#saw a picture of him and jimi hendrix you KNOW peter thought he was the sun and moon and all the stars after just 5 minutes together

[mickdalena]

i like to think peter tork had a crush on every man he ever spoke to

[hornyliverpudlianputz]

Sorry if this is a stupid question, I just don’t know who to ask: I’ve seen some photos of Peter wearing the Native headdress, and... is that okay?

Tricky question anon, not a stupid one. I am not the best person to ask because I am Super Fucking White, but I will take a stab. Please keep in mind I am not the end-all-be-all on this matter.

First let me start by saying that I seriously doubt Peter was intentionally being racially insensitive by wearing a headdress. I don’t know what photoset you are referring to but I assume it was when he was younger as I haven’t seen any headlines about “60s rock star sparks outrage while shopping”. I will be basing my answer off of this assumption.

I can’t think of any pictures off the top of my head where Peter is wearing a headdress just out and about, but if that’s what you saw there could be several reasons for it. One is that in the 60s there was a Native American Power movement, similar to (and probably partially inspired by) the Black Power movement of the same era. Peter, being the radical upstart that he is, may have been attempting to show support by wearing one, probably being unaware of the reasons this was Bad. I can think of several pictures of Micky wearing a headdress in public for exactly that reason, although for him it’s a little different as he actually claims Native ancestry on his mother’s side. (Whether that’s true or not I have no idea, and I seriously doubt Micky would ever make a DNA test public.) Despite the motives, this is not “okay”. Understandable and very explainable certainly, but ultimately still Not Great.

There is also the Hippie movement (that Peter was Very Much a part of) which embraced the “natural” side of things. There are several aspects of various Native cultures and traditions that would have been appealing from this standpoint, and it may have been a part of that trend. This one I am a lot shakier on, I really don’t have enough cultural background to say for sure. But this would also be an example of Good Intentions, Bad Actions.

Now. I can think of a number of different times in the show where Peter is wearing a headband, and I believe he wears a full headdress at least once for one of the romps. This is simultaneously Better and Worse. This is Better because Peter is not wearing a headdress of his own volition, he was asked and/or told to by the studio. It is Worse because in every instance I can think of it was used to make a mockery of a Native American stereotype. The only one that is even slightly excusable (but not really) is in “Monkees in Texas” where he and Micky do the extended parody of “The Lone Ranger” with him as the Tonto character. I go into my further thoughts on that in the end of this post (as well as covering some of the other Extremely Problematic racist elements of the show) so I won’t dig it up here.

Suffice it to say anon, in every scenario I can think of for the context of the pictures you saw Peter has understandable reasons for wearing a headdress, but that does not make it okay that he is doing so. However. This does not mean that Peter is a Bad Person, nor does it mean that you are a Bad Person for being a fan. It would be literally impossible to be in a fandom as old as The Monkees and have it be completely devoid of any racial issues whatsoever. 

Please do also remember that, for the 60s, all four guys were on the forefront of this issue. When they invited Jimi Hendrix to open for them during their ‘67 tour, there would have been a great many places in several of the southern states where he would not have been allowed to use the same bathroom as them, or stay at the same hotel. I talk about more in this post, but Davy inviting Charlie Smalls to be his guest at the end of “Some Like It Lukewarm” was a Big Fucking Deal. Does this change the fact that there are at least four full episodes of the show that rely on Hella Racist stereotypes for main plot reasons? No. But again, those were not something the guys had a lot of control over. 

I started rambling there, but I hope this answers your question anon!

[teachanarchy]

1. The world’s oldest porn, which dates back over 3,000 years, features both male/male, female/female and male/female couples

2. The oldest ever known chat up line was apparently said between two men. A mythological story from the 20th dynasty of Ancient Egypt is between Horus and Seth, who quarrelled for 80 years on who should rule. Seth attempted to persuade Horus to sleep with him, saying: ‘How lovely are your buttocks! And how muscular your thighs!’ They then have sex.

3. In Egypt, two male royal manicurists named Niankhkhnum and Khnumhotep were found buried together in a shared tomb similar to the way married couples were often buried. Their epigraph reads: ‘Joined in life and joined in death’. Having lived in 2400 BC, they are believed to be history’s oldest recorded gay couple.

4. Some historical gay and bi figures have turned their lovers into gods. Alexander the Great wanted to make his boyhood lover Hephaestion a god when he died, but was only allowed to declare him a Divine Hero. The Roman Emperor Hadrian, of wall-building fame, was successful in making his lover, Antinous, a god after he drowned in the Nile.

5. The church sanctified gay marriages in the so-called Dark Ages, with one being the Byzantine Emperor Basil 1 (867-886) and his partner John.

