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so i've added elijah back to my muse list (bc yeah i was writing him with @rozaliina without him on my muse list) but things to note: i am going to be VERY VERY VERY selective with him. so basically if elijah is the only muse you're interested with on my blogs, then it'd probably be in your best interest to move on. that sounds harsh but....... very very very selective.
also note number two: leah mikaelson (@troubleah) is canon to him. which means even in threads not with leah, if their siblings are mentioned, leah will be a part of that. sometimes even named. rn i don't have this in his bio but i will add it once i have the brain power. but yeah leah is bbiest sis and elijah loves her
#🖊 ooc // i’ll probably be awake to 3am for no reason#i don't have the words to describe how selective i will be with him#but basically if we write together with other muses a lot then i'd be probably fine with elijah interactions#and on the second note: if you're not down with sibling ocs (which is fine! you do you!) you probably won't be down with my elijah and#probably be best for u to move on#that does sound harsh but i genuinely don't mean it that way#but considering my selectivity-ness i doubt that's really gonna be an issue cos most of the people i interact with frequently also interact#with tina and leah so like#im just rambling for no point rn
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#monogatari series#monogatari#monogatari oms#nademonogatari#nadeko draw#yotsugi ononoki#ononoki yotsugi#nadekodraw:tv#monogatariseries:gif#nadekkogif#ok i MUST go nuts about this somewhere so (cracks knuckles) tumblr tags let's go#first gif yotsugi is doing an attitude pirouette en dedans#second gif yotsugi is doing a demi rond de jambe á terre from fifth position#technically she’s dancing on pointe w/ her boot acting as a pointe shoe which is clever!!! her boots must have crazy foot articulation LOL#for context these are ballet moves which I LOVE!!! i am being catered to shaft looked at ME & said NADEKO DRAW HAS BALLET MOVES 4 U!!!#SO the real neat thing about this imo is the way that it is animated. probably done this way by the limitations of the animators timewise#for context in ballet a key thing when you dance is that your body should be constantly moving outwards from yourself e.g.#your arms reach as far as they can and your legs reach as far as they can etc. your back too! up and out like you are being pulled!!!#the point of this is bc dance is alive & humans who dance are alive! even when you hold a position you are thinking about moving outward#doing this breathes SO MUCH life into the dance! it is literally so important visually it makes a HUGE impact#but yotsugi doesn't do this! she doesn't breathe life into the dance bc she's not extending her body outward she simply holds a position#yotsugi is obviously very skilled to do what she's doing here like a pirouette is hard af you need crazy strength to go on pointe too#so imo she performs the moves in the correct way! she is turned out! she knows what she is doing! this is not due to lack of training!#my personal theory is that she moves this way because she is a reanimated corpse!!! she literally CANNOT dance like somebody who is alive!!#corpse baby is dancing her best and imo she's very good!!! 🥺#as a ballet enthusiast i just think it's a really neat lil touch and works well (despite the fact that it is probably accidental LOL)#anyway hi i'm noisy please enjoy my ballet ramblings lmfao! i will regif this when the BD comes out bc i want it to be extra pretty!!!#regarding the gifs. both first and second are loops!!! please enjoy ballet dancer yotsugi 🩰
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i am not immune to launchpad sol and albin thoughts
#ramble tag#its so like. okay.#launchpad was when they 'peaked'. best years of their lives#the . i think what we canonically know happened at launchpad was like.#laquidditch (fun!) christmas special adventures (fun!)#and then . also#getting deeply bullied. sol lightly kidnapped to launchpad. lizer. claudius. 'you made us run until we threw up' 'im pretty sure he got off#on torturing kids'. literally what the fuck was their deal#getting stuck in a spiders web ???? for a semester ?????#......??? getting chased down by a vaccum cleaner ..........#'it got a lot darker near the end' ... fun pretend child endangerment#like . man.#not to sound CRAZY or anything. does anyone get the impression launchpad was like. a bad ? time ? for them ?? like. it just straight up. bad#by god does it rlly sound to me like#the feeling of when high school was so bad it made ur life a living hell to be in. and u were truly just. surviving#but then youd b goofing off w ur friends in a little dorm. and the stress and the exhaustion seems to color everything that isnt that.