#same mindset! same priorities!! if only the world was kinder!!

[andreacsenge]

[fairycosmos]

holy shit so im korean and i got monolids and I FUCKINF HATE THEM SO MUCH..... the white boys in my school think its funnt to pull on them whilw the girls poke fun at how i have “kpop eyes” and masacara gets Everywhere and Fuck Im so pissed that i cant afford those eyelid surgeries brcause i hate myself and my stupid fuckinf ching chong useless mono-fucking-lids sorry for rant im just. done!!!!!

FUUUUCK the racist dumb fucking white boys at your school, holy shit. what the hell is wrong w people. you have every right to be hurt and mad about this, even if it's painful. it's totally natural to be annoyed, pissed off, sad etc and to process those emotions however you need to. cry about it, write about it, talk about it. im fuckin proud of you for getting to this point and still going to school and making an effort. i know confronting this type of issue is usually a lot more nuanced than simply trying to ignore them or whatever. so is there any way you could talk to a teacher about this, report it for what it is? bullying, racism ignorance and absolute delusion - seriously, these assholes are so fuckin brain dead it's unreal. they have nothing going on in their heads. and you don't deserve to have to put up with that. at the same time, they need to be reprimanded for their behaviour somehow. and maybe if you ask the school for help, they'll be able to support you and keep you out of their vicinity as much as possible. their priority should be your safety and education, there has to be something they can do. i don't know what your school is like and i get that a lot of them are useless when it comes to this sort of thing, but it's always worth a shot. there's policies they must abide by and procedures to put in place. if there's any adult offering help, a teacher or a counselor or even your parents to begin with, don't be afraid to tell them what's going on. it's scary at first, and maybe your mind will want to reject the idea, but it'll make your life easier in the long run. you truly don't have to deal with this alone. the initial act of reaching out is the most difficult part, but it doesn't have to be a huge deal to do right by yourself. please just consider it for now, and know that it is always an option.

i understand that bullying can really fuck up your self esteem like, ive been out of school for like a year and what i experienced still gets to me. but with personal growth, focusing on your mental health and a network of support your perception of yourself will improve over time. it's inevitable. confidence and the ability to self soothe comes with age, sooner than you realize. when you begin to accept who you are bc you can't change it, when you learn that seeing yourself as an object is a scam you're brainwashed into cause it's profitable, when you recognize all of the ways you can experience this world that have nothing to do with appearance and pleasing others - everything changes. your mindset shifts bit by bit. you're just young rn so this feels like everything, and it absolutely is a big deal but it's not all that you are. school is such a bubble. point is, it genuinely won't always feel like this, no matter how permanent it seems in the moment. at the end of the day the behaviour of these racists is literally a reflection of them and the type of people they are, it has nothing to do with you or what you look like or anything you've done. it is not your fault and your identity is not dictated by their words. they'd find a 'problem' with anyone because they're the ones with the issue and they're insecure as helllll. not only that, but you get to live with the knowledge that you're a better, kinder, smarter and cooler person than they'll ever be in their whole lives. maybe that doesn't matter to you right now but it's a significant underlying fact. i really hope you're able to get to a place of appreciation for your race, your appearance and most of all yourself regardless of what these idiots think. again, im not sayin you're wrong to be effected bc obviously that's not the case. but even trying to accept that your worth doesn't hinge on other people, or whether or not you have monolids, is a good place to start. im seriously rooting for u. these kids will get what's coming to them eventually. try to focus on confronting one day at a time, and when that feels like too much, one hour at a time. even a minute at a time is good enough. and always remember that you have a choice to lean on those who care for you even if you don't want to. you have nothing at all to be ashamed of. anyway this got long i could go on forever bc i just can't fuckin believe but.....if you need a friend or if you want to rant, i'll be here. sending a lot of warmth and strength to you love.

