#releasetheneed

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⚛️We are natural mismatchers and very easily find things that are different. We have a habit of finding things which are wrong way more quickly than we find the things that are good . ⚛️To sum this up, we criticize easily both ourselves and others .The question is, have you ever not thought about not being so hard on yourself? Have you ever tried to find the good things you have done and focus less on the on the things you are not happy with.? ⚛️If yes, how well did it work ? If no, when do you think you might want to try? ⚛️When you talk badly of yourself and do it to yourself, that is something that with time can become part of your identity and how you think about yourself. While on one hand, criticism tears down your morale and self confidence, genuine approval has the opposite effect in that it helps one face the next challenge with confidence and a sure belief in one’s own ability. ⚛️No one is perfect, but yet sometimes we expect more than is humanly possible at times, and as a result beat ourselves up, and that is the path to madness, pain and feelings of not feeling adequate enough . ⚛️So going forward release the need to criticize others or find what is wrong in others ,but instead look to see what is good in others and approve their good points. #keytoyourmindset #derekmindset #releasetheneed #doyourbesteveryday #focusonthepositives #focusonyou (at Worldwide) https://www.instagram.com/p/CS6bWx4KPAr/?utm_medium=tumblr