#only to later learn I either misunderstood or was just being placated in the first place and
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#Txt#The amt of times I've leaned harder into Validated Vibes for good grade in social interaction#only to later learn I either misunderstood or was just being placated in the first place and#should've stayed away from that kinda thing in the end bc in reality it was already too much#is getting crazey#I rly gotta just do my own thing and keep centered on that rather than#SO easily becoming imbalanced to get along w others bc it rly does not ever go well#It is just so hard to pick up on in the moment bc it always feels like a gut punch#to be told 'hey this thing you do is uncomfortable!' when I... thought I was just#doing Approved Behaviors ????#I would rather people be honest w me ofc and like I said. Solution is 2 just stop#trying to mirror when I can be cognizant of it#Just rly wild how much of a pattern it is you'd think I would've learned from by now
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