#queerplatonic f/o imagine

[come-imagine-with-me]

Applicable To All F/O Types

For selfshippers who work IRL, please imagine the f/os that live with you helping you get ready for your shifts whenever they can! Whether it's by helping you wake up or making a lunch for you to take to work, they always want to see you succeed ♡

Imagine their happy faces when you come home, how they smile as they ask how your day was! If you need to rant or vent and they're in a good headspace to listen they take time to listen about how work went and encourage you to keep going and that tomorrow is a new day ♡

"I'm so proud of you," they say, each time you need to hear it because working might be a necessity but it doesn't mean it's easy and they 100% understand that and are there to root for you every single day ♡

[kittyplushy]

💌Remember to also take care of your f/os too, ok?💌

Make sure they eat on time,

Remind them to drink water,

Check in on them and hold them close,

Prepare them food (breakfast, lunch, snacks, dinner- whichever u can manage!),

Look after their physical condition,

Just, please take care of them too. They deserve to know how much you adore them too.

[v1-kisser]

Maybeeee Imagine your F/O walking into the bedroom while they know you're in bed, trying to be quiet in case you're asleep... n smiling when they see you cozy under the covers...

Maybe they're just arriving home and they can't wait to join you, trying to get ready for sleep as quietly as possible. You can hear drawers opening and closing, the sink running. See the light from the next room cascading on the floor. Maybe you sleepily stare at the shadow of your F/O brushing their teeth or pulling off their shirt. Safe and warm. Almost nostalgic. Knowing that they're near. Sitting in the pleasant fog of drowsiness while someone you love is preparing to come lay with you. And then the distant light flicks off. For a moment you almost miss it, the certainty of where they were... the intimacy without touch. But the second that their weight sinks into the bed, and their warmth graces your back, those feelings dissipate like smoke.

They mumble a "goodnight" in case you're awake.

Talk to you in the morning.

proship/comship dni

[platonic-qpr-selfshipping]

Imagine your f/o brushing your hair when you've just washed it and getting so focused on the task that they just sit there in silence, whole attention on taking care of it. and if you glance at them, you'll catch the softest smile on their face

[anemone-ships]

˚✧₊⁎ imagine your f/o waking up from a nap! they look a little silly - eyes half-lidded, hair matted against their face, drool at the corner of their mouth, the creases of the bed/couch imprinted on their cheek. but when they see you, they give you the fondest, warmest smile, and to you, they've never looked more beautiful.

pro.ship dni

[raspberrychronicles]

imagine your f/o going "cute? me? i think you got the wrong guy" after you fawn to them about how cute they are, but its apparent that they're flustered by it !!

whether it shows itself through change in facial expressions or their body language, or showing itself in the way they start talking. especially when they're usually perceived differently. maybe even as somewhat offputting by the majority of people around them

they're relieved that you perceive them that way !! you thinking they're cute has something comforting about it

[theselfshippingrose]

imagine making a f/o laugh and being happy because WOOOOO you made them LAUGH LETS GOOOOOOO

(Proshippers/comshippers do not interact)

[friend-or-fo]

"You're safe," your F/O assures you, their arms wrapped around you. "I won't let them-" the pronoun drips from their mouth like venom- "hurt you ever again."

[PT: "them" in italics. End PT.]

"What if they come back?" you ask.

Your F/O's embrace tightens. "If they come back, I'll punch 'em straight into the next galaxy. But..." You feel a soft kiss on your forehead. "It's over," they say in a much softer tone. "It's all over now. And I'm here."

Pro/comship DNI, please!

[PT: Proship / comship do not interact, please! End PT]

[spadeselfshipcorner]

If you're someone who for any reason struggles with taking care of yourself or your surroundings, just know that your F/O will not only never shame you for it, but they will help you out whenever possible, whether it is by doing chores with you, reminding you to do things for yourself or bringing you some food or water or anything you might need, and they'll never get tired of doing those things for you, because they love you!

[come-imagine-with-me]

Renaissance Festival Imagine

Applicable for Platonic, QP, Familial, and Romantic types of f/o and this imagine in particular will offer a bit for all types.

*For those who don't know what a Renaissance Festival is, it's a multi week festival with tons of homemade wares displayed, food, and entertainment for all ages. There are "spirit weeks" where people dress up, the weeks the festival takes place are broken up into themes covering European medieval times, 1700s Pirates, Steampunk, Vikings, the Celtic, as well as a general wizard/elf/dwarf fantasy theme.)

Imagine going with your f/o(s) to the local Renaissance Festival!

∆ For those with A Parental F/o(s) in mind

imagine them excitedly helping you put together a costume to attend the festival! They work so hard to help you find the different pieces of clothing that you need to capture the image of the outfit you had in mind and when you're all dressed up, of COURSE they want to take tons of photos of you and them all dressed up, showering you with praise over how lovely you look and how excited they are to go to the event with you!

∆ For those with with A Platonic F/o(s) in mind

imagine your friend and you walking around pointing out other people's outfits excitedly, taking mental notes together about how creative they were. Imagine helping your platonic f/o justify buying something because they really want it but just need the reassurance to get it and vice versa; them helping you buy something by telling you that you deserve that thing you're after!

∆ Regarding those with Sibling f/os

Imagine stopping at the stalls and seeing funky, weird, cute but strange wares and pointing at the different ones saying "that's you" to make them laugh!

Maybe you dress up in similar outfits or if you dress in completely different ones, think about your sibling(s) f/o(s) working with you to try and come up with a story about how you two are definitely still related despite one of you being a pirate and the other an elf!

