#poc sahw

[notsomodernwoman]

[salshomestead]

Lovely~

traditionalbunny -> domestic-housebunny

I’m no longer considering myself “trad”. If you’re trad, you can still interact with me and, until more of the community I’m hoping to start come up, I’ll still be interacting with trad blogs. 

wait… what community are you trying to start?

I’m trying to start an alternative to the trad community. Something more gender neutral, more friendly to views other than biblical and conservative views, something automatically accepting of lgbtq+ people like myself, something more welcoming of poc/poc friendly, something that is more supportive of feminists (not talking about terfs or swerfs) and, speaking of swerfs, something more sex positive. I want to officially call it “familycore/famblr”.  

what would familycore/famblr be about?

Think trad without the associations with white supremacy, racism, sexism, religion and extreme conservatism. Think kids and parenting tips, recipes, gardening tips, cleaning tips, self-care/feminine, non-binary or masculine-specific posts, a love for vintage things without a love for the problematic society at the time, promotion of a healthy and happy family unit (whatever that looks like for you), and more.

so…do you not share any ideas with the trad community anymore?

I mean, I do, to some degree, but they will only apply to me personally because it will be what works for me and my partner. The difference, I think, that will make me familycore more so than trad is me believing it is a personal choice and preference who takes on what roles/jobs/responsibilities rather than just a given based on how I identify when it comes to my gender. If you think that too, then maybe you aren’t as strictly traditional as you thought.

any questions?

[notsomodernwoman]

I really want to take ballroom classes and contemporary classes. My university provides them but they are later in the day (when I’ll be making dinner). Hopefully they can open up other times so I can do both.