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honestly i thought that joining a writing group would hold me accountable to deadlines and motivate me to write more but instead im so constantly stressed i can barely sleep
#dellete#this is .#not a real world problem. im aware of that#criticism isn't the problem; criticism makes things better I'm surr#*sure#im just so tired.... i feel like every young aspiring novelist has half a book cranked out already while im still structuring workshopping#havent written a chronological set of chapters because i keep going back to the drawing board#im never doing enough and i know in part this is affected by the relentless depressive episodes#which im not managing well either#im just - fuuck! fuck! i need to achieve something! i need to achieve something good and#prove that im worthy#i have the ideas and the ... themes and the arcs to make something good here i think but it needs to be impeccably structured#and im wasting time and im never going to make it but i need to prove im good for something#and its difficult i just cant do enough. i just cant do enough even though i do fuck all with my life and i cant outrun the old anxiety#that it needs to be done ASAP because i might not have much time left#im stressed? im stressed and tired and i feel mocked and. and these arent even real world problems like jobs and bills and shit#im barely interacting with the world as it were and its so terrifying to me#its so disappointing. whatever
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thinking about where azula's ego comes from and her self confidence
see, azula's been born into and seemingly fully subscribes to the divine right of kings and heavens mandate and so on. so assuming this, her self worth and confidence is innate. her ego doesn't stem from trying to prove herself, since she believes that she's simply been born better than others. for azula, that's fact. she's intrinsically a princess, a royal, something more divine than man. alongside this is the imperial cult of personality built up around the royals that azula is born into, no doubt shaping this idea further. azula expects the love of her people, she expects complete obedience and respect, and she expects herself to simply be better than others. this is reassured by her skill in firebending, which does put her in a league of her own. it's physical, undeniable proof that she is better. therefore the two cores of her ego compliment and reinforce each other and result in her supreme confidence.
azula using backup and azula doing things that would make others insecure or shameful simply doesn't matter. whatever she does is right and will not reflect poorly on herself because she believes she is better than everyone on an intrinsic level. why on earth would she care about what others think? she's the princess, after all. she has nothing to prove.
it also places her relationships in a very interesting light. azula has been raised to see herself as a leader of those 'lesser' than her, so mai and ty lee fall into that category. she uses them because of her intelligence, she does not feel shame in it because of her very anchored, stable ego, but ultimately they cant be equals to her because of right of birth, and she treats them as such. there's a gap there that azula can't bridge because if she does, shes betraying one of the core foundations of herself.
but what i think is so interesting is that her self confidence is deeply anchored within the few she does see as equal. and that, invariably, is family. because they're the only ones that also possess the royalty in which azula builds her self perception off of. it's why ursa effects her so badly, why in the few moments they have outside the palace she treats her brother - her rival in as many names as is the royal convention (and really that almost defines their relationship because azula sees herself as a princess first and sister second) - with respect and care. or as much as she can in her stilted azula way. and of course, her father. the fire lord. the sole and supreme divine ruler of her nation.
the only person she doesnt seem to extend this to is iroh, but i assume that's because he forsook the throne. which to azula is forsaking his birthright, their shared birthright as royals, and therefore he becomes lesser in her eyes. he didnt want to be royal in as many words, and azula demotes him accordingly within her own mind. why would she listen to someone who willingly 'lowers' himself to be rabble? zuko, at least, despite being demoted in her eyes by her father, still fights for his birthright. that is something she understands at a core level, and no doubt one of the reasons she offers his prince-hood back to him.
it almost seems to me that at some point azula starts to see herself more by her titles, role and function as royalty than as a daughter and person. no doubt from ozai's attitude towards her deeply shaping her own self worth. she's been groomed to be the throne's servant first, and a daughter second afterall. ursa's absence amplifies this, removing the one shaping force that insists that azula is a girl, not a weapon nor a perfect princess. where zuko's journey separates his self worth from his position as prince, azula doesn't get that actualisation. she is a princess who is also a girl. she is a royal that happens to be a human too.
to her, ozai is her fire lord before he is her father. zuko is a prince before he is her brother. ursa is the fire lady before she is her mother. the throne comes first, always. azula relies on her status as royalty to understand herself and her position in the world. without it, shes completely unmoored and most likely has no idea who she is, how to operate, or where her loyalties should lie. she seems almost dependant on her status in that way. she sacrifices everything for it. because what is she, who is everyone else, if she's not a princess?
