#oh tayley i will never get over you

[icouldbeaduck]

if you asked me about crystal clear, i’d say it’s a great song. but if you asked me how i really felt i’d tell you that it’s truly one of the greatest love songs ever written and maybe even better than the only exception

[officialtayley]

Different anon here but YES, i’ve noticed that too! Even back then, when you and kels decided to post about Tayley moving out - after weeks of some of us approaching the subject (not explicitly) over here -, one of them were super fast to make it BRAND NEW INFORMATION to twitter users right after (even though many of us are there too, we just didn’t want to explore their home situation on that app) 🤣 they are a joke

i've noticed it sm esp since tayley got confirmed in 2022 tbh like many ppl on there get things through us but they never admit it cause i'm pretty sure pmore twt doesn't like either of us so naturally these accs, one that's have me blocked, ones i've blocked, ones who are considered the tayley ppl on that app, etc, they'll never direct anyone to our blogs or be like "oh i heard/saw it here" it makes me giggle

[rites-of-spring]

I'm going to be the pot calling the kettle black (or a hypocrite for those of you who don't understand that phrase)... here & get some things off my chest...

FIRST (relating to chad gilbert & lisa cimorelli

I understand that people want to warn Lisa about Chad & I get it, the concern is there but...people need to realize that every human being is entiled to their own mistakes & have to learn from them accordingly. Yes Chad's a narcissist & yes Lisa is extremely naive but Lisa has to come to the realization that Chad is no good ON HER OWN! it's not up to us to make up her mind for her.

SECOND (relating to tayley..)

I was so into believing that h & t are or were together but then i had to back track.

I will no longer believe word of mouth of anyone who says that they have seen them out in public being coupley & refuse to take pics w/fans because whatever the case may be.

I will no longer believe anyone who says they have info abt h's personal life and they won't share it because whatever. (I'm not trying to bait anyone on divulging whatever they know or think they know cause that's none of my business & I'm just stating my case)

I do however believe h was at one time intrigued with tayley content but i do strongly believe she thought to herself, "that's sounds like a good idea & the writing seems all there but I'm just not ready for THAT yet"

Sometimes & some people may not understand this but people who have had shared traumas in whatever context may lean on another person to the point where it seems so likely that there's more than a friendship or platonic feelings happening (&to each there own you're fine to believe whatever you want) But in this case i think its best to assume both parties are extremely careful/wiser in there now romantic, partnership choices.

I'll never stop saying this but since people don't seem to grasp trauma but CHAD HURT HAYLEY REALLY FUCKING BADLY!! HE SCARED HER MENTALLY & EMOTIONALLY WHICH IS NOT SOMETHING SHE'S LIKELY TO GET OVER AFTER 1 YEAR THERFORE IT NOT BEING ENOUGH TIME FOR HER TO MOVE ON ROMANTICALLY. having mental abuse happen to her at an even younger age w/ her ex-stepfather c'mon please put yourself in her shoes.

Think "i got divorced last year, had to make it public, let the dust settle kinda, carry my emotional baggage on my sleeve & now I guess I'm ready to date again!" Does that sound logical or right to y'all? Cause if so please elaborate.

If she linked up with taylor a year after her announcement how in the actual hell do you not consider that a rebound relationship? Like, "oh t's my best friend, guess i should give it a go cause fuck it we're both single & he & i are really close. I'm ready to be w/someone again a yr later & after spending 10 yrs in a toxic relationship only to move on to someone who's also still struggling with his mental health"

Hayley still refers to taylor as her BROTHER. i will be damned if this woman thinks of any potential partner as a sibling & not feel weird or detached from calling them that at all. She also COUNTLESS TIMES referes to him as one of her closest FRIENDS.

If they were to date are y'all seriously naive to think a breakup won't happen? Cause let's be real breakups happen & when it's with your bandmate/right hand man it cuts a bit deeper.

I say ALLLLL of this to say that i believe on the surface and in the depths of my heart that h is STILL HEALING FIRM HER BROKEN HEART (maybe not as severely) rn in real time and she's SINGLE. brian was 100% right when he said "she don't need no man rn she's good"

So I'm no longer shipping Tayley. I'm shipping Hayley healing her mind body and soul from her past traumas and finding hope in love again one day just not rn.

BTW: PSA THIS IS ALL MY PERSONAL OPINION