#in a beautiful hazy rosy golden film#it hurt but the hurt was monotonous and dull. so all u remember were those shining bright in betweens#sol and albie sneaking into the kitchen and enchanting the self moving cookingware and just seeing what happens#and watching mothership approved saturday morning cartoons in bed#and studying together late at night n sol tucks albin in after hes crashed from hiss allnighter#and passing notes in class#and all that free time over crittermas breaks to do stupid dares and long rambling conversations abt nothing#sol knits albie his first sweater#they have their first beer together#they come back after a really bad day for the both of them and lie on the floor and talk abt anything but that#albin practices spells on sol and its not a good or safe idea but its probably fine#albin pettily bitching about his assigned partner for an arcana class project and sol blindly tsking his side always#only wizards can check out library books and albie checks out all sols books for him#...... anyway
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Boggart
Because at 14, everything feels so long and permanent. Especially when the future is uncertain.
Honestly this was inspired by this post asking about your MC's boggart. I always figure that my MC's would fall into a more similar vein like Hermione where her boggart represents more of a symbol/idea.
When read up on reddit on Hermione's boggart was Professor McGonagall, someone pointed out saying that it's more of a symbolic thing when you look into it under a deeper light. With Professor McGonagall saying she failed all her classes, Hermione could get expelled from Hogwarts and get her wand snap. Essentially denying her from the wizarding world.
Since Hermione -a muggleborn witch- wants to belong in the wizarding world (when the muggle world rejected her), she is trying to prove that she deserve to belong in the wizarding world through her grades and by being at the top of her class. Hermione failing her classes could risk her getting kicked out and getting her wand snap. The McGonagall boggart failing her is symbolic of her true fear - belonging no where.
While Hermione a girl trying to belong somewhere and doesn't want to be kicked out, Iñaki is a girl who's afraid that she'll never go back home.
What's a more permanent way of saying you aren't returning to your home country by getting a passport (symbolizing that you got naturalized) of your adopted country? More about Iñaki "MC" Martinez Cariaga
#Inaki Martinez Cariaga#hogwarts legacy MC#hl mc#hogwarts oc#sebastian sallow#ominis gaunt#hogwarts legacy#Iñaki “MC” Martinez Cariaga#Modern AU...sort of#takes place in the late 2000s#Kay9Leo doodles#I honestly feel for kids who have to move since most of the time they really don't have much autonomy in how their life goes or#where they live and you're just hoping for the best but mentally preparing for the worst. But don't worry!!!#Iñaki will eventually get better at belonging at Hogwarts#She'll probably won't become a naturalized Brit but she will end up finding moments that she enjoys while there ^u^#I find it funny as well that MC's fear is Sebastian's joy#Seb doesn't want his new bestie to leave the UK :'(#He'll probably convince her to stay because of the UK free healthcare when he learns about US muggle healthcare system#Too bad obamacare crushes that point for him since MC is now covered until she turns 26#Imagine? He'll be like: Marry me for free healthcare MC? Oh they changed the law so you'll be covered till 26? Would you marry me at 26?#Sadly for him it might only work for uninsured American MCs XD#Do any of you remember those Lisa Frank school supplies and The Dog? They were the fad of the 2000s#I'm mostly excited when MC accidentally starts a Civil War in the school with the girls when she introduces Twilight to Hogwarts ROFL XD#MC is soooo millennial coded lol
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✨When you get this, list 5 songs you like to listen to, publish. Then, send this ask to 10 of your favorite accounts (Positivity is cool)!!🎶✨ /nf
AHHHH CAITIE ☹️❤️ thank u for thinking of me ☹️❤️ u are the awesomest ever 🫶 choosing just five songs was very tough !!! i ended up just choosing 5 of my all-timers :)
#maybe 5 of the best songs ever made#engine notably was my post-grad song this past spring#like i listened to it constantly while pre-grieving all my friends moving off campus and out of town/state 😭#it’s so excellent…#sun bleached flies is maybe my fav off preachers daughter??? but it’s very hard to choose#every song is insanely good on there#album of all time#my biggest flex is i’ve been listening to ethel since 2019#like i’m obsessed with her#i can and i will another post-grad song another song of all time#searows is so underrated everyone should listen to him#his music is so beautiful and he has like no bad songs#sex the 1975 is just like. one of my top 3 of all time.#i think matty healy needs to either become a recluse or die#but god damn#he has made some great tunes#and fatal !!! my fav song ever probably#she and i have so much history…#miw has been one of my fav bands forever they really carried me through middle school#and fatal is their best song and it’s so underrated it makes me so sad#anyway#thank u caitie !!!#not self ship#rye responds !
