#onewe anon

[garfieldstim]

omg i hope requests are still open it's not showing up for me so if they're closed pls disregard .... ....... could i request a harin (onewe) board with tech stims in green :3 any green works just not super saturated eyestrain-y green hehehe thank you in advance!!!!!!

- 👑 anon

harin(onewe) stimboard with green tech for 👑 anon

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[dlstmxkakwldrlarchive]

ceo jang igs: Oh Actor Lee Jinki ! [2] We're still running. Let's run together! Today's schedule was also happy !!

[jjongslight]

"HORNee" made me laugh. I don't know what it is with people in recent years trying to push hard stans out of fandoms. It's so weird to me. When I first got into internet fandoms (for the HP books and LotR movies because I am not young), all of my friends were hard stans. I've always preferred to be a lurker instead, but nobody bothered me about it. If you don't want to engage with hard stans, just keep scrolling. They're usually the ones minding their own business, anyway.

I guess it is seen as disrespectful now? But I think equating being HORNee to that automatically is reductive. Some soft stans infantilize and objectify idols in their own way, there is no moral high ground to be had here.

And you are right, no one is forcing you to interact with such discourse, just move along. More Jinki dick for me, I say. I don't want you sucking on the same lolli anyways.

[monkiinart]

Potential ship names for coil/shine

Coiline

Coshine

Uh...that's all I got LMAO

combining their names is TOUGH... i do like the 1st one!!

[waitingforminjae]

F.T Island covering a Lee Seunggi song? Didn't know I wanted that until now

SCREAMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMAKSFJAKSDJSAKSJAKJSDFLJGHLJSFOIWERJELKDFGHJKL THAT WAS FOR ME

[kyunsies]

onew’s album already came out on the 6th!! it’s soo good would recommend

omg no way!! i’ll have to listen to it while i drive home from work today :) thank you anonnie!

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SHINee's reaction when their s/o is upset with them

(may i please request shinee when their s/o is upset at them? like how they'll cheer them up or ask for forgiveness. ty!)

Requested by Anon

Hope you like it ❤️

Onew:

As an attentive soul, Onew possessed a keen sense of when something troubled you.

If he discovered that he was the cause of your somber mood, he would feel an immediate twinge of concern.

Despite his sometimes cautious nature, he would summon the courage to approach you gently.

With a soft tone and sincere concern reflected in his eyes, he would articulate his worry, asking if you were open to a conversation.

His apology would be heartfelt; filled with regret and a sincere desire to make amends for any missteps he had taken.

“I apologize if I did something to upset you. Can we talk about it, please?”

Jonghyun:

Jonghyun’s compassionate nature wouldn’t be able to bear the sight of your distress.

Whether the source of your pain is related to him or not, he would instantly rush to comfort you.

Enveloping you in his arms, he would shower you with sweet, heartfelt words, assuring you of his unwavering love.

Without hesitation, he would extend his apologies for any anguish he may have unintentionally caused.

Each word and action would be imbued with genuine affection, aiming to make you feel not only loved but safe.

“I’m so sorry, my love. Seeing you upset hurts me too. Let me make things right.”

Key:

Despite his tendency for stubbornness, when Key recognizes his fault in a disagreement, he wouldn’t hesitate to take responsibility.

Offering a sincere apology, he would pull you into a comforting embrace and stroke your hair, making sure to express his regret and a genuine commitment to learn and grow from the situation.

Beneath his pride, there lies a deep desire to never hurt you, and a willingness to mend any emotional wounds caused by his words or actions.

“Sorry, y/n. I realize that I was wrong. I want to do better and make things better between us.”

Minho:

Following a fight, big or small, Minho would grapple with regret and guilt.

Insisting on addressing the issue head-on, he would approach the conversation with a sincere urge for resolution.

Despite the discomfort, he wouldn’t hesitate to openly express his emotions, offering sweet apologies and showering you with affection in the process.

Prioritizing open and honest communication, he would ensure the two of you always understand each other, and undoubtedly your anger would melt away quickly because of his warm approach,

“I’m sorry for the pain I’ve caused. Please, tell me how you feel so that I can make it up to you.”

Taemin:

Valuing peace most of all, Taemin wouldn’t shy away from taking responsibility when conflict arises, sometimes even when it may not entirely be his fault.

In light of a disagreement, he would approach you afterward with a sincere apology and speak about his commitment to making things right.

His heartfelt, and evidently guilt-ridden, words would convey a desire to mend any lingering distress and give his all to rebuild trust and understanding.

