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mulletmitsuya Ā· 2 years ago
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Toman Groupchat
Warnings: swearing, suggestive language, might be offensive idk (lmk if it is so i should take it down if necessary) , mentions of birth, mentions of alcohol and weed, gayness
Desc: it's Mitsuya's day of birth
Chifuyu: HAPPY BIRTHDAY MITSUYA-KUN āš ļøā—šŸ’œšŸ˜‹šŸ˜
Baji: what's up with the emoji's
Mitsuya: thanks Chifuyu
Baji: happy getting out of the pussy day
Mitsuya: šŸ˜
Kazutora: didn't he get circumcised?
Mitsuya: man what
Baji: ...
Baji: fuck that gotta do with what i just said
Baji: you just say shit
Kazutora: i'm talking about his birth method
Kazutora: keep up, Keisuke šŸ˜
Chifuyu: you're so fucking stupid
Kazutora: HOW AM I STUPID
Kazutora: Mitsuya's mom was circumcised
Kazutora: it wasn't a vaginal birth
Kazutora: he was essentially removed, rather than birthed
Baji: "he was essentially removed, rather than birthedšŸ¤“šŸ‘†"
Mikey: bro how do you even know that?
Chifuyu: R U TALKING ABOUT A C-SECTION????
Kazutora: IS THAT WHAT I FUCKING SAID?? NO
Kazutora: i hate talking to stupid mf's šŸ™„
Baji: i don't understand why people say i'm the stupidest
Draken: *most stupid
Draken: you honestly proved everyone's point
Baji: fuck off
Mitsuya: ok you guys can shut up now
Draken: happy birthday Takashi
Draken: my sworn brother
Draken: my other half
Draken: my twin dragon
Draken: love ya man
Mitsuya: thank you DrakenšŸ™‚
Baji: did u have socks on
Draken: ...?
Baji: you can't say "i love ya" and "my other half" without any socks on
Baji: it implies a sense homosexuality
Baji: but if you have socks on then it's fine
Draken: i'm sick of you
Baji: bro doesn't have any socks on šŸ’€
Mitsuya: you guys can shut up now x2
Mitsuya: also
Mitsuya: you don't all have to say happy birthday just say it when we meet up cause i feel awkward saying thank you to every single one of you
Mikey: hope you enjoyed my birthday present šŸ’ŖšŸ˜Ž
Mitsuya: yeah...
Mitsuya: the half eaten taiyaki
Mitsuya: appreciate it
Mikey: anything for the homies ā¤
Mitsuya: šŸ˜’
Draken: where's Hakkai
Draken: surprised he hasn't said anything about your birthday
Mitsuya: he's planning a surprise birthday party
Baji: surprisešŸ¤Ø?
Mitsuya: he told me not to not text him cause he's busy with my surprise birthday party
Mitsuya: i don't think he realized that he told me
Mitsuya: i don't wanna bum him out so i'll still act surprised
Mitsuya: i appreciate it either way
Chifuyu: Takemitchy, Angry and I have been helping him plan this for weeks, and he just fucking told youšŸ˜
Mitsuya: i guess lol
Mitsuya: also said he has a surprise for me
Baji: he's gonna tongue you down, i just know it
Mitsuya: stfu
Mikey: are y'all together or not
Mitsuya: don't know what you're taking about
Draken: bro's taking his time
Mikey: Mitsuya you're 21 now
Mikey: it's been 8 years???šŸ˜­
Smiley: i may not have a birthday present but i'll bring queer and weed
Smiley: since y'all follow the law or whatnot and you're legal now
Smiley: hypocrites
Draken: what's wrong with following the law?
Smiley: you think beating people half to death was fucking legal, Draken?
Draken: well... no
Draken: doesn't mean we should abuse substances, underage
Smiley: ā¤H Y P O C R I T Eā¤
Smiley: and a lot of the people we know smoke so idk why you're all the way in my ass rn
Draken: yeah but cigarettes aren't drugs
Smiley: weed >>>>> cigarettes
Draken: the ability to breath when i'm in my thirties >>>>
Smiley: fair
Baji: wdym you'll bring a queer and weedšŸ¤Ø
Smiley: why would i bring a queer when Mitsuya is literally right there
Smiley: i meant beer
Smiley: pride month changing my damn autocorrectšŸ˜’
Kazutora: stop saying slurs
Smiley: bro the gays reclaimed that shit
Smiley: it's a blanket term for the ABCDEFG community or whatever the fuck
Draken: i feel like you're being homophobic
Smiley: nuh uh
Smiley: dude look
Smiley: šŸ‘¬ šŸ‘­
Smiley: see?šŸ˜
Smiley: am i still homophobic?
Baji: he got us there
Draken: wha-
Draken: what the fuck is that supposed to prove?
*Hakkai has gone online*
Hakkai: HI TAKA-CHAN
Hakkai: could you please come over to my place for no particular reason?šŸ¤”
Hakkai: hmmmm, it kinda feels like i'm forgetting something
Hakkai: maybe like, a public holiday?
Hakkai: who knows?šŸ¤·ā€ā™‚ļø
Hakkai: anyway
Hakkai: let's hang out like the regular days in which we are normal šŸ¤—
Hakkai: see you soon šŸ˜
Mitsuya: ...
