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princessefemmelesbian · 6 months ago

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*sighs*

the weirdest fucking thing to me is how men will be like "it's so hard being a man. no one cares that i'm sad. the loneliness we experience could NEVER be understood by a woman" and then also be like "btw i never talk to my friends and i don't know their names and i love hanging out with men because they don't talk about their stupid emotions all the time. women could never understand a bond like this." like ???

#like idk man #no hope #idk this person's gender or if they are a man woman or non-binary #but regardless this makes me so sad #if you are a woman typing this shit then you desperately need to get a grip #men do not need your love and support what they need is to get their act together and stop making women feel like we have an obligation to #play mommy bangmaid and fix their problems rather than have accountability #they do not need women catering to them #like i'm not even trying to be mean or 'cancel' this person lol i'm just saddened and puzzled that there are people out there who think thi #way #that men are the tragic damsels who need saving #they convinced y'all that this is the case because it is part of their victim complex to make everybody worry about and center their #fragile male feelings and nothing more!#like seriously WAKE UP! i'm saying this from a place of genuine sincerity btw #don't let men manipulate you into thinking their problems are yours to fix! please!#idk why tumblr and social media in general loves to deny male privilege and act like men are just as much victims of sexism as women #like imagine if a black person said 'i will forever be on the love-and-support-white-people train' we'd all call them an uncle ruckus #but women regularly bending over backwards for men is the expectation and it sickens me #please stand up

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