#sage gen 3

[wonderpetals]

and my little music and gamer girl 💜

[storiesbyjes2g]

3.187 Passing the keys

That night, I went back to the rental website to fill the vacancy because it didn't make sense to wait. The house had been sitting all this time, waiting to generate income for us, and it was past time I did something about it. I decided to rent to the older gentlemen, but his application was no longer available. I was kind of bummed because I had already formed a picture in my mind of what he would be like based on the information he shared on the application, and now I'd have to start over. The plus side is that I found a young family like I originally wanted, so I accepted their application right away. In the morning, I got a notification saying they had moved in already, so I went over there after breakfast to introduce myself and get to know them. The application stated they were a married couple with twin infants. The house wasn't exactly setup for two babies, but they can make it work.

As I approached the door, I overheard them arguing, and my whole body tensed up. They reminded me of Mama's friends, who stayed with us and argued literally day and night. I hope to the Watcher these two are not like that. I pressed my ear to the door to see if I could get an idea of what the issue was. It turns out the woman was flustered because she saw a lost dog who needed help but ignored it. She felt guilty about it and wanted to go back and find the dog, but the husband didn't get it. He was very dismissive and said dogs get lost all the time and it was none of her business if someone can't keep track of their animal. Oh boy. This better not be a bad omen. I knocked, hoping to interrupt him berating her, and they let me in. Owen and Jilliana Sage are their names. Owen works at a store and seemed to have a good sense of humor, so maybe he's not so bad. Jilliana is more serious and super smart. She works at the space center, but I don't remember what she said she does there.

She tried to introduce me to the babies, Xavier and Zahava, but they both started screaming because Owen had the TV way too loud. Xavier calmed down enough to let me hold him, though. He was so tiny and made me miss Desiree at that age. I didn't intend to spend the day with them, and they clearly had things to do, so I told them to call me if they needed anything and made my exit.

I had to pass by Chi Chi's house on the way back home, so I stopped by to tell her we were moving to Gibbs Gardens soon. She was bummed about not being around the corner from us anymore, but relieved we weren't leaving the city. Behind her eyes, however, there seemed to be more than just disappointment at losing her favorite neighbor. I asked if something was wrong, and in Chi Chi-like fashion, I got way more than I bargained for.

As she began this tale, my initial reaction was to beat myself up again about not being a good friend because the details of her story started a while ago. But I stopped those thoughts before my brain ran away with them. We all have super busy lives. No one has time to be involved at such a granular level anymore, and no one is expecting us to know everything. I am a good friend, and I don't have to know every detail to prove it. Come to think about it, my friends—minus Dub—know less about me than I know about them. Needless, I'm done with stressing myself about this.

Chi Chi's woes began with her birthday a few weeks back. Like many women her age (especially when they are as fine as she is), she didn't handle the adult birthday well. Of course, she knew her body would change, but like me, seeing it hit differently. Between that and the little lines creeping from the corners of her eyes and across her forehead, she's feeling frumpy. I almost laughed. She is still one of the most beautiful women I've ever seen. Frumpy where?? She would turn heads wearing a paper bag. I bet she could gain 300 pounds, shave off her hair, and still have a trail of thirsty men following her everywhere. Still, if the aging stuff was the only thing she had to deal with, she would be fine in time. The problem is all her other worries reinforce the aging issues, and she is struggling. The short version of the story is her life has not turned out how she imagined. She once told me she wanted to remarry and have more kids, but all the dates she's been on led nowhere. Now, as an adult, she's thinking about giving up on that dream, especially when she's about to be a grandmother! Karmine, her daughter, is grown grown now. She moved her boyfriend into the house without even discussing it. Then, she got pregnant and moved out, so Chi Chi is all alone in the house with nothing but these crushing thoughts to keep her company, and she's not doing that great.

I had no idea if it would help, but I decided to share my midlife crisis story. It felt wrong at first because I never told Sophia I was struggling, but if Chi Chi can walk away feeling better, the discomfort will be worth it. Even though her story is different, I identified with everything she said because I realized life rarely turns out exactly how we plan. The reason is because we never factor in trouble or change. Our plans are always perfect and positive. When change and trouble comes, we feel out of control, like our world is falling apart. But the world isn't falling apart. It's the same as it always was. We just haven't taken off our rose-colored glasses yet.

I told Chi Chi everything would be okay, and she should look at it from a positive perspective. Because she's not starting a new family, and is an empty nester, she's got so much extra time to do all those bucket list things she's been looking forward to. And since she won't have any young children to raise, she has time to time to be super grandma and help her daughter through those oh so difficult first two stages. She's still really young and can reinvent herself if she wanted. And when love finally finds her again, and I believe it will, it will be all about them with no one else coming between them. They'll grow old together and be annoyingly in love.

Like I said, I have no clue if my little pep talk helped, but at least I left her smiling. Kinda like grieving, she'll find her way to accepting her new normal, and when she does, she'll appreciate the picture I painted for her.