Mitsuya: yeah sure Hakkai
Mitsuya: be right over
Hakkai: ā¤
*Hakkai has gone offline*
Mikey: šŸ’€
Chifuyu: i hate him
Baji: did he even fucking try
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memory-and-sky Ā· 1 year ago
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hobie x male reader """""""""dating"""""""" hcs?
okay this is something i can work on and get done relatively quickly. THANK YOU FOR THIS ANON! to everyone whoā€™s sent in asks for fics, they are being worked on, i swearšŸ™ hope you like this though!
word count: i dunno, itā€™s a good chunk of headcanons
containing: explicit mention of homophobia, brief description of injury via fighting, small small small sexual reference, hobie brown x m!reader, could be cis or trans but i wrote this with cis males in mind
the rest of the headcanons are under the cut!
ā€œdatingā€ headcanons
hobie brown x male!reader
since Hobie lives in the 70s in Britain, gay rights werenā€™t reallyā€¦. yā€™know, the best.
for your safety and his, the most heā€™d do in public is holding your hand. and even that was a big sign of rebellion. holding hands with a person of the same sex? how scandalous!
anyway, while holding your hand, heā€™d love to put both your hands in his pocket, especially if you run cold (like me :P).
heā€™d totally be the type to rub his thumb slowly on your palm, too.
Hobie knows a lot of people, especially in the queer and punk scenes. he gets invited to a lot of house parties, and feels safer to put your relationship on display more then, but heā€™s definitely not over the top with it.
a simple arm over the shoulder, around your waist, or a hand in the back pocket of your jeans, though he doesnā€™t need PDA to show your relationship off.
ā€œHave ya seen this new patch on the olā€™ battle jacket? Or this pin? Yeah, my lovely boyfriend made ā€˜em foā€™ me. Gorgeous, innit?ā€ [speaking to a random friend]
ā€œHave ya had the pleasure of meetinā€™ my boyfriend yet?ā€
ā€œI thought you said you hated labelsā€¦?ā€
ā€œMmh, (y/n)ā€™s influential like thaā€™. Clearly ya havenā€™t met ā€˜em.ā€ Heā€™d say, undoubtedly with a smirk plastered on his face.
i really donā€™t think Hobie would get particularly jealous over you.
of course he loves you with all his little gay heart, but he doesnā€™t feel insecure or get upset at you or anything if you talk (or flirt) with another guy (as long as you communicate). if anyone is flirting with you and you seem really disinterested, heā€™ll totally intervene.
maybe hold you in a way that makes it clear youā€™re together, or explicitly tell the dude that youā€™re not interested.
but he doesnā€™t like treating you like an object he ā€˜ownsā€™ at all, itā€™s why heā€™s pretty hesitant to slap the ā€˜boyfriendā€™ label down on your relationship right away.
and the 70s were a sexual revolution! revolting against gender norms and relationship norms, stuff like that.
if anybody ever dared ask you two ā€˜so whoā€™s the man and the woman in the relationship?ā€™ or ā€˜whoā€™s the top and whoā€™s the bottom?ā€™ Hobie would be dreadfully disgusted and educate them immediately.
speaking of sexual revolution and whatnot, Hobie would be down for polyamory if you were.
you two have a very good line of communication, and if you wanted to open your relationship and communicated that to him, heā€™d be fine with it.
youā€™re so great, he gets how other guys might fall in love with you, too.
Hobie would give the best gifts, try and change my mind. whether itā€™s for your anniversary, birthday, or just a random gift, theyā€™re always handmade.
maybe heā€™ll make you a piece of clothing like a shirt, hand-pick a bouquet for you, or even customizing/fixing one of your old clothing pieces with a bit of added Hobie flair.
Even small things, like a charm, pin, or patch have so much love put into them because he loves you!
touching on my first point again, homophobia was very present outside of the queer/punk scene, even in some aspects of the punk community he didnā€™t feel welcome at all.
usually, heā€™d tell people where to shove their opinion, but sometimes heā€™d feel completely unsafe to be himself around anyone.
yeah, heā€™s spider-man, but heā€™s also a very young adult. he could fight people, and he definitely used to, but he hated coming home to you being worried sick about all the horrible bruises, cuts, and scrapes on him.
back to the lighthearted stuff, heā€™s definitely the type of guy to cook for you.
doesnā€™t matter what meal it is, heā€™s gonna make it for you if he has the chance to. and he actually makes good food, despite living in Britain his whole life.
if youā€™ve got issues with trying new foods, his place will always be stocked full with your safe foods no matter what.
youā€™ll eat together, and heā€™ll gaze dreamily at you, wondering how he ever got so lucky to land such a stellar guy like you.
this man loves coming home after a long day, popping in a VCR for a movie of some sort (TV could be in your bedroom or living room, doesnā€™t matter), and just cuddling with you.
he doesnā€™t mind being either the big spoon or little spoon, but tends to like being big spoon cause he likes holding you close to him so much.
heā€™s very scrawny, but doesnā€™t mean he wonā€™t love you all the same, and hold you tight.
one more thing, Hobie loves you above all else. heā€™ll protect you and fight for you anytime you need. when it comes to his partners, he does not play around!!
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renslo161605 Ā· 20 days ago
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When people feminise gay men
Hello, gay man speaking, i HATE HATE HATE when people feminise gay men, or atleast, turn them all sissy lol. Arthur Morgan? Gay boy, definitely a queer, can see it in his eye, but that doesn't make him all "slaayyyy" and "yas queeen" he's still Arthur. And i see fics that make him and other male characters so twinky. STOP IT!! STOP TWINKIFYING MY BIG GAY MEN!!!
idk, i see it alot with Charthur, it annoys me, maybe I'm the wierd one. I don't even know if 'feminise' is the right word, 'mischaracterise' maybe? I'm not sure, either way i think it's harmful in a sense. It pushes this, "my token gay best friend" which I HATE too.