6. In a creation myth by Aristophanes, there were three sexes: those with two male heads (which were descended from the sun), those with two female heads (from the earth) and those with a male and a female head (descended from the moon). Displeased with them, Zeus crippled them by chopping them in half. Since that day, according to the story, we are looking for the other half to create our whole. This is known as the Origin of Love.

7. Mercury represents male and female principles in harmony. In mythology, Mercury fathered Hermaphroditus, who had both male and female sex organs.

8. Ancient Greeks didn’t believe in heterosexual and homosexual. However they did believe in passive and active. The most common form of same-sex relationships were when an older male, the erastes, acted as a mentor and lover to a younger boy, the eromenos. They believed sperm was the source of knowledge and it was able to be ‘passed on’.

9. There was a band of 150 gay couples from Thebes who defeated a Spartan army, and went undefeated for 30 years.

10. In ancient China, homosexuality was referred to as ‘the cut sleeve’ and ‘pleasures of the bitten peach’.

11. Until the late 1400s the word ‘girl’ just meant a child of either sex. If you had to differentiate between them, male children were referred to as ‘knave girls’ and females were ‘gay girls‘.

12. The word drag is apparently an acronym, a stage direction coined by Shakespeare and his contemporaries meaning ‘Dressed Resembling A Girl’.

13. The Virginia Court in 1629 recorded the first gender ambiguity among the American colonists. A servant named Thomas(ine) Hall was officially declared by the governor to be both ‘a man and a woman’. To stop everyone else from being confused, Hall was ordered to wear articles of each sex’s clothing every day.

14. In early 17th century London, there was a gay brothel on the site where Buckingham Palace is today.

15. Nicholas Biddle, an early explorer of America, found in 1806 that among Minitarees (Native American tribe), ‘if a boy shows any symptom of effeminacy or girlish inclinations, he is put among the girls, dressed in their way, brought up with them and sometimes married to men’.

16. Uganda had a gay king. King Mwanga II, who reigned from 1884 to 1888, is widely reported to have had affairs with his male servants.

17. In the 19th century the word gay referred to a woman who was a prostitute and a gay man was a man who slept with a lot of women.

18. Homosexual men in 1900s London made up an entire slang language so they could communicate in public without fear of being arrested – Polari. Some words survived into today’s slang, such as ‘naff’ – meaning lacking style, TBH, standing for ‘to be honest’ or ‘to be had’, and tjuz, meaning to primp or improve.

19. Carmilla, a story of a lesbian vampire that preyed on young women, was written 25 years before Dracula.

20. The US has apparently already had a gay president, James Buchanan. He shacked up for 10 years with a future VP, William Rufus King, and was referred to by President Andrew Jackson as ‘Miss Nancy’ and ‘Aunt Fancy’.

21. The modern use of gay comes from gaycat, a slang term among hobos meaning a boy who accomapnies an older, more experienced tramp, with the implication of sexual favors being exchanged for protection.

22. While the monocle might have gone out of use, it had a huge following in the ‘stylish lesbian circles of the earlier 20th century’.

23. The first celebrity to come out as openly gay was Billy Haines, who came out in 1933.

24. The oldest surviving LGBT organization in the world is Netherlands’ Center for Culture and Leisure (COC), which was founded in 1946, and used a ‘cover name’ to mask its taboo purpose.

25. Gay male victims of the Holocaust, who wore the downward-facing pink triangle, were still considered to be criminals when they were freed from concentration camps. They were often sent back to prison to serve out their terms.

26. Mensa, launched in 1946, claims its name was always chosen to mean ‘table’ in Latin to demonstrate the coming together of equals. Really, it was intended to be called ‘Mens’, meaning ‘mind’. They changed it in order to avoid confusion with a men-only magazine. Not so smart.

27. The 1950s saw gay people try to change ‘homosexual’ to ‘homophile’. They hoped an emphasis on same-sex love, instead of sex, would help.

28. Playboy has been loved by straight men for decades, but it was a gay short story that built its reputation. Hugh Hefner was the only one to accept a science fiction story about heterosexuals being the minority against homosexuals in 1955. When letters poured in, he said: ‘If it was wrong to persecute heterosexuals in a homosexual society, then the reverse was wrong too.’

29. The Royal Navy commissioned a class of fast patrol boats during the 1950s which were prefixed with the word ‘gay’. Names included the Gay Bruiser and the Gay Charger.

30. While many know the handkerchief code, it was popular for gay women to wear blue stars on their wrists in the 1950s and the 1970s to identify themselves in clubs.

