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bisexualgenderfemme · 10 days ago

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rly hate being let down & disappointed after getting my hopes up but honestly & truly what am I supposed to do when I approach someone openly & vulnerably & ask to communicate & they basically respond with "ukno what? im good actually."

#making friends is sososososososo hard idk whatever who cares not me im fine why do you ask im not bothered at all im totally normal about lo #sing yet another friendship to peoples inability to have a real conversation of any fucking kind who cares what does it even fucking matter #at this point. just another in a long line of friendships where everything is great as long as i dont actually speak up or ask for any real #commitment. & ig that would b fine. like. idk if someone cant do that i dont REALLY want to be friends. but it's starting to feel like ill n #ever make any friends bc no one can do this???#every day i realize its even more a miracle that me & my wife found each other 🙄🥰#fruitpost #vent #cannot cannot cannot get over the phrasing of 'im satisfied with our friendship' & then going radio silent #cannot x5 get over him telling me to read a feminist theory book & claiming to be deconstructing masculinity but then when i read it & ask h #im to apply it to our friendship he tells me thats not necessary.#idk.#real patriarchal man shit to be coming from someone bragging ab how much work theyre doing recently deconstructing #& uhhhh. if im wildly misreading the situation & he doesnt want to be thought of like that he could. idk talk to me. like. at all. even a li #ttle. then i might have some information to work with rather than being left to drift in the wind & draw my own conclusions.#fuck! whatever!!

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