#salmacianflux

[transenbyconfessions]

I have identified openly as non-binary for nearly a year now, and have had bottom dysphoria nearly all my life and have always felt incomplete without a penis and thus have desired to have a mixed genital set for a long time (which I have recently learned is usually called Salmacian now). But lately I find myself troubled by the fact that I can see both the advantages and disadvantages of having either a clitoris or a penis at different times and I wonder if that means I'm genderfluid. However, it's not my sense of gender identity that changes when I consider or desire these things, but just my sense of what is practical or pleasurable about female vs male vs mixed anatomy in different situations. A part of me is even worried this means I'm not *genuinely* non-binary, and I know most people will default to saying "you're valid" but I guess that doesn't really resolve my questions about what this means or if it changes anything. I don't feel cisgender or want to change anything about my presentation but I guess even just having a label and knowing others feel the same might make me feel at least somewhat better and that my dysphoria is real and I'm not just claiming to have it for some other reason. I think I've seen exactly one mention of the term "salmacianflux" on the internet and not that many people seem to talk about the desire for mixed genitals in non-binary spaces, but more about secondary sex characteristics and how others see them, so I sometimes feel like the odd one out for having so much of my identity revolve around primary characteristics.

[queerflagswithbenton]

Bigenitalflux

Bigenital/Salmacian- One who desires/seeks to have a mixed genital set of some kind. (example: Penis and a vagina, or anything in-between that could be considered mixed genitalia (breasts and a penis for example)) This may or may not be a form of nonbinary dysphoria depending on the person. A bigential person may also identify as binary gender. Sex/genitals =/= Gender identity. Bigenitalflux/Salmacianflux- desiring a mixed genital set, but that desire fluctuates in intensity. Perhaps due to conflicting dysphorias (ex hating having a vagina at times but wishing for a penis as well as a vagina at others) , or from bursts of body repulsion,or for any other reason.

Coined by: me @bentonthefoxkin (Bigenitalflux specifically, not the original term Bigenital) 

Flag designed by: me, using the bigenital flag as the base/middle. Nothing too special done on my end.

The second flag is all the colors just lightened to give a more fluctuation feel to it I guess?

[ihatetransphobes]

okay so im rly pissed rn because. you're autistic but you're self - diagnosed like ?? honey if u think u may have autism get it professionally diagnosed like. my brother and friend are both autistic and i think they'd both take great offense to somebody who has been self - diagnosing. also , panfluidflux, salmacianflux/bigenital flux sounds like two fluids that would make us have horrible reflux. sorry! :o)

I can’t get professionally diagnosed right now because of where I am in my life. Trust me, if I could, I would! I plan to try in the future when I’m able to. Until then, my self diagnosis is all I have, And I know multiple autistic people who are professionally diagnosed who have no problem with my self diagnosis! So before you go and say “Well I, an allistic person, think two autistic people I know would be offended by you” why don’t you either figure out for sure or fuck off. Thanks! 

Oh and thanks for fucking triggering my phobia with that last remark! How nice of you. Why don’t you come off of anon, sweetheart, say it to my face next time and stop being so scared

[dumbassesdottungl]

one time, this person followed me, which is cool i guess. but, in their bio, it literally said: "I'm Panfluidflux, Salmacianflux/Bigenitalflux. Cey/Cem pronouns, please!" uh? translation please!

Attraction to all genders of varying intensity that sometimes goes away, desiring mixed genitalia with fluctuating dysphoria, neopronouns. So… pansexual dysphoric nonbinary. 

-Mod Alexiel