#saying shit like my “clock is ticking” as if im supposed to feel som biological imperative to have sex and have kids | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

calling-the-angels · 6 months ago

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It's a narrow-minded view of what "oppression" looks like and turns the conversation into a competition about who is more oppressed or who is "actually" oppressed... with the added disgusting wish for someone to face MORE abuse because of their sexual identity. 🤨😒

It's actually depressing that in this day and age, we still have queers drawing lines in the sand of the LGBTQIA+ community instead of recognizing that we're all standing on fucking SAND and the tides are awfully threatening right now...

“I wish asexuals were as oppressed as they say they are.” = “I refuse to educate myself on how allonormativity negatively affects acespec people and how they are harshly treated (*abused) in an allonormative society.”

#lgbtqia+#asexuality #asexual #asexuality is valid #ace community #ace space #lgbtqia community #tw acephobia #tw abuse #queer #queer community #lgbtqia+ community #allonormative abuse looks like every GODDAMN person being obsessed with someone else's lack of interest in sex #and running their little mouths off online about how being acespec is just an excuse for not getting laid #instead of listening to ace people explain their own experience with sexuality and seeing the common threads of the acespec community #namely that we just don't give a fuck about sex and we'd like to stop having that questioned every time our sexuality is brought up #fucking over it fr 🙄😒#(if i could stop having my parents constantly asking about my love life and when theyre getting grandchildren that would be nice)#(especially considering that theyre never getting any from me... go bother my other 4 siblings about it for fucks sake!)#<-and hey guess what? that is what i consider to be abuse as an acespec person #why the fuck should i have to constantly fend off weird innuendo questions from family and doctors and coworkers #instead of them hearing “i dont want to talk about my love life and i dont want to have kids” and just... accepting that? why is that hard?#not wanting kids isnt an ace thing but its a me thing tied to my asexuality so thats why i mention it #especially being a cis woman everyone is obsessed with when im popping out a little crotch goblin #saying shit like my “clock is ticking” as if im supposed to feel som biological imperative to have sex and have kids #newsflash... that biological urge does not exist for me!#sorry i got off on a tangent but these things are so intrinsically linked for me #for people to not see that incessant questioning as abuse really ticks me off

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