#phalloplasty also.

[androdragynous]

I think if I'm getting something for accessibility or health reasons the government should pay for the coolest version so I can look sick as hell at all times

[hellhoundclown]

pizza simulator makes brain happy

[blackholesandlions]

always wild to me how many trans people are ready and able to debunk shitty arguments about transition steps but then turn around and make those same arguments about bottom surgery. it's something i notice a lot now that i'm in the process of getting phalloplasty and it's always frustrating, i know bottom surgery isn't for everyone but a lot of people treat it as if it's fundamentally different to other steps in a transition when it just is not at all. like

"oh but you're basically guaranteed to have complications!" literally any surgery has the risk of complications. the vast majority of complications from phalloplasty are fistulas, and you know what happens? they just close them back up. not always pleasant but nothing about surgery is. i had a pretty uncommon complication from top surgery and all that happened was they had to drain some blood and stitch me back up again, complications happen sometimes and they are fine. if you can recognize that "oh if you get top surgery your nipples will get necrotic and fall off" is shitty transphobic fearmongering then you should be able to see it's the same shit when it's said about bottom surgery

"oh but it takes so long to heal and even then there's no guarantee it'll look and function how you want" sure thing, but may i introduce you to the concept of hormone replacement therapy. literally no part of transition is guaranteed to get you the results you want, and any part of transition will always mean years of your body settling into itself. also, bottom surgery is so variable and customizable that you have a way better chance of getting exactly what you want than the crapshoot of hrt, but you don't hear me telling people not to go on t because i didn't get a beard by two years in

"but it's such a complicated process with so many steps, it's not even worth bothering" have you ever tried to legally change your name? now that is a complicated process. still worth it though, i know some people don't do it but it'd be wild to tell people not to simply because it's a hard process, every step is a complicated. that's not the fault of bottom surgery, it's just the unfortunate reality of being trans and having to interact with systems

"but wouldn't you rather wait until the science is there" first of all, the science is already great, and the options we have currently can do everything we need them to do. what do you want them to to, connect to bluetooth? also, why wait? i do injections once a week because my insurance doesn't think "the science is there" on jatenzo yet (that's right, they already made testosterone pills that don't mess with your liver, another reminder that information on what's good and what's bad in transition can be outdated. but good luck getting any if you want the pills, very tricky to get as of now). i'd rather not do injections for the rest of my life because of scar tissue buildup, but i'm also not a very patient guy. if i'd waited for the perfect option i just would have been spending a lot of time being miserable and bitter about it instead of doing the thing that makes me happy even if it's in an imperfect state. if years down the line they have transplants or lab grown options then good for the next generation i guess, but i'd rather not spend all that time wishing for it when there are perfectly good options right now.

"but they require maintenance, you'll be a patient forever!" if you're on hormones this is already true for you, not really sure why this is such a big concern with people. having to get an implant replaced maybe every ten years sounds less annoying than yearly blood tests and checkups to me

"but it isn't actually real!" what, you think it's a hologram? it's attached to you and part of your body and made of the exact same stuff as the rest of your body. it physically exists and actually does all the functions it provides, i don't know how much more real it has to be for people. next you'll tell me the changes from t i have aren't real either because i had to add the t myself, or that my chest isn't really flat because i had to get surgery for that. obviously it wasn't there the whole time, that's true with literally every part of transition. arguing against bottom surgery with that line of reasoning invalidates the rest of transition just as much, not the win people think it is

"but you'll have big, ugly scars!!!" i feel like i shouldn't have to explain why this one is shitty. if your concept of what the scars look like is the exact same as a shitty transphobic caricature then maybe you need to work on that, go look at some healed scars. also, why are we being shitty about big, visible scars? if somebody was saying this about top surgery scars would they be being an asshole? yes? stop saying it then

basically, if bottom surgery isn't for you that is fine, great even. you do not have to explain why, but if you're going to, maybe stop and think first. if you swap out bottom surgery for top surgery or hrt and suddenly your statement sounds like it's coming from a transphobic asshole, it is probably not a great thing to say and very likely untrue

[foalfangs]

couple snoipahs for you

[vvossy]

Just googled and found out another CC creator already posted phalloplasty scar cc earlier this month

I'm no longer the first like I thought I was, but the more phallo cc options there are in the world, the better it is

Great minds think alike

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[vvussyboy]

Picture it: Me, mid to late thirties, has ADHD. I'm discharged from the hospital. My body is finally complete. I finally get to live a with-dick existence. I’m in a wheelchair heading for my ride home. I’m wearing this shirt. Every nurse wears a different expression. I’m happy.