[skeletorific]

Hey there, not sure if you're still doing HCs...? But if so, how would the bros (UT, UF, US, SF) react to finding out their s/o's seemingly mundane phobia? Like would some brush it off until s/o's literally having a panic attack?? Or immediately sympathize/console and what would they say?? Having a bit of trouble myself ATM and could use some positive vibes

lets ignore the fact that im stealing @popatochisssp ask format because i think its really good for this kind of thing asdsfadkj also I added the HT!boys because I’ve been thinking about them lately

Brushes it off until things escalate: Sans, Red, Edge

Immediately sympathizes/consoles: Crooks, Papyrus, Blue

Tries to fight the phobia and forgets to comfort you: Black

Doesn’t brush it off but doesn’t know how to comfort you either so is just stuck awkwardly patting your back: Rus, Stretch, Axe

UT!Sans: Sans isn’t great with emotions like fear. He prefers to keep a handle on things at all times, cover it in a thin layer of bad jokes, and then shove it to the back of his mind. He doesn’t write you off intentionally, its more than he kind of assumes that comforting you would make things worse, because that’s how it would make him feel. So, in typical Sans fashion, he ignores the problem until it literally can’t be ignored anymore

UT!Papyrus: Regarding his own weird fears he actually tends close to Sans, in that he prefer to cover them up. However, nothing makes him happier than feeling like he’s his s/o’s protector, so he jumps at the opportunity to shield you from even the most mundane of problems. If anything you might have to talk him down a bit to stop him from essentially bubbling you away from trouble

UF!Sans: what do you mean living with a constant, low level of fear isn’t normal. Chin up buttercup. He’s not intentionally being a dick, necessarily, but especially if the phobia is something small, it can be really hard for him to get it in his thick skull that you’re not just overreacting. The first time it happens he’s almost certainly gonna be teasing you the whole way through....right up until he notices you’re shaking. 

The good news is that his behavior significantly improves after the first panic attack. Whether he understands the fear or not, making you feel safe around him is priority one. He’ll still probably tease you about it, but he’ll tone it down and tune himself in a little more to how you’re doing.

UF!Papyrus: Edge also comes from the “toughen up��� school of thought when it comes to fears. He’s intimately familiar with what its like to be scared, but phobias are more complex in nature and they can be harder for him to understand. It may even take a few moments of you panicking to get him to stop trying to make you “snap out of it”. Its a bad first time. Like his brother, he learns his lesson, and while he’s never a great consoler, he’s good about getting you away from it, and good about not letting anyone give you shit for it. His ultimate goal will be to get you over it, meaning he’ll be consistently recommending exposure therapy, but if it really bothers you he’ll keep his mouth shut.

US!Sans: Blue’s very high on empathy in general. If it freaks you out chances are he’s gonna be catching some secondhand anxiety, meaning he wants to be away from whatever it is almost as much as you do. His comfort methods are usually touch based, just trying to keep you in close and tight  and make sure you feel protected

US!Papyrus: combining Sans’ emotional ineloquence with Papyrus’ desire to be his s/o’s protector is a hell of a cocktail sometimes. He’s not as capable of just training himself to ignore it, but he also doesn’t know how to walk you back. As a result his methods usually tend to be distraction based, whether that’s turning on some music or just making out with you to get your mind off it. He’s stumbling, but he’s trying.

SF!Sans: Nobody and nothing scares his partner. He takes a very Papyrus approach by trying to become your protector, and depending on what your phobia is he develops a habit of being aggressive towards it. Spiders are killed. People who try to get you to go to high places are told off. If its thunderstorms you swear he’ll be trying to fight it. He means well in a way that’s honestly adorable, but don’t say that to his face.

SF!Papyrus: He’s not good with comfort words, much like Stretch, but you know what he is good with? Charming. It is really, really hard to keep your focus on whatever is freaking you out when he’s talking in that particular tone of voice and layering on that many compliments. If the phobia can be removed, he’ll do that first, and there are times when the panic is too great to be taken out by flirting. In those cases he tends to just hide you both away somewhere until the shaking stops. But in general he wants you to be more worried about whether your face is as red as it feels than any phobia

HT!Sans: Needless to say, he’s intimately aware with fear. What it feels like. How to cause it. And how to control it. Axe isn’t really known for his consoling abilities. In general, he’s emotionally closed off. In his world fear wasn’t something you comforted. It was something you either survived, or you didn’t. Even post-Surface its hard to break out of that mindset .But if you’re his s/o you’ve entered into the limited set of people he cares about, meaning he’s at least trying. As he tries to stammer out words of comfort and crush you to his side, its gruff, and its clumsy but.....from him? Its a lot.