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not in the business of arguing with vote blue no matter who criers on the internet in my beautiful free time but i will say that as someone who literally studies (primarily) the impacts of [us] sociopolitics on [usamerican] trans people, it feels disingenuous to point to a few federal protections and say that biden is making life infinitely better for trans people so vote regardless of the genocide
like even putting aside how evil that thought is for a second, the amount of anti-trans legislation in 2023 was more than in 2018-2022 put together. state-level legislation, proportionally, shapes a huge percentage of the lived reality of trans folks; as we saw with roe v wade and uh... literally everything else, biden's backbone isn't so much weak as it is made of wet tissue paper. to act like trump isn't dangerous to trans people is obviously ridiculous; acting like trans people have now been saved is just condescending.
all of which is a moot point; i cannot and will not vote for a genocider. still, just saying.
#also i know everyone shilling Grit Your Teeth And Vote For Biden is allergic to longterm planning#but generally speaking signalling to the dnc that we are willing to let them do literally anything short of whatever trump wants to do to u#and we'll still vote for them#is probably Not the best move towards like. actual progress. lol#but hey fuck them trans people in palestine right as long as YOUR life is marginally better
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replaying da:o for the first time in nearly 10 years has been a blessing (a reminder of why I got into the series in the first place) and a curse (a reminder why this is my beloathed series and i say that with as much affection lmao)
#elaine talks#it also solidified my ranking as da2 > da:o > da:i aldllskds#da:o has the sharpest dialogue in the series and also the best lore but my god is it narratively disjointed#and thematically confused#u all hate orzammar but the bigger sins in this game are both the urn of sacred ashes and the brecilian forest#orzammar is probably my fave hub of this game bc it feels realized lol#brecilian forest is fine on its own but it adds nothing to either elf lore or the narrative#even within the context of origins#urn of sacred ashes is just a tedious mess and i wished they cut down the dragonlings maze#and expanded on haven and the cultists more#at least every single one of da2's quest feed back into kirkwall and developing hawke's story#in origins it feels like the only important quests are those related to arl eamon#bc thats only when the main narrative moves forward lol#so really the urn and redcliffe#i dont count the circle tower bc u could really do without it lol
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im so excited that i want to go rn!!!!!!!!
#u guys. living life like it's going to end in a few days makes it so fucking awesome#cause like im moving right so every time i go out or something it feels like borrowed time like#i stole last few moments of happiness from fate#and i can let go so easily and it just feels sooooo much better without all the anxiety#like damn people just live like this 24/7??#i CANNOT wait to be done with my exams in a year then i won't have any big stress always weighing over me all the time#tho probably adulting responsibilities will be overwhelming and stressful in a different way but i hope it's ol#what the fuck man life is really just hanging out with people you love and understand you best#meeting new people sucksssssss i love hanging out with my sisterand my childhood bestfriend and nobody else#well unless they've been vetted and verified by my girlies like my sisters guy was really fun to hang out with tooooo#life is really just about like 3 to 4 people you love and having fun om weekends festivals occasions huh😭#seems obvious but i think all this kinda got lost in the self isolation and depression lol😭#nyway im excited to buy some glittery eyeliner!!!! and a new top!!!!!!! god i love having money#i got it now friends money family secret to happiness
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Hi tem!! Hope you're doing well :D
I've been keeping up with the making of the hgcz, and waiting very excited for when i have the energy to sit down and read. You guys put so much love and work into it and I can't wait to see it all play out!!