Theres obviously nothing wrong with big beefy men being tender, lovey dovey, wearing dresses n whatnot, thats not what i mean. Maybe I'm just being narrow minded idk, but this is coming from a boy who wears makeup, bootcut jeans and has medium length hair so, maybe it's internalised homophobia and self hatred lol
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rosethelonelyloser Ā· 7 months ago
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So... While it's pride month
I am an Oriented AroAce Omnisexual, and while I was casually searching things (as I regularly do), I found a few charts explaining their sexualities.
Now, there isn't anything wrong with explaining your sexuality, gosh no. This isn't a 'call out' post or whatnot, I just want to write my thoughts out cause my friends wouldn't really get it or just say 'ok' in response and change the topic fast.
I, to be honest, don't really get why it has to be overcomplicated. I just, ya know, use the label because it feels right and feels like me. But, of course, not everyone is me.
So I wanna give my personal opinions and thoughts out about AroAce-ness :)
So what is AromanticAsexual?
Aromantic is little to no romantic attraction
Asexual is little to no sexual attraction
And they are of a spectrum. Being AroAce is on a spectrum. There is no specific way to be AroAce, and not everyone has or knows their specific place on the spectrum. Being defined as AroAce alone is a blank slate (Something that has yet to be marked, determined, or developed) so, if you see an AroAce person, don't go out saying "Oh, they are AroAce, they are incapable of loving!" No. That is incorrect.
Misunderstandings of being AroAce
So, from what I've seen is there are a few if not many misunderstandings people make about AroAce people.
One of which is the classic 'inability to love.' While most AroAce individuals might not experience romantic/sexual love, there are many other ways that they do showcase love. (i.e., platonic; friendly, family; brotherly/sisterly, motherly/fatherly, etc.)
But don't take this as the definite call either, no. Some AroAce people just click differently. Some may long for a relationship or want to feel something on a personal level. A personal connection, even. But at the same time they could feel like they don't want to either.
This doesn't make them phonies, though. If an AroAce person opens up to you about feeling like that, please do not harass them and call them a fake.
Some AroAce individuals are conflicted with their own feelings. I can confirm this myself, as I have been struggling with my own feelings for a very long time. It took me years before figuring myself out and becoming comfortable with who I am and what my labels are.
But don't misunderstand! Labels do not make you queer or lgbt. It's how and who you feel attraction to :)
You don't need a label to identify as a queer individual/homosexual. If you feel as if you are attracted to a specific gender or don't have an attraction at all, or feel as if you aren't connected to your assigned pronouns, that doesn't require a label. Just do what you are comfortable with, it is your life, after all :D
Now, another misunderstanding I'd personally like to debunk is 'AroAce people cannot date.' While, yes, that has some truth to it, it is just worded wrongly. How I'd put it is 'an AroAce individual can date, most just prefer not to engage in romantic/sexual relationships.' It mostly depends on which AroAce person you're asking. Some choose to engage in romantic relationships, and some choose not to.
Now, if you ask, "How does that work?" I can not give you a certain answer as I am on the side of the AroAce community that doesn't want to engage in relationships. If you really want an answer to that, go ask an AroAce person who's on that side nicely, and do not harass them, please.
I'd also like to say that I think shipping fictional characters are okay, even if that character is AroAce. Writing an AroAce character in a relationship can be a little hard, that I get, but as long as you respect the Asexual part, then it's alright. (As long as it's a legal fictional pairing, that is.) If that character doesn't have a confirmed place on the spectrum, it's okay to headcanon and imagine, just don't make it AroAce erasure! I can confirm myself that AroAce erasure can be quite hurtful to some and even disrespectful at a rate.
Overall conclusion?
AroAce people feel little to no sexual/romantic attraction. Most don't want to be in none-platonic relationships, and some do.
There is no certain way to be AroAce. It is on a spectrum.
And despite everything, AroAce people need love too. It doesn't need to be romantic. They are only human, after all.
Lastly, you're doing great :)
Lots of love -Rose šŸ©·šŸ©·šŸ©·
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girlcrushart Ā· 2 years ago
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Here's the final poster in the Kristen Chanel Pride Collection that I've been making. The other posters each move thru the traditional rainbow Pride colours and this one features the more newly-added part which includes people of colour, trans folks, and even asexual people! And ya, it can be a bit exhausting that stuff keeps getting added on, or maybe a little difficult to keep track of all the things, but it's all in the interest of inclusivityā€”things are added to include more people! And I'm all for inclusivity. In Canada, the full official acronym (which I actually found on the Government of Canada website, along with a complete explanation, which made me happy and proud) is 2SLGBTQI+. The 2S at the beginning is for Two-Spirit, which is essentially the indigenous version of queer. Kinda. It's more profound than that, but that's the basic idea. On the government website it describes "Two-Spirit people as the firstĀ 2SLGBTQI+Ā communities." Which is so awesome. Sometimes I'm very proud of my country. Anyways, I know Kristen would be down for all of thisā€”and I think that lately there has been an attempt by the hateful assholes of the world to divide the community by attacking Trans folks even more than all the rest and try to get some of us to drop letters and colours and things from the flags and labels and whatnot, and fuck that! Add more letters! Add more colours! Sure, one day it would be great to just drop it all and go with "people", but sadly we're a long ways off until that kind of equality is reached. Today's girlcrushart guardian is Kristen Stewart.
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ham-and-cheese-studios Ā· 9 months ago
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re: the conference post, I don't think anyone in queerstake is confused or surprised by the homophobia, just frustrated and disappointed
And they should be frustrated and disappointed. I also found that post that explained it better than I could.