“I want to take responsibility even when it’s not just my fault. I don’t want to see you hurt. I’m very sorry, y/n.”

[peppertaemint]

The other day, an Anon for @reflections-in-a-critical-eye asked about SHINee 2Min lore, and Anon was referred here for further info, lol. Well, I'm not sure there is lore per se, but I can give a mini rear-view mirror take on 2Min.

Spoiler: here's 2023 Minho staring at Taemin.

The early years give a beautiful vibe of dongsaeng/hyung puppy love. They're just absolutely adorable. Minho is Taemin's closest hyung in age, and Minho has mentioned that until Taemin showed up, he was the baby.

Shippers call this moment c. 2010 the "Koala Hug." 2Min were celebrating Minho doing an extreme vaulting challenge. Yes, you read that right.

However, that vibe eventually gets tinged by SM playing with Taemin's gender presentation.

When Taemin is given extensions and suddenly bombarded with men telling him he looks like a woman etc, Minho is one of the people to confidently say that Taemin is "pretty to begin with" so there is nothing to be done about it. I always read that as him almost being prideful over it; Minho definitely likes the idea of Taemin being prettier than girl groups or his work beating out that of girl groups (read into that how you want, lol), but I think he liked Taemin exactly how he was from the get go, which is cry-inducing really.

Here's Taemin wearing Minho's father's scarf c. 2012. Okay, I guess that's pretty "lore" -ish.

If you were to go back and look at shipper blogs and live journals from 2013/2014, you would see some 2Min fans getting upset that their ship has sunk. There was this idea that when Taemin became an adult, he put away childish things (and non cis-het things) and that included Minho (lol). Many perceived Taemin had switched to a more manly look/concept, and/or that he really wanted to shed his gender neutral or ambiguous traits/looks.

Dream Girl was uh, really something.

It's true that in 2013, we see a more boyish Taemin versus Sherlock Taemin. He's also older and filling out and indeed, becoming a young adult. Interestingly, he does We Got Married (let's not go there) and goes on to start his solo career in 2014.

But I think what this "lore," or shipper narrative, reveals is how easy it was for shippers to slot 2Min into a sailing ship because they perceived Taemin to be more feminine to Minho's masculine, thus upholding heteronormative ideas of romance even in a supposedly gay "couple" - a common trait of same-sex shipping that although nuanced by certain cultural factors is still often a staple of same-sex shipping and related fanworks.

Fast-forwarding to mid-2018, we have a clingy if uneven 2Min. By the end of 2019, we have a somewhat wistful 2Min who like to attend each other's events and make grand gestures in front of the crowd.

In late 2020, we have Minho driving for hours on the day of his discharge, in uniform, to head directly to Taemin's taping for Idea at one of the TV networks in Korea. The rest of SHINee are there, and they treat us to an IG live of their reunion. 2Min are cute and a little cuddly - it's clear they missed one another. 🥹

2018 2Min have great hair colors.

What were 2021 2Min like? Friendly, feisty, and in the end, a little romantic/bromantic (pick your poison). 2Min fighting or annoying one another happened, but by the time Taemin enlisted, it was clear Minho was an emotional rock for him to some degree. And when Taemin was unwell, it was Minho who spoke to us first and then began updating us at the 14th anniversary party, with Key and Onew also speaking.

2021 2Min was also this level crazy

So, we reach the present. What are 2Min's vibes these days?

A little hands-on. Rather comfortable. Even Steven. Affectionate.

They're getting along so famously everyone is noticing.

And they're just very very cute.

There's so much more I could say, but I hope this is a good welcome aboard the good ship 2Min. The ship has strong winds and calm waters after 15+ years at sea.😌

[faunandfloraas]

Remember last week when I got anon hate for saying I like onews arms lmaooooo

[reflections-in-a-critical-eye]

how do we feel about this change for taemin :/ that's a nugu company lol they don't manage anyone relevant, i fear a downgrade in quality now. i trust he knows what he's doing but...

I don't know how to feel anon. I really don't know...

I don't know the ins and outs, the details, if this was to be expected or a total shock for the fans. I'm still waiting for pptm to come online 👀

I know Taemin has been a bit vocal lately about workers' conditions and it's no secret that the past year has not been the best for SM. Could it be that it contributed to Taemin and Onew not renewing their individual contracts? Maybe? Or perhaps each had other reasons and the decision was made some time ago.

I admit I'm not familiar either with this smaller company, but it's definitely not SM Entertainment, which regardless of all criticism and things that have/are happening, it's an actual name in the industry. They have the means to sustain an artist like Taemin, like they did for the past years. He's among their most succesful solo acts. Well, until now it seems.