In the middle of moving so things are all wild right now. But been playing lots of minecraft still, and finally took a crack at animation! Looking forward to doing more with it, lots of fun :D
Cookies for you 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪
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TEA ANON MY BELOVEDDD ITS SO GOOD TO HEAR FROM YOU!!!! :DDD❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ absolutely zero pressure but whenever you get around to reading it i would love to hear your thoughts!!! We definitely put our blood sweat and tears into that project and im so so happy to see how well it paid off :]]]
YOOOOO ANIMATION...... omg i would love to see sometime if you want to show me, that sounds like so much fun!!! And your art style is already so lovely, seeing it in motion feels like it would be such a treat 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Thank you for the cookies >:]]] i will be doing terrible awful things with them (fueling my brain so i can write maximum angst for hunger au AKDJAKSJSJ) and im glad to hear youre still playing lots of minecraft!!!
#shouting speaks#asks#i am also playing the mc!!! but im taking a small break from cherrybee hollow and uh. well im actually doing this new server#for religious reasons!!!#which probably sounds crazy 😂😂😂 but i missed wep ronpet this year which is the kemetic new year and i felt real bad abt it#its the first wep ronpet ive missed since i went down the path of kemetic paganism which was like. 11-12 yrs ago thereabouts#so!! i decided i would make a singleplayer dedicated to making structures for the gods :]#maybe a bit silly!! but sometimes the silliest things make for the best offerings#im situated at the edge of a jungle going right into the desert and its a perfect place for me to start building#its nice to do it all in survival too bc then its not like. a one and done yknow??? it needs lots of planning and action#and grinding to go with it#its been honestly really fun :] ive enjoyed it a lot and feel a lot closer to my religion than i have been for a while#OKAY THATS ENOUGH OF ME RAMBLING AJFHSKDJD TEA ANON IT IS SO LOVELY TO SEE U ALWAYS 🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️#glad ur doing okay and good luck with the move!!!!#txt
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OCD is pretty common among autistic people, and many of us who dont have full-on OCD may experience some things that can be kinda similar to some aspects of it. I'm on the spectrum myself and i also have this issue of basically getting stuck on some thoughts. It sucks, sometimes it's something that makes me angry but doesnt actually matter that much in the grand acheme of things and i just end up in a bad mood over something stupid and cant stop thinking abt it for a few days even though there are no new thoughts about it, i just keep going through old ones again and again and again. I dont know if there's a term for it, but hey, at least I'm not the only one, and neither are you. Generally i just look for distractions and wait until the thoughts get less obsessive and annoying
That makes sense, thanks!
