#pisses me off to no end when ppl get that so easily when they’re horrible ppl and I can’t even get that
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kavehater · 18 hours ago
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Man I made a really bad choice …
#just one day and I can retreat into myself#I think I need to stop saying anything bc when I do and nobody says anything and they act like they don’t see / acknowledge it then#it makes me start acting up#I was contemplating two days ago to just hope off social media for some months bc things keep messing up and#dora daily#God …#I don’t know what’s wrong with my head ? I worry that I hit it bad that one time#bc it’s like my brain can barely function properly ? it feels weirder than usually#maybe I’ll just shut down all socials for some months and then just form a little enclosure#bc truthfully the fact that I feel so strangely volatile is unnerving#I’m never volatile#and if I can’t control myself then I’m super worried bc my whole thing is controlling myself#anyways I’ll try get some sleep#idk if it’ll work but#I think that if I say ‘smth hurts’ or ‘I’m having a bad time’ then the thing that can fix that is a simple acknowledgement#of such thing I said and literally saying any nice thing ever#pisses me off to no end when ppl get that so easily when they’re horrible ppl and I can’t even get that#like … ppl I’ve met for one day accomodate for me like I fell down from heaven (they’re too nice and I’m confused abt their kindness)#and ppl I’ve known for yrs or even one yr fail to treat me with any decency what#how they took everything I said into account#like I don’t like physical touch or the fact I don’t like being near guys so they moved and let me sit in the middle :(#see ? it’s so easy#and stupid irrelevant things like that you don’t understand how much it means to me#like I’m happy soooo easily you got no idea how easy it is to make me happy#but idk why for some reason it feels like it’s an impossible ask ? or like it’s an otherworldly unheard of thing to actually like your#friends enough to want them to even be happy ? like if you have the capacity to make them happy esp if it’s so easy why wouldn’t you ? I’m#confused#anyways
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colorisbyshe · 4 years ago
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everyone ofc immediately started speculating which one is the gay character™ and THEN people, even worse, started passionately theorising how rmadden was purposely being papped in la w justin from 13rw to like, suck up to marvel & show he'll come out officially or something to increase his chances of getting the role. idk, it was deranged and incredibly stupid. but as you mentioned, he did play that gay in sirens uk, but also in the fucking rocketman? and i think a few more, why would this - 2
why would this mcu one be special to require coming out? and ofc some twitter dumbass gays had their own brain rot takes. but my point is he's likely not straight (has another bf now apparently) but also not like publicly out but also in like a glass closet as ppl like to say and just showcases how dumb some of those convos about who is allowed to play gay characters. the end. sorry for the long message.
people really just need to learn how to be like... normal? like i have a friend that’s into richard and like we’ve seen the pap pictures that are like... clearly with a boyfriend (we’re not blind) and privately we’re like “uwu gay” or whatever
or like i’ll see an actress take like 15 gay roles in a row and be like “i see what’s in your heart” or whatevre
but creating elaborate conspiracies about how they’re gonna come out or like whether or not they’re more appropriate than actors who aren’t half out the closet is just so fucking excessive
 there are some celebrities who (to gay people) are extremely obviously gay (or to avoid pissing people off, seem likely to be gay) who are never, ever gonna come out cause they don’t think it’s anyone’s business.
nor should they have to come out to take a role. gay roles aren’t comparable to trans roles or roles for people of color in that they require out gay actors. it’s sort of like how gender bending a role (not in fanart, which gets more complicated) isn’t the same as race bending. joan watson isn’t the same as “now maria hill is white in the mcu.” making the bond girl a bond boy also wouldn’t be the same as a cis man playing a trans woman. etc etc
different standards, different roles.
just like a white author writing stories just about people of color feels more exploitative than a straight author writing a book like love simon.
it’s just... people learn their morality from places like tumblr and think the one rule they’ve learned kinda applies equally. or that it needs extreme justification to apply differently.
gay content... is just different than other content when it comes to who can create/play the roles. often because there’s a smaller “shift” in knowledge when it comes to the representation. it’s just a straight character... who kisses the same gender, you don’t have to change that much unless you’re creating a piece specifically about gay culture. there really aren’t as many intricacies or pitfalls. just like men create content about women alllll the time without comment.
things just... apply differently in different circumstances, even with gay and womanly rep. ie a man can probably write a comic book about a woman... fine-ish, maybe even well, but probably shouldn’t be writing a story about woman’s oppression.
sometimes it feels completely arbitrary and maybe it is but
yeah
“we shouldn’t publicly speculate an actor is gay just cause they played a gay role” can easily coexist with “trans characters should only be played by trans actors” because the implications of a cis man playing a trans woman are INFINITELY different than that of a straight man playing a gay man or whatever. just like a trans woman playin a cis man has different implications than a gay man playing a straight man.
