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darkficsyouneveraskedfor · 3 days ago
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What a Mess 7
Warnings: non/dubcon and other dark elements. My username actually says you never asked for any of this.
My warnings are not exhaustive but be aware this is a dark fic and may include potentially triggering topics. Please use your common sense when consuming content. I am not responsible for your decisions.
Character: thick!Bucky Barnes
Summary: Your new job isn’t all that you expect. (maid AU – short!reader)
Note: As usual, I would appreciate any and all feedback. I’m happy to once more go on this adventure with all of you! Thank you in advance for your comments and for reblogging ❤️
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Cold waves flow over fiery tendrils. You twitch and writhe, hands on your head as you try to control the flurry inside of you. You cum again, you don't know how many that is, only that he hasn't stopped.
Bucky's tongue flicks again. You moan and vibrate as your skin speckles and the sweat slakes down your back, the fabric dampening with your delight. You throw your hands forward as another churning climax takes over. 
You cling to Bucky, curling over his head as you plea with babbling murmurs. He drags his tongue between your folds and growls, ceasing but not parting. He pushes his nose against you and blows a scalding breath down your wet skin. 
He feels along your sides, bending his fingers to caress your back. You shiver and he turns his head, resting it on your thigh. You sit back and watch his breath rise and fall with his broad shoulders.  
He covers one of your hands with his and guides your fingers over his scalp. You keep the pattern, swirling and scratching as he trembles. He reminds you of a dog, begging for affection.  
You stay like that. You don't dare move beyond his will. He rubs your thigh and moves slowly. He startles you as he hooks an around around you, scooping you up as he rises, then lays you over him as he reclines on the couch. 
"I need sleep," he sighs. 
He reaches up to drag down the throw blanket and covers you with it. His naked legs tangle with yours as your wrinkled shirt crumples against his torso. He keeps you in his embrace as he heart calms but yours remains spastic. 
You sense sleep fall over him. You listen to his breath and the rocky snorts in between. His body slackens as you remain tense.  
As he gets the rest he so needs, you lay awake in fear that you will never get what you want. To leave. To get away from this stoic man and his needy hands. 
He wakes as the limbo of your circumstance grows intolerable. He groans and runs his hand down his chest, pushing the blanket to his waist. His dick bobs beneath and you shudder. 
Your mind searches desperately for a saviour. 
"Coffee?" You offer. 
He chuckles and pets your head, "doll, all I need is you. I could wake up like this always." 
You're quiet. That promise is scarier than even his strength. Always? You're a cleaner. You came to mop and sweep. 
No, you’re just a maid and he’s an avenger. He can do whatever he wants. He already has. 
“Doll?” He says. 
“I’ll make coffee,” you sit up. 
His hand lingers on your arm. He could pull you back down. He could do more. He lets you go. You climb over him, his touch brushing over your hips as you do. You pull your pants on and walk away. 
You go to the kitchen and focus on the simple task. You do your best to remember the steps. You get the coffee machine brewing and peek over at the elevator. As you hear him coming, you quickly turn back to the counter. 
You tidy up the bit of clutter form earlier. He nears and yawns emphatically. You glance at the windows. It looks like afternoon. Maybe later. 
“Should probably have more than coffee today, huh?” 
You nod and dry the mug. 
“How about you? Are you hungry?” He asks. 
You shrug. 
He tisks, “did I upset you?” 
You put the cup down gently. There’s a subtle grit in his timbre. You don’t want to push it further to the edge. You face him and wipe your expression. 
“No,” you lie. “I...” you twiddle your fingers and sway. “I’m doing my job.” 
He sniffs and lets out a long exhale. “Which mean? I’m distracting you?” 
You shake your head and your eyes round. 
“I’m irritating you?” He challenges. 
You gulp and shake your head harder, “no, I didn’t say that.” 
“You’re not saying much of anything,” he says. “Makes me nervous, doll. Like maybe you don’t like me as much as I like you.” 
You blink and push your hands behind you nervously, “why-- I--” you stutter. You’re confused. You’ve only done exactly what he wanted. What he made you do. 
