i once had an anti tell me to stop sexualizing their trauma on a story i wrote that was a word for word retelling of my own actual trauma but with names changed and its been 2 years and i still cant stop thinking about that
Ah, yeah... Unfortunately a non-insignificant number of antishippers seem to genuinely believe they own the concept of trauma, so any story they read that they believe to be portrayed in a romanticized or sexualized light therefore must be romanticizing/sexualizing their trauma specifically.
I couldn't tell you the amount of times I've gotten the "stop sexualizing my trauma!!!!!!" or adjacent comments from antishippers that universally garner a response that basically boils down to
Like, bitch! I'm talking about my trauma! I literally did not even know you existed until you fucking commented!
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there’s a phenomenon on here where if u make a silly little text post that took 2 seconds of thought and then send it out into the world and then it gets notes people who see it think that the note count is somehow indicative of how much you care about the subject of the post . when in reality 15 0 note text posts in a row says more about what occupies my mental state than a 10k post ever will
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You know the thing about making art is that the only way to get good at it is to make bad art, but the thing people don't understand is that making bad art is hard. It's harder than making good art. It sucks to work all day on something that you know is going to be bad.
You have to find something else to get you through it. The process, blorpo content, sheer volume, love, spite, anything can do it! You just have to find some way to be happy making your bad art or you won't make enough of it to make good art.
You are going to work you ass off to making things that suck! You have to find a way to be ok with that if you're going to make art.
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What’s your opinion on Chrisker? Also I see we both have the same STARS Wesker skin.
low key hate it with my whole being cause it doesn’t make any sense 😭 though i don’t really like 95% of ships so 🤷♀️ it’s just a ship that i especially hate
i understand people like enemies to lovers but i honestly don’t rlly see it
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Why do shops stop making the pants I like. It takes me so long to find decent pants that fit, are comfortable, decent material, all that nonsense. So I buy a few.
Then when it comes to needing new ones they’ve stopped making them. Every single time. So I need to start the search all over again and I’m so miserable about clothes shopping and it’s awful.
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