HT!Papyrus: Crooks understand fear like Axe does. Perhaps more so, given that more often than not, he was the victim rather than the cause. But all that experience with fear has only served to make him kinder. He’s a grade a consoler. For once, his nervous tremors fade away as he calmly reminds you that he won’t let you get hurt, that you are safe, and cared for. He is able to do it well, because you’ve had to do the same for him so many times. Crooks is always gentle with you, but today its especially so, as he keeps you distracted and happy as much as possible

[nightwingmyboi]

Ahh, but this is literally the mindset that I’m always complaining about. As anon stated in the ask even, Dick was undercover at Spyral (because Bruce beat Dick into doing so, despite his protests [x]) and Bruce was his only contact to the outside world. Bruce did not allow Dick any other backup plan, so when Bruce lost his memory, Dick was completely in the dark about what was happening, in an incredibly precarious undercover mission, surrounded by potential enemies. Dick didn’t know that Bruce had amnesia, he didn’t even know that Damian was alive. So, Dick had zero say on whether Bruce was told about Batman, and was in the exact same boat as the rest of his siblings in that he followed Alfred’s lead on the matter. 

You’re coming away from all that with the sense that Dick looks bad. Really. Once again, Dick is far away, not even involved in what’s happening, and it is still somehow his fault when things go wrong. Are you kidding me. 

You also pretty much missed the point of this post. We were not at all talking about the pros and cons of telling or hiding from amnesiac superheroes the truth about their secret identities. Anon was comparing the family’s approaches and mindsets in these two scenarios.

With Bruce, the main concern is what he wants. Whether he’s happy. Even when Bruce unintentionally left him out to dry when he really needed him, the first thing Dick asks when he meets this new Bruce Wayne is:

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“Are you happy?” Dick’s main concern is for Bruce’s wellbeing, not for his own. And this is a mindset the rest of the family shares. It also really wasn’t a matter of Alfred trying to hide from Bruce the fact that he was Batman either. If you read through the panels I originally posted, Alfred is telling Bruce the whole story. But Bruce asks for him to stop and says that he doesn’t want to remember, and Alfred respects that request and doesn’t force Bruce to do something he doesn’t want.

I don’t really appreciate you calling Alfred an idiot lmao. He’s just trying to do the best he can for the man he considers his son. I would say that I agree that someone should have been there for Damian, but you’ll notice that none of the family members that knew that Damian was alive (ie Jason, Tim, Barbara, and Alfred) stepped up to be there for him. It is interesting that you are not similarly critical of them for their inaction, especially since they were characters who were actually around. 

Now, look at how Dick having amnesia was handled. If Bruce thought that it was important that Dick knew the truth, he could have talked him through it as Alfred did for him. But instead, he choose to reveal the truth in a way that re-traumatized Dick, and had him running out of the manor in a panic. 

I feel like it is that moment where it is most obvious that Bruce is only thinking of himself. Dick is horrified and scared because of Bruce’s actions, and when faced with Dick’s distress, Bruce does not apologize or ask if Dick is alright. He yells that it is unacceptable that Dick’s memory has not returned to him. The evil brainwashing Court of Owls lady comes off as the more reasonable, kinder figure in the scene. That is not a great look.

Similarly, when Barbara visits Ric in Bludhaven, lets see what Barbara’s first priority is: 

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“I’m here to help you remember.” She doesn’t ask Dick if he’s doing alright, doesn’t ask what he needs. Her main concern is trying to get Dick’s memories back. She tells Dick to come back to the manor. He refuses, and that’s it. She’s aware that he’s homeless, living out of a cab. She’s aware that he was just shot in the head, has forgotten most of his skills as a vigilante, and is completely vulnerable in a rough city like Bludhaven. And she leaves him to that, doesn’t compromise, doesn’t give him any money, doesn’t seem to care about his circumstances. Her main concern is that “He doesn’t realize we need him. He doesn’t realize...I need him.” 

This is what anon was drawing our attention to...that in very similar circumstances, one of these people is being viewed and cared for as an individual with emotions and wants, while the other is being viewed in terms of usefulness and utility, and is disregarded when he can no longer meet his family’s needs. 

The thing that gets me about Ric Grayson is that when Bruce lost his memory a couple years ago, everyone bent over backwards to give him an idyllic life. Including Dick, despite Bruce being his only connection while he was an a dangerous undercover mission while everyone thought he was dead. But the family can't even give Dick the courtesy of waiting until his bandages are removed to try to press him into service again. I'm sure it's been said before, but it annoys me every time I think of it.

