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[adiyo]

Coming Back to My Passion: The Pull of Music When Everything Else Says "No"

For years, I’ve tried to convince myself that I wanted something different. Something serious, something more aligned with what I thought was expected of me. At one point, I even set my sights on international law. It felt like the right thing to do, the responsible thing to do. But every time I thought I had found my path, something would pull me back. And that something was always music.

The funny thing is, I’ve tried different directions—enrolled in culinary school twice (the first time stepping away because of health issues), completed my 200-hour yoga teacher training, and even became a certified English as a Second Language teacher. All worthy pursuits. But no matter how far I wandered, I always found myself back in music’s orbit.

Each time I got involved in music and things started to pick up, I’d feel alive. There’s something about performing—whether it’s at Folkarama, an open mic, or any small gig—that makes me feel seen. It feels like home. But here’s the twist: every time I leaned into my musical passions, I felt guilty. Ashamed even.

Why? Because it didn’t feel "serious" enough. It wasn’t academically prestigious, and because I came from a family of immigrants that weighed heavily on me. I’m the youngest of three, and I could never seem to figure out what I wanted to do academically. On top of that, I struggled with maintaining good grades—something I later found out in my 30s was due to ADHD. By the time I was in eighth grade, my confidence in my intellect had crumbled. I carried that insecurity with me for years.

I kept telling myself that music wasn’t a “real” option. That I should be doing something more "respectable" in the eyes of society and my family. And so, I wavered. Even when I had momentum with my music, I'd let insecurities creep in—the fear that I wasn’t a strong enough vocalist, or that I didn’t sound like other female artists. I'd let the weight of my family's opinions and my own self-doubt pull me away from something I loved.

I always had one foot in and one foot out. Never fully committing, never fully allowing myself to embrace music as more than just a hobby.

But something shifted this year. Something snapped in me, like a quiet but powerful voice saying, "Enough." I realized I’ve spent too long letting other people’s expectations and my own insecurities dictate my choices.

And that voice? It was telling me to give myself a real shot—to embrace abundance in all areas of my life, including the one place I’ve always felt most alive: music.

I may not be able to control everything, but I can control the actions I take. I can decide to honor my passions and let them guide me instead of letting fear or doubt steer the ship.

Now, the real question is: What are my end goals? I’ve spent so long trying to fit into other people’s expectations that I forgot to figure out what I want. And that’s what I’m focusing on now—defining success on my own terms.

Here’s what I know for sure: People will always have ideas about what’s best for you. But at the end of the day, you’re the one who has to live with the decisions you make. So why not make decisions that honor your heart? You can’t always control whether people believe in you, but you can choose to believe in yourself.

And that’s where I am now—letting go of guilt and stepping fully into what makes me feel alive.

[306somesh]

Leaping Into the Unknown: The Risk of Following My Passion

What’s the biggest risk you’d like to take — but haven’t been able to? Introduction Risk is a word that often sparks a mixture of excitement and fear. It’s that moment where the safe and predictable path meets the unknown, and deciding which way to go can feel like standing on the edge of a cliff. For me, the biggest risk I’d like to take—yet haven’t been able to—is leaving behind the security…

[demimusic]

Inspiring Action and Realization of Goals through Live Piano Sessions

Daily writing promptWhat change, big or small, would you like your blog to make in the world?View all responses Hey everyone! Today, I want to share a bit about the driving force behind my website and the change I hope it can make in the world. My main inspiration for creating this space is my live piano sessions. Everything else on the site revolves around this central idea. So, what do I hope…

[heather-riggins-found-diary]

Finding Joy in Work: The Path to Success and Fulfillment

Through this blog, we will explore the power of enjoyment in the workplace and how it can lead to success and creativity in our professional lives. I'll be sharing insights on recognizing signs of job dissatisfaction, and the courage it takes to explore

Introduction:Work occupies a significant portion of our lives, and its impact on our overall well-being cannot be underestimated. Many of us spend a substantial amount of time engaged in our professions, but how often do we stop and ponder whether we are truly enjoying what we do? As the saying goes, “People rarely succeed unless they have fun in what they are doing.” In this blog, we will…

[theoneswhoown]