“Are you a virgin?” He asks abruptly. You cough in surprise. 
“Bucky?” 
“Is that it? Are you scared? It won’t hurt. I’ll make sure, doll.” 
Your cheeks tinge hotly. You bite down on your lower lip. That’s not your problem. Whether it’s your first time or not isn’t what frightens you. 
“A lot of people are afraid of me. Some even hate me. They think I’m sort of monster,” he taps his metal fingers on the counter between you. 
“I don’t...” you begin and squeeze your hands tight. “I don’t think you’re a monster.” 
“You don’t?” 
“No.” 
“Doll,” he breathes dreamily. “You don’t know how perfect you are, do you? That’s why you’re shy, huh? Never had anyone to appreciate you.” 
You nod cautiously. It’s safer to just agree with him. He grins. 
“Aw, baby,” he rests his chin on his hand, elbow on the counter, and he looks you up and down. “You’re gorgeous. You got the perfect shape, the perfect... size. You are amazing, you know that? You’re built for me.” 
For me. 
Those words make your insides dance. They might be romantic in another context but right now, it’s terrifying. He’s so convinced of what he believes that you know better than to correct him. You just don’t understand what made him think you are anything more than a cleaner. 
“So, what about some food? Got a buddy recommended this place nearby. I can order in,” he offers. 
The flicker of hope quickly fades before it can even truly spark. If he took you somewhere, you might be able to get away, but here you are stuck. Completely. 
“What kind of food?” You ask. All you have to do is play along. It would be easier if you had the same script. 
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tickly-trashcan · 3 days ago
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Hear Me Out Cake Event!!
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This is the wildest idea for an event I've had but... HEAR ME OUT!!!
In this event, we'll be putting our own tickly twist on the hear me out cake trend!! For our hear me out cake, we'll put the characters we'd like to see get tickled on the cake!! >:) I'll explain more below the cut, but I'd also like to extend an invitation for other creators to jump on this event if they'd like!! :D The event will be starting next week on January 12, so keep an eye out for that!
Here's a quick summary of the event, but I will also explain more hehehe~ There are three stages to this event! The first stage is the Hear Me Out!! stage, where you'll pick out a character you'd like to put onto the cake! The second stage is where all of the characters on the cake are announced, which I'm calling the Big Slice or Little Slice stage! The final stage is called Serving the Cake, and it is where the cake is sliced and all the characters on the cake are given a slice of cake (in the form of tickles! >:D)
Hear Me Out!! Stage:
The first stage of the event! This will run from Jan. 12 through Jan. 18 and will be everyone's opportunity to submit a character for the cake! To submit a character, just send me an ask with the character you'd like to submit for the cake! Please specify the fandom as well :) If you'd like to go above and beyond, then feel free to explain why you want to put this character on the cake!! I'll be posting the asks as they come in before posting the final list of characters, so this is where we can all get silly and talk about the characters we love!
One note for this event: I'm really hoping the community gets together for this event, so if there's a character from a fandom that's not on my personal fandom list, still send them in!! I'll be writing for characters that I know about, but if there's a character that you love, you should send them in! If I don't know them, maybe someone else will end up picking them!
Big Slice or Little Slice Stage:
The second stage of the event! This stage will start on Jan. 20 when the full list of characters is posted! During this stage, any creator can pick out however many characters they'd like to write for and start creating whatever they'd like for them!! Art, fics, whatever you'd like to make! There's no limit on who you can write for or draw in this event but also don't feel pressure to create something for every character on the list!