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I want everyone in queerstake to find this world outside the church, to find people who actually genuinely love them for who they are and not mormies who do this shit:
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So fuck the divine plan and I hope any and all queer mormons find a way to get out and reclaim their identity, one that is actually affirmed by people who give a fuck, rather than stay in a 200 year old cult that sugarcoats their bigotry in lies, money, and manipulation.
I know it's not as simple as "just leave lol" but it breaks my heart seeing them be disappointed and frustrated at the cult for its implicit and subtle homophobia and whatnot, but still choose to stay in it regardless. Like honey, who are you gonna want validation and support from, hm? A bunch of pasty white old men who think women should be baby factories? Or ya know, the actual LGBT community?
Imo, the mormon cult is never going to give a shit about its queer members or queerness in general unless it benefits their image or makes them more money. Because that's all mormonism is, a greedy cult that hooks its manipulative claws into vulnerable people to suck them dry of any financial, emotional, or interpersonal independence, then act all nice and happy, especially when it comes to queers and minorities.
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someonetooksendnoodles Ā· 5 months ago
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children of anguish and anarchy rambles and convoluted thoughts bc i have a lot of them that need to get out of my brain. indulge me if you so desire and beware of spoilers below
CAA really said yeah ZĆ©lie bound everyoneā€™s life forces together in CVV and instead of making that relevant again we are instead going to completely erase one of the bound life forces and then never talk about it again
#justiceforroƫn like he really just disappeared. never to be seen again. i was really hoping with the expansion of worlds that we would be able to get a glimpse into the world he left behind and have that be an issue the group dealt with but instead he just *poofed* out of existence
also i am 10000% on the Amari is queer train and also think the potential for ZĆ©lie and Amari ships are *chefs kiss X1000000* and maybe itā€™s just me but with all the betrayal between Tzain and Amari AND ZĆ©lie, i would be more ok with Amari being more explicitly queer in this book and moving on from Tzain if it meant they could talk it out bc it just doesnā€™t feel right for them to not. but hey they spent the majority of the book fighting for theo lives and amani was the only one with truly any downtime so itā€™s no surprise sheā€™s the only one that was somewhat able to grow and whatnot.
fun fact: for the ending of CVV i really thought inan betrayed zĆ©lie again and remember being so so so distraught at the way his character was just decimated like that. happy i was wrong on that regard, but i think his journey this book was the most compelling and interesting actually and had me being the most invested. important addition: i havenā€™t actually finished the book yet but i got to a point mentally where i needed to i wasnā€™t alone in my mild (potentially moderate) disappointment in the book overall (i do know about the sacrifice btw but i havenā€™t formed feelings yet)
ya idk happy amari is more explicitly queer and we got more fantastic world building and fight sequences, but i think overall CAA wasnā€™t what i was expecting for both better and for worse šŸ¤·
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kingwuko Ā· 8 months ago
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What do u think of cheating stories where the spouse is ok with the cheating? Like if Wu married a woman and she knows heā€™s in love with mako so sheā€™s ok with him having his little love affair with mako as long as he does his duties as king
It sounds like you're describing a lavender marriage? This has been somewhat common throughout history for two people to enter into a marriage of convenience to conceal their sexual orientation(s). I mean. In the scenario you are describing, all parties are consenting so it's not cheating.
As far as what I personally think of it? I kinda like the drama... The secret relationship of it all combined with the wife helping cover for them or whatever??? Yeah I'm into that. Especially if Wu and his wife are friends and she likes Mako and if the WIFE IS QUEER yup sign me up. But I mean it's gotta have a happy ending where Mako and Wu end up married to each other ya know.
I'm not really into the story if it's really cheating... If the spouse isn't aware of Wu's sexual orientation or his relationship with Mako. I mean it could be an interesting story!!! If it's written well I could make for some angst and drama and whatnot. IDK what would Mako think of being the other person in a relationship? After his love triangle with korra and asami?? Hmmm interesting to think about...
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dramatic-darlings Ā· 10 months ago
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dramatic-darlings ā˜† writerblr reintroduction
hiii i'm aishwarya
17, queer, she/her
i'm from india
i write rom-coms, contemp drama, fantasy and mordor mysteries.
sad hot girl vibes:
my current WIPs :-
(i have quite alot of wips blame my maladaptive daydreamin' brain but these are the ones i'm actually, currently daydreaming the most about :))
ā˜†FANTASYā˜†
THE SEVEN SORCERERS
what would happen if the fate of the world depends on a bunch of high school teenagers
PROJECT TOD
high fantasy or just high?
(theme song: achilles come down)
PROJECT MAYABAZAAR
heist! and betrayL!
ā˜†ROMANCE/ DRAMASā˜†
PROJECT HEATHER
heather by conan gray
(theme song: heather)
PROJECT DESI
an indian sapphic love story (gay yay)(theme song: kamariya)
PROJECT LOVE LETTERS
flirting is cool and whatnot but have you ever tried using strawberry metaphors and cryptic love letters to confess your love
(theme song: double take; strawberries and cigarettes)
ā˜†MYSTERIESā˜†
PROJECT SENIOR KILLERS
pretty self-explanatory ig
(theme song: scooby-doo theme song teehee)
PROJECT BACKSTABBING
gossip girls meets one of us is lying
(theme song: backstabber)
PRETTY DEAD PETALS
partners in crime-solving based in london oh! and ballet
(theme song: danse macabre)
PROJECT YA ZOMBIE
the one where i end up watching tlos and making it my personality for the next few months
(theme song: you get me so high)
PROJECT WANNABES
mordor at your fav indian prep school
(theme song: mordor on the dance floor)
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cousticks Ā· 11 months ago
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Couu- this is random and feel free NOT to answer or answer privately or whatnot (whichever you're comfortable with!) but I was just wondering what's your sexuality? No need to specify but like, are you into guys, gals, both? you're giving me pan vibes idk why TT
again this is just out of random curiousity. No need to answer if ya dont feel like it. feel free to ignore! ā¤ļø
I debated answering this privately for a minute but its not like its a secret or anything I just don't feel like my orientation was relevant to my fandom blog so I don't have it in my pinned. But again its not a secret & this community is usually pretty queer anyway.
