#our gay life

[tampire]

Some of my Izzy Hands selfies from last May as I was around the Scarborough Bluffs

[messervixen]

At his core Remus is just that one teacher who “has a wife and kids”

[ao3-crack]

(x)

[nuthong]

Your sea and my sea must be connected somewhere.

MISEINEN (2024).

[djarin]

i’m actually so fucking devastated right now because ofmd was the only show i’ve ever seen that single-handedly showed the existence of queer joy without queer tragedy as its anchor

[corvidaeconundrum]

Frenrey, a first for this blog

[absolutebl]

BLs to Recommend to Your Queer Friend

I put these in each bracket in levels of accessibility, as in “how easy I think they are for a non-BLer to enter into” without explanations of genre needed. 

Bleeding Heart Romantics 

Semantic Error

Bad Buddy

A Tale of Thousand Stars

Earnest Queer

The New Employee

My Ride

Drama Llama Indoor Kids

Our Dating Sim

Cherry Magic

My Love Mix Up

Repressed Arthouse Aesthetic 

Old Fashion Cupcake 

Love Life On The Line

Restart After Come Back Home

Hot Mess Gay Babies

The Eighth Sense

Moonlight Chicken

Hawt Mess Kinky Fuckers 

Bed Friend

KinnPorsche

My Beautiful Man 

Bonus Round: 

Adventure bois with a side of queer

Manner of Death

Not Me

Long Time No See

3 Will Be Free

He’s Coming To Me

From @mestizashinrin who asked me: 

“recommend a queer person to first start in BL”

(source)

[managone16]

isn't it the truest thing when you read a book and substitute all characters with characters from your favourite non-existent fandom characters?

[garrywantspasta]

“You have got a TEST tomorrow! You should be studying, not obsessing over fictional women!”

Well, then

[sainz100]

📸 by Martin Trenkler

[tampire]

#Bi Panic

[martianbugsbunny]

BITCH they had a WHOLE LOTTA NERVE to SPECIFICALLY HAVE STEVE SAY "bro, it's hard to date when nobody has shared life experience with u"

......IN THE MOVIE WHERE THE GUY WITH SO MANY SHARED LIFE EXPERIENCES SHOWS THE FUCK BACK UP. THE GUY WHO LIVED IN 1940S NY WITH HIM. THE GUY WHO SERVED IN WW2 WITH HIM. THE GUY WHO GOT THE SUPERSOLDIER SERUM LIKE HE DID. THE GUY WHO MANAGED TO STILL BE ALIVE AND LIKE THIRTY IN THE 2000S JUST LIKE STEVE. WHAT WERE THEY THINKING. WHY WERE THEY SO STUPID

[saharcastic]

chest touch: a reccuring theme

[thenwhatthefukcisthis]

was rewatching inception the other day and the fact that shade!mal comments at the painting (you know, the one an artist painted of his gay lover) “hmmmmm looks like Arthur’s taste”, suggesting every innuendos there is, actually so funny cause, that’s actually dom?? That’s dom having a conversation with his own damn subconscious??? It’s not like a married couple commenting on their pathetic single friend, it’s just different parts of dom arguing with each other??

like my man should be scrambling to get back to his kids, try to shrug off this little itty bitty thing called idk his MURD*R CHARGES , and get his head back in the damn game but no! HE will take his sweet time coming to terms with the fact that may be, just may be, his best mate, his best friend in the whole wide world, the guy he has known in and out for the past two years, is actually very gay and very desperately in love with the worst possible thief there is.

[ratatattouille]

not a big fan of the jayvik having something "higher" than friendship or romantic affection posts. "a secret third thing" lmao like what? love in any form is a transcendent thing in itself. also, it's okay if they're just gay. they can be gay friends. y'all sound like christian linke having to call viktor "asexual" to beat the jayvik allegations. just call them gay, friends to lovers even, lmao. i swear tumblr treating normal things with such disdain for being normal is the most middle school shit ever. ordinary things can be wonderful, actually. it's the irony of existence.

[ofmdrecaps]

12/21-22/2024 Daily OFMD Recap

TLDR: David Jenkins; Rhys Darby; Taika Waititi; Kristian Nairn; Samba Schutte; Vico Ortiz; Ruibo Qian; Anapela Polata'ivao; Tim Heidecker; Dominic Burgess; Christopher Corbin; Hugo Pierre Martin; Fan Spotlight: Tiny Crew Big Raffle Results Part 3; Our Flag Means Fanfiction Holiday Episode; OFMD Advent Calendar;

= David Jenkins =

David shared some gorgeous artwork from our crewmate @viccsart!