31. Jimi Hendrix pretended to be gay to get out of the army in 1962.

32. A 1969 sci-fi novel accurately predicted the mainstream acceptance of LGBTI people. It also predicted rise of China as a global economy, the EU, TiVO, satellite TV, laser printers and the popularity of marijuana.

33. In the 1960s, the term AC/DC became a popular slang for bisexual. It came from the abbreviations for two types of electrical currents.

34. Barbara Jordan was the first African American to be elected in Texas in 1973. She was also a woman, a Democrat, and gay. She later became the first black woman to give the keynote address at the Democratic National Convention.

35. A serial killer, the Doodler, targeted gay men in 1970s San Francisco. He would sketch his victims nude before murdering them. While three victims survived, and a suspect was identified, no one was willing to out themselves in order to convict the suspect.

36. Bruce Banner’s name was changed to David Banner in 1970s show The Incredible Hulk, as ‘Bruce’ was considered a stereotypically gay name.

37. The first openly gay doll, Gay Bob, was launched in 1977. He had a pierced ear and his box was shaped like a closet.

38. Leonard Matlovich was the first gay US service member to come out. When he died, he was buried without a name and known only as Gay Vietnam Veteran. His epitaph reads: ‘When I was in the military, they gave me a medal for killing two men and a discharge for loving one.’

39. In the early 1980s, a book claims the Naval Investigative Service was investigating homosexuality in Chicago. Having heard gay men refer to themselves as ‘friends of Dorothy’, they went on a futile search for the elusive woman clearly at the center of a homosexual ring.

40. The 1985 film Back To The Future had a deleted scene where Marty tells Doc that he’s worried hitting on his mother could make him gay.

41. Ben Affleck’s 1993 directorial debut was titled: ‘I Killed My Lesbian Wife, Hung Her on a Meat Hook, and Now I Have a Three-Picture Deal at Disney’.

42. The US government considered making a ‘gay bomb’. Scientists figured in 1994 that discharging female sex pheromones over enemy forces would make them sexually attracted to each other.

43. Doctor Who actor John Barrowman nearly got the role of Will in Will and Grace in 1998. But he lost the part when producers thought he was ‘too straight’. Barrowman is gay and Eric McCormack, who got the part, is straight.

44. Peter Tatchell, an Australian gay rights activist living in Britain, attempted a citizen’s arrest on Zimbabwean president Robert Mugabe in 1999. He walked up to Mugabe, grabbed the dictator by the arm, and said: ‘President Mugabe, you are under arrest for torture’.

45. Founded in 2004, LGBTI activists in Australia created a micronation called the Gay and Lesbian Kingdom of the Coral Sea Islands. The national flag is the LGBT color flag, the official currency is the Euro, and it still exists today.

46. A group from the Greek island of Lesbos requested a legal injunction to ban gay groups from using the word ‘lesbian’ in their names in 2008, claiming it was ‘insulting’ them around the world. It failed.

47. Chinese news agency Xinhua dubiously reported on the apparent existence of a Swedish town in 2009, a town of 25,000 lesbians forbidden to speak to men. Several Swedish tourism sites crashed due to the number of Chinese visitors.

48. In 2010, Microsoft banned a user from Xbox Live for putting Fort Gay as his address. When he tried to tell them that Fort Gay actually exists in West Virginia, it took an appeal from the town’s mayor for it to be corrected.

49. A Hong Kong billionaire offered $65 million to the man that was able to woo and marry his lesbian daughter. It didn’t work.

50. The first gay kiss to be screened in Saudi Arabia was seen in 2012. It was from UK soap Brookside, the first ever televised lesbian kiss in the UK, which originally aired in 1993. It was only thanks to the London 2012 Olympics opening ceremony.

[bates--boy]

Fever

You know, it would be easier to blame this disorganization on a busy schedule and the fact that Peter was almost never home these days, but the truth of the matter was -- dear god, the procrastination bug had hit him hard.

Though Peter had most of his belongings set up in his new place, he’s been dwelling here for, what? Five months? Five months, and the boxes and crates of trinkets and decorations still lingered down the hall and half his living room, a jungle gym that Y-Fronts and Raspixx (and occasionally Jack, the fat, lazy bastard) took advantage of to hide and play in.

Well, better late than ever, right? So, Peter twisted his hair into a bun and hitched up the sleeves of his hoodie. He played some music and opened some windows, setting up the nesting mood. He opened the boxes and crates one at a time, laying the contents out on the floor and coffee table and scurrying about to find the perfect spaces for them. 