Anyway, asexual and... I usually just say whatever-romantic? You could call it pan. I like whoever. Romance is weird for me. Personality is what gets me more than presentation. I will admit I tend to have a thing for men with long hair, women that could easily kill me, and anyone androgynous enough you could flip a coin and the only correct guess would be if it somehow landed on its rim. Mostly because option 3 gives me so much gender envy I don't know what to do with it.
I'll also tack on that I'm poly because if I'm listing my queerities I might as well get them all down. I like people and I like that I can like people in different ways.
I consider myself lucky to have a super cool boyfriend that likes me as I am. <3
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antiradqueer Ā· 2 years ago
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I am gonna actually go on anon for now, because it's just bits I randomly remembered again.
I've already kinda. Talked about this quite a bit on an account, but something I did forget.
I'm pretty sure this is gonna still be the same now, but radqueers would pass around a "wiki" talking about pedophiles and how the therapy was conversion therapy, heavily comparing it to queer conversion therapy, and being vehemently anti recovery for those with PaDs especially. Also, PaDs and different types of OCD were rarely mentioned, because instead of "hey, figure out how ya actually feel about this", it's "yes kiiing! Slaaayy!"
I also strongly dislike how trace being originally VERY fetishistic is so quickly ignored, esp when, around the time I was one, it was all just "Trans Asian" bullshit...
It was worse when radqueers actually made normal-appearing accounts while having a radqueer set, just to keep multiple public appearances...
i think ive hear of this wiki yeah.. more harmful shit to get vulnerable people in on their shit using praise and whatnot
oh and trace is still *very* fetishistic, like what you said the transasian stuff is a good place to see how fetishy it gets if you look at the "how to pass if your transJapanese/Korean" shit
thanks anon!
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not-a-space-alien Ā· 2 years ago
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Valen seems to like beefy women, but with how patriarchal vampire society sounds he probably didn't meet a whole bunch of buff vampire ladies, especially among the nobility.
Yeah in my headcanon vampire society kind of moves on a geological timescale wrt social norms changing since everyone lives for so long so they lag behind human society in terms of misogyny and whatnot, even taking into account the fact that female vampires are quite strong and expected to do certain things not very "feminine," for example female members of the nobility are still expected to hunt their first human and so the expectations for things like wearing skirts is less strict but there are still expectations about what men's and women's roles in society are.
And like everything there's probably a split along class lines as well, where upper-class vampires can afford to have women be "stay at home" and focus on childcare and maintaining the estate whereas working class and poorer folks need to have women work outside the home. Being able to afford to have your wife stay home full time is seen as a luxury the same way being able to have the space and resources to keep a human live-in for feeding is a mark of status and class.
Openly queer and gendernonconforming people would be even rarer in vampire society than they would have been in human society in the 1900-1980 time period so he latches onto anyone visibly nonconforming because he's desperate for a sense of community and belonging.
So Valen admires people like Ari who have the courage to present the way they want, both in the "I want to be like that" way as well as the "oh god that's really hot" way.
The ironic thing is that since vampires are like 10x as strong as humans, every single vampire woman is a beefy woman, without the beef, because they're expected to act ladylike and be prim and proper.
And yet Ari, the first woman he meets who CAN'T punch through concrete, is the "beefy woman" he gets smitten with because she spikes her hair and wears men's clothes and is taller than he is.
It's more about your aura. Your vibes. Ya know?
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afklancelot Ā· 2 years ago
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despite everything, i still read new scp articles every now and then (tho much less than before) and now i have Criticisms on an article per usual, this time being SCP-7454
to summarize: SCP-7454 is a humanoid entity whose name used to be Aphrodite, the Greek goddess of love and beauty. The Foundation became aware of them when they disrupted a feast dedicated to said goddess, "calling out" those at the feast, and agents were sent to contain them. anyways after a few conversations between the entity and a researcher, the entity releases they identify as a male instead of female, and with some encouragement from the researcher that the Foundation will help them with gender-affirming treatment. it ends with the entity deciding his new name will be Issac. The end
of course, the article was posted last week, so im trying to be nice. that said, the writing feels almost juvenile, especially with how the entity, Issac, acts and speaks. He doesn't sound like a (former) Greek Goddess who's been around for a loooooooong time at all, he sounds more like a rebellious teenager who's familiar with social media. look, im not saying Gods can't act "modern" and whatnot, but it's kinda hard to take Issac and the article as a whole seriously (when it needs to be) when he's using cuss words like "fucknut" and urinating over a statue of his former self. in addition, when the researcher speculates out loud that Issac is transgender, it just feels like the researcher is just saying it to our face; there are zero attempts at being subtle at that part, or even Issac figuring out himself. more of a personal gripe on my end, given i like it when themes and main ideas are more subtle rather then in your face.
