#selfship proship imagine

[lovesmenot2015]

Imagine your f/o killing your abuser, making sure that you are always safe and happy after. They take care of you and make sure that the both of you run away together, avoiding capture from any authorities. You have eachother now and thats all that matters, no matter if you have to hop from motel to motel or live in some sort of vehicle.

[tyrianludaship]

whatever you do, do NOT think about your normally stoic and temperamental F/O softening upon seeing you!!! do NOT imagine your normally grumpy and jaded F/O having a small smile when thinking of you!!! do NOT imagine warming your cold F/O's heart and being able to see a calmer, more peaceful side of them!! DO NOT-

[spooky-angel-eddie]

💌Things that could help you feel closer to your f/o🪽

i know not all of these things will work for some people but here are some things i do, or plan on doing, that i think could be helpful :3

~ Draw them or, even better, draw yourself or your s/i with them

~ Think about what they smell like (whether canon or what you believe) and purchase perfumes or candles that smell like them

~ Make or buy their favourite food or food you think they would enjoy (if you also enjoy it)

~ Create a playlist that reminds you of them, or with music that you think they would enjoy

~ What is their comfort clothing item? Perhaps you could find or buy that for yourself to keep a part of them with you, and experience borrowing/wearing their clothes

~ Make a pinterest board for them, with pictures of them or things that remind you of them

~ Watch movies, shows, documentaries or videos that you think they would enjoy (if you also enjoy it)

~ Does a plushie or keychain exist of your f/o that you could buy, if not, maybe you could make one? It would be fun to have a mini version of your f/o that you could carry around with you!

~ You could make or buy bracelets/necklaces with your f/o's name or colours or gems that remind you of them

~ Write about them! Whether its fanfiction or simply just writing how you feel about them, it could be a stress-relieving activity

i had a good time thinking of these and definitely plan to eventually do the things i haven't yet done on this list, i hope some of these ideas are helpful and fun for you too! <3

im kinda afraid to post this and i know this isnt what i normally post buuut its my blog so get over it :p/lh

[2ugarystars]

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One more thing before I pass out. A little thing to make selfshippers like me happy, this could be either you or your f/o in this little scenario!!

Imagine your romantic f/o tearing up a bit or full on sobbing as they cuddle you into their arms, thinking how lucky and grateful to have you. They haven't felt this kind of simple love in so long or ever, and they're experiencing this with the person they love so much. Warm tears stain the pillow as they look at you, the person that they'll be with for what seems like forever.

Your f/o loves you so much and the fact they haven't experienced this kind of love sooner in their life is criminal to them. You mean so much to them as much as they mean so much to you. Your warm love and support for them, your voice and how gentle it is to their ears, the way your eyes softens each time you seem them, everything. Whether they're holding you or you're holding them, they feel so safe with you especially right before slumber.

Your f/O loves you and can never be more thankful to have you. <3

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[v1-kisser]

Maybeeee Imagine your F/O walking into the bedroom while they know you're in bed, trying to be quiet in case you're asleep... n smiling when they see you cozy under the covers...

Maybe they're just arriving home and they can't wait to join you, trying to get ready for sleep as quietly as possible. You can hear drawers opening and closing, the sink running. See the light from the next room cascading on the floor. Maybe you sleepily stare at the shadow of your F/O brushing their teeth or pulling off their shirt. Safe and warm. Almost nostalgic. Knowing that they're near. Sitting in the pleasant fog of drowsiness while someone you love is preparing to come lay with you. And then the distant light flicks off. For a moment you almost miss it, the certainty of where they were... the intimacy without touch. But the second that their weight sinks into the bed, and their warmth graces your back, those feelings dissipate like smoke.

They mumble a "goodnight" in case you're awake.

Talk to you in the morning.

proship/comship dni

[proselfshipsafespace]

Paranoid selfshippers, your f/o(s) wanted me to tell you that it'll all be okay, that you're perfectly safe and they'll protect you from whatever you think might get you or whatever is troubling your mind.

I promise you, you're f/o(s) want to keep you safe and protected and want to make sure you feel comfortable and calm.

[lovesmenot2015]

Do you feel unloved today?

Your f/o(s) can help with that, they love you so much. They love you more than words can express and every time they think about you, they find themselves perking up in the slightest of ways. They keep a bottle of whatever perfume/cologne you use to spray on their items when you are away/they are away to remind themselves of you. They keep a photo of you in their pocket and take it out whenever they want to look at your face, oh that face, it sends butterflies soaring through their stomach and a shiver up their spine. Maybe they even have a photo album, either on their phone or a physical album, dedicated to pictures of you and things that remind them of you. They love you.

minors dni

[tyrianludaship]

Tag your selfship

[doodlepoodle69]

Imagine putting a flower crown on your F/O !!!

(bonus points if they committed unforgivable crimes)

(extra bonus points if they don’t want it, forceflowercrown that silly‼️‼️‼️)

[honeycircuits]

For people who have multiple f/os

Imagine all of your f/os in a single house, how does it go? Well? Horribly bad? Or is there a bit of calm before chaos ensues?

*proship safe*

[lick-yourwounds]

Hey, you know that piece of clothing your F/O used to wear in their source but no longer appear in? Yeah, that's because it's yours now. They gave it to you.

[2ugarystars]

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Imagine this. It's 9:40 pm and it's thundering outside, you're cuddling with your f/o in the dimmest of lights and their touch and warm. You never thought you'd feel this safe in your life, yet here you are. Their hand pets your head and holds you close as they hush you sweet nothings.

Things really do get better, it's just that the future is scary until we're in it. Your f/o is so proud of you, and you should know it. They'll always love you no matter what.

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[lovesmenot2015]

Imagine your fem!F/O holding your bottle as you drink from it, laying across their lap as one of their hands stays on the bottle while the other plays with your hair gently and carefully.

minors DNI

[tyrianludaship]

Hey if you're trans, non-binary or intersex and have f/os that live in the past, I want you to know that they would support you. They would not force you to detransition or think of you as lesser because of it. They maybe wouldn't understand at first and might say something ignorant or dumb, but they will always try their best to understand and respect you. Because that's what you deserve. And nothing less.

Proship / Comship / RPF Do Not Interact or Repost Please !

[v1-kisser]

Proship dni for my comfort thanks.

I feel like everyone portrays F/Os as these romantic, perfect all around lovers, and while that's all well and good! I prefer F/Os who are flawed, who don't always say the right things. Who can sometimes be petty or selfish. F/Os who have a habit of seeing conflict as a contest on who can talk the loudest, instead of a conversation. F/Os who run out of patience sometimes and have to go cool off mid-conversation, even if they're right. F/Os who struggle to communicate their emotions.

I find comfort in the idea of a relationship where mistakes like that are allowed and given room to breathe. A relationship where, no matter what the conflict is, the walls eventually come down. Maybe it takes hours, maybe days until you're both calm enough to work it out. Maybe it takes several conversations to solve it, but each end in Hey. I love you. I'll talk to you tomorrow.

You're not perfect, and neither is your F/O. That's okay. That can be beautiful, too. There's not a hug that's more comforting than the firm, tearful one after reaching mutual understanding. Knowing that you didn't mess it up too much, you didn't break things permanently. You couldn't if you tried. They missed you... and you've got some serious affection to catch up on.

[rippedangelwings]

Imagine your f/o hugging you while you share a bathtub after a long day. The warm water on your body relieves your tense muscles while your f/o is hugging you, and playing with your hair, whispering sweet nothings in your ear. Their nails occasionally softly scratch your back while they lay their head on your chest, and their gaze watches your expression lovingly.