#logically i kno theres a spectrum of experience from autistic restrictive and repetitive behavior to full on ocd and im an ecologists so i#kno natrue does not give a damn abt human boxes and labels but unfortunately if u give me a set of labels i will obsessively try to parse#out what fits into what best and it drives me nuts. which is probably part of why i fall into the 0cd side of things. all of my thoughts#tend to b looping a repetitive and it makes me freak the fuck out lol. im also supposed to ground myself and move on which is hard to do#rn i think abt ice floating down a channel. floating down the northwest passage bc im again an obsessional freak#but that seems to help a bit lowering my distress. i need to pull myself out of my own head and into the present. mindfulness as my#therapist would say. and im trying but its hard and i hate it lol. eventually itll get easier tho. one hopes at least#to b fair im way more chill abt this categorical debate than parsing whether or not im bip0lar lol bc that comes with meds#and im spectacular at talking myself out of medication and i kno that and the doctors kno that but they dont say it directly and im like bro#its fine i kno what ur thinking and ur right but also im insane in a way that makes me ridiculously well informed so im a disaster#i walk in like im colaborating on a research project which tbh is probably a good thing bc i hold all the info#unrelated
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i was on zillow today, fantasizing about being able to live somewhere, when i came across the listing for my childhood home. it wasn't active/being sold, but it was on there with some pics of the interior. and my GOD. THEY MADE HER UGLY. THEY TOOK HER RUSTIC PUSSY OUT. WHAT THE FUCK
#i'd share pics if it didn't dox me a little#but it's SO SAD#PLS#i needed to see her... curiosity got me. i dream of this house genuinely nearly every night#but like. oh my god.#this is probably for the best bc it means i cant romanticize about buying this home again one day and expecting it to look at all like#it did#but they literally took down to bare bones and reshaped her and ohh my god#babes there was so much gorgeous wood work in that house#there was an accent exposed brick wall in the living room#the open layout was still closed off Enough to feel like separate rooms. but they opened it even more#AND THEY TOOK AWAY THE BARSTOOL/COUNTER AREA ?? IM SO CONFUSED#WHY WOULD U DO THAT#YOU COULD SIT AT THIS GORGEOUS BLACK GRANITE COUNTER AND EAT SITTING IN THE LIVING AREA AS SOMEONE YOU LOVE SERVED YOU A MEAL DIRECTLY FROM#THE KITCHEN#i'm not genuinely bent out of shape about this btw. i just had to share this somewhere sldkjfdskl#people will buy YOUR childhood home and make it ''''MODERN.'''' it will happen one day to YOU#they will paint the walls GRAY & take the pussy out of her TOO (the walls were warm deep yellows/oranges/reds. bedrooms were lighter blues)#THEY TOOK AWAY THE WARM COLORED TILES OF THE LIVING AREA AND REPLACED IT WITH UGLY WOOD FLOORING ???#THEY REMOVED THE MOLDINGS ENTIRELY ??#NO MORE WINDOW LEDGES ??????#WHAT WAS HAPPENING HERE#praying that these were In Progress pics and somebody has returned love to this home since bc. my god#again vague for my own safety but i moved out within the last decade and the home was resold in the last 5 or so years and thats when these#pics r from i think. so they've had time to fix her since#and boy was she a fixer upper after the horrors that happened inside those walls </3 ASLKDFJSAK#i should literally just write about this and instead i'm posting on tumblr#yeah that's life. that's being a tumblrina writer.#personal#.txt
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the ask game is so cute argh !!! thanks for making <3
👦👦🏻 Who did you start watching first?
- @ratttgay
So actually...I had an online pen pal friend a decade ago I made through some tumblr connections blog. And I kind of hyperfixated a little on our friendship (I was 16 and emotional, I've mellowed out now) and ngl I definitely had a little crush too. She was really, really into dan and phil at the time. So I started watching their sims videos after she mentioned she was going to TATINOF. So, both I guess!
#we haven't spoken in years but I still love the fandoms she introduced me to#I was mentally unwell and not the best friend back then and honestly just kind of immature#so we didnt remain pals and she's probably moved on to other fandoms but im still grateful for the introduction to dnp#thinking about 16 yr old me is very cringe and embarassing blegh#also im glad u like it!!!