#also potential anchor point for her perfectionism#raised to see the throne as the pinnical of fn; raised to one day sit that throne; has to become perfect to prove worthy#also her father. all of that#ozai when i get you. when i get you ozai.#azula#atla#veran speaks#is this azula meta? it might be#my brain has brewed her long enough now im yapping all my character analysis#shes sooo unwell. love her sm
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The hot girl urge to
[push myself to the absolute brink physically and emotionally just to achieve something in life because I refuse to die a nobody]
is currently drunkenly fist fighting my urge to
[take 4 melatonin and pass tf out because I got shit to do tomorrow and my brain isn’t working]
#i’m not doing well but slay at least i’m hot#<- I say this with greasy af hair and a full on breakout happening rn#gifted kid burnout but I never ‘burnt out’ because I barely reached a smoulder and then petered out because sad bitch hours hit early#and now I need to prove that I’m still worthy and able to create and devote myself to something#because god damnit I miss being a child prodigy because at least I was good at something#gifted kid burnout#idfk what im doing#idk what to tag this as#i’m mentally unwell#i’m just a girl#not really but yeah#aroace#aromantic#asexual#idk how to tag this#genderfluid
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tournament 2 in the bag, impressed with my stamina improvement. went 9am-5pm, 4 tournament longsword matches, 1 casual free spar, 4 tournament singlestick matches, 1 casual free spar. I won one single match in singlestick which surprised me a lot. It was against the only even match in the tournament to me i think (she does rapier and only recently got into singlestick)
I wish some of my matches were recorded because I got some good but embarrassing tips from some of the people there. I apparently pulled the same failed maneuver 4 times in a row and missed out on points and I feel so fucking stupid. I can't remember when I did that and I also just. go blind during spars it's so hard to see the fine targets and remember proper plays/movements.
Seeing the only other student with the same amount of experience as me do leagues better has me in a rut as well. He probably reads and practices in his spare time though and is the favorite student so he gets more help. I'm glad I have the friends I do, helps otherwise keep me in the hobby, but damn
#CONSTANT battle to prove to others im worthy of being in the scene and being taught#the haters wont win i will prevail but DAMN!#at least i have a few folks in my corner#hema#personal
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im also increasingly sure that im autistic but we'll never ever confirm that </3
#i had this in person entry exam to a new university to a course that involves working with people young and old#and Apparently waiting for your turn to speak means you never get a turn to speak which means you're not the right fit to be working with#children. i was polite sorry i didnt get in your face about it. come on. :-/#but ok i shall remain the world's most distraught humanities student for a year more. and im going to complain the whole time#i Was excited about this but i did misjudge what this course would be like. bummer. at least the teachers at btk are sweet and lovely#but god let me out. i dont want to do this. i dont want to do any of this. someone give me a thesis question that can't be dealt with in#two sentences#every time i think of something it's like oh yeah the answer is right here. this is the answer and im not going to make a fool of anyone in#writing 15 pages about it#which is admittedly not a lot but i am a man of succinctness and i want an actual worthy topic#and currently im only thinking about jeeves and wooster. i guess there could be something about societal commentary and everything but thats#not very interesting is it#so hi if anyone has an idea they want a meddling english student to research and write about in some detail chime in in the replies#my post#look how succinct these tags are. proving my point#as to why ill never get diagnosed: i could get into that as well but ive almost run out of tags
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Tag Dump because I'm tired of not having my tags handy.
Also NSFW headcanons because i forget my headcanons. I have headcanons but I only write smut when the stars align and two blood sacrifices have been made in my honor so no one needs to know these.
HIM's eyes go black when they c*m.
