#pre pubescent impulses go brr

[sunnywalnut]

I'm just telling you really quick that if you sat 14yo me down and explained that trans dudes can sometimes rage straight into hyper femininity because that's what's expected of them you probably would've saved me a lot of anguish and self hatred because the "girl stuff" wasn't clicking and making me happy like it was "supposed to"

ngl I really think we need to like. start sitting people down when they turn 14 and just let them know in a totally non-judgemental way what bisexuality is and also just add that most cis and straight people do not want to secretly have sex with or marry people of the same gender or become the opposite gender, and so don't like sit on this for 20 years thinking all men secretly want to fuck other dudes or everyone would be a woman if it were possible and the rest of us are just better at suppressing it than you are. cuz between those guys and the "Utah made me gay" guy I'm just starting to worry about this specific kind of deep closet thought process.