it’s so funny to me when these debates happen cause men are CONSTANTLY writing women’s stories, sometimes even horribly, and there’s zero comment. straight people create gay movies we love.
but then there’s a gay movie directed by a gay man adapted from a book written by a straight woman who used sensitivity readers and everyone shits their pants. an mcu actor is rumored to play a gay role and suddenly it’s conspiracy time cause “uwu gay roles are only done by gay actors” or whatever
like PLEASE JUST BE NORMAL AND REALIZE THINGS HAVE NUANCE AND VARYING CONTEXTS
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jupiternovak · 8 years ago
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So let's talk about Sherlock...
I just watched The Final Problem today and I am very torn on my opinion on it. while watching i didn’t notice almost any of the major issues with it, probably because I was too emotional to pay attention. I came on tumblr right after finishing and to be honest I was overwhelmed by the amount of hate TFP got, although now it’s been a few hours though and the more I think about it, the more problems arise. I would just like to talk about the plot holes I noticed in this and also the things I liked and disliked.
for the record, I didn’t hate the episode and I didn’t think it was horrible, I just think that Moftiss were overthinking and absolutely overlooked some key points and needless to say, almost everyone noticed.
first off
- how the fuck did John get out of the well? he was literally chained to the bottom and they just threw a rope at him, what the actual friggity fuck?!?
- TLD ended with Eurus shooting John, not just shooting at him, John literally said in the beginning of TFP that he got shot. Eurus said she would put a hole in John’s face an I really doubt she’d miss if she really wanted to shoot him. John doesn’t seem to be hurt at all though, guess he must be jesus h. fucking christ in the flesh or something;
- speaking of mysterious healing, tHEY JUMPED OUT OF A FIRST FLOOR WINDOW WITH A BOMB EXPLODING BEHIND THEM AND DIDN’T GET A SINGLE SCRATCH ON THEMSELVES. firstly, they broke the windows with their bodies so they must have gotten damaged from the glass. secondly, they jumped out of a window. remember in scandal in Belgravia when Sherlock threw that guy out of a window and how bad he got hurt from that? thirdly, a bomb exploded behind them. that would have increased their speed and also hurt them. yet, in the next scene they are completely fine and don’t even come and tell me it was a while later because when they talk on the phone they say Mycroft is in the hospital unconcious, which would suggest that the explosion had just happened.
- jumping back to TLD now, what exactly was the purpose of Eurus dressing up as Faith, the girl on the bus and Johns therapist? I kinda understand Eurus helping Sherlock by giving him the letter and leading him to Culverton, but why the other two? I understand that she’s a literal psycho but what benefit did that give her? none. just fucking confusing everyone.
- Mycroft is one of the smartest men alive and yet he lets Moriarty and Eurus meet without anyone checking on them whAT THE FUCK
- how’d the “miss me?” video get all over London in HLV? who the fuck distributed it? Eurus? she can hack now?
- Mycroft: *locks Eurus in Sherrinford* Eurus: *escapes* Mycroft: “hey yknow what’s a good idea? let’s take Eurus back to Sherrinford bc that sounds like a great plan lol!”
- why’d they never look in the well when looking for Victor/Redbeard? tf smh
- how and why tf did Eurus build a fake cell? what was the fucking point?
- one moment Sherlock and Eurus are talking to eachother through a tv screen and literally three human seconds later Eurus is sitting on the floor in her room and basically looks like she’s absolutely traumatised, with no camera or anything. were the videos prerecorded? if thats the case then wtf happened to Eurus while Sherlock was out? this bit and the next one still piss me off the most
- I understand building tension and putting Sherlock under pressure but the whole plane story was literally pointless. did Eurus pretend to be the child? i understand the metaphore of it but everything about Eurus is contradicting itself at this point and her character is just messy tbh
- suprisingly convenient doors in cells that lead to other cells what a coincidence :o
- how did Mycroft Holmes, again, one of the smartest men alive, not see this coming? is he a moron? he knew exactly what his sister was capable of and he was just like tralala Eurus can literally hypnotise ppl and make them do what she wants but shes locked up in a prison so that means no worries for me (*˘︶˘*).。.:*♡
- where did the fake tombstones come from? did 8 year old Eurus bring them there or something? tf
- the absolute fuckery that happened when Sherlock first went into the room Eurus was in. how did he not see there was no glass? last i checked glass reflects, shouldn’t you be able to see that?