Another note: The dates after the Hear Me Out!! stage are all pretty iffy just so y'all know! Ideally I'll have the list up on Jan. 20 but it could be later, and also the time frame for the Slicing the Cake stage is super flexible for creators! Don't feel pressure to stick within that time (I will for sure be posting outside of the time given haha)
Serving the Cake Stage:
The final (and most fun!) stage of the event! This stage will start on Feb. 3, two weeks after the full list of characters is shared! This is when anyone can start posting their slices of character cake onto Tumblr to share! You are also more than welcome to post before this time, it's just a rough time frame hehe~ If you're participating in this event, please use the tag #cakes and tickles so that everyone can follow along with the event! It's a terrible tag but it'll work haha! There's no technical time limit on the event, but I was thinking the posting period could be from Feb. 3 through Mar. 3 just for a fun little "month" of cake! But like I said before there is absolutely no pressure to do it within that time frame, just make sure to have fun if you decide to participate!! I'll try and reblog as many tickly creations as I can, so make sure to use the tag above hehehe :D
And that's pretty much it!! This is a crazy event and I'm really hoping that other people participate (if not that is all good there is NO pressure I just thought this would be a fun little community thing haha)! I'm looking forward to the best hear me out cake EVER!!!
If you have any questions about this event prior to it beginning, please don't hesitate to send me a message or an ask! I think I explained everything but there could easily be something that I missed! Thank you guys and look forward to this! :D
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galactic-mermaid · 1 day ago
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cosmowgyral · 2 days ago
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Falling into Sin with the Black Tiger ~ Gilbert's 4th Birthday
▪︎ Chapter 3
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This is a fan translation so please don't expect it to be 100% accurate. Creative liberties have been taken. All content belongs to Cybird. Reblogs are appreciated. Hope you enjoy!
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It’s your birthday---and Obsidian castle is eerily quiet.
The only thing celebrating Gilbert’s birthday was the starlight from the canopy up above. No one else even mentioned his birthday.
The tension of thoroughly avoiding the topic that is off-limits is eating away at me as well, but I mustered my spirit to shake them off and energetically proceeded with the preparations from the morning.
Emma: Lies….
Gilbert: Thank you for the food. Everything was delicious.
(Today’s meal was enough to easily feed 30 people…enough to host a party.)
Extra large salad with ham, cheese and vegetables; meat pies served on a platter; a huge amount of creamy pasta and a large number of dry fruits….
Even though I prepared several other items to fill our stomachs, Gilbert consumed nearly 80% of everything.
(I was already full after eating only 20% of it.)
Emma: I’m glad you had a lot to eat.
Gilbert: That’s how delicious your cooking is.
Gilbert: By the way, little rabbit, I think it’s about time.
(…Maybe I got too nervous waiting for the right time.)
Emma: Well then…
Emma: Happy birthday, Gilbert.
I stood up and gave him the present I was hiding under the table.
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Gilbert: Heehee, thank you. I wonder what you got me.
Gilbert: I was curious because you didn’t buy anything back then.
(This is the tensest moment.)
After receiving it, Gilbert immediately unwrapped the gift and carefully opened the small box.
Gilbert: I see….
Placed on top of a velvet cloth are cufflinks that were made directly by a craftsman at a jewellery store.
The method of taking gemstones purchased from a jeweller to a workshop to have a one-of-a-kind piece made is apparently not uncommon in mineral-rich countries.
Gilbert: This is your colour.
Emma: You understood?
Gilbert: Of course. You were the first person who came to mind when I saw this.
(I chose a colour I often wear, but he noticed it right away.)
Emma: That day, when we were looking at jewels, I was actually watching you the entire time.
Gilbert: Yeah, I knew.
Emma: Our eyes met many times.
Gilbert: But, it helped you think of a gift, didn’t it?
Emma: Yes. You have always been interested in me, not in gemstones.
Emma: I chose a piece of jewellery that represents me.
(It’s neither a rhodolite garnet nor obsidian.)
(I wanted to give my own colour, not a nation’s.)
(…..It’s a little embarrassing though.)
Gilbert: This is the best thing to please me. I love this gem.
It wasn’t just flattery; his blood-red eye gazed at the gem with affection.
(I’m glad that it made you happy.)
Gilbert: Hey, Emma. Will you put it on for me?
Gilbert took out the pair of cufflinks and handed them out to me.
I immediately tried to attach it with Gilbert’s shirt cuffs but it was harder than I thought.
Emma: I need some tips.
(I know how to put it on, but it doesn’t stay in place….)
