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heraldofcrow · 19 days ago

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One thing about me is that if you shun or try to isolate a friend of mine (or just anyone who you’ve dubbed a “fault in the system” or harmful despite evidence to the contrary) after you misjudged them for being a bad or malicious or untrustworthy person, I am going to rabidly support them and be extra fucking loud about it and make sure their voices are heard from every corner and it will literally be my driving force to stay online and alive for years.

#“woah crow that was random”#ik but i’ve been dealing with this exact issue for about 4 years now with different people since i got more into fandoms #i am NOT tired of being the loud supporter but i AM tired of the bullies in these places that are supposed to be safe from irl stress #also it goes beyond fandom and into past experiences with literal cult shunning irl and you’d be shocked how similar it feels #i don’t believe in returning the shunning or attacking but i do believe in working against both #entirely through support #i mean sheesh…if i’m honest i don’t believe in this weird ass catholicesque shunning nonsense PERiod #if someone is actively harmful then you band together with others to stop them and deliver consequences #or blocking someone is fine #removing them if they’re a dangerous threat…yeah duh there are stalkers n shit #but the majority of people in fandoms are NOT at this level #i will talk to anyone with any type of perspective and try to reason with them first before withdrawing #people have changed their minds when i did this and it was incredible #that’s halfway because they aren’t all unhinged or dangerous people right off the bat #some can just have warped views while others can be thinking in a way you haven’t considered or that you misunderstood #and the rest of this shit….90% of the time is high school drama over nothing and people acting like it’s life or death when it’s literally #just miscommunication…and QUITE OFTEN just that #it’s so clear that we could all be friends sometimes but people choose to avoid talking stuff out and resort to shunning or whatever #anyway #there’s not much to be done as much as i’d love to change this….but the loud support is how i counter it #now you all know….if this were combat i would be in a support role…handing out food and drinks to the troops lol #CrowRant #fandom bs

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