- there are fucking security cameras, did Mycroft literally never check what happened while he wasn’t there and while Eurus was just having a walk around London with Sherlock and having chips, and not only Mycroft, did nOONE CHECK AT ALL? SHERRINFORD IS A PRISOM FOR THE MOST DANGREROUS WHAT THE SHIT
- HOW DID JOHN GET OUT OF THE WELL I’M STILL CONFUSED
This episode wasn’t all bad though (hard to believe looking at literally everything I just wrote) but i did love a lot of things about it.
- WE GOT TO SEE SHERLOCK’S AND MYCROFT’S CHILDHOOD AND WHY THEY ENDED UP THE WAY THEY DID THIS IS ALL I EVER WANTED
- despite everything I still love the way they use the camera when filming Sherlock they’re all so smart about that
- Mycroft mouthing along to that movie
- Mycroft’s magic umbrella
- “hey bro!”
- THE HAT
- Mycroft having to sit in the chair
- MRS HUDSON LISTENING TO NUMBER OF THE BEAST
- Sherlock calling John family
- Sherlock calliNG JOHN FAMILY
- SHERLOCK CALLING JOHN FAMILY
- SHERLOCK LITERALLY GOT SO PISSED AT MYCROFT FOR WANTING TO EXCLUDE JOHN AND C A L L E D H I M F A M I L Y
- “Sherlock the pirate”
- Mycroft disguised as an old man anD THE REVEAL
- Sherlocks fake accent
- Eurus playing the violin
- Eurus being all gay
- Jim Moriarty
- Jim Moriarty stepping out if a helicopter with queen playing in the background
- Jim Moriarty literally hitting on his bodyguard
- Jim Moriarty
- “I am your christmas present”
- the thing Moriarty and Eurus do through the glass
- tiNY SHERLOCK
- FAT TINY MYCROFT
- TINY SHERLOCK BEING A PIRATE
- the absolutely horrifying amount of pressure Sherlock, John and Mycroft were under while doing the tasks
- the kid on the plane, absolutely terrified, but sippin on a juicebox
- John being so sure he could shoot the general but couldn’t
- Mycroft getting sick at the thought of killing
- Sherlock’s voice when he talks to the girl on the plane
- Mycroft and Sherlock deducing together
- Sherlock choosing John over Mycroft
- “soldiers today”
- Sherlock realising Molly loves him
- Sherlock choosing to shoot himself
- Sherlock doing the hand thing when matching the years on the tombstones to Eurus’s song
- Lestrade saying Sherlock is a good man yES
- violin-off
- SHERLOCK AND JOHN BEING ACTUAL FAMILY AND RAISING ROSIE TOGETHER
- HAPPY SHERLOCK HOLDING HAPPY ROSIE AND HAPPY JOHN HOLDING HAPPY ROSIE WHAT MORE COULD YOU WANT
- SHERLOCK CALLED JOHN FAMILY I CAN NOT DEAL
- EVERYBODY IS HAPPY IN THE END (except probs Molly)
and now let’s get to everything I didn’t like, excluding the plot holes i described before
- how everyone treats John, like he’s always the dumb one in every situation, Mycroft thinks that, Eurus thinks that, Mary thought that, all the fans only know Sherlock and not him jUST PLS PPL APPRECIATE HIM MORE HE’S GOT IS SO HARD AND HE DESERVES BETTER
- Molly deserved better, she was just thrown around like trash like I get it you don’t wanna make Sherlolly canon (me neither dw) but stop toying with her like she’s nothing please she’s a great person and deserves more
- how John literally couldn’t physically and mentally push himself to watch the “miss me?” video at first but then when he got the “miss you” video he was like “oi Sherlock fam got some mail wanna have a movie night?”
- Moriarty is still dead, how disappointing
- there wasn’t enough Lestrade or Hudson, pls give the real heroes of the show some screentime they have to put up with Sherlock’s and John’s shit
- not enough deduction
- somehow even though Eurus is overpowered in every way Sherlock can still beat her so easily
- not enough Rosie
- we get it her name means East Wind now stop mentioning it every 2 minutes
- every character that is even a little bit LGBT is a bad character (Irene Adler, Moriarty bc let’s face it he’s gay as shit, Eurus etc)
that’s about all I got for now, I’m planning to rewatch the episode tomorrow so maybe I can evaluate it with a clearer head and get a less biased opinion on it. Moftiss could have done so much better when making this, TLD was an absolute masterpiece in so many aspects and TFP was a piece of literal garbage next to it. really hope they redeem themselves in the next season (if there is one) and explain a few things they didn’t this time. I really hope people stop hating on Moftiss for the decisions they made with this episode and instead give them actual legit points where they went wrong. too much negativity in the fandom right now. hope you all have a good day!
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