(Oh I get it, how about this?)
Emma: There, done—
When I looked up after being satisfied with my result, Gilbert gently pulled my head close and made a soft sound.
Gilbert: Thank you.
Emma: Y..you’re welcome.
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Gilbert: Hehe, your face is bright red.
Emma: …..It’s the usual.
Gilbert: Is that so? That’s because you love me as much as I love you.
The affectionate gaze that was directed at the gem, now shifted to me. It was unclear who started the second kiss.
(I wonder if this will also be a gift for Gilbert.)
He holds me by the waist and invites me onto his lap.
As our breaths intertwined, his cold hands started to unbutton my blouse, but I didn’t stop him.
Gilbert: Shouldn’t you say something like “at least in your room”?
Emma: Do whatever you want on your birthday, Gil.
Gilbert: Really? Then I won’t hesitate….
….....
(I asked him to do whatever he wants….)
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Gilbert: Hurray, little rabbit.
Emma:…I..can’t move anymore.
( He made love to me in the dining room, then again upon returning to his room, and again when we took a bath together…)
Eventually, fatigue pinned me down to the black sheets.
Gilbert: So you’ll sleep naked?
Emma: …I want to wear clothes.
Gilbert: Right?
(I need to muster all my strength.)
Gilbert had carried me from the bathroom to the bed, and I somehow managed to sit up.
As directed, I raise my hands and Gilbert covered me with a black negligee.
Gilbert: Heehee, even when lazy you are cute.
Even the slightest touch of a kiss on my hair makes my tormented body react sensitively.
Gilbert seemed to be in a good mood and more satisfied than usual.
(Even though I get embarrassed from just thinking about it….)
Emma: Gil, did you have a good time today?
Gilbert: Of course. It’s just….
Gilbert: The only thing that’s been bothering me is that I haven’t been able to answer the question you asked me.
(“What do you want to do?” - I haven’t heard the answer from Gilbert yet.)
Gilbert: I want to ask you, Emma. Do you have any ideas?
Emma: ..Let’s see…
Emma: Do you remember the happiest moment of your life?
Gilbert: What about it?
Emma: The memories that remain most vividly in your heart might be the ones closest to what you really want to do.
Emma: Do you have anything in mind, Gil?
Gilbert lowered his eyes and remained silent.
Although his birthday was nearing its end, I watched over him quietly, not wanting to give up until the very end.
Gilbert: In the dance hall….
Gilbert: That was the first time I heard your feelings.
(….!)
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Gilbert: The moment you cried for me is the one I remember the most.
Gilbert: And then, I danced with you. I guess it was a celebratory dance.
Gilbert: I still can’t forget your smile at that time.
Emma: I remember it too.
(I can still vividly picture Gilbert’s smile at that time.)
Gilbert: Emma….I’ve decided.
Gilbert: I want to dance with you again.
*skips to the ballroom*
The footsteps of two people echo in the dance hall where the stars in the sky shine like a chandelier.
It has been a while since I last intertwined my fingers with Gilbert and danced together.
Gilbert: You said earlier that you couldn’t move.
Emma: My happiness got the better of me.
Gilbert: Aren’t I just being selfish?
Emma: That selfishness makes me happy.
(Because I want you, who always sits on the throne as a great villain for the sake of others, to feel happiness even if it’s just for a second.)
Even if there are countless piles of corpses behind, I will continue to commit sins over and over again without hesitation.
Emma: By the way, is this the correct step?
Gilbert: You’re doing it right. You’re better than me.
Emma: I tend to get carried away when you praise me.
Gilbert:  Heehee, feel free to get carried away.
Gilbert: The more you laugh, the more vivid your memories will be.
Gilbert: If you do that, you’ll surely find a lot of things you would want to do, right?
Emma: In a few years, a selfish villain might be born.
Gilbert: That would be a problem.
Gilbert: You either listen to my requests, or you will be forced to.
Emma: But I feel like…
Emma: The request will surely be filled with a lot of love for me.
(Even at this very moment)
The gentleness of Gilbert’s touch, the warmth of his smile, and every word he says to me….