another thing: there were posts on here that were like "i'm tired of feminist/queer retelling of storytales/mythologies because they refuse to engage with the source material in the first place". While those posts were mostly aimed towards YA novels and the like, i feel like it sorta applies to this article as well. the readers are told the skip was, or at least claimed to be, Aphrodite, but as I said before, he barely even acts like a proper God at all beyond complaining about his divine family and his worshippers and whatnot (and even then his family is only mentioned). when Issac complains about having been known as the "Goddess of motherhood", i genuinely got confused cuz I've also seen Hera as the goddess of motherhood. this ended up being half right on my end; Hera is known as the goddess of childbirth, marriage, and women, and there are two websites that associate motherhood to Aphrodite (albeit one of them was because Aphrodite threatening her son with a sandal ended up being a tradition for mothers around the world), so I'll give the author that.
point is Aphrodite, or Issac as he goes by at the end of the article, doesn't feel like a God at all. Different interpretations of the Greek Gods exist in other media, and whether they're accurate or not, they do tend to be decent interpretations, even Rick Riordan's. SCP-7454 feels less like the (former) Goddess of Love and Beauty from Greek culture and more like a regular guy with identity issues and an oppressive family who happened to have the name "Aphrodite" slapped onto them.
now, i admit i know jackshit bout writing, but i do have Ideas. For this scp article, if i were to change anything bout it, i would have there be a revelation that Issac isn't actually Aphrodite, but rather a child of Aphrodite. then all that would need to be added is that Issac confesses they came from a family that had expectations thrown onto him because his mother is the Most Beautiful Woman, and that gives him gender dysphoria. Even if everything else stays the same in the article, I would've ended up liking it better. Hell, if you want to do a transgender Greek God, you could always use Hera: make Hera want to break away from being a Goddess of Woman + motherhood as they release they might identify as male, but Zeus forbids it, so Hera runs away for the Foundation to find them, and agrees on the condition they shield Hera from Zeus.
Also- Issac? there are at least ten names out there, and the former god chose Issac of all names?
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werewolfwriter323 Ā· 5 months ago
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Hello and welcome to my Blog
I am Werewolfwriter323 and this post is basically just a way for me to organize all the stuff I post or reblog, so that I can find my own stuff and whatnot easier. And to find posts that I want to look at or reblog again.
Hereā€™s the most used tags that iā€™ve included
#not tma (these are for most posts that arenā€™t tma or other fandoms)
#otherā€™s art (art that I didnā€™t create)
#free palestine (any post that I reblogged about palestine)
#werewolfwriter does stuff (my tag for any ā€œoriginalā€ stuff that I post, whether itā€™s art, aus, writing, shitposts, memes, edits, etc.)
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#important news/info (Anything that I reblogged that I think will be important to look back on, or important info or links, or the like)
#queer stuff (Any Queer/Gay/LGBTQ+ posts. To note I usually use the term Queer to speak about the community, just because for me it works better as an umbrella term, it fits better for what I identify with.)
#random stuff (random posts that I found interesting or funny enough to reblog)
#memes (Itā€™s memes, what do you want from me?)
#writing stuff (Posts that usually include writing tips and the like that I know that Iā€™ll want to look back on)
#art stuff (Posts that usually include art tips and the like that I know that Iā€™ll want to look back on)
#save for later (Posts that I want to look back on for whatever reason)
I have been using tumblr for a while, and I had an older blog that I was often on, but it wasnā€™t until a few months ago with this new blog that I finally figured out how tagging works. I hadnā€™t really given it though until recently, and now I am glad to be able to use it to organize my stuff somewhat.
Despite being a mostly TMA and WTNV blog here's some other fandoms that I love and will gush about given the chance.
Gravity Falls
Danny Phantom
Avatar The Last Airbender
Fullmetal Alchemist Brotherhood
Jojoā€™s Bizarre Adventures
Mob Psycho 100
Kingdom Hearts
Sonic The Hedgehog
Other Random tidbits
Most relistened to TMA eps:
MAG 01 Anglerfish
MAG 13 Alone
MAG 15 Lost John's Cave
MAG 22 Colony
MAG 51 High Pressure
MAG 50 Trail Rations
MAG 77 The Kind Mother
MAG 81 A Guest For Mr.Spider
MAG 91 The Coming Storm
MAG 125 Civilian Casualties
MAG 132 Entombed
MAG 170 Recollection
MAG 177 Wonderland
MAG 178 The Processing Line
Podcasts I've listened to:
The Adventure Zone (Balance & Amnesty)
Welcome To Nightvale
Random Number Generator Horror Podcast No.9
The Strange Case of Starship Iris
The Magnus Archives
Scared Gay
Wolf 359
Wooden Overcoats
Red Valley
Jar of Rebuke
Don't Forget Your Towel: Locus
Unlicensed
Malevolent
The White Vault
How I Died
And finally this is a safe space for any queer/gay/LGBTQ+ folks (including aroace people, or anyone else on the acesexual spectrum, trans folks of any sort (gender can be whatever you want or don't want it to be), and Bi and Bi adjacent (Pan for example) folks.
It's also a safe space for any neurodivergent folks.
And honestly a safe space for anyone else who isn't an exclusionists of any kind, I try to be a pretty open minded person, and I try to not judge others, but if you are going out of your way to harass people online for no good reason, then I won't deal with you on my blog, you will be blocked.
That's all for now, thanks for reading if ya did, and I hope that you enjoy what stuff I've got here.