I guess we'll have to wait and see how it unfolds.

[dlstmxkakwldrlarchive]

(official) ONEW 3RD EP [FLOW] — NEMO ver. Album Details

[jjongslight]

i dont know what era we're in, where i want to steal every outfit minho wears, taemin looks like jinki at a glance and i go "what ARE you wearing" at key (this bit is not new, what's new is that i dont then go, "cool, actually" at a second look)

This is the most accurate description of this current era of faSHIon.

Ming has been constantly on point since he came back from the military. His dick energy is dicking.

And people can debate me on this, but I feel like Tae and Jinki have similar aesthetics and energy. And it's not a twinsie thing, it's an emo energy thing that make them kindred in terms of artistry and self-expression. It does not show up in the same forms, but it's the same underlying current.

And yeah I don't know what Key is trying lately, but he seems to be in his comfy grandma era and I can't be mad at it. He is a cutie.

[ansonghq]

mwm?

꒰⠀ꔫ⠀꒱ ⸻ hi nonnie! a while back we answered an adjacent question here, but some more off the top of my head are: soobin & hueningkai (txt), keeho, theo, intak (p1harmony), lee know, hyunjin, seungmin (stray kids), hanbin, jiwoong, matthew (zerobaseone), leedo, hwanwoong, xion (oneus), mingi, yunho, seonghwa (ateez), mark, johnny, jaehyun (nct), guik, kanghyun, yonghoon (onewe), and actors moon sangmin, lee chaemin & sang heonlee! members, if you have any you'd like to see, please feel free to let anon know in the replies, as well! <3

[gaykey]

I’m the shawol-somsom anon… you’re right LMAO I probably came off a little too strong and made assumptions about you. I’m on vacation and have too much free time for my own good, I’m sorry about that. Btw It doesn’t bother me that you specifically stopped supporting Key, I don’t know you and I barely use tumblr, but I remember you being one of the biggest lil freak/locket accounts on tumblr a few years ago (at least, that's how it seemed), so I got a little frustrated because I know how big accounts influence the perception of the rest of the fandom. 

But I’m not sorry about saying the whole thing feels hypocritical, I still think that. Because what I said is true, FK and Taemin are not better than Key (can’t speak on Jonghyun, Minho and Onew because I do think they try to be more sensible about social issues, and their responsibilities as idols); if I thought Key was horrible, then I’d think they’re horrible, too (disclaimer: I don’t think they are horrible). I simply don’t understand it, and you’re much older than me so it feels even more confusing how you can reconcile the idea. And I would like to have a conversation but tbh I’m a little scared to come off anon bc I don’t even know how tumblr works.

hello again.

it's cool, like, i get why you said what you said. i know i probably come across as very wishy-washy on here at times?

but in regards to key. i also don't think he (or taemin, or first or khao) is a horrible person. at all.

and i'm not saying that they haven't all done problematic stuff. i don't know for sure what fk have done or said, because i'll be so real, i haven't delved that deep. i'm just about below the surface level of being a somsom, but they're people like anyone else, so they've probably fucked up somewhere.

with key however, i was down deeeeep in that fandom lol. 16 years is a long time to be that fixated on a person. every little thing he did was on my tl and dash. maybe that's why his action in particular seem bigger to me?

and, the reason i chose to distance myself from being a lil freak particulalry, was because with key, it wasn't just a few minor instances, or little things that i could excuse so easily.

though i haven't forgotten, i forgave key & taemin for their coulourist remarks they made last year, because i felt that their apologies were genuine.

i acknowldeged shitty thing's key's done in the past, and gave him the benefit of the doubt. many times.

but truly, it felt like the past year? he's just been doing them over & over, unlike taemin, and first and khao. to my knowledge.

i can only forgive so much? and like, key is someone i did - and in many ways very much still do - admire and hold in high esteem (i know putting him on a pedestal is a ME problem, but i'm just being real about how i feel and perceived him) so, it HIT way harder.

i get why that comes across as hypocritcal - i do - but it doesn't feel like it is to me because of the continunity of his behaviour.

i don't know if you were here as i was making the decision to unstan, but it was tough. and i am older. i'm a grown ass woman, so it felt silly to be so emotional about the whole thing tbh.

also i don't want or mean to influence anyone's opinions, however i am starting to get that maybe i do in some way, because i was a pretty prominent key blog for a while???

which is why i try not to talk about him at all too much these days.

maybe i'll forgive him again, maybe he'll do something to redeem himself to me??? idk!