The love that oozes out from every corner naturally brings a smile to my cheeks.
Gilbert: You’re right. I love every moment I spend with you.
Gilbert: I hope you feel the same.
He tightens the grip between our intertwined fingers.
My warmth melted, and I felt a slight heat in Gilbert’s palm.
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Gilbert: I’ll always be a bad guy. I don’t even know when or where I’ll lose my life.
Gilbert: I don’t know how many more birthdays I’ll be able to celebrate like this….
Gilbert: Celebrate me, so you would never have regrets. Make it so that it becomes an unforgettable birthday for you.
(….It’s fine if I’m hated or despised.)
(If this is how Gilbert can express so many of his whims…)
Gilbert: Let’s fall deeper, and become great villains together, shall we?
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[Chapter 2] [Masterlist] [His POV]
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holylustration · 2 days ago
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Our First Dopamine Week of 2025!
January 19 through 25!
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Have a backlog of fics you need to read?
Want to pass forward your love and appreciation for other writers in the Rogue Trader fandom?
Join me and other creators in the Rogue Trader fandom for Dopamine Week! During Dopamine Week, we're focused less on creating and sharing our own stories, and more on sharing our love and appreciation for the hard work of others!
During Dopamine Week, take the opportunity to read some of the amazing stories in the fandom and let the authors know how much you like them! Leave them kudos! Leave them comments. Reread your favorites - do whatever you like!
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Your strategy for Dopamine Week could be to read a lot of short fics, focus on a long fic, catch up on a variety of stories, or even focus on a particular author. There's no predetermined theme to guide your reading.
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cherchezlafemme · 9 months ago
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meloneta · 1 year ago
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i'm tired i'm too tired to keep approaching people individually and i'm kinda done. i'm just gonna say this publicly once, please read this. the situation over here rn isn't about palestinians fighting for their human rights and freedom, if it were i would support it. the attacks on israel are by a terrorist organization named Hamas and you're more than welcome to look them up-their ideology is: number one that they see the muslim people as entitled to the land of israel/palestine (which i am not going to argue about, i don't agree nor disagree on that i quite literally don't care about that conversation), and number two that they need to kill jews. i'm not paraphrasing that's in their literal "covenant"- again, look it up- that they strive to kill all jewish people and see it as their obligation to do so. i hate this country and its government with every fiber of my being and the things israel has done (and still does) to palestinians are absolutely horrible and condemnable. with that said, the attacks rn aren't about that. they're not by palestinian citizens, they're by the terrorist group known as hamas. they do things that could not ever be done in the name of fighting for human rights or self-preservation. i am critical of israel but 1,100 innocent israeli civilians are dead since saturday. some are people i know and care about. so many were kidnapped and tortured. this IS complicated and you SHOULD educate yourself proparly on the matter before speaking and yes before reblogging random posts too. your opinion is your own but you must have the proper information before preaching it.
reblog this, don't reblog this, i don't really care anymore. but i had to say something.
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scoriarose · 3 days ago
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Psst, other snake caretakers
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I have an idea for April Fools-
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skibasyndrome · 2 months ago
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fagdykevash · 29 days ago
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oh sorry, did i not lick your boots enough when i wrote that image description for you? my bad
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kyliafanfiction · 7 months ago
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I sometimes feel like characters who do truly monstrous things while also having been victims of some pretty insane shit themselves are sort of an exercise in empathy. Or at least, should be seen as such.
Like, in real life, if a person who has been horribly broken by their experiences and failed by society than proceeds to rape someone - it's hard to feel the justifiable sympathy/empathy for that person (without excusing their rape, never do that) because well, you can look at this actual human person they hurt, or worse, and it feels gross and disrespectful to the rape victim.
And this is understandable. (And applies to more than just rapists/rape victims of course, that's just the most visceral one and thus picked for that reason)
But a fictional rape victim is... fictional. You can't 'disrespect' their trauma, and while obviously rape/whatever else is real, and people may related to the rape victim and thus see your comments about the rapist also being a victim as somehow being about their experience...