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losergendered Ā· 11 months ago
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Phew! Took me almost a week and a half to organize this request on my Google doc cuz it was so damn long and I had to pick out the numerous genders for these slashers. Was having a bit of a slasher autism moment (specifically for Ghostface ngl, he silly + is a huge hoe /silly). Also figured I share my ghostface solo polycule + slasher family au kinda thing (if anything, the dynamic would be like the YT channel "TheMerkins" cuz they infamous parodies of slashers and do song covers whilst being said slashers, lol)
*to the begendered-queer audience* also, yes, I am fully aware Tara ISN'T neither Billy nor Stu's ACTUAL bio child in the Scream franchise. But again, au's and other hc shit bc why the fuck not?? lmao. But I mostly decided to keep Sam as Bill and Christina's child cuz I thought "what if Stu and Billy were separated/broke-up for a bit, billy lived w/ Christina as platonic t4t fuckbuds for a bit during their break-up, bill winds up pregnant w/ christina's child (sam) that resulted into bill and stu getting back together again to raise Sam and stuart macher being a dad to the child that isn't biologically his but doesn't give a fuck since he still loves bill's daughter no matter what.(?)" Plus I'm planning to make one of those "family tree" things n whatnot that showcase how the slasher family works, but I figured you would get the jist of it thru this hc request of mine /silly
Also, yes, I am implying freak4loser married stuilly cuz yees. (Not) my bad for the rambles cuz my BPD ass just wants to hyperfixate dump on ya (joke)
Billy Loomis/Ghostface from Scream is a transsexual, trans/ftm, dbdghostfacecharic, Ghostfacelovesick, envighoface, deepriftghostfacic, bleedingghostfacic, rainingbloodghostfacic, prestighostfacic, monochroghostfacic, brushunterghostfacic, Forestghostfaceic, Ghostfacestalker, slasheric, horrorcoric, DDDEtagged, knifegender, yanderegender, yanderecoric, NPDtoxic, narclexic, LOViRiUM, Narcboy, Borderlineboy, FOUNDFOOTAGEHORRORIC, boyfreak, mascfreak, genderfreak, knifeinlyrica, numbersupica, bpdboyfreak, Vindium, vintaudio, Turigirlfuckoff, Genderwhore, genderslut, tranny, fag, polyam, eros veldifem/turifem, eros veldigirl/turigirl, turigirl, turifem, veldihet, genderfuck, queerfuck, nonbinary, genderfluid, and agender. He doesnā€™t care about pronouns. Billy is autistic, psychotic, borderline, narcissistic, and hypersexual. He is married to Stu Macher.
Stu Macher is an auDHD, bipolar, narcissist with HPD, psychosis and ASPD. He is also (yes, I am referencing his actor from the FNAF movie as a joke and also cuz I am finding it hilarious) FNAFgender, Fnafmovieic, FNAFhyperfixic, SPINGLOCKSUITGENDER, Burntrapcharic, WilliamAftoncharic, Fnafascic, Springlockedgender, slasheric, Aftaesic,purplegender, PANLosin, boyloser, mascloser, Losearchetropic, genderloser, a faggot, and a gay man. He mostly uses he/him and they/them pronouns. Stu is Billyā€™s husband.
Billy and Christinaā€™s daughter, Samantha Carpenter, who Stu adopted as his own child, is a finalgirlic, Finalgirlloser, genderloser, aroace, demigirl, transmasc. She also goes by the name ā€œSamā€ and uses she/him and has CPTSD.
Stu and Billyā€™s biological daughter and Samanthaā€™s young half-sister, Tara Carpenter, who also goes by the last name Loomis-Macher, is a masc, genderfreak, transmasc, trans girl, transsexual, dyke, tranny, transmasc girl, azurboy, azurgirl, finalboyic, finalgirlic, aromantic, lesboy who is autistic, bipolar, and borderline. They use they/it/zhe and is Christinaā€™s adopted daughter.
Sidney Prescott, who is Christinaā€™s wife and stepmom/adopted mom to Sam and Tara, is a finalgirlic lesbian.Ā 
Billy, Stu, Christina and Sidney share joint custody of Sam and Tara.
Ghostfaceā€™s partner, Jason Voorhees from Friday The 13th, is a nonverbal, neurodivergent, antisocial, slasheric, forestcoric, cabincoric, Fri13ThCalendic, thankfridica, camprilvozmasc(uline), queer man with PTSD and DPD. He is Carrie Whiteā€™s adopted dad/stepdad.Ā 
Jasonā€™s mom, Pamela Voorhees, is a straight, caedasexual woman with PTSD. She is the adopted grandmother/step-grandmother of Carrie White.
Carrie White from Carrie, who took the last name Voorhees after she was adopted by Jason and Pamela, is a thistle femme, bloodgender, bloodcoric, gendertraumatized, traumacoric, Traumavesi, Religiousrecovertraumatic, Recovertraumic, Sunrisetraumix, Teremuskin, caebagirl, traumagender, bastardcoric, rotcoric, transneutral, trans lesbian with PTSD, religious trauma, BPD, AvPD and is autistic.Ā 
Carrieā€™s girlfriend, Sue Snell (prefer the 2002 ā€œCarrieā€ version of her), is a femme lesbian with PTSD. Sueā€™s best friend/QPP is Tommy Ross (1976 version) is a transmasc, AFAB, nonbinary, arospec, ambiamorous, gay (blue/green).Ā 
Leatherface/Bubba Sawyer from The Texas Chainsaw Massacre is an aroace, cannibalcoric, demiboy, fleshcoric, savagesica, fleshian, meatgender, and xenogender. Bubba is a medium-support needs autistic, bipolar, and is canonically mentally disabled. He is the adoptive son of Pamela Voorhees, along with being an adoptive brother of Jason Voorhees and step-uncle to Carrie.Ā 
Additionally, Carrie views her adoptive stepdadā€™s partner, Billy/Ghostface, to be her stepmom and Sam and Tara as her stepsisters/friends.
