#please don't add drama to this post begging y'all
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Random advice hours with Wendy
For those who never know what to say in conversation: if you're not sure, a good thing is always to ask more about the other person. For example, following up on what they mentioned ("you said you were working on a drawing, what is it of?" As an example) or asking how their day is. The other person will feel listened to and most likely will be happy to answer!
It's important though that you don't internalize this to mean you can't ever talk about yourself. In fact, if the other person isn't reciprocating and asking you questions back, that may be a social engagement that isn't worth the energy you're putting into it.
Treat others the way you want to be treated - in this particular case, asking them about their interests (whether that's faves or hobbies or what have you) and actually engaging with that answer to show you care about what they have to say.
(And please don't misunderstand - I know it can be hard to come up with these questions! I struggle too! But thinking of it from this perspective helps me direct my energy.)
#random advice hours#I'm tempted to make this non rebloggable cause somehow someone is gonna take issue with this lmfao#I just see a lot of folks expressing that they don't know how to talk to others on here so... here's some advice I learned#and also an issue I see quite frequently is people trying to use me as a place to gush and not ever asking me about myself#or my faves or whatever so#🤷♀️ here ya go#so I guess in conclusion okay to reblog but if any drama starts I'm turning it off#please don't add drama to this post begging y'all#not even sure what you could add but idk man
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WELCOME TO THE HELL HOLE I CALL MY BLOG~
*Hold my son for a sec*
A Lil lay down of myself:
1. I am a furry/furry artist(I do commissions btw, always open)
2. Pronouns: any you deem fit(really no joke, idc what ya use), if you want something specific, call me eggs(they/them)
3. I have a lot of kitties and pigeons, they're adorable:3
4. I'm into a lot of fandoms, major ones include: Klonoa, Sonic, Danny Phantom, Hlvrai, Chalvo, and MegaMan etc.
5. Will spam posts, I am not sorry
6. I will beg to play Sonic Superstars with someone
Some simple blog rules:
1. FUCK bigotry, any Nazi's, Terfs, Zionist, etc etc can shunt off from here
2. Don't send any solicitation(adverts etc), if it's something important just message me
3. ANY drama started that DOESN'T INVOLVE me, KEEP ME OUT. Warnings are acceptable, I don't like being dragged into things, especially w/out ample proof of wrong doing.
4. NO HARD NSFW(straight up porn) PLEASE 🙏🙏, slightly suggestive and/or nsfw is fine, I just don't wanna see a 🍆 or something
5. If ya going to goon to my sona(s), keep it to yourself and don't be creepy about it(saying "would" on a post is fine, just don't be weird n shit)
6. Will add more as I see fit
Some more socials/where to find me:
Deviant art:
Twitch:
Steam: Tarvel
Discord: Sneepx2
For commission purposes:
Etsy:
Ask me 4 PayPal info
Cashapp:
Anyways,
Hope I never disappoint y'all 🫡
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Reading comprehension? What about basic writing abilities for yourself first before you write your (inadequate) musings on some tumblr drama you think you feel radical enough to join on like pack wolf or even just some sprinkling of basic human decency. Are you too scared to post your anons because you are getting called out for your previous negligent rallying comments on how to harass someone online properly or what?
What about basic writing abilities for yourself
1. english is not my first language 2. if something is unclear there's several niftly ways to ask for clarity (i'm thinking the ask box, private messaging, the comment field and the reblog+add comment function). i understand this can be too hard for some people to comprehend, but i'm sure you'll learn one day
What about basic writing abilities for yourself first before you write your (inadequate) musings on some tumblr drama you think you feel radical enough to join on like pack wolf or even just some sprinkling of basic human decencyasic human decency.
ever heard of basic writing abilities? sentence structuring, maybe a comma here and there..?
to your point (i think): yah i feel radical enough to name and shame people who don't feel that, as an example, trans women has the right to be treated like women or have the right to get their basic humans needs filled, such as housing, not being harassed, not getting their murderers getting away with "trans panic" defences...
i have and will continue to namedrop people whose opinions are, in my opinion, dangerous. it's my blog lmao, i do whatever the fuck i want. before now, only one person decided to be fussy about it but it never derailed. in the case with kate i tried to be very clear about what i felt was adequate evidence for my stance, while being understanding to her situation beside this. i also tried to reach out to her privately but she decided to be a fucking ass about it, which made me lose p much all patience with her
Are you too scared to post your anons because you are getting called out for your previous negligent rallying comments on how to harass someone online properly or what?
i mean, most anons are "bleh bluh u a meanie" so i don't really feel like posting them. i guess i could, but why on earth would i. i try to address those who actually seem to have some kind of substance to them beside being insults. this blog is a plant specific side blog on which i blog about my plants as well as reblogging things related to plants, be it pretty pictures, art or plant care. do you really think my followers want to see a bunch of anons slinging insults at me? do you really think that i want to fill my blog with that shit? so far NO anon has actually have any real substance to them! not you, no anyone else. i'm kind of fucking begging y'all to give me proof i'm baselessly harassing people, but i'm getting nothing because no one has anything. WHERE have i rallied anyone to harass anyone else? because i can only find things where i try to do the opposite
can people stop sending shit now please? i really don't want to turn anon off for several reasons, but if you only come here to insult me i will. we can have an adult conversation about whatever issues you might have, or we'll have none at all
#mainly addressing this grayface bc of the weak ass 'are you scared of posting your anons'#like bby i know you've sent me insults and are itching to see them but i'm not willing to put my whole heart into this#though this shit was over and done with a month ago but apparently not ugh#not plants#kategate#adjacent
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i normally yell in comments or tags but you touched on something i had to grapple with so i'm going to add on to this post behind a read more to avoid spoilers.
