#parentingexpectations

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[cosmicteabethsarim]

Just yesterday I was telling a friend that it feels like there is so much pressure on moms to perform a certain way when it comes to breastfeeding...

Everyone expects you to be able to pump what your baby needs right off the bat, to deal with the demands and overload of information...

And stay positive, calm and alert... making sure to never drop the ball, recover, do self-care, eat and drink enough just in time for dinner and night time routines...

For every newborn there are hundreds of new devices and suggestions released, and it all comes down to money..

It was the same with slings and cloth diapers when I had my first 3 kids...

Better carrier,.cooler diaper system, more eco-friendly... unicorn udder cream to prevent rash and to raise future IQ.

The race to raise better, faster, smarter, cleaner and more posh babies... and don't forget to be the ultimate example of gentle, in tune aligned mafesting love & light parent sucking off the fresh clean teat of Mother Earth herself... and taking in the cleanest and purest mana for your soul....

And only then can you hope to break generational curses and heal the earth with your offspring.

There is so much pressure, I even saw a flash card set to develop photographic memory in babies 0 months to 3 years old....

Aaaaaarrrggghhhh 🥴⚠️😵😵😱😖☠💀

I don't even understand how this market is booming so much with the massive decline in birth rates.

Anyway... the worse part are the fakers on TikTok, making regular moms feel like failures for not pumping massive amounts of milk from day one and owning the 12 types of pumps and having IBCLC's on speed dial and on some premium 12 month subscription to optimize the breastfeeding experience...

But first get all these foods, pills, teas and supplements on this 55 point list!!! (I WISH I was kidding on the 55 points... I wish)

At the end you feel like you might need to be throwing money at the thing every day to hope and pump enough while your lazy nurser, disorganized latcher number 6 grows a bit more, matures a bit more... and you thank the universe for moms with oversupply who donate locally so you can at least give your baby your preferred type of food full time.

It's still wild the immense maddening pressure on mothers out here!! 16 years on the job and conditions seem to have gotten even more intense. Yikes!

If you are a new parent, BE gentle with yourself, do the things at a pace that fits with YOU and your baby.

Blinders on, earplugs in and hold your babies and toddlers close.

Keep the loud, performance diseased world OUT!

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[responsiveparenting]

The goal of toddlerhood is to teach responsibility 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 It sounds good right? Don’t we all want a responsible toddler, who can meet their own needs without much adult assistance? A child who can manage their own belongings and only needs to hear “no” once? That is what adults have wanted for centuries. And we have tried every method that we could ever think up to make this happen, yet still…. Toddlers get the reputation of being terrible but maybe it’s our expectations and goals that are “not so great”? Well the field of child development agrees that it is our expectations and adult driven goals that make toddlerhood soooo challenging. Those who understand typical toddler behaviour and have reasonable expectations, tailored to the needs of the child, are far more likely to find some joy in the toddler years. Child-friendly spaces meet our child’s need for autonomy and independence as they learn about themselves. J. Milburn @responsive_parenting #responsiveparenting #jmilburn #toddlers #toddlerlife #toddlermom #toddlerparenting #childled #childledlearning #parentingexpectations https://www.instagram.com/p/CWWvNhNL0_f/?utm_medium=tumblr