Jesus, I hadn’t even thought about that. But you’re so right. Seeing Alfred gently talking Bruce through his history: 

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And allowing him to make the choice to do what he wishes with his life, even if that means no longer being Batman, no longer even knowing about Batman and living with that weight, no longer being there for his own children...hell, Alfred even encouraged that choice, and everyone bended over backwards so that that could happen, wanting Bruce to be happy first and foremost. And he got to be an amnesiac billionaire, with all the money in the world, a fancy house, etc. 

And take that in comparison to Dick, who, yeah, is still in recovery, being taken down to the Batcave and abruptly told he was Nightwing and shown that video of him being shot in the head...unlike with Bruce, there is zero consideration about “what’s best for Dick here?” and “what would he want?” and “what does he need right now?” They really were just like, welp, have to get Nightwing back on the streets ASAP and this is the fastest way to do it. Don’t care if it might hurt him to make that happen. 

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With his family’s main concern being that the guy who was just shot in the head isn’t there for them when they need him...and then he’s homeless and alone. Literally night and day. Big yikes man. 

[rockiesturnrose]

I’m back on the nonsense of wanting both to run a D&D campaign and wanting to play in one. I don’t know. Or I just miss character creation and having a creative outlet so much I’m developing stories. NEITHER ARE GOOD.

(Apparently I’m the D&D player who’s like “Here are seven pages of backstory that fits into the confines of your universe, and here are nine things you could do to my character to make the narrative interesting.” My DM, meanwhile, is more the ‘looks like it’s time you fight a bunch of ogres and some wolves and I’ll tangentially work in some backstory maybe.’ It’s fine, it works for me, but it also forces me to write out things I wish would happen)

So I made Sarya’s mother for the sake of Sarya, you know, having a mother. And then thought ‘this woman has got a little hellion sorcerer who was born in the Feywilds. What the fuck did she do with her life?  So the basics are:

-Sarya’s mother, Eslen is an elf who, at age 200-something, decided she needed to see the world. I had a discussion with one of my fellow D&Ders about elves, and he thought it would be kind of interesting if they were like Asari. You know, they’re ‘children’ for a hundred years or so, then a lot of them go off to join mercenary bands and live a crazy few years of wild hedonistic abandon, only to eventually settle down after a century or so. Eslen is like that. Whenever her ‘campaign’ started, she was in the middle of her hedonistic lifestyle phase—joining mercenary bands, exploring the world, sleeping with anything that showed interest, and drinking herself silly a lot. (I picture her looking like Missy Peregrym) (AT THE MOMENT THIS IS ALWAYS SUBJECT TO CHANGE).

-As per a character sheet I just kinda drew up for her, she’s a wood elf Rogue with the Scout archetype, and the outlander background. She was originally a ranger, but I decided that one thing she really wanted to learn was how to pick pockets and cheat at cards, and sleight of hand isn’t a ranger thing.

-Peren Abrase is a High Elf wizard that she randomly encountered one day. Elves, I’ve decided, are kind of…rare to see alone. You see them as part of a delegation, but never wandering alone, mainly because the general mindset among them is that ~lesser~ humanoids will taint them. So unless they have a wild sense of wanderlust like Eslen, you’ll only meet them if you go to them. Peren was actually innocently minding his own business when this wildchild elf was like “OH MY GOD NEW BEST FRIEND” and he realized he was stuck with her.

-Eslen never bothered asking Peren what he was doing out in the ~wild~. When they join up with other people, he gives off the vibe that he’s running from a dark past and doesn’t invite questions. And, weirdly, no one does question. They respect that his past is tough for him. 

-In reality, he’s basically Elven Royalty who feels like he’s being pressured into accepting a…a crown, or something? Or he’s exiled for something he did. Or for his own safety. I didn’t think this through for him. But I’m leaning toward ‘exiled to keep him safe while his family figures out who’s plotting against them and their throne. I don’t think he’ll end up being the first in line, but he’s pretty damn close. But his entire party knows he keeps his secrets close at hand. It’s annoying, but considering nothing from his past ever really comes chasing after them, they don’t care.

