#please just be nice

[cyphyra]

fun fact: if you don't understand someone's pronouns or identity, you can still just respect it! call people by it pronouns if its it's only listed ones! let that trans man call himself a lesbian! let people flip flop between identities by the day!

it costs literally 0 dollars to respect people and how they want to present.

[your-local-grubdog]

Tbh I never understood the people who get upset at the idea pikmin 4 may be a reboot? I'm not even talking about those who disagree with the idea or otherwise think it isn't a reboot. You're entitled to your opinion. I'm talking about the people who get heated over it. Who insist it would be a terrible choice, that it makes no sense, that Nintendo "clearly" doesn't care about the story if that's the case, and insults anyone who suggests it may be a reboot.

Like... It kinda does make sense, though? The franchise is over 20 years old now and has been put on pause for roughly a decade; the series has a few new writers, old writers could have changed their minds on some things, and that's not even getting into the fact that most people playing Pikmin 4 would be new to the series, and a good chunk of returning players are casuals who may have forgotten certain story details. Hell, I'd argue a decent number of players starting with Pikmin 4 hadn't even been BORN yet when Pikmin 3 was released.

Regardless if you think Pikmin 4 is a reboot, I think it's easy to see why it potentially being one would be a good call on Nintendo's part. It gives them the freedom to do what they want/need to do with the story while not being held back by 10-20 year old details. They'd also get to reverse any more questionable choices, like Pangea Ultima in Pikmin 3.

It gives the story a fresh start. Again, if you think it needed it or that it even is a fresh start is your own call. I just never understood the people who got like... Angry over it, to the point of insulting Nintendo and anyone who thought it may be a reboot over it.

[superbattrash]

Hate going to the doctor :) hate going to a new doctor even more :) yes I was here 3 years ago, yes it was before I came out, yes I’m so nervous I might vomit :)

Don’t call me she don’t call me she don’t call me she

[randonauticrap]

I cannot believe that on the cusp of the year of our Lord and Savior 2023 that this must be said. But do not send me hate about other writers. These are my friends. I love them like family. If you are complimenting me but hating on someone else in the same breath, you are not complimenting me.

Good day to you.

[assbestos]

I think it’s mostly the autism but I always get frustrated with activism posts that condemn people for using an out of date term yet don’t provide the alternative word/info that is up to date/correct. How am I supposed to know what to say if you don’t tell me or add information on where to learn. The internet is so full of advertising that saying “I don’t owe you education” is a detriment to activism because non sponsored sources are difficult to find for the average person. I get that we’re all tired but it’s better to just add the link then to fight people about it in the replies.

[achaotichuman]

Here is YOUR friendly reminder to be kind to your local pharmacies this time of year. Please, please just be nice, if I have one more person yell at me I am going to either cry or run into the forest and completely isolate myself from society.

[placeholderparagon]

Wow syscourse really is just people yelling that they’re right at each other, and that its ‘not necessarily that the other person is wrong but...’ 

Honestly I don’t understand it, maybe endos have osddid maybe they don’t, maybe traumagenics and endogenics experience that same thing maybe they don’t, either way we all need therapy and yelling ‘I’m right, you’re wrong, shut up’ isn’t helping anyone.

Just stop trying to devalidate people over something that you yourself don’t know about/have experience in. It’s not your place and no ones gonna see a post on tumblr that’s telling their identified community what is/isn’t right or what they should/shouldn’t be doing and go ‘Wow I really should listen to this there’s some really good stuff in there’

Just chill out and let everyone be. Not your circus, not your monkeys.

[3amfanfiction]

Me to my brain when it’s on one and wants to make my life difficult 🥴

naturally nice ~ signed edition of 60 on my store

[stemmmm]

more people gotta try this shit where bill has not improved and will not change but he's just chilling so its fine probably. its great

[hundredsofsmallbirds]

it's not fucking omegaverse im just birds

[penvisions]

at this point you should take it as a compliment that your fics keep getting plagerized. like your fics are so good that these idiots can’t help but try and be you!

non, the wording of this is…oh wow, this is a very…backwards way of saying something. i’m not sure how to take this but i don’t think i like it and i don’t want to upset you if you genuinely meant well…

[chaosandteatime]

Exactly.

Why harm others? Are you doing this to cope with the suffering that was inflicted upon you? Is this your form of defense? Bringing others down will only increase the weight upon your soul.

You deserve love, but first, you must love yourself.

some ppl get so mad when ppl tell them to not be mean to strangers. you see long posts like ‘its not ableist to correct bad hygine’ ok maybe its not. whatever. but its also not your moral obligation to tell someone you barely know how greasy their hair is. like the likelyhood they know is pretty large, you can just say. nothing.

[dividingcosmos]

The way Nightshade is confirmed to use they/them and Optimus apologized and moved on properly is so nice

[tired-and-swaggy]

the rest of the fucking internet pisses me off so much. a man went viral on Twitter for literally just loving the library. like that’s it. he loved the library. and the the comments were bullying this man so much he is resigning from his job. i am genuinely so upset for this man all he did was spread “library joy” and it was just the kindest and sweetest content on the internet but people just hate seeing genuine and kind people like that. i hope he is doing all right.

[marvelsmostwanted]

[azherwind-art]

"Tell your favorite creators that you like their work, people usually enjoy things silently, but hate tends to be loud"

This is a phrase I just heard from Dnd shorts that captures perfectly why I often try to make the effort of commenting on posts and telling people that I enjoy their work and why Even to small creators, I advice everyone to make the extra effort to tell them, I can guarantee it makes all the difference in the world, it's not cringy or obnoxious, it'll just brighten someone's day