[sage-writes-n-coins-mogai]

What G3 Monster high dolls I want and why (in no particular order)

Core refresh Draculaura

I plan to use this particular doll as a base doll for a doll customisation project :3

Fearbook Twyla:

She’s autistic, just like me fr + Creepover Twyla isn’t available in my country yet and I don’t feel comfortable buying overseas via eBay yet. But I WILL be getting every other Twyla until she’s here!

Neon Frights Twyla:

I love Twyla, and she looks sooooo cute in this outfit >w<

Scare-dise Island Draculaura + Frankie:

Fun fact the first G1 doll I got as a kid was a beach theme Draculaura so I want the G3 version for nostalgic reasons while Frankie just looks so swag here and I want them in my hoard <3

Fearbook Torelei:

I’ll be honest, I don’t like Torelei’s Signature doll because of her long hair + skirt, and she’s a short hair + pants girlie in my heart so I really like the Fearbook Torelei and will be striving to obtain her :3

Core Refresh (?) Clawdeen:

Looks better than the Signature Clawdeen doll + I want that brush >:3

Signature Venus:

Beautiful stunning black coded queen. No further elaboration needed.

Signature Ghoulia:

I kinda only want her because she’s a gamer + she’s Frankie’s friend in the show. Everyone seems to hate her but I think she’s cute :3

Skulltimate Scerets Clawdeen + Neon Frights Frankie:

I don’t NEED these two to feel like me my collection is complete but they look nice and if they’re on sale or I can get them cheaper on eBay or something than I will get them :3

[banana-sims]

A little bit of uncle/nephew bonding. They're only 5 years apart so it's cute!

[justasimblr]

The Tanners hold a family reunion and the house is overrun with Hills, Tanners, Greys and Millers. It is a loud, but merry affair to gather everyone.

[sadsoftserve]

I got a bit silly last night. I might color this later, maybe.

[children-of-epiales]

What type of Love is your OC?

Tagged by @voidika to do this quiz!

Renata

love that strengthens

you make sure that people know that they are loved, and you give them strength when they need it the most. this is an ability that is rare; the love that you hold speaks wonders of yourself. i hope you're doing alright. isn't it exhausting always being the bigger person?

Sage

love that strengthens

you make sure that people know that they are loved, and you give them strength when they need it the most. this is an ability that is rare; the love that you hold speaks wonders of yourself. i hope you're doing alright. isn't it exhausting always being the bigger person?

Coyote

love that protects

you love so fiercely, with every fibre of your being. maybe you were wounded by love in the past ; such that you choose to love and love and love so wonderfully that the next person who comes into your life never doubts that they are loved by you.

Nemesis

love that calms

this is sweet. i hope you know that you make others feel at ease around you. you're a gem, a blessing, a treasure – and you should know it. it's comfortable loving you. it's a privilege to be around you and to be let into your world.

Tagging: @jillvalentinesday @shegetsburned @unbindingkerberos @scentedcandleibex @jinfromyarikawa

[annacake]

[cowplantwhim]

The twins aged up! Basil is a green fiend and Sage rolled the mean trait, help me with this girl

[torterragarden]

Got a Feebas babeeeeeey (I waited to catch anything on route 119 until Feebas would be guaranteed lmao)

[sageblogsthings]

ik this blog started as a sort-of sometimes writeblr…but i might start posting some grad/stemblr stuff on here as well i dunno

[wonderpetals]

prince of sportsball

[sims4legacyandoherfunthings]

Chapter 3.2- Babies

The latest chapter of my sims 2 trailer park challenge

Sabin gets promoted The triplets Ethan, Eron and Erin are born. Sage becomes a adult Elle plays with the dogs Sabin cares for his grandchildren Elle cleans Iris is adopted The triplets become toddler, This is Ethan This is Erin and this is Eron Seb potty trains Erin Sabin teaches Ethan to walk Eron enjoys playing in puddles Seb dies Emet is born Boxer is getting older The yard…

[sage-writes-n-coins-mogai]

Hi besties I’m back~! She Who Raised Me and The Surrogate Patriarch got married and they held a small ceremony it at my great grandmother’s house, but that’s not even the best part, I bought myself a core refresh Draculaura as a souvenir! (She looks like a cunty librarian with her glasses tilted down like that lol)

[banana-sims]

i love this group of siblings so much

[sims3gameandchallengelover]

Chapter 3.2- Babies

The latest chapter of my sims 2 trailer park challenge

Sabin gets promoted The triplets Ethan, Eron and Erin are born. Sage becomes a adult Elle plays with the dogs Sabin cares for his grandchildren Elle cleans Iris is adopted The triplets become toddler, This is Ethan This is Erin and this is Eron Seb potty trains Erin Sabin teaches Ethan to walk Eron enjoys playing in puddles Seb dies Emet is born Boxer is getting older The yard…