They are a nonbinary-shapeshifter but they prefer to have a pen*s.
Head game is insane.
They are EXTREMELY vain so when it comes to talking during its usually stuff like "you like my *blank*" "i know it feels good when i *blank*"
Believe it or not, HIM is a switch. They have no preference for either though. It's really just whatever they feel like at the moment.
They love to leave marks in visible spots.
Finally, the tags:
ooc. 「 monster fucker simulator. 」 ic. 「 lace a lie with truth none is sweeter. 」 him. 「 creature most vile. 」 mojo. 「 prove yourself worthy to a worthless cause. 」 musings. 「 delights of pain and pleasure. 」 headcanons. 「 to kill a god. 」 aesthetic. 「 luxuries of devil to make angels weep. 」 style. 「 dipped with gold and blood. 」 self promo. 「 fall in decay. 」 promo. 「 succumb to your weakness. 」 desires. 「 the taste of the forbidden 」
body. 「 all the better to eat you with. 」 fc. 「 evil always seeks to tempt. 」 answers. 「 look to the heavens and pray to devils. 」 jojoisnomo. 「 beautiful disaster i’ll eat you. 」 mojo and him. 「 own me i'll let you play the role. 」 rebelpuff. 「 what's the most you ever lost 」
#im censoring to keep it out of hrny bots#ooc. 「 monster fucker simulator. 」#ic. 「 lace a lie with truth none is sweeter. 」#him. 「 creature most vile. 」#mojo. 「 prove yourself worthy to a worthless cause. 」#musings. 「 delights of pain and pleasure. 」#headcanons. 「 to kill a god. 」#aesthetic. 「 luxuries of devil to make angels weep. 」#style. 「 dipped with gold and blood. 」#self promo. 「 fall in decay. 」#promo. 「 succumb to your weakness. 」#desires. 「 the taste of the forbidden 」#body. 「 all the better to eat you with. 」#fc. 「 evil always seeks to tempt. 」#answers. 「 look to the heavens and pray to devils. 」#jojoisnomo. 「 beautiful disaster i’ll eat you. 」#rebelpuff. 「 what's the most you ever lost 」#mojo and him. 「 own me i'll let you play the role. 」
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..Personally obsessed with the thought of Sonic beating Scourge JUST cuz Bernadette stepped in--
Like..Scourge is super and tweaking out like instead of it draining him, it just makes him glitch out like if he goes on for too long it could destroy moebius and mobius, he's not thinking clearly his anger is all consuming and he cant see Sonic win, refuses to let him win..so he's about to kill him but then oh!! Heres Sonics mom, that met Scourge once and decided she loves him like her second son, the first time she met him she knew he wasnt evil- just angry with no one to help him navigate that emotion and he's broken and like any mother would. She stands between him and Sonic to protect Sonic and she stares Scourge in the eye, unwavering.
And like a raging animal he snarls at her, threatens her- teeth bared chaos energy vibrating from every fiber of his being but he doesn't get any closer nor does she flinch, and she raises her hands. Slow, careful..gentle.
Her eyes don't leave his and soon her palms are hovering over his cheeks and Sonic has to watch in stunned silence as the dude that threatened to kill his universe and Him, just let's his mom close that distance. Cuz Scourge is still a Sonic, and all Sonics, no matter what love their family with every part of them, no matter who it is, if Sonic cares about them, it's deep and unmoving. And the one person Scourge loves, is his adoptive mother and Bernadette is her.
And because of that, Scourge let's her touch him..if only for a few moments..a few moments that allows Sonics friends to send the chaos emeralds back to Mobius. A few moments that give them the chance to get Scourge powered down.
