#oughh don't mind me i'm kind of a mess
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trying to compartmentalize the fact that he most likely blocked me so what i've sent hasn't gotten to him.
Apparently there's no real way to tell on android.
After the last message i sent him (i mean i guess the last message he probably received) i woulda blocked me too.
It was rude. I was still floating on the edge of mania. And it was very final.
Maybe the friendship ending had to happen. but not like that. Thinking he may not have gotten the apology, also explaining the extent of the unwellness at the time, is such a depressing thought.
Because he'll never know, then. That i'm sorry.
I know i need to practice radical acceptance here like my therapist keeps talking about. It happened, you did that. Move on.
But holy shit.
I'm so stupid in the grand scheme of things, specifically with people and forming any kind of relationship. but no one really clues into that anymore. i seem pretty competent these days but it just makes it worse.
I feel like i need to give up trying to get closer to people. no one really seems to want that from me, anyways. i don't know why. am i too transparent?? am i just trying to form close bonds with the wrong people??
Like, i don't even know if anyone has ever even formed a proper crush on me. Or at least one that sticks after they get to know me better. I know i'm on the aromantic spectrum and often don't form crushes, so it's sorta rich of me to be whining about this. But at the same time, sometimes i wonder if it speaks to a greater issue.
That there's something wrong with me.
#oughh don't mind me i'm kind of a mess#as soon as i found out that he's expecting a kid something kind of broke in me#sent something very kind about that#expressing that i know a fall out with a friend is pretty small fry and i know now we may not get closure#and when he didn't reply to that one i started thinking he's probably blocked me#at the end of the day i didn't actually do anything horrendous#it was a bad time for both of us and he took the final message very poorly#partially because he misinterpreted a big part of it#compounded by his own stress#he knows how shit it is for a friendship breaking to never have closure#him not replying just isn't in character#or at least i think#maybe he's still mad#or he's just taking his time#but if he never got either....#thinking that the last thing he#'ll ever see from me is the final fuck you message i txted him after i saw his angry reply on telegram#makes me feel genuinely ill#i just didn't want him to get the last say#and i was still kind of manic#it wasn't kind it wasn't like me#but things were falling apart in my life at the time#i can't have kindness for myself i can't get myself to feel that now#if he never saw my apology i dunno i dunno what to do about that#i know i just need to accept the end and let go but man i don't know how
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Hiiiii :D
Little random but I’m thinking about DearDollops too much
So have some headcanons :DDDD
Eddie definitely helps Daisey do drag, specifically the makeup cause he loves his bestie and loves making them feel pretty
Daisey watches Eddie do his makeup. They’re just sitting there, watching their bestie completely enamored as he gets ready for whatever they planned to do together
They’ve definitely mumbled an I love you out loud and panicked once they realized. They’re stammering and stumbling over their words and Eddie’s just giggling to himself at their bestie being adorable
Unrelated but G3 Lagoona is literally Daisey I love them
Daisey loves Eddie’s eyes. They could stare into them all day
Eddie loves Daisey’s hair. He loves to mess with it, run his fingers through it, braid it when he’s feeling overwhelmed, put flowers in it, he loves it :3
Daisey definitely tells the cashier that Eddie ordered no pickles
Eddie loves carrying stuff, since that’s literally his job. He carries Daisey around for legit no reason, he just loves to carry his bestie
Also unrelated but I’m making a Saw au for welcome home and Eddie is Amanda because they’re both my favs
Daisey loves watching scary movie with Eddie cause he cuddles them whenever he’s scared (which is the whole movie)
They both wear lipstick occasionally, so I can see Daisey having a singular kiss mark on their forehead or cheek and Eddie has a bunch all over his face :3
Sleepy cuddles <3
If Eddie leaves a piece of clothes at Daisey’s place, they definitely cuddle with it. I think Eddie would have very specific kinds of cologne, so Daisey catches hints of them on the piece of clothes they have
Daisey’s so in love with Eddie it’s so unreal I love them so much
The two of them cuddling just makes me so happy I don’t even know why
Just Eddie gently playing with Daisey’s hair and hugging them closely while Daisey buries their face in his chest <3333
I’m insane I’m biting the bars of my enclosure right now I need them
I have school tomorrow ðŸ˜
Eddie and Daisey with the "Do you feel Bonita?" meme hehehehe <3
God Daisey same,,, Eddie giggling tho <3 oughh 💕💕
Scoops up bestie cuz they said they wanted a snack,, Dasiey was just on the couch lol
ik nothing about saw <3 it's too much for me (a wimp)
Yeah see Eddie tries not to overdo it, just one pretty purple kiss mark on Daisey's cheek. Only to get smothered in return (he doesn't mind, he's quite happy actually hehe)
don't make me think about what cologne Eddie would wear I'm gonna go feral akdhajdj but yeah Daisey,, as they should
Cuddles are everything bestie!! I love cuddles sm <3
#ah im in the car#AH I HAVE TO LEAVE THE CAR#tags cut short i got errands sobs#neon child#dizztalkstoomuch#welcome home#eddie dear#moot oc
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