#prochoice if you think about that last line

[dazed--xx]

wait i just saw one of yr repilies, can u tell us abt ur fiance? Like how yall met online and stuff, how long after did u meet up? And omg what was it like when u found out u were pregnant?? Did u have the baby??? How is adjusting to life together??? U need a show on ur life 😭

Sure lol this is gonna be long

We met on the site meet me and talked for about a week he thought I was a catfish and we talked on snap and he came over. We watched avatar the last Airbender 🤣he was super excited I had showbox on my phone so we watched it and smoked some weed. I was 19 and he just turned 22 (but he was actually a gentleman asked if he could kiss me and tried to leave it at a kiss 🙄, me being the hoe I am turned it into more 🫡) we ended up hooking up, I was on birth control and he wore a condom but he left in the morning for work and we hung out all the time ever since. After us knowing each other in person for 2 weeks his sister ended up kicking him out and I'm a real ass bitch that wouldn't let ANYONE I know and care about be homeless even knowing them for 2 weeks so I talked to my bio mom who I was renting a room from if he could stay with us. She said yes (she loves taking in strays) and one morning after he left for work legit the day after he moved in my mom came into my room around 630 am and told me to take a pregnancy test; being Hella confused I did but reluctantly and BIIIIIITTTTTCCCCCHHHHH 2 FULL DARK LINES

This is the legit pregnancy test I went to the hospital shortly after telling my now fiance and his words still make me laugh to this day cause I sent this picture and nothing else and his response was "you really gonna hit me with this 7 minutes before my shift?" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 like I could have said something he thought I was sleeping 😅 but he made me keep the baby like no cap he told me I'm not getting an abortion he's all about prochoice but he'll raise the baby if I don't want to be involved and I'd never have to deal with him or the baby again if I didn't want the baby. Which made me think and choose to keep the baby and be in a relationship with him, it gave us our son he's turning 6, December 27. We've been together since then which was in 2018. He proposed 6/27/2019 and we just started making moves to get married next year 🤣 and we have a little girl as well now and she was planned and a rainbow baby. He wasn't a kpop Stan and didn't care for it but now he's a full blown stay and army 😅 I converted him he also loves Love Scenario by Ikon lol and likes to make fun of blackpink in your area and finds it pretty impressive that I can sing most kpop songs lol and speak Korean better than Spanish cause I'm puerto rican. But I've had a lot of health issues and have almost died on him 3 times already once from an ectopic pregnancy rupturing resulting in hemorrhaging and the loss of my left fallopian tube, another from me trying to unalive myself cause of PPD, and the last was during my pregnancy with my daughter and pre-eclampsia causing a seizure while I was home alone with our son. We've gone through a lot and honestly he's not even half as toxic as the guys I write about but he's definitely a tsundere which isn't surprisingly my type 😅 but finding out our son has autism has been a journey we've recently gone through as well as my stubbornness about doctors have been trials. But idk were pretty strong and he's kind of a drill sergeant when it comes to Tumblr always reminding me I have updates to do and shit 🙄 like yall his fans or something but I love him that's my best friend and I think the fact that I look at things logically instead of emotionally is why we've lasted so long

[silvernyxchariot]

Small F/O prompt:

Darling: *sighs in distress*

F/O: *Mrs. Doubtfire voice* "Help is on the way, Dear!" *pushes everyone down*

I saw this meme on TikTok the other day, "for when your homies got your back to get the plan b ready;" honestly thought it was adorable.

[zebrasaursaylor]

Read this book legit just based off one whiney ass prolifers comment on goodreads (something along the lines of "this book is too political i couldnt even make it past chapter one!")

And...... No one even gets an abortion the entire book. It only mentions abortions a handful of times and in true prolifer fashion the prolifer who made that comment was actually just shitting on a book about losing your child (spoiler alert actually her child is dropped actually by a doctor). But like its just so true tp form that so many prolifers will hate on a book about generational loss and what having kids can mean to some and just because it *mentions* roe vs wade it MUST be a PrOaBoRtIaN Book 😒

Book is Millicent Glenn's Last Wish and is most certainly NOT about abortion or being political, unless of course you think women wanting to have their own bank accounts/money and be talked to when they go to the doctor rather than the dr talking to their husbands l, which sure some asshole probably does think is too political but just yea.

And also the book isnt even prochoice or prolife. The one mc is bitter as fuck about abortions being legal and hates her mom for an abortion she didnt even get (spoiler she didnt have an abortion the doctor killed her child after it was born ny dropping it on its head), and abortion itself is really only mentioned when it become legal in the time frame of the book, again on a backflash to when it was first made legal and mentions of backalley ones but no one got one its only mentioned bc one of the characters is an asshole and again shes being a bitch to the person who lost her child and telling lies to others about her personal medical history.

Like ive read some shit books and im not saying you have to finish books you start (tho i personally have to) but like. If you can't even get past the first chapter maybe you should read up on the rest of the book first bc that persons idea of what this book is, is so fucking far off??? But again im not surprised since prolifers do tend to piss and moan about how much they care about life and then turn around and say a?book about 3 generations (about to be 4) of women who learn about the history of their mom/grandmas life (and losing her second child) is "too political and too "proabortion" 🤔 like come on. Its not even about abortion.