PURSUING PASSION: A Shift in Goals May Lead to Fewer Friends #lifegoals

PURSUING PASSION: A Shift in Goals May Lead to Fewer Friends 🚀💔 #lifegoals https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G4i9zI8g4hI Acknowledge the reality that prioritizing serious life goals may result in losing some friends. Explore the transformational journey of pursuing your passions and staying committed to your life vision. 🌐 #LifeGoalsPriorities #PursuingPassion #FriendshipEvolution #CommitmentToSuccess #inspiration #lifereflection via The Ones Who Own https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmx_4FwB9XJs266dDqqF-XQ March 15, 2024 at 10:00AM

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[iyas1998]

Merasa ada career block, ditambah dengan pandemi yang membuatnya banyak melakukan refleksi diri membuat Dio mundur dari pekerjaan yang sudah digelutinya selama 3 tahun, lalu mengejar passionnya dari SMA, dunia design 🔥

Bagi Dio, walau mengejar passion itu terkadang terasa berat atau sulit, tapi ia rela dan terus menjalankannya.

Simak kisah lengkap Dio di sini! 😉

#purwadhika #purwadhikadigitaltechnologyschool #satupersenxpurwadhika #PursuingPassion

[yoonia]

Hi Dia :D I have a question about plagiarism and writing for you! So I absolutely love your stories, you literally work so damn hard like my mind can't even wrap around hOW you manage to write over 10-20k words every time, nevertheless even over 40k! I'm so tired at just my current 2k in progress haha Anyway, so I've recently decided to pursue my writing passion here to practice my writing, but I'm so damn scared of getting plagiarised by someone.. :( how do you manage this difficulty? License?

I have to be honest with you and tell you that I’m actually a really slow writer as well. It may not seem as much with the lengthy chapters I keep putting out but it can take me forever to finish something unless I dedicate my whole time to get into it 🥺

Plagiarism has been one of the biggest challenges everyone has had to face by posting their work online and it’s hard when you can’t even expect people to have the common decency to regard writers’ wishes of not having their work reposted or copied :/ 

Some of the writers I know would usually do a bunch of precautions to protect their works, as do I. Posting on a few different platforms help. for example, using AO3 as a second platform since it’s the one that helps with story licensing (some writers have only been posting the full fic there and put the excerpt on their blog), or Wattpad, since a bunch of plagiarists would use the excuse of “helping to share our work there” so it’s better to get a step ahead, I guess. 

Disabling the right-click option helps when you have readers opening your blog on browsers, but it doesn't always work on mobile, unfortunately. 

For licensing, a few writers (including me) had used creative commons license as reference, but I suggest you read everything in it properly before using it on your blog since it could get pretty tricky :/ 

But, plagiarism cases aside, don’t let it get in the way of your intention of pursuing your writing passion. These things shouldn’t keep someone from doing what they love to do the most. So keep on writing, I’m sure you’ll find a way as you continue sharing your work here :) 

Good luck! 

[songlordsbug]

pursuingpassivity reblogged your post: Blood Calls

                   This is so good!!! I want more!!!          

Blushes! Thank you! I’m so glad you liked it! There may be more eventually, this world is very rich plot and character wise, but I’m hoping to work on some of the stories that got put on hold for this one.

[the-goblin-cat]

pursuingpassivity replied to your post

I would seriously buy all of your books tho. Love your writing.

[Transcript: “OOOOH! THANK YOU!!” repeated ad nauseum]

[johndeweyth]

In your own reality, your time isn't your best companion, it will always remind you of your mistake and frustrations. Good thing there is always a future, that's a head of game. #pursuingpassion #blackandwhitephotography #blackandwhite #grayscale #timetravel #instadaily #instagood #awesome_shots https://www.instagram.com/p/B1x0u5JH3rZ/?igshid=lkgrqxn68ht6

[anithabanne]

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[abwellnessstudio]

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[shawnandangelalove]

Trina looking beautiful as always. I love her selfies.

[soundpoint-pro]

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[shopaucourant]

✨Ready or not... HERE WE GO 2018!!!! ⭐️✨ I’m working on my plan for the new year which includes business goals, travel, and overall having more L❤️VE in my life; by way of experiencing life’s blessings with current family and friends, plus new additions only 2018 can reveal 🔮#serendipity #pursuingpassions . Psst! Btw I will be at Melrose Place Farmers Market tomorrow (Sunday 12/31 NYE) from 10a-2p, so holla at me if you want to ring in the NEW YEAR with some new Bling💎🎉✨ . #shopaucourant #melroseplacefarmersmarket #melroseplace (at Melrose Place Farmers Market)