Source: David Jenkins Bsky

= Rhys Darby =

Our Captain sent us a lovely message <3

Source: Rhys Instagram Stories

They interviewed Rhys for the new Bad Jelly TV show!

The fabulous @catski22 was kind enough to share the interview text from TV Guide's article on Badjelly!

Source: Catski's Bsky

= Taika Waititi =

The video behind my favorite picture of the interview Taika and Jimmy O Yang

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= Kristian Nairn =

Kristian is going to be joining the EM-CON in Nottingham on June 7-8! To learn more and get tickets, visit here!

Source: Em-Con's Instagram

= Samba Schutte =

Samba sent us some selfies, and festive IG Stories for the holidays!

Source: Samba Schutte's Instagram Stories

= VIco Ortiz =

More pictures of Vico's new Project - Today in Gay! It's going live January 1st, 2025!! You can sign up for updates from their substack!

Source: Vico's Instagram

= Ruibo Qian =

Ruibo's been really active this season, love to see her happy and feeling herself!

Source: Ruibo Qian's Instagram

= Anapela Polata'ivao =

Tinā is now showing at @PerthFest until December 29. Coming soon to Australian cinemas. Coming to NZ cinemas February 27.

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Source: Anapela's Instagram

= Tim Heidecker =

Our friend Doug, aka Tim Heidecker is out here interviewing--himself!

Source: Tim Heidecker Bsky

= Dominic Burgess =

I love that Dominic is still giving us cat content while in a completely different country!

Source: Dominic's Bsky

= Rachel House & David Fane =

More shots of the cast from Moana. Rachel and David look so darn cute.

Source: PressPhotoG Instagram

= Christopher Corbin =

Remember "We could have made magic." man? Well Christopher Corbin is Santa in this new FOX NFL ad!

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Source: Christopher Corbin's Instagram

= Hugo Pierre Martin =

Speaking of commercials -- Our favorite attendant from the "The Best Revenge Is Dressing Well" and fellow crewmate, Hugo Pierre Martin, did the voiceover for a spicy commercial recently!

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Source: HPM's Instagram

== Articles ==

Thank you to @adoptourcrew for sharing this article from Fandomwire!

Source: Adopt Our Crew's Tumblr

== Fan Spotlight ==

= Tiny Crew Big Raffle =

More Donation results from our friends over @ofmd-buys-boats from the Tiny Boats Raffle.

Cure Kids - Taika's Charity of Choice - US$143.09, £21.42, €225.53, NZ$658

Kitten Rescue LA - Rhys' Charity of Choice - US$ 1,198.12 , CAD $7.20

One more charity to go and then some awesome BTS from Lindsey Cantrell (I ran out of photo room on this one sorry)!

Source: OFMD Buys Boats Taika / Rhys

= Our Flag Means Fanfiction =

New episode of Our Flag Means Fanfiction is out! It's a special holiday episode, and one of the co-hosts, @ringasunn was able to get several crew members to send some holiday messages (Lindsey Cantrell, Con O'Neill and more!) You can listen in on spotify here or choose your favorite listening platform on their linktr.ee!

Source: Our Flag Means Fanfiction Instagram

= OFMD Advent Calendar =

So close! Sorry I'm so behind on these! Thank you so much to @tillychmo for hosting these wonderful Advent Calendar event and putting together these adorable Doors for each day! The 20th Door features a fluff fic by our dear crewmate @politestmenace aka gaypirateofficianado!

The 21st Door features some lovely Winter Solstice artwork by the fabulous @deanbird.bsky.social!

The 22nd Door featured the brilliant @blueberreads! They made a innkeepers game for the occasion!!

The 23rd Door features an adorable drawing by the massively talented @gleafer!

Source: OFMD Advent Calendar Bsky

== Love Notes ==

Hey there lovelies! Wow, two recaps in one night! That's overkill! (JK I'm so behind, lol). I know we're deep into the holidays now, and some of the big ones have passed us by. I hope you've gotten a chance for some down time. I know this time of year can be tough for various reasons, and especially this year given the political climate around the world. Please hear me when I say, you are so very loved. Whether you had a good holiday, or a rough one. Whether you were swamped and busy, or got a break finally and got some rest. You are SO very very loved, no matter what you accomplished today, or this month, or this year. I am seeing so many new folks poking their heads out in the fando-- which is absolutely lovely to see-- and if you're just joining us for the first time, or have been in the fandom since Day One of S1 or anywhere in between-- you too are loved. We are Crew For Life, as Samba says, for a reason. This show brought so many of us together because of it's love, and it's light, and it's fond family. We all care about you so much crew, please remember that. It's time for me to sneak off to bed, and hopefully I'll see you soon lovelies, going to be posting the David Christmas specials in the next edition.

Sending love your way <3

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