Billyā€™s other partner, Michael Myers from Halloween, is a halloweencoric, Hallofrilled, Candybowlic, AlderHalloween, Halloweenthing, JACKOLANTERNGENDER, Hallopassic, Cauldruttic, Hallocandyic, TRICK'O'TREATLEXIC, Halloweenmovic, slasheric, maskgender, stabdarkica, queer, MLM man who is neurodivergent, a selective mute, has ASPD, AvPD, and low empathy.
Ghostfaceā€™s third partner, Freddy Krueger from A Nightmare On Elm Street, is a bisexual, uranic, man-pref bi, masc-pref bi, bi gay man (neopronouns flag), faggot, bi fag, toro, genderfuckoff, genderbitch/bitchgender, lexeprofane, lexebitchic, bi gay man fuckoff, uranicfuckoff, bifuckoff, firegender, amenightmerica, nightmacoric, aldernic man with POCD, chronic pain, Touretteā€™s, bipolar, and ASPD with tics from his Touretteā€™s.Ā 
Freddyā€™s daughter, Kathryn Krueger, who also goes by her adopted name Maggie Burroughs, is a lesbian neptunic woman with insomnia and MDD (the maladaptive daydreaming acronym, not the major depressive one). She is an elder step-sister of Tara, Sam, and Carrie.
Ghostfaceā€™s fourth partner, Hannibal Lecter from Silence of The Lambs, is an autistic, low empathetic person with ASPD and BPD. He is cannibalcoric, meatgender, cannibagorix, fleshcoric, gurocoric, gorecoric, maskegnder, fleshian, cannibalcute, gendercannibal, cannilovic, ToothyGoreCannic, Invicorpse, cannijokic, autophagyn, Knostkrev, canfinorric, cannibex, monopoly gay man with cannteros attraction. He uses he/they/gore pronouns.Ā 
Ghostfaceā€™s final partner, Pyramid Head from Silent Hill, is a neurodivergent. nonverbal, Angedien, Genderdeity, wargod, wardeity, wargoddex, Aldersopordeus, deathgod, deathdeity, deathgoddex, Deitrayal, Deurseity, Duopurdeic, Godsmercyquoteic, LiminialDeitic, Duodeic, Alderauradeus, Pickagodquoteic, Occudeic, RageUndeaDeitic, Justicedeic, Tobecomegodquoteic, DEIBROKEFURIC, kenochoric, slasheric, godgender, deitykin, alterhuman, nonhuman, menschaeus, lancian, jamian, Reilian, and rivean. It goes by it/its and all masculine pronouns.
They are all a blended family.
posted! this was so much fun btw
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genderqueer-karma Ā· 2 years ago
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having thoughts about mana. my brainā€™s working overtime today, so feel free to ignore.
so i was trying to show my classmate about mana sama and went to the wikipedia page about him.
after i showed her the information iā€™d been looking for, i decided to scroll and look to the sources and do some reading, mostly for fun. naturally, most of the sources had very vague, surface-level information about him due to how private he actually manages to keep his personal life, which iā€™ve come to expect and also admire. (nowadays i prefer to know less about people i look up to. keeps me stable, so to speak.)
anyway, multiple of these sources highlight his current and very famous androgynous fashion and general appearance along with how he (seemingly ironically) disliked femininity and feminine styles in his youth.
most importantly, a few of these claim that he himself claimed to have discovered his ā€œinner womanā€.
to my little genderqueer heart, thatā€™s a very interesting notion, particularly the part about being very ā€œmachoā€ and ā€œhatingā€ femininity. that specific narrative reminds me of one iā€™ve heard tossed around in regards to many trans/genderqueer people and discovering their identities, which is that they tried to over-perform their assigned gender at birth before accepting how tiring that really was.
given the time period he would have most likely experienced his adolescence in, the above sentiment goes double. not speculating, but it is quite an interesting thing to think about.
naturally, with being very private about his personal life (even his age is technically a mystery, though people have made guesses based on context clues, plus for a very long time he just straight up lied about that type of shit in interviews and stuff) aspects of his identity, including and especially his gender identity and sexuality, are unknown. of course, iā€™m not here to make assumptions, but i find the seeming fluidity/ambiguity of his gender in particular to be intriguing and inspirational.
as a young person who never actually gets to see genderqueer people represented outside of fictional characters and headcanons, seeing someone who embodies a very specific presentation and feeling of gender (regardless of actual identity) and who isnā€™t white*** is quite ā€¦ it makes me feel ā€¦ warm? having a role model who has supposedly claimed somewhat queer feelings without being tied to any labels that give him a concrete queer identity is genuinely something i greatly appreciate.
as someone who actually fluctuates between multiple labels in regards to their own identity and thinks of gender more as a fun piece of flavoring rather than a concrete thing, hearing about ā€œdual natureā€ and whatnot from a person i admire for things unrelated to gender is something i hold dear.
long story short, mana and his 4d chess gender captivate me, regardless of his actual specific label, because i think fucking around with gender is fun and cool šŸ‘
*** yeah yeah whiteness is a western concept and there are prominent genderqueer people i could look up to, but idk. he has a certain air about him that iā€™m just very drawn to. plus heā€™s a very talented person in many different ways. more often than not, people arenā€™t exactly known for being a jack of all trades (and arguably a master of the same ones). plus i feel like most of the prominent genderqueers out there are white. i donā€™t vibe with mainly seeing one type of person be the gq rep i get anywhere, ya dig?
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