite at the fact that no matter what i do or how i present i am STILL seen as a woman#something weird emotionally happening this week i guess. maybe i'll feel better once i send my email
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seriously, though. i work in higher education, and part of my job is students sending me transcripts. you'd think the ones who have the least idea how to actually do that would be the older ones, and while sure, they definitely struggle with it, i see it most with the younger students. the teens to early 20s crowd.
very, astonishingly often, they don't know how to work with .pdf documents. i get garbage phone screenshots, sometimes inserted into an excel or word file for who knows what reason, but most often it's just a raw .jpg or other image file.
they definitely either don't know how to use a scanner, don't have access to one, or don't even know where they might go for that (staples and other office supply stores sometimes still have these services, but public libraries always have your back, kids.) so when they have a paper transcript and need to send me a copy electronically, it's just terrible photos at bad angles full of thumbs and text-obscuring shadows.
mind bogglingly frequently, i get cell phone photos of computer screens. they don't know how to take a screenshot on a computer. they don't know the function of the Print Screen button on the keyboard. they don't know how to right click a web page, hit "print", and choose "save as PDF" to produce a full and unbroken capture of the entirety of a webpage.
sometimes they'll just copy the text of a transcript and paste it right into the message of an email. that's if they figure out the difference between the body text portion of the email and the subject line, because quite frankly they often don't.
these are people who in most cases have done at least some college work already, but they have absolutely no clue how to utilize the attachment function in an email, and for some reason they don't consider they could google very quickly for instructions or even videos.
i am not taking a shit on gen z/gen alpha here, i'm really not.
what i am is aghast that they've been so massively failed on so many levels. the education system assumed they were "native" to technology and needed to be taught nothing. their parents assumed the same, or assumed the schools would teach them, or don't know how themselves and are too intimidated to figure it out and teach their kids these skills at home.
they spend hours a day on instagram and tiktok and youtube and etc, so they surely know (this is ridiculous to assume!!!) how to draft a formal email and format the text and what part goes where and what all those damn little symbols means, right? SURELY they're already familiar with every file type under the sun and know how to make use of whatever's salient in a pinch, right???
THEY MUST CERTAINLY know, innately, as one knows how to inhale, how to type in business formatting and formal communication style, how to present themselves in a way that gets them taken seriously by formal institutions, how to appear and be competent in basic/standard digital skills. SURELY. Of course. RIGHT!!!!
it's MADDENING, it's insane, and it's frustrating from the receiving end, but even more frustrating knowing they're stumbling blind out there in the digital spaces of grown-up matters, being dismissed, being considered less intelligent, being talked down to, because every adult and system responsible for them just
ASSUMED they should "just know" or "just figure out" these important things no one ever bothered to teach them, or half the time even introduce the concepts of before asking them to do it, on the spot, with high educational or professional stakes.
kids shouldn't have to supplement their own education like this and get sneered and scoffed at if they don't.
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Just a bunch of Useful websites - Updated for 2023
Removed/checked all links to make sure everything is working (03/03/23). Hope they help!
Sejda - Free online PDF editor.
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Forvo – Alternatively, if you need to hear a local speaking a word, this is the site for you.
For even more useful sites, there is an expanded list that can be found here.
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wow what a rough week… *checks the 달력 (i can’t fucking spell calander calender calendar the first time in english)* (it’s only tuesday)
#my work set me up for emotional failure giving me basically 3 presentations this week lol#they always fuck me up so bad i hate presentations and i hate speaking#let me send my little emails PLEASE#tomorrow i have basically 2 presentations and then thursday is the last one this week#then none next week. and then final presentation a week after that#i made myself feel bad bc we were looking for another diamond painting for me to do bc i finished the one that i was working on#and i started thinking about how i would like to do more art stuff but i really lack the confidence#like it’s hard for me to be Bad at something even though i Know that is just the first step in being good at something#if i produce something bad i feel bad about myself
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Physical Intimacy Prompts
They bring their foreheads together in quiet moments, feeling each other’s breath and just being present.
When things get scary or uncertain, they instinctively reach for each other’s hand.
One sneaks up behind the other and wraps them up in a soft, comforting hug.
They gently trace patterns on each other’s skin, like absentmindedly drawing circles on the other’s arm.
When one is tired, the other’s shoulder becomes their perfect resting place.
Little stolen kisses, playful and unexpected, but always leaving the other smiling.
During an intimate moment, one plays with the other’s hair, lightly brushing through it.
Right before they lean in for a kiss, one bites their lip in anticipation, making the moment even sweeter.
Their lips barely touch, creating tension and leaving both wanting more.
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Group projects suck but yk what sucks even more??? Group projects in an asynchronous class -_-
#i just got a reply from one of the group members after almost a week#aftwr sending emails almost everyday#~since you won’t be presenting in front of a class you have to divide and reecord yourself narrating each slide~ literally eat my ass how is#this helping us love???
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