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meadowlarkx · 2 years ago

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one day ppl online are gonna have to learn that there's no way to cordon off "male" sexuality as uniquely bad and gross without just ending up saying sexuality is bad and gross on the whole (conservative, reactionary, dangerous, tired)

#i feel like i see this so often and i'm sick of it #woman masturbating? Liberated! man masturbating? gross probably creepy and harassment actually!#woman wants to have sex? great! man wants to have sex? desperate!#single woman? she doesn't need a man. single man? Wenchless maidenless #obviously that doesn't even get into the het or cis assumptions-- forgive me for invoking these Categories #but like. switch it up as much as you want flip the script as much as you want but it's still the same old nonsense #as a woman: i don't want this on my behalf lmao #it helps none of us #also citing sarah schulman on the '#predatory' lesbian trope making accounts of ew gross a man was Into me feel especially uncomfortable #yay desire is shameful as always. thank god (cis) women are safe now.#safe purely as potential victims in a desireless and strictly gendered discourse landscape where no one is ever weird or wants #my posts #everyone else has already said this and smarter than i but whatever

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