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[ameliacf13]

i still don't get why you think working with the ypg was a bad decision and why do you were racist/imperialist for it

Okay this is a conflation that I think happened because I'm not really good at explaining things. I'll separate them here, definitively.

Joining the YPG is not what made me a racist/imperialist. The personal beliefs I held at that time fall under that category. My decision to join wasn't motivated by a revolutionary fever or drive for mutual assistance, but by those beliefs. Context for what happened immediately before I joined: the 2014 Parliament shooting. Nationalist fervour was sort of a thing after (for me).

I think joining the YPG was a bad decision because of the objectively and morally bad motivation. Besides that it fucked with my life for years when I came back to Canada. My experience resulted in mental health issues alongside all that.

I don't think the act of fighting for a cause is wrong. I don't think being revolutionary is wrong. I certainly don't think fighting against people (ISIS, the only group I fought against) that murder and rape their way across the land is a bad thing. But I recognize that my motivation to do so was wrong.

[starsurfacemortalkombat]

I know it'd be weird to come to your centric blog and ask but may I for what regressions in this context even are? I saw a Ventus and Vanitas regression headcanon post but I didn't really understand it - I only really noticed the brothers like relationship and so still enjoyed reading but ultimately was quite confused. I was thinking maybe like how people regress in age mentally when faced with certain situations but was more confused with that scenario since the poat was talking about changing physical size (and the regressing mentally to the age of a toddler or baby -while not unheard of- was still slightly farfetched to me). If you ever have to time, could you tell me what the 'age regressions' mean in that specific KH context? Many thanks would you to indulge me. :)

Oh no worries, your great!! And asking great question!! :D

When people age regress, it's a mental thing. It can seem a bit farfetched, even I'm not fully convince someone 100% reverts back for a small period of time, but it is a mental thing where something thinks and acts like a young child.

Now, whether you fully revert to a young child completely depends on the person. I've personally never experienced it, I've experienced age dreaming, which is more what my post are based off.

Age dreaming is just like age regression, but you don't fully revert to a young child. You may do childish or kid things, but you can still do adult things or can think like an adult.

They do not turn younger or anything like that, so it's not a physical thing (I also thought it was physical when I I first learnt of it, don't worry)

Also, I wasn't sure if you were concerned of it or not but I'm going to bring it up anyhow, almost all my post are 100% platonic. Unless it specifically states they're dating or it's tagged with a ship name. And they're obviously not shipped if they're siblings, step, half, or whatever kind of family. Also, is there is a ship in it, they aren't dating while one is regressed. One might become a CG role, but most times littles don't have/do romantic things while in their headspace.

But yeah, for the most part age regression is a coping mechanism where someone thinks and acts like a child. Sometimes people fully rever to the headspace, others can still do adult things and not fully revert but just act and think like a child.

Age Regression is a coping mechanism btw!! Often used for past traumas, or stress, or sometimes just for fun! Most activities include watching childrens cartoons, cutting the crust off sandwiches, crying into a stuffie (not all the time is Age regression happy, as seen through Vanitas's posts), and similar activities like that.

Be wary about Age Play!!! That is not a coping mechanism, that is a kink where someone acts like a child during intercourse!!! It is weird and gross!!! Some of it's tags are DD/LG or MD/LB, please be safe out there and avoid these!!

Age Regression DOES NOT EQUAL Age Play

In the contexts on Kingdom Hearts, we'll use the Wayfinder Trio + Vanitas, let's say that Vanitas regresses. Aqua, Terra, and Ventus could all babysit (watch/hang out) him. Or they can be his CG (wich is like babysitting but most times with a title)

Titles for CGs are mostly things like Dada, Mama, things like that. But Bubba or shorten names (like Ven or Vani for Ventus and Vanitas) are also CG names!!

Now let's grab Terra and Aqua! Let's say theyre dating, and Terra regresses sometimes. During the time Terra's small, Aqua and him wouldn't nessecairly be dating, or more not do any romantic acts. Aqua could be his CG, or Ventus could be his CG, or even Master Eraqus could be his CG! It doesn't only have to be your partner, it can be your brother or best friend!

I really hope this help and if you can have more questions or are confused at all, please let me know!! You can DM, or ask by commenting, or send in another 'ask', I'd love to answer any questions someone has!!! No matter how 'silly' or 'weird' they sound, knowledge is a tool that should be spread!!!! :D

[kamiana-ruzha]

yay! text commissions are opened!

From now on, I am willing and glad to take commissions, so, yeah, they are opened! Examples of my work can be found on my ao3. You can found way, way more details in my carrd, here we're just going over the essentials. Ukrainian version can be found on my twitter. Pinned post about me is here.

The price for 1 word = 0.9 ¢, so: ≥ 100 words = $0.9 ≥ 500 = $4.5 ≥ 1000 = $9 ≥ 1500 = $13.5 ≥ 2000 = $18 ≥ 2500 = $22.5 ≥ 3000 = $27, and so on, up to 5000 words = $45. 5k words is the most I am willing to work for a whole fic or a chapter. Every chapter for a multi-chapter fic will be handed as an individual commission. If I accidentally write too much, you won't be charged for more words than was agreed upon before. You can pay me via PayPal or IBAN.

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