#one of my favourite lyrics of all time

[jamiemaybeme]

i've realised why i'm so scared of losing my friends: an essay of sorts

(this is long btw. there's a tl;dr at the bottom if you really care lmao. also people's names have been changed to their initials, and they're in pink so you don't read them as actual words accidentally)

i think at the end of year six, sh and il moving away left a sort of gap. and i think i tried to ignore it. i kept in contact with them. i texted sh for a year. her forgetting who i was felt like the biggest betrayal ever tbh. i know she just moved on, but i develop such deep platonic connections to people. at the time, i didn't realise this. i mean, i was 12/13 years old, struggling with lockdown and my mental health, i didn't have time to figure out WHY it hurt. i just knew it did.

as the world came out of covid, i started to form relationships like this again. with js and dr, mostly.

come year nine, and i'm in a class with lf. we start to hang out more. shit happens. we don't hang out anymore. but we're still friends. my friendship with dr was brief. i liked her, but i think her ability to shit talk people just immediately threw me off. more shit happens. i don't hang out with dr anymore. lf eventually starts to hang out with us again.

year ten, and i'm in the same class as just lf. and we spend so much time together. i also am in the same dt class as aj, who starts to hang out with us as a group around january i believe?

fast forward to now (end of year eleven). it's coming up to five years since year six ended. it's been about three years since sh stopped texting me back. it's been around two and a half years since i last saw il. it's been two? maybe?? years since things started to return to 'normality'. i've accepted the loss of my primary school friends. it took nearly half a decade. but i did it.

but i don't want to do that again. i don't want to go through the pain of not seeing these people i care about and love so deeply everyday. i struggle to make new friends. i didn't used to. but ever since covid i've changed. that sounds so dramatic and kinda corny, but it's true. i don't want to lose contact with lf. i don't want to never infodump to aj again. i don't want to stop speaking to js. i've found my people, the ones i'm comfortable with. the ones who are my home. it's taken so long, and i CANNOT lose that. i don't know what to do.

i'm bad at staying in contact with people. i forget to text them back. i get scared they don't want to talk to me. i never have any time. i'm always busy. i over commit. to people. to hobbies. i'm very much an all or nothing person. and that's why losing friends hurts. but i don't WANT the moral of this to be "oh i'll get over it in time." i want the moral to be "i will make the biggest effort possible to keep in touch with these three people."

i see bears in trees and i know callum and iain met in primary school. i know callum, iain and nick have been friends since secondary school. and i want that so badly. i want to go to the same uni as my friends. i want to buy a house we can all live in together. i want SO MUCH and i can't have it all. i'm jealous of what they have. i'm jealous they managed to stay together. i don't cope well alone. and i have such a deep love for and bond with my friends that if that breaks i don't know where i'll be. i don't know what i'll do. i don't know who i am without them, to be completely honest. maybe that's a bad thing, but i don't really care. they are everything to me. just like sh was. just like il was. like dr could have been. like [my sister] is, but also not quite like that.

it's why i've asked if we can make music together. i want something that keep us connected. because if and probably when i leave [my school], what do we have? what do we have? we have nothing. nothing except a bond that i hope will hold strong against the test of time. i so badly hope it does. i don't want we don't speak anymore to be relatable. i want it to stay nothing but a fear. i need my friends.

tl;dr: i'm a little bit emotional and i'm scared of losing people i've dedicated my life to

(i exceeded (well reached) the tag limit lmao)

[abharties]

First self portrait since I got the big chop

[uhbasicallyjustmilex]

ALEX TURNER, RIO DE JANEIRO, BR. by Zackery Michael

[seeminglyseph]

I think it matters a lot that a) everyone who has seeming offered to help Karna has done so *after* she needed it. And b) was in some way using her and therefore needed her.

In the eyes of a child, if you weren’t there when she needed you, and can’t even help yourself, what good are you to her?

[cannibal-nightmares]

"I wish I could live like there was nothing to hide Will you stay or will you turn away from me like them When you start to understand how cynical I am?"

[ x ]

[newvision]

when he says I love you but George Harrison said Something in the way she moves attracts me like no other lover something in the way she woos me I don't want to leave her now you know I believe and how somewhere in her smile she knows that I don't need no other lover something in her style that shows me I don't want to leave her now you know I believe and how you're asking me will my love grow I don't know, I don't know you stick around and it may show I don't know, I don't know something in the way she knows and all I have to do is think of her something in the things she shows me I don't want to leave her now you know I believe and how

[javelinbk]

The thing about the Beatles is that even the songs they rejected are some of my favourite songs of all time

[felixcatton]

I loved you from the start And not all the prayers in the world Could save us

Storms / Fleetwood Mac

[apricusapollo]

there's this one georgian song (it's literally called "a song about friendship") and one of the lyrics is "in happiness or in battle, I'm following you side by side" and guys I'm having the clone thoughts😔😔😔😔

[baalzebufo]

[strums lute] anyway here's wonderwall

[reinedeslys-central]

songs to save the world

a series of lyrics I really like bc I've been meaning to get around to it

Find You, MONSTA X

"Will you let me live in a dream called you forever?"

"Wherever and whenever you are, I will find you no matter what

I'll hug you tightly as you did for me."

"Every day, every day, every day

I miss you until I'm tired enough to fall asleep

Tomorrow, tomorrow, tomorrow

Will I get to see you?"

"When I stay still and close my eyes, I can feel it clearly

Your temperature, the sound of you breathing, your tiny smile"

"You reach out your hand to me, who was filled only with wounds Putting the breath back in me who was dying You who gifted me with the world again, yeah"

"My every day spent missing you

Until I finally reach the place where you are

I won't stop, I promise you."

"Was this all meant to be our destiny?"

[arsenicflame]

∞

!! Excited to see what song comes up

Standing on shingles at night, Can't you see that there's a reason? The plans aren't on the ground, They're high and hanging down

put a "∞" in my ask box and I'll shuffle my music player and give you my favorite lyric from the song that comes up.

[westofessos]

I have got to start a series of posts dedicated just to songs that I listen to that remind me of AdaMJF, because it’s been happening way too often lately and I can’t keep it to myself. Anyway, on today’s edition:

“And so you see, I have come to doubt

All that I once held as true

I stand alone without beliefs

The only truth I know is you

And as I watch the drops of rain

Weave their weary paths and die

I know that I am like the rain

There but for the grace of you go I.”

— Kathy’s Song, Simon & Garfunkel

[pennielane]

hath i any john prine and/or gordon lightfoot stans on here?

[jackfromthefairytale]

snowblood is outright the metalcore song of all time I don't know what it is about that song specifically but it has everything