DO YALL GET IT DHSUA AHHHHHH. Scourges mommy issues go soo hard yall don't get it..yeah his daddy issues are crazy but man..baby just wants his mom to love him ���
Someone ask me abt my scourge rewrite 🫠
#j.p speaks#scourge the hedgehog#i have such a specific idea for how his entire arc plays out..#scourge just wanting to be loved and never feeling that until he gets to sonics universe :))#and seeing that makes him feel as if he isnt worthy of it so why not prove them right :)))#“If everyone thinks Im an unlovable monster...Ill show them one.”#sonic the hedgehog#scourge rewrite#scourges arc#I LOOOVE him
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how do y'all get over the anxiety of commenting on writers' fics who you think are beyond the level any engagement you can possibly provide? Genuine question like what are your tips.
#like real answers only please lol not the 'everyone loves every comment just say whatever!'#because one it's not that easy#and two ive heard authors be annoyed at comments that arent good or smart enough 😅#like when an authors' writing is just so smart you feel like you cant possibly have anything valuable to say about their work back#that would be a worthy engagement to the amount of talent and intelligence they've already put into the work#it is much easier to yell back in my beloved bestie mutuals' DMs about something theyve written#or someone I know on the periphery#than to comment on the mutuals' fics that are like. the intimidating genius mutuals you havent built the rapport with#i always have so many of these big fics i want to say how much i loved but feel like i have to be smart enough to prove that i GET it yknow#sometimes I put off reading the ones i really want until i think im gonna be in the right mindset to understand what i think they want me t#which is maybe a bad way to engage but i struggle w this so much so any advice on essentially how to get over my inferiority complex thanks
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Hornyposting in tags skip if u dont wanna see
#like wrestling collar matches right. idk. yesterday i was trying to explain my Deal to a friend when they asked if i was a puppy#and i was like. im not a puppy. because im not cute sweet baby boy . im a fucking Mutt.#im a grown ass dog with teeth.#and im a werewolf. im scared of the part of me with claws and teeth and no self control#and i love the part of me with teeth and claws and no self control#i dont want head pets sit up and beg good boy#at least DEFINITELY not outright#i want to be chained up and slapped and only when ive broken myself against my leash and am too tired to fight is it safe to pet me#i want reassured that i cant bite people because even when i get twitchy or scared or snappy the muzzle keeps me from hurting anyone else#and I dont want degradation i want seen as an equal being worthy of respect#and pro wrestling collar matches. i feel more resonance with that than i do with almost any pup play content ive ever seen#i want a fight. and maybe i want to lose. just to prove to myself that im not the threat im scared i am
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HrGHK--
Someone just pointed this out
Quackity intervened as a mediator for Roier and Cellbit today.
And just like the last time he intervened in one of Roier's relationships, it ended in disaster. No wonder he lashed out... Oh Roier, you're seeing history repeat itself again and again, aren't you? :(
#i talk#qsmp talk#listen I love q!Quackity with all my heart#but I love q!Roier too and I 100% understand his anger#For those who aren't familiar with Roier's lore:#The last incident was with Spreen#and it ended with Spreen killing him#agh#EXCEPT THIS TIME THEY WONT ABANDON YOU!!!#CELLBIT WILL MAKE IT UP TO HIM IM SURE#Even if he never wins him back as a fiance or partner#he'll at least prove himself worthy of friendship#and maybe trust
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everything is in turmoil!!
#i dont know if i can do this..#i ideally need to be out of here by sunday. if i stay any longer ill need to pay roughly $60 a day.#ive already accumulated debt with the power company. i cant have moms phone shut off yet so theres more debt to accumulate#need a storage unit. need to sort through a whole apartment of shit. need to move 6 cats. fill out forms. find other forms.#try to get an appointment with social security. try to get disability and/or emergency financial help.#gotta move into a modular home infested with dog feces and smells like piss and cigarettes#gotta hear right wing bs and slurs for god knows how long#gotta deal with my dad and by proxy step mother breathing down my neck about getting a further education and career#i just want everything to stop.. the only reliable people i have near me think my mental disorders are crutches i can will away#and the only people who believe they ARE a problem are unreliable and insufferable#i cant do this i feel like im having a panic attack 24/7 i feel trapped and lost and miserable and hopeless#i cant rely on other people for everything forever but i dont know what im doing. i dont know anything.#why did this have to happen? why do i need to prove worthy of shelter and food of my own? i cant think like this#all i can do is type and feel a thousand times more useless than i ever did before#i want my mom back. it wasnt supposed to happen like this.