and anon, fr, feel free to come and talk in dms or even send me a message here off anon if you wat to talk. i promise i'm nice, and i'll keep it private if you din't want people to know your blog.

no worries either way xx

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SHINee’s reaction to their s/o being in a pop-rock band

(heyy i love your blog 🥺💗!! since the orders are open i would like to make one ^^ shinee reaction to their s/o being in a pop rock band (sorry for my bad english it isn't my first language ☹️)

Requested by anon

Thank you! Please, don’t worry about English ❤️ (Also, I apologize for the very long delay in posting this one)

Onew

Onew’s reaction would be a gentle mix of surprise and curiosity. His eyes would probably widen a bit, and a shy but joyful smile would grace his lips.

“I never expected that, but I’d love to hear you play sometime. Will you show me?”

Of course, you’d happily agree, pleased with his warm and genuine response. The prospect of finally being able to share this part of yourself with him brought immense joy and both of you already anticipated the day you could perform for him for the very first time.

Jonghyun:

Jonghyun’s enthusiasm would certainly be palpable, his eyes shining with pure excitement.

“Are you serious? You’re in a pop-rock band? That’s incredible!”

When the news was out he would pester you to hear every track you produce and eagerly anticipate your live performances. His support would be unwavering, and he would most certainly never shut up about your talent and his admiration for you to every single person he knows or comes across.

Key:

“Pop-rock band?”

Upon hearing the news, Key would initially be a bit suspicious, raising an eyebrow in surprise. He might wonder if it was a prank since you hadn’t mentioned it sooner, but once he grasped the reality, his calm demeanor would give way to genuine excitement and curiosity.

“Well, color me intrigued. I didn’t see this coming, but I’m so impressed. When’s your next gig? I’d love to see you perform. You’ve got my full support, babe, as always.”

Minho:

You didn’t know Minho’s eyes could get so big when you told him the news and his face lit up with a sweet and exciting smile.

“Really? That’s fantastic news! I can’t wait to hear you play. You know I will always be there to support you, right?”

True to his words, Minho would certainly become the biggest supporter of your art like he was in life, attending every show and cheering enthusiastically from the front row.

Taemin:

Upon hearing the news Taemin’s interest would certainly be evident.

“Oh, a pop-rock band? Can I be your biggest fan?”

His response would be laced with a mischievous yet loving tone, accompanied by a widened grin and teasing glint in his eyes.

From that moment on he would often ask about your gigs, eager to witness your talent live. Expect honest opinions and a shower of compliments after each show, as he revels in celebrating your musical journey together.

[peppertaemint]

Jinki was definitely drinking a lot starting in the early 2010s and stopping after his scandal for the obvious reasons that he got a massive reality check and needed to get his shit together quick. That's one reason why I'm always a bit bothered when people say he doesn't really do much as a leader. He did so much and with so little support from SM that he coped with it through substance abuse which almost cost him his entire career. I also think it's funny when some people say he's the most boring or nice member although I understand why they'd get that impression. I think back in the day Jinki had the wildest private life out of all of them. Maybe only rivaled by Taemins constant sneaking out of the dorm to have sex with half of Seoul. But at least Taemin WAS being sneaky. Jinki was just out on the streets regularly with girlfriends drinking and smoking

Hey Anon. Before I carry on with my answer I just want to preference with I am not picking on you and you're always welcome to write in.

I think we need to be careful with eating up English language gossip on K celebrities because this stuff is like 3rd and 4th hand at best and every OP has a motive. Earlier this week I posted a list of Taemin rumours. They can't all be true.

Does it seem obvious from content that Onew was drinking to much for a long time before his likely alcoholism became out of control? Yes. Can he still have a been a great leader through this/despite this? Yes, absolutely. High functioning alcoholism is a thing for a reason. I'm just weary of supporting narratives that say SM caused his alcoholism. That's not a thing. Addiction is a disease.

Also, Taemin admitted he sneaked out of the dorm a lot. He admitted it was often to spend time with Kai and a lot of that had to do with staying late to practice at SM or who knows what hijinks. Taemin was mainly a minor when he actually lived at the dorm. Taemin has definitely slutted it up, but I think claims are overblown and unlikely to coincide with his youngest years in the group. Jonghyun was the one known for 2 dates or more on the same day, btw.

Anyway, I'm not trying to poo-poo your sentiments but am skeptical of these old gossip narratives. There's one about Taemin being bullied in school and members having to walk to school and it's just 100% unfounded. Yet everyone accepts it as fact. Something to watch out for.