[impzone]

after researching more into phalloplasty, i’ve been kind of blown away by how different the reality of people who have gotten the procedure is from the way people who haven’t had any kind of bottom surgery talk about it. even trans men who got it and had complications, or didn’t end up perfect, are still majorly happy with their results.

i know a lot of trans men with bottom dysphoria are taught to suppress it, and the dysphoric comments about how phalloplasty is awful and could never satisfy anyone don’t seem like they have an impact, but they do. other trans men see that, and it dissuades them from ever looking into a surgery that could greatly increase their quality of life.

take a minute and try to think about how many of the negative comments you see about bottom surgery are from people who have never had it, and who’s only perception is from other people who didn’t have it saying it’s not worth it. how many times have you considered it, and decided to give up because you’ve heard your fellow trans people constantly talking about how it would ruin you and leave you unhappy?

i know it sucks to not have a cis guy dick, but be mindful of what you say because it still shapes perception, and it can be really harmful especially if you’re coming at it from a purely hearsay and biased position.

technology has progressed so much, and phalloplasty does not leave you with an insensate tube of flesh you can do nothing with, i can tell you that much. it looks good, it feels good, and in the book Hung Jury results have been described as indistinguishable from cis genitalia. but ultimately there is more ways to measure the success of phalloplasty than how much it looks like a cis man’s junk. from what personal accounts i’ve read, it can and often is just as gender affirming and freeing as people talk about top surgery being.

[ask-gorgonzolatheclown]

I think you deserve that Peppino. It's rude to call someone a freak.

" TI SEI BEVUTO IL CERVELLO!? Need I remind everyone that this THING is not only a man eating, giant, shapeshifting dough monster wearing a poorly copied silhouette of myself as its own skin, but it's tried to KILL ME TWICE!? AM I IN THE TWILIGHT ZONE!? DIO MIO, fuck me for calling it a FREAK. That's on the kinder end of what I want to call it, trust me! "

" The only reason it's manageable is because it has an emotional support clown that it'll listen to, the peace is only kept because we both know we'll lay each other out, and the ONLY reason I decided to keep it INDOORS is because it's a damn good cook! "

" ... and I. Felt bad for it, staying outside without anywhere to go since... the tower is gone. AHEM. "

[kakashihasibs]

One week until stage 2! :D

[the-acid-pear]

U should make his tits bigger

Monkey big naturals... Actually wait. Transmasc Monkey kinda fucking hilarious. T4T... HE BIRTHED KAYLA... TRANS HOMOPHOBIC REP... Anon... You cooked with this one.

[trans-rights-coastalmangoes]

idk what possessed me to draw wolfwood 2″ inseam shorts (lying) but here you go

[schadenfreudich]

Getting phalloplasty specifically for the skin graft

[dickie-braindamage]

phalloplasty save me

phalloplasty

save me phalloplasty

[fobnsfwdoodlesbackup]

9, 10, 30, 34 for the pride asks?

hellooooo I'm honestly shocked that people have questions for me <3

9) When did you realize you weren't cishet?

Shipping helped me come out as bi lmaoooooo I am autistic. In sixth grade I was drawing me and my friend and I thought "If we were in an anime, people would ship us -> wait I ship us" so anime made me gay I guess

Gender diversity had definitely interested me but at 14 I saw a picture of phalloplasty for the first time and I was HOOKED. I didn't know trans men existed. This led to me typing "ftm" into youtube (love when you just type a vague ass term and hope the internet brings you what you need. I'm so bella googling "vampires") and I saw a 20 minute video (still up, I think!) of someones transition on T. I cried NONSTOP and was like okay lightbulb I want that soooooo so so bad.

10) Something that gives you gender euphoria:

This would be a fun list! But here's an answer you might like. I have a plain tight black T-shirt and when I wear it I feel like Patrick and that gives me SO much gender euphoria.

30) Are you monogamous or polyamorous?

lets fall in love and find out (I answered this on the previous post <3 )

34) What are you needing most right now (what would make your life easier or more fulfilling in regards to existing as queer)?

I answered this in another one but the sillier and more immediate answer is gay sex. I need to be kissing boys. I need to be pegging girls. I need to be providing the trans community with orgasms to destress them and help them start the revolution. Gay sex is part of my enrichment.

[officialpenisenvy]

you guys know i have what i can charitably call. Very Complex feelings about my own gender and presentation. but one thing i know and love about this bitch of an earth is that there's cis women with absolute washboards for titties. just nothing going on in the chest department not even a hint of a swell. which sincerely gives me so much hope for my ideal future presentation of "masculine woman with a flat chest who can easily be mistaken/pass for a guy"

[vvossy]

Quick sneak peak of the thumbnails for the sims4 scar cc I'm currently working on!! I will have everything ready to release by the end of the week :D