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Had to turn gale down properly bc i dont know whats flirting in this game and whats not and VOM idk how ppl do this irl thank god im ugly and weird i wouldbt have survived a winter
#Kanitalk#Hes so sad :(#Boy im sorry but lae'zel is a clear winner here she woke me up during the night like fight me prove to me u#Arw worthy me and i lost and she was like. Fuck. Ugh. Fucking fine you suck so bad but i still want u fuck this we r marrief now. Shes so#Funny i love her#Kani liveblogging#Kani balduring
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hs!alune smooches hs!kayn's cheek, then bites it. for me, the mun, reasons are unknown, but for shieda? he probably knows, right? @seeksmoon
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"What- I wasn't even doing anything!" An angry candy red covers his face instantly. However, he genuinely isn't angry- simply flushed by the first kiss to his cheek, and also the nibble.
" Don't bite me, I bite back. " The truth behind her gesture remains unclear to the man known as Shieda Kayn. For a long time, affection was foreign to him. It really wasn't until he became famous when he started to realize people didn't just hate him. Sometimes, they loved him, too... Even if it wasn't as easy to understand as to why or how, but he supposes this too, is a part of fame, or time. Once you get close to someone, it's hard to take that away.
He gently bends to Alune's cheek, replicating the gesture with enthusiasm. One gentle and friendly kiss to her forehead. No biting, unless he wanted to bite her ears... Which he immediately settles on: no, stupid idea.
" You're weird like me and... I like that about you. " He gets close enough to stare into her eyes for a second, but then he steps away just as easy." Kidding. Just kidding, you're not THAT weird. " If his grin could grow any larger, it certainly would. Not that Alune would ever notice... Perhaps, if she did, he might just literally die.
" Next time you bite me, let me know beforehand, alright? Damn near lost my train of thought. " That isn't to say he already forgot what he was doing beforehand... Now, what was he doing?
#frothing at the fuckin mouth rn#kayn [ … ] in character . / will you prove worthy?#HELLOOOO KAYN PLZ BE NORMAL FOR ONCE IN UR LIFE#kayn basically being a goofball weirdo 4k#then being emo. sounds about right--#kayn gets bitten not clickbait#SCREAMS I MEANT TO POST THIS EARLIER TODAY IM SO SORRY#THANK U FOR THE WAIT ILY OOMFIE
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when will aup sidestories return from war and stop leaving me bitter about how the main story ended
#lumensis' characterization & death + the revelation of ludgers desire were extremely anticlimactic#700+ chapters of building up only to have the resolution forcefully/hastily crammed into. what. 2 and 1/2 chapters?#and am i supposed to care for his relationship with his mom when it didnt come up in 99% of the novel?#tbh it had *many* opportunities to come up but the author wanted to keep ludgers desire as mysterious as possible#and so it lost its chance to have any emotional buildup#well other than the implications of regrets which were frankly a bit oversaturated in the novel#(again. what happened to the 'show dont tell' principles)#honestly even occasional flashbacks to ludgers mom teaching him about all kinds of myths and lores when its relevant#would have helped in this aspect plus showcased his growth and development over time even when its off screen#(doesnt make his vast knowledge look like it conveniently came out of nowhere)#while also greatly enhancing the world building of his game breaking 'real magic'#anyway i think ludgers reconciliation w his mother would have been more impactful if ludgers past life came up more often#hell it would have done wonder in exploring his depth if we are going with framing his past lifestyle as a flaw#the thing about ludger as a character is that his past (in both worlds) is much more interesting than his present#bc its the only way we can see how he mentally changed in comparison as his changes are nearly non existent in the present timeline#(a part of the reasons why ludgercaseys relationship over time is an appealing topic is that it showcases both of their changes)#(reading about a protagonist who has no mental changes over the course of the story is no different than watching... a nature documentary)#im still v salty about how we never get to see arpas and bettys reconciliation btw#so do emotional closures between ludger and other characters#those are literally the meat of the story that would be worthy of their own arc#sayren why the hell did you rush through them and put them off screen#in the end instead of proving that he has finally learnt his lessons by confronting his emotions ludger chose to run away from it yet again#even if we are to assume that is whats gonna happen post epilogue why is his change accomplished by a goddamn last minute timeskip#(that is also lowkey a failed suicide attempt in disguise)#instead of what could have been... idk... a banger novel named aup#good christ#rant
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Honestly my headcanoning for The Cursing of Chateau Castle lore continues cooking in my brain like I got more for it but it's all in the microwave for now. Like I got a whole ass storyline for Pierre and Lady Irene. With how hardcore hc-ing I am bout these characters, it makes it seem like they're my OCs but no they're like-- my half-children I think? isat is the other parent of course. I got nothing else to go off of in regards to the chateau trio but the small crumbs and a dream.