-Eslen, not being a High Elf and also having been cut off from elven politics for the last 75 years (again ,you don’t run into a lot of elves outside of their cities, so she wouldn’t be well informed), doesn’t know anything about internal elven struggles. So she never connects any dots and also doesn’t give a shit.

-One of their party is a human fighter-type named Matrin. He’s unabashedly from a shit background—urchin, charlatan, something of the like, and he owns that. But he’s confident, funny, and attractive. Rough around the edges, but not unwilling to learn. Eslen likes him immediately, and they occasionally decide to use the other to blow off steam. Basically their first meeting is ‘wanna get drunk?’ ‘I’m already halfway there, get on my level!’ ‘Wanna makeout?’ ‘DUDE YES’

-...though maybe not? Maybe they just click and there’s like..unresolved sexual tension/mutual attraction there that’s complicated by other dynamics. 

-Peren doesn’t like Matrin, somewhat because of his background and his boisterous nature, but also because along the way, before they joined up with these other assholes, Peren has developed feelings for Eslen. Feelings that he initially rejected for a myriad of reasons, but really can’t fight anymore. Feelings he doesn’t know how to bring up (I imagine him as not only being demisexual/demiromantic, but also as not having a lot of romantic experience in general. Eslen’s more promiscuous life style and mindset is…strange to him).  And he resents Matrin for having Eslen’s affection, when he thinks he’d be a much better choice. 

-Matrin, meanwhile, likes Eslen just fine but he wouldn’t exactly say he’s in love with her. At least, not initially. She’s a great friend and a fantastic drinking partner, and like, he imagines the sex would be uncomplicated and fun, not that he thinks about that all that much. He doesn’t get what Peren’s problem is, mainly because Peren doesn’t spit that out either, just seethes when he sees them together.

-Eslen starts developing feelings for Peren. Oh, she’s not exactly pleased about it because he’s a stuck up jackass who doesn’t talk about himself like a normal human, but he’s also a friend and there’s something loveable behind all those walls.

-Matrin might actually fall in love with Eslen, but by that time he’s noticed she’s got the hots for the grumpy wizard as well and he’s convinced elf/elf just makes more sense. Like, he’s a human and will die long before Eslen. So might as well just give up now and let her find true happiness with the elf she totally likes, but won’t admit to liking. His thinking is something like ‘if I cut ties with her, she’ll realize she belongs with Perren and it’ll be simpler’. Spoiler, it won’t be.

-Which means at some point Matrin and Eslen just (mutually?) decide to stop acting flirty with each other? Or something? They put up walls, basically, though maybe only Matrin does? Or he downplays/quashes his attraction in the hopes she’ll do the same/not question him. I don’t know why, maybe Matrin is starting to sense the bad energy coming from Peren. Maybe Eslen is sensing it. Maybe whatever quest they’re on isn’t conducive to carrying on with this bad energy starting. Whatever, something happens.

- Near the end of the ‘campaign’ Eslen and Peren mutually acknowledge that they have feelings for each other. Maybe it’s just been a tense and emotional day and they seek solace with each other. But Eslen is wary of really starting anything with him because she really knows so little about him. 

-There are probably some opportunities that arise where Eslen wants to tell Peren she wouldn’t be averse to starting something with him, officially. But every time she thinks she’s found a way past his walls, he throws something else at her. So she eventually makes it clear to him that, while she loves him, she’s not putting up with his bullshit. Either he trusts her with everything, or they won’t work out. He promises to let her in after they finish this grand quest, since telling her before that seems distracting and pointless, and she considers the matter settled.

- Once they survive whatever the final battle is, they agree to tie up some loose ends and meet at the inn where everything began so they can start their life together. Peren intends to give up his title, but the situation is infinitely more complicated than first expected (Like if he was sent into exile for protection, he learns that the enemies have found him and are going to try and take him out?? Or his dad dies and suddenly his brother is in charge and needs him to stay on as adviser or something because the alternative is Not Good for the Elves?) Whatever the case, he doesn’t think it’s a thing Eslen would want to be part of/it’s something that would put her in peril. He figures a clean break will be kinder than showing up with more excuses and a whole set of baggage and basically thrusting her into this life she probably doesn’t want, so he just…never shows up at the inn. 