Well, it's not.
Because the rapist here, didn't actually hurt a real person. Fictional characters are objects. They're objects that often grab us by the throat and refuse to leave our fucking heads, yes, but they're objects. They are tools used by writers to tell a story, and readers to tell a story.
And one of the things fictional characters are good for is allowing us to consider experiences we never had, and imagine ourselves in other circumstances and lives. (Also just fun and fascinating and interesting to watch their stories).
It's very easy to feel for the rape victim in fiction, and rightly so. That's Level 1 Empathy there. Granted, some people IRL fail that, but that's not really what we're talking about here.
Advanced Empathy, hard Empathy is feeling for the rapist. Not for the rape, of course, even if they feel guilt about it, but if someone really was failed on multiple levels and was broken and damaged and went through the sort of psychological wringer that would leave most of us here on tumblr catatonic - they do deserve the same Empathy any human (any person) who went through all that.
Even after they also do the bad thing, critically they still deserve Empathy. And that is fucking hard. I very often have a hard time feeling bad for truly awful people who also deserve empathy and sympathy, real and even fictional (despite all this, yeah, I'm not perfect on this) for what they (separately) went through.
It also becomes even harder when what they went through is utterly bound up with what they did. How what they went through and experiences is in part responsible for what they did - because they still made a choice. The circumstances may have left them not in their right mind, may have left them feeling without choice, may have driven them to things they normally might not think of or do, but they still chose to do that bad thing. And that's not okay. They still hurt someone.
And yet - one cannot remove the action from the circumstances. So you can still feel empathy, and elucidate all the factors and circumstances as to what led up to their choices and why, and it doesn't change that they did the horrible thing. The rape, or the murders, or whatever.
But circling back - with a fictional character... they didn't hurt a real person. There's no one who is real that suffered. The things the character did IRL are bad because they hurt real people.
So you're not being disrespectful to the victim by feeling that empathy, or sympathy. By exploring the things that they were a victim for. Even by wanting to focus on those things - fictional characters should be compelling in all their aspects, if they're written well.
And yet, of course, if you do that empathy and do talk about what the bad person went through and all that context, people come at you. They call you evil, just as bad as the (again, fictional) character, or they say that you're treading dangerously close to the arguments people use to defend the real people who do these things in real life. Or you're disrespecting all the victims of these crimes IRL. Especially of course, if the person coming at you has a reason this comes close to home.
But again - fictional.
In an ideal world, we'd all feel sympathy and empathy when it's called for, regardless of what the person did. Even the worst most monstrous people deserve human treatment in prison. And if you don't have empathy, that's hard. Even if you do have empathy, that's hard.
So if you look at a fictional character (who doesn't hurt a real person by virtue of being fictional) that does horrible, vile things, but went through so much, and you still can't empathize or sympathize with them... I mean, it doesn't make you a bad person, not even close, this is still fiction, and there's people I should empathize with in fiction that I don't, but...
It's still a failure of your ability to be empathetic. And we're all humans. We're all failing at that, among other things, all the time. But... it's good to be aware of that. at least?
At the very least, bear that in mind when other people are talking about that context, and that victimization. And please, for the love of god, don't fucking pretend that the victimization didn't happen, that this person who did do terrible things (in fiction) suddenly didn't also (in fiction) experience awful shit, as if doing a bad thing erases all the bad things done to you.
Again - it doesn't necessarily make you a bad person, but like... the horrible state of prisons in our society is a real, actual problem. The way we as a society dehumanize people who do bad things is a real actual problem for a lot of reasons (not least because it creates an incentive for authority that wants to dehumanize a person or a group to expand the definition of 'did bad things' to make their dehumanization now acceptable, among other things).
So yeah. Fictional character who suffers but than also makes others suffer - that's a useful exercise in Empathy. And doing that doesn't make you or anyone else a bad person, or actually defending the sorts of crimes, IRL or Fictional, that this character did. Contextualizing is not whitewashing, empathy is not erasing, and humanizing is not disrespecting the victim(s).