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Editing this line in bc I realized is a lowkey drag on you, sorry in advance lmao. My bestie moved to Singapore for work (we’re from nyc)and I thought the time diff wouldn’t matter bc I was like hey I follow a girl from there and she’s online a lot so me and best can chat 24/7 like usual. but she’s unavailable to text during work hours bc her job sucks and I realized you prob have a way chiller job bc the timezone isn’t as noticeable w your posting. It’s been two weeks and I’m like bestie where did u go
Friendo why did u gag me like that I literally had to look it up because I generally don't even scroll tumblr like #that 😭
#i was gonna gag u back by saying all my best friends live in other continents and they text me every day but#FOR REAL TALK moving somewhere is probably very stressful! and Singapore work culture is no joke#in my previous job I'd literally be working till 10pm on the regular#like Singapore genuinely has a toxic work culture problem but just give it some adjustment time#and if it gets too much literally be like hey I miss you I'm sad you're not around#one of my best friends moved to Australia 3 years ago and she honestly had to give me a hey wtf text me back talk a while ago!#and since you're in america let me tell you now that daylight savings is gonna be a BITCH#every time it hits daylight savings I'm like...natalie....wake up earlier.....
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if one more well meaning relative asks me if i have done any drawing recently i will start screaming and flip a table 🤪🙃
#it's not their fault!! it's not!!! I'm known for being The One Who Draws#they usually get updates from my parents sending out pictures of things I drew for assignments for school for years!! they haven't gotten#anything new in a long time!!#it's not their fault to ask hey have u been making anything new??#but also if one more person asks I'll literally go fucking nuts I will start screaming crying throwing up#I will begin tearing myself limb from limb#especially if it's my grandma who I see literally every week and she in fact knows I have not been drawing#it's worse when she asks bc then it's also with that quiet pity of someone who assumes I probably haven't but hopes that I have#ANYWAY SORRY I JUST HAD TO PUT THIS SOMEWHERE#I'm doing my best and I'm not in a great space and I'm trying real hard to try and figure out who the fuck I am when my entire life isn't#Completeing Assignments#bc since middle school I have been nothing much outside of a Complete Assignments Machine#and I've found ways to bring my humor and my creativity and things I enjoy INTO Completeing Assignments#but I've somehow then learned I can ONLY do these things if they're for Completeing Assignments#and now I have graduated college and I'm trying to get a fucking job and move somewhere new and my life isn't Completeing Assignments anymor#and I haven't relearned how to have creative fun ideas outside of the assignments framework#but I want to get there again#but I need everyone to stop asking me if I have made any art recently#bc I think for a while the answer is going to be no and if it's not no it's gonna be yes but I'll have made something so fucking weird#you're going to wish I had said no and not explained that I was building a dead rat puppet#im a rambling sam
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hey so after hearing an utterly horrific pronunciation of the word "nahuatl" that scared me straight out of my native skin ("nah-wah-toll", he said) just as a pointer whenever you read a nahuatl word the ending "-tl" is pronounced sort of like a hiss with a tongue touching the roof of your mouth? its not nah-wah-toll, its not even nah-wah like a lot of mexicans believe, the "tl" sound comes from the way you push air through your mouth from the back of your throat
the way i figure how to make the "TL" sound is to put your tongue on the roof of your mouth. now, without removing your tongue from the roof, try making the sound of an "h" with a mouth halfway closed. you should feel the way the air blows through both of your cheeks and comes out sounding like a lisp-sound. thats the point! the hiss definitely sounds like a lisp. you may need to practice this a bunch to get the sound right
there isnt an phonetic equivalent to "tl" i can figure how to write out for you because "tl" is a sound of its own. you have to say na-hua-TL its already written the way its supposed to be read! the only problem is that people do not know how to pronounce the "tl" sound and will make approximations which i know its tough but it is wrong (though ill take nah-wah over NAH-WAH-TOLL)
this is a YT shorts of a man saying "nahuatl" and different nahuatl words and how theyre pronounced
this is a 7 minute video of a man who guides you on HOW to make the noise "tl"
some reminders while im at it:
-we are not aztecs, we do not speak aztec. we are native mexicans (most of us. im not speaking about immigrants to mexico obviously) and most of us who speak an indigenous language speak nahuatl, so we may call ourselves nahua or descendants from the mexica
-though not everyone speaks nahuatl, there are 68 different indigenous ethnic groups in mexico we have. variety.