The flags of Sweden, Finland, and Sealand lined up on a perfectly-sized space of wall, and the guitar sitting in its stand under them. His record player table and the racks of records sitting under one of the windows. He lined the windowsill with commemorative coins of his first princess, his faded desk flag, and his medals earned in the wars, one he was dragged into when he was barely knee-high, and one he foolishly flung himself into for a last-ditch and misguided attempt to win his brother’s unneeded love. Another windowsill he placed a reflective cylinder with stars and suns carved into its material, so the sunlight can cast those suns and stars all over the living room at the right angle. 

In the kitchen, his vintage and unusable, but still cute as hell, tea kettle found a place next to the working, modern tea kettle on the counter, and fake flowers that still needed dusting in the metal contraption. He tacked posters of the greatest along the walls in tasteful places throughout his home, Jimi Hendrix, Notorious B.I.G., Kurt Cobain, Tupac, ABBA, Beyonce, Utada Hikaru, and John Lundvik all gazing at him like the regal ghosts in old fashioned family portraits. 

And so it went, Peter digging his way through boxes and crates until only two remained. He knelt to the bright blue crate and popped it open. Maybe it was the dust that flew into his face, or the scent that wafted into his nose, but when he opened it, nostalgia clenched at his heart. 

A bear, its white fur tinged gray from age. This one his fathers had gifted him when he first arrived in Sweden. Big, a little flattened from years of cuddling in his sleep and squeezed during thunderstorms. The custom bow around his neck, using the colors and design of the Sealand flag, was still big and wide under his chin. Well, he wouldn’t fit properly in the living room, so Peter carried him to his bedroom, only to find that there was too little space already. Where, then? He looked around his living space, trying to figure it out. He couldn’t just stuff the bear into a closet after just getting him out the box, it didn’t sit right with him…

He turned and stopped, slapping his forehead. “Oh, right!” he exclaimed, heading to the door of the whole-ass goddamn empty room he forgot existed.

He entered, whistling in the wide, empty space. He crossed over to the window bench, much like the one in his own bedroom, the possibilities this room had swirling in his fatigued head. He had been meaning to get a couple arcade games in here, assemble an old Dance Dance Revolution setup and the Pac Mans, maybe a Foosball table and air hockey table. Oh! Or a music studio, so he can return to his music like in his old glorious high school days. Or, if he wanted to be more practical, he could set up that aerial silks rig in here and make it his training room so he would not have to keep assembling and taking down the pole and support bars every practice period.

Peter sat the bear on the window and stood back, smiling and crossing his arms, feeling like he’s meeting an old friend when he stared into those glass brown eyes and watching the lifeless thing slump over. He imagined making this bench like the bed he used to sleep on when he was younger, even before his fathers rescued him from isolation. Like his old bed in the fort, he imagined his scratchy, cotton candy pink blanket, long gone to the time that flew by and snatched it away, draping on the bear and pillows piled on it. Maybe he’d set up a knee-high bookshelf next to it like the one he used to have in his old bedroom on the fort, the one filled with picture books like The Adventures of Winnie-the-Pooh and The Little House, or all the Tales of Beatrix Potter.

Or...Or…

It caught him like a fever, sudden and unexpected, though was it really unexpected? It was just a long-held dream, inspired by the love of his adoptive family, resurfacing as he made a slow, unsteady spin in the spot he stood in. Where he once saw the arcade games, he saw a chest, a unique one made by his and his fathers’ and uncles’ hands, overflowing with toys. Where he saw that hockey table, he saw a crib, and instead of the silks he’d purchased, he saw a mobile hanging with miniature airplanes or bunnies and flowers or cats and dogs. With his ownership of this flat, he was allowed to have these plain white walls painted with pastel colors, or a scene from Where the Wild Things Are. He could commission Heike! Or Wy! 

A diaper changing station near the corner…

A closet full of the best clothes his money can buy…

Nightlights! Plenty of them, to scare away all the monsters...

Peter nearly tripped on his own unsteady footing, stumbling as the buzz swallowed him whole. He moved the bear to sit and placed it on his lap, hugging it to himself. This came so easy to other people, but for him, the thoughts had his breathing just as unsteady and weak as his legs. He gazed around the room, not seeing the emptiness, but the warmth and love and shelter it will help him provide. It was painful, it was an ache, it was a scream, a shout, a cry of joy. 

Peter’s gaze fell to a point just in front of him, where the sweetest thing to ever grace this planet toddled to him, all plumpness and rosy cheeks and dimples and sticky chins, reached their hands up to him.

Up! Up, Da-da!

And when he reached out, only to find air, it left him shuddering. He returned his hand to the bear, squeezing, staring into the absence, the potential for love, with tears trailing down his face.

“Oh…” he murmured. Then, the compulsion overcame the stun, and he pulled out his phone from his hoodie’s front pocket.

Google: Foster care request in Sweden.