So yeah, they fictional character did bad things. But there's more to them than that. And you can say but and talk about what comes after but without disrespecting the fictional victim. Because the fictional victim... is just as fictional. Just as not real.
Is it possible for this to end up being taken too far? Yes. But that's a reason to be mindful of yourself when it comes to real people, not to never do it. And when it comes to fictional people - again, fictional. Nobody was actually, really hurt.
(I really do want to make clear, before people read the tags, that this applies to all crimes these sorts of characters do, rape was just picked as the one to use as the example.)
#Anakin Skywalker#Azula#Grant Ward#Amy Dallon#Panacea#Empathy#Sympathy#I kind of used both terms probably a little wrongly I don't know but I think my point is clear#the tagged characters were Just a few of the characters I had in mind while writing this#So many times I see people talking about the context and the way this and that character who did horrible shit and then I see other people#give them so much shit for that and say its not okay to talk about these things because it's victim blaming or erasing the crimes#or disrespecting the victim and like - it's all fictional but also like... even if it were real#a real person who suffered#whatever else they do later#is a real fucking person who fucking suffered#Ultimately if you can't bring yourself to empathize with a given fictional character - whether it's because their crimes hit close to home#or not - it's fine#you're not a bad person for that and I'm not saying that#but if you consistently never empathize with the fictional characters who deserve it and consistently try to downplay their trauma in the#context of the fiction or even try to erase it#Then maybe reflect#and either way - let other people empathize and talk about the context and all the rest for these characters in peace#even if you feel like they're whitewashing or victim blaming they probably aren't in 99% of cases and even if they are when it comes to#fictional characters they're fucking fictional just block or ignore or back button and move on maybe vent in your own space#But just - leave it alone#And maybe - if you haven't before - try to practice the 'Advanced Empathy' required to feel for these fictional monsters. It really is a#good exercise#Also like please reblog this I'm not really on tumblr for the notes most of the time but I really poured out a lot into this one and I'm#tired of doing that only to feel like I'm shouting into an empty void#I am on here because on some level I want engagement I want the connection
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theflyingfeeling · 1 year ago
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so idk if anyone remembers anymore but some time ago I described a fic idea in the tags of a post (and then elaborated the idea in a later ask) regarding Olli/Aleksi falling for each other while still being in relationships respectively... yeah, I kinda ended up writing something based off that thought and I just uploaded the first chapter on AO3, I hope y'all will be cool about it 👉👈
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coockie8 · 5 months ago
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I hate the way everything has been reduced down to "discourse" these days. Like I can't even complain about things without being accused of "engaging in discourse", and it's like, no, I'm just complaining about something on my own blog. It's really not that deep, and you really don't need to reply to it.
Not everything requires your personal response. It is okay to just ignore things and move on. You won't die if you refrain from giving your two cents on vent posts that have nothing to do with you.
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truecorvid · 6 months ago
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superyoshisisland64 · 1 year ago
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tbh my take from the whole Pal world thing is that I genuinely think that if Game Freak didn't fumble the bag w/ SV so badly, a lot less people would be singing it's praise and treating it like another mon game. (IMHO the gameplay looks like shit, and the only designs I like are the stolen ones) And more critical of things like the whole stealing designs and, you know, Capturing and Selling Actual Human People?!?
Like this really feels like a bunch of Pokemon fans got (very understandably) burned hard by how bad SV was at launch, and wanted to find something to fill the void and/or stick it to Game Freak by showing them that much smaller developers could make something superior to the largest franchise in the world.
But y'all, there are so many better options out there (Monster Hunter Stories, Nexomon, Coromon, etc.) If you're tired of Game Freak dropping the ball so hard these past several years, I highly encourage you to play these games. There are so many creature collection games out there that are much more deserving of all the hype and media PW is getting.
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kakusu-shipping · 1 year ago
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btw not to be annoying but I'm in a huge drawing rut right now and almost everything I've made the past few weeks feels like garbo to me so if anyone has any X Reader requests from medias on my F/O list you want done, now would be a great time to send them in
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