For those with QP or Romantic f/os in mind

Imagine your f/o scouring each and every stall that sells homemade jewelery, trying to find the perfect ring or necklace to gift to you to express their special feelings for you and how excited they get when they finally find the right design that reflects you somehow, someway!

[tireddovahkiin]

SELF-SHIPPERS WHO THINK THEY'RE BAD AT COOKING!!!

Listen to this funny scenario XD Imagine your F/O is the only one who likes your cooking. The others are 'weaklings' and 'cannot' handle your peak cooking skills (in their eyes). They don't see anything wrong with it, no matter if you made it too salty or spicy or sweet, and actually always ask for more. (They even consider it better than any restaurant food they've tried ever.)

Your F/O is willing to try some food you made. People give them a warning, and a bit of a concerning stare, SECRETLY giving glares to drop the food.

They notice, but take a bite anyways.

And... Their eyes widen, starting to glisten, and even a tear rolling down their cheek.

Your beloved is... absolutely AMAZED. Your darling is so dazed, left speechless, taste buds blessed by your heavenly cooking. They might even start to serenade to the very food, and you, the marvellous chef with 'golden hands'. Or if they're the more stoic type, just stare at you... Like they're silently telling you 'Thank you for making this'. They look so PROUD of you, that they got to befriend/court/marry/adopt such a cooker in their life. Your F/O consider themself lucky.

Seeing the reaction of them, everyone seems shocked. They "survived" eating your meal? Maybe... This time it really was good?

One person grabs one of your plates, having a taste... And fainting right afterwards.

The others rush over to help, but your F/O? They give them an unamused glare, maybe even muttering a 'pathetic' under their breath. Saying how they are being overdramatic, and that there is NOTHING wrong with your cooking. While they're taking another bite, the people are doing CPR on the knocked out guy and calling an ambulance.💀

(Long story short. You're imagining things! Your cooking bad? Did you see how your F/O seemed to almost WOLF DOWN the whole meal you've made, not even taking a break to breathe or wipe their face? Yeahhh, you better not say anything negative about it in front of them, your dear F/O WILL defend your cooking for their life.)

[blockbusterselfship]

You know what I've been feeling insecure about it recently so I'm making a post for myself and others like me. Your f/o's wouldn't think you're disgusting if you struggle with hygiene if it's because of mental illness/neurodivergency/disability. They would understand that it's sometimes hard to keep up with it when your mind just doesn't let the routine stick for one reason or another. Or if it's physically painful/impossible for you to do on your own. They'd help to remind you to shower or brush your teeth if you have poor memory and ask them to. They'd help you find toothpaste that doesn't feel horrible in your mouth. Or find products that don't trigger your sensory issues. They'd give you gentle encouragement and be proud of you when you do it if it's because of the motivation loss depression causes. They'd happily help you clean yourself if you can't physically make yourself/it hurts if you try. If anyone made rude comments about a common effect of mental illness and disability, your f/o's would immediately stand up for you. You're not disgusting for struggling with hygiene. Your f/o's understand and won't treat you differently for it.

[platonic-qpr-selfshipping]

Imagine your queerplatonic f/o giving you a quick cheek kiss when you least expect it

[anemone-ships]

˚✧₊⁎ for selfshippers with misophonia!!

🌱 your f/o would NEVER purposefully make a trigger sound around you, or treat your condition like a joke.

🌱 your f/o would learn which sounds trigger you and be extra mindful of the noise they make around you. they wouldn’t click their pen, they would blow their nose to avoid sniffling, etc.

🌱 your f/o wouldn’t mind if you had to wear noise cancelling headphones when you go out and/or eat together. if that’s what you need to be comfortable, they will always accommodate you.

🌱 your f/o knows that if you’re distressed and lash out because of a trigger sound, it’s not a reflection of who you are as a person. they understand that your thoughts and urges in those moments are beyond your control.

🌱 your f/o would help you to leave a place if you were experiencing sensory overload. they would take you home and give you the space, comfort and quiet you need in order to return to a state of calm.

🌱 your f/o will always stand up for you, communicate with you and respect you. when the world is harsh and loud, they will always be your safe space.

pro.ship dni

[raspberrychronicles]

for the f/o you added to your list recently, for those who only started selfshipping recently or just in general!! imagine looking forward to spending the spring/summer with your f/o!!

spending the holidays together, the weather being nicer for outside activities, everything not being so gloomy anymore and full of life and getting to experience all of that with your f/o!!

picnics in fields, tucking flowers behind your ear .. your f/o def looks forward to these things the most among other things!! they just love getting to experience the different seasons together with you and just having you in their life in general just as much as you do <33

[tboygushes]

genderqueer/nonconforming self shippers!

imagine your f/o(s) understanding the nuances of your gender identity… even if youre full fem/masc, they understand that its not that simple. they dont place unwanted gender roles upon you. if youre masc presenting, they dont necessarily treat you like “the man” in the relationship, and vice versa if youre hyper fem. they comprehend and listen as you explain what gender means to you, maybe even holding your hand and caressing your hand with their thumb for reassurance. and neopronouns!! if you use neos, they take a moment to test saying it out loud. they smile softly after, saying “… i like it :) it fits you!!” and if you have dysphoria, they make sure to make note of your triggers and make sure to only touch you in places where you feel comfortable :)) your f/o loves you and sees your gender the way you see your gender, always willing to learn more <333