-certain dialects of nahuatl spoken in michoacan or just southern mexico for example may choose to prefer the "T" in nahuatl words and pronounce say ahuacatl as "A-wah-cat" or maybe prefer the "L" sound and say "A-wah-cal". it really depends
-(pet peeve but) AXOLOTL is "ah-sho-lo-tl" and not "axe-ah-loddel"
-no u are not saying the word in english and therefore are going to pronounce it like a yank
-if you can say rendezvous like "ron-deh-vu" and not like "ren-des-voos" then you can say nuahuatl words the way theyre meant to be said!! our language has gotten so eroded and the only way we can keep it alive is by trying to say things as theyre meant to ok
#nahuatl#..now if duolingo had nahuatl or purepecha to study instead of klingon or valyrian thatd. thatd be dope😔#anyways i need to get off my ass and learn purepecha thats what i need to do#most of my meger studies have been towarss nahuatl becous its easier to find info but i just sometimes get annoyed at how inconsistent#everything is man i gotta actually go to somewhere where they Speak It.#after a couple of conversations with my family im quite sure we have a strong purépecha line and it realy makes me feel bad in my stomach#that i havent attempted#to learn purépecha as mch as i should have#im aware i probably also have a lot of mexica blood from perhaps my fathers side alrhough im not too sure and well i cant ask but as much#as i can tell his side Has been from tijuana meanwhile my grandmother and my uncles and aunts moved when they were young from their ranch#michoacan to tijuana so i mean. maybe i can see what peoples were in tijuana though that would be just making a lot of assumptions abt my#fathers side where i dont have any information and its not like im going to track him down to check. literally whatever i really need to#check my purépecha roots though someone hit me witha pan#if anuone has any mexican-native wuestions u can ask and ill try to answer to the best of my abiltiies
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One of the really irritating things about that 'oh QPR is just friendship, clearly you've never had friends, lmao loser' discourse is that (and there are many irritating things this is just one of them) even in QPRs that ARE just friendships with a new fancy label.... like...? There are many kinds of friendship that people just have because it's easier than not. And there are friendships that you think are going to be incredibly lasting, but then they date someone new and suddenly you're no longer a priority. The QPR label lets people attach an intentionality and priority to their friendship that really is not guaranteed..... like also not every QPR is this way etc etc but even when it is Just Friendship T M its still like entirely reasonable to want to use that label to signify that it isn't casual
#beeep#like this isnt to say casual friendships are BAD but for alloros its kinda like. there is a typical way to denote a relationship#is intended to be very lasting and very stable and it has its own special word and its normal to look for it etc etc and#like why are u begrudging aros the same thing. just cus they dont wanna kiss??? ridiculous#<-guy who was having Emotions about how boyfriend is a really nice label cus it lets me know its On Purpose and not just Convenient#but like yeah. idk if im arospec or not im kinda giving up on the having a solid orientation thing cus thats hard but... the knowledge that#your loved ones will move on and find someone they love the most and then in the future youre nobodys priority and u cant blame them but it#hurts. well thats really scary. like constant unrequited love but nobody understands because the unrequited love is friendship and they lov#you like a friend ! except they don't realize how different the intensities are anyway. this was a fear of mine when i was id'ing as aro an#it isnt an unreasonable one i think. also may have been somewhat sponsored by being the Convenient Friend and not ever a Best Friend but#yeah. in conclusion. even if a qpr is just another name for a friendship there is a REASON they want to use that term for it and its not#just lmao shitty losers. its because the world is really hard to navigate alone and people want to signify that commitment ! raaaaaaargh#anyway im probably not fully aro ive decided. like probably the cupio label is not correct like i previously thought. but i think that#people are ridiculously mean to aros and like. kinda treat them like they are stupid????? or childish??? anyway#turns out i may not be aro however i believe in their beliefs (i could elaborate more on that but i suspect im running out of tags)
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