#aria rants#like bout pierre's home life being The Worst ever. and like the internal monologue he'd have after sacrificing their castle#imagine going through all that ordeal. joining the supposed ''heroes' party'' and then betraying The Hero aka josephandre#all for your own family to recognize you as being worthy of being a part of the family. so that you can be recognized as a noble#but in the end it wasnt enough. he wasnt happy. in the end pierre was happiest with josephandre and the others so he#went around. turned their back on the ppl he has spent majority of their life proving their own worth to go back and save#the first genuine friend he ever had in ages and the cost of that being the very castle they wanted to be a part of#so in the end. he never got to actually be called ''lord'' he didnt have a place in the family. he lost the castle#but thats fine anyway cuz he found a home with josephandre and the others BUT THEN!!! he apparently got into a near-death#experience like how horrible is that??? to have your title stripped away from you from birth and then abandon the#one chance and opportunity to have that title for the sake of saving your friend and realizing that it'd be better to just be#with them instead but before that moment can even sink in well enough-- YOU'RE NOW ON THE EDGE OF DEATH!#yea pierre is turning out to be my fave character from like-- that mentions of them betraying the party and then#sacrificing their own castle to save josephandre and then the fate of them possibly dying near the end of the series#like that guy went THROUGH IT. not as much as josephandre but he really did just went through it and im like-- out here#using my brain power to the maximum in filling in the blanks cuz i got attached to 3 characters with only a name and#some information. i got some more in regards to lady irene and josephandre too btw like-- this is for you mirabelle#im spreading the cursing of chateau castle propaganda as best as i can with the crumbs im given
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sorry i AM of a hater's disposition today but while i enjoyed the teenage mutant ninja turtles movie for the satisfying, skilled and adventurous animation and character design, and the characters themselves were cute and fun, it was yet another example of a story that expresses the notion that if you are different from others, the only way for you to be redeemed or to have value is if you are extraordinary in some way. nothing about the story contested this, like mr rat fellow was only not treated like a freak once it was shown to the public that he is "a hero". the story had more nuance than that and there definitely was acceptance of characters who are different, but again, it felt like they were only accepted because they proved that they are useful. i know im preaching to the choir here but like... if you are a disabled person or even just A Struggler (i am a struggler, especially in social situations where i have to try to act "normal" and am totally incapable of doing so), it's hard to always see these messages that people CAN like you but only if you are gifted or exceptional or useful to society (i.e. someone who can generate capital). it was a cool movie and i really liked it, but this message of "you need to be useful to be liked if you are different" is such a prevalent one and kind of disheartening if you think about it. and oh boy do i think about it
this is just a post don't take it too seriously, i knowww im talking about a kids movie but kids movies can have issues and i can make a post about kids movies for 3 people to read
#like literally a loving and just society should uplift people who will “never contribute anything” because they are still people who deserve#love & care#you should not have to prove you are worthy of love#(also everyone contributes something by being alive. they add to the lives of others and their own happiness and autonomy matters)#teenage mutant ninja turtles#lol#im not even hating im just making my pointses
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