okay. so. i too am here and ready to read all the future books of elhame that include sizeable amounts of my high king and high queen! to your first point... after the high of this book's ending, i was like you! i wasn't happy to return to the undersea and deal with nicasia or her drama because i never really enjoyed her barbs and i felt like the love triangle of it all was settled. and i really don't like the idea of that trope being revived.
THEN i thought about it. jude is still keeping secrets from 8 years ago. she told no one of the details of the half-curse valerian placed on her... which means there's a real possibility that cardan does not know the details of what transpired during jude's time as a hostage of the undersea.
can you IMAGINE the high king of elhame finding out what his ex-girlfriend allowed to happen to his wife? to find out what his brother did to jude? how she was interrogated, beaten, starved, neglected, dehydrated, tortured, etc.? and how nicasia and jude both knew this and said nothing to him of it... he's going to lose his shit. and i'm ready to see that happen. let the man bite someone please.
and let's face it: jude is gonna have some unresolved trauma from the events of The Wicked King. who knows what personal things she is going to have to face with her return to a place that holds horrible memories for her? nightmares? more death threats? how does one fight in water when all they know is combat on land? does that leave her defenseless? will nightfell survive months underwater? that sword brings her luck (among other things).
alsooooo let's consider that jude has been taking birth control and still poisoning herself. being in the undersea would give her time away to detox from that regiment so-to-speak (the process being done for reasons i am not going to name aloud, but y'all PLEASE read the prisoner's throne i beg of you).
it also gives oak the opportunity to try on the hat of ruler and see if he likes it without committing to the gig. maybe he will take to it and decide to stay on as heir and jude and cardan can be freed from the crowns they wear and can have a life together. who knows! plus there's that not-so-little problem of the fucking troll kingdom (thanks, wren).
i guess i'm now looking at the next adventure less as eyerolling "The 'Joys' of Nicasia Part 2: Electric Boogaloo" and more " Holly finds a new sandbox to play in and we get more of our favorite couple being ICONIC af." i'm surprisingly excited!
Holly, hear me out, I don’t fucking care about Nicasia, whatever, just leave her alone , but I am ready to read all your future books if they are about my babies Jurdan or their own babies
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Hey! Guess what I finally finished! The last analysis post from a few days ago! (If y'all want to request more characters feel free! I enjoy writing these!) Tossing these two together because I find their friendship in canon very interesting and I want to discuss it as well
Techno as a character can't quite be analyzed in the same way as most other characters, because cc!Techno isn't playing him as a character in a political drama, he's playing him as a character in a dark comedy he has motivations and feelings that impact the story and the other characters in a significant way, but as far as his narrative goes, none of it holds the same weight for c!Techno. This manifests in universe as nearly nonexistent empathy, which doesn't make Techno a bad/inherently evil character.
My main concern with Techno as far as justifying his character's actions goes, is that he is never narratively punished for them. There was the butcher army, sure, but he didn't actually lose a life or anything else worthwhile from the conflict, in the end. Techno's character is very static - he doesn't learn or grow or change, is never proven wrong, which can be a little frustrating (and this is by design! cc!Techno knows his character's callous and a bit of a dick, he's not meant to be entirely blameless. That wouldn't be any fun). c!Techno blowing up L'Manburg isn't meant to be entirely justified, but it does line up with his established character and it is possible to understand how he came to the conclusions he came to. Man's just really out of the loop.
The same could be said for c!Philza - his most recent lore stream shed a lot of light on his motivations and why he feels the way he does. To the best of his knowledge, L'Manburg just randomly turned on his son and drove him to destroy his own nation, drove him to suicide. To the best of his understanding, Tubbo was some power-hungry tyrant long before Phil himself showed up. When they used him to get to the people he cared about, trapped him in his home, tried to kill his closest friend on the server...it's very easy to understand why Phil did what he did. Finishing the job his son started, finally destroying the nation that killed his son, that must have seemed like the only option based on what he knew.
Both Phil and Techno are very out of the loop. The only really trust each other, they detach themselves from everyone else, yet still think they know what's best for everyone when they do get involved. They're very flawed, very powerful players, but man do they need to branch out a bit more.
I'm excited to see where the crumbs of Redza lore we've gotten will take us. I wouldn't want to see a rift in Phil and Techno's relationship due to some disagreement, I just don't think it would add anything to the story, but if they're forced to oppose each other outside of their own control, well...Techno wouldn't be able to bring himself to hurt Phil indeed. Also Phil please don't use systemphobic tropes with the colorzas I am begging
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