-Look, I’m a huge fan of the ‘I wanted to tell you but I didn’t want it to change the way you looked at me’ thing. Peren is convinced Eslen only liked him because he was ~more down to earth~ then the Elven nobility she’d constantly roll her eyes about. Also he’s a high elf and she’s a wood elf, so I’m imagining a kind of...class divide there where wood elves aren’t very high on the High Elf Sovereign’s List of Priorities because they’re less adept with magic. He’s terrified that if he came to her and was like ‘okay so basically I’m actually your sovereign-to-be but I do love you’ she’d reject him because she’d believe he was just using her for a lark. It’s a damned if you do, damned if you don’t situation, as far as he can see. Either he tells her the truth and she rejects him for lying, or he just...doesn’t ever see him again. Either way, he believes he’s getting rejected.

-Meanwhile, during the campaign, Matrin secretly makes a deal with someone in the Feywild to act as their protector if they grant them some help during this battle. Or something. Basically, he makes this agreement to marginally raise their already slim chances of winning, while fully believing he’s not actually going to make it out alive. But he does, and once the adventure is over he has to come to terms with the fact he has five years left on his own plane before he goes to serve the Fey. Feeling aimless (what’s he going to accomplish in five years?) he returns to the same inn Eslen is currently waiting at, trying to figure out how he got to where he his now

-He finds Eslen essentially wallowing in sadness. Offers her a choice-she can continue waiting for the stuck up asshole, or she can join him in crossing the world and righting wrongs and just having fun. She chooses the latter. So, again, she still has no clue that Peren is actually like…huge Elven royalty. She has no clue what is happening with her people because she chooses not to go back.

-These two finally act on the UST/restart their prior arrangement, and it devolves (evolves?) into legitimate feelings of love after like...a romantic dance or something. Because that’s also a very good trope

-They know their time together is limited, so it’s not like they promise each other much. Just companionship and happiness for a few years. Except with 5 months to go before his bargain comes due, Eslen discovers she’s pregnant. Matrin is overjoyed, but also a man of his word. The Fey he made a bargain with, though, is like ‘Dude I’m not just going to pull you away from your pregnant girlfriend. She can come with!’

-And Eslen does! She lives in the Feywild long enough to give birth to their daughter, Calise. But Matrin definitely doesn’t want his daughter growing up in this strange and terrifying place, and he’d prefer if Eslen is safe. Her choice, ultimately, and she decides he’s right. Besides, he’ll earn vacation time. He can come visit one day. So she takes her newborn and heads back to her home settlement after nearly a century away. 

-Of course, by then the elven political situation has calmed down, so if she hears about High Lord Sabrae, she assumes it’s the old fucker who was around when she left home almost a century ago. She doesn’t know it’s switched over to his son, and if she does learn it again, doesn’t concern her much. She’s from a small settlement (and she’s a wood elf, which in this world is kind of lower on the rung than high elves. I dunno, magic is super important and wood elves don’t show as much ability with it) they don’t get royal visitors. She can raise her little half-elf in as much peace and safety as possible-at least until Calise’s own story starts up. Then the fun happens. 

-Calise latches onto the ring that Peren gave Eslen as a promise and assumes that because her mom won’t talk about either the ring or Calise’s father, the two are related. She eventually stumbles into (a branch of) the elven high court and meets Peren, whose acting as a high and mighty adviser for his Brother the King, or something. He immediately recognizes the ring and thereby discovers the love of his life had a kid. With someone else. But he tells Calise there’s probably no way her father is in the elven lands. 

-Peren, who has tried so hard to not think about Eslen for the past 20-odd years, is now given a Sad. But he also now knows where Eslen is, so he goes to visit her. Basically, he thinks seeing her daughter is a sign that maybe it’s time to make amends

-So he goes, and she is NOT PLEASED but also kind of is because she still loves him. And he finally explains everything and begs her forgiveness and hopefully asks if the two can be friends again

-Eslen is...well, she’s touched that he did this, even if it took thirty years. But she also knows he could’ve gone another 300 without seeing her, if he’d wanted to. But she lets him know she’d be amenable to friendship, even as she lets it slip that she still kind of loves him. Which makes him hopeful. 

-they probably end up sleeping together. And re-establishing their relationship. Even though she tells him she also still loves Matrin

-Maybe Matrin comes back for a prolonged vacation and the three enter into an arrangement. Polyamory could solve so many triangle problems...

-Oh GOD I MISS WRITING. If you see snippets about this, don’t be surprised.