#saynotostrugglelove

[pnutbutter72]

THIS CAPTION 🔥🔥🔥🔥👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾 Posted @withrepost • @theglamourboxchronicles #ThisIsNOTlove .... 💔constantly going thru bs is NOT love. The black community is conditioned to believe that everything has to be HARD in order to reap the good. I believe religion plays a huge part in that. Every story is always about how so and so went thru a challenge and how God brought them thru. “No struggle no progress...” that shit gets tired and there’s so much life to live. We spend way too much time as a people continuously “going thru the struggle,” that we don’t even spend enough time PLANNING and executing out HAPPINESS. Financial planning, buying a new home or condo, fixing it so you can live this life comfortably. Preparing your children’s future.... 📚Lack of happiness shows up not only in your physical, but in your mental, it shows up in your bank acct, in your career, in your home.... too much arguing, bickering, being disloyal, self-seeking and not enough self-love so you can love the person and ppl you say you love. Who got time to argue? Biiish I don’t!💁🏾‍♀️ #SayNoToStruggleLove • • • • • • #relationships #blackLove #loveafterwar #dating #nycdating #NOTAPERSONALPOST gotta make that clear 💁🏾‍♀️ (at Elmwood Village) https://www.instagram.com/p/BvoNlxTnE1b/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=j770m12l241w