#or abt how these abled spouse are rare saviors and making a grand sacrifice

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love shane burcaw and his wife hannah’s YouTube channel squirmy and grubs. hate how so, so many ppl see a visibly physically disabled man and refuse to believe he could possibly have a beautiful, abled wife.

“obviously they MUST be pretending, he MUST be paying her, she’s GOTTA just be his maid or something…why would she WASTE her life caring for this man when she can have an abled one instead?? it doesn’t make sense 🤔” these ppl can’t believe he’s dated multiple other abled woman before this one, too

i find myself avoiding watching them because i know i’ll look at the comments, and i know i will see all of that and more being said, and it genuinely ruins my whole fuckin day. as a disabled person it makes me feel like i will never find a significant other, because why chose me when they can chose an abled person? i am just a burden. im not worth the effort. i am inherently unlovable.