#oh and the islamphobic “jokes”

[demonic-shadowlucifer]

hot take but 9/11 jokes aren't funny. no, i don't say that because i'm worried about "hurting the americans feelings uwu". i say that because 1. it's kinda messed up to joke about millions of people dying in a fucking terrorist attack. 2. after the attack happened, a surge of anti-muslim hate occurred, something I feel that a lot of people making these jokes tend to ignore (and to top it off i've unfortunately seen people make anti-muslim jokes about 9/11 too) 3. ngl, it's just kinda shitty to make these kinds of jokes especially underneath posts that talk about the attack in a serious manner.

[rei-does-stuff]

I am unfollowing so many people on my dash rn

Like Oh my god i am seeing so many people on my dash defending dream by saying “HE SHOULDNT HAVE TO SAY WHAT HIS SEXUALITY IS TO DEFEND HIMSELF” like bro what? He literally said he’s ambiguous and is not gay, HE SPELT IT OUT FOR YOU AND LITERALLY ALL PEOPLE ARE SAYING IS THAT HE SHOULDNT HAVE SAID A HOMOPHOBIC JOKE LIKE???

Also I just LOVE how they’re all white and completely ignoring the racist and islamphobic shit he did

</3 LOVE THAT /s

[sunflowerbloomss]

you know what. i AM going to talk about it for a sec. because it completely throws me off that some of you think this is somehow okay and acceptable, that this is something that can be forgiven. and it's not about cancelling robbe, it's about the fact that some of yall think that homophobic acts can be forgiven if the person truly feels bad about them. because they don't.

if the girl who laughed about lesbians taking advantage of girls in the camp showers asked me to forgive her for saying that - even if i saw her truly feeling bad about it and regretting - i wouldn't have. actually, i wouldn't have come to her and wanted to let her talk about what she has to say. why? because she said those things about ME. because these are things i've been trying to let go of, things i try to unlearn, patterns of behaviour i double-check myself on.

and they somehow managed to create an even WORSE case. because robbe didn't only use the f-slur, he purposefully said it in front of sander. he blamed him for things gay men have been blamed for for decades. you got me drunk and took advantage of me you f*****. it's not about whether or not sander wants to forgive robbe or not, because the moment he said that his point of view doesn't matter anymore. why should anyone care that he broke up with noor? why should sander care that he's sorry? why should anyone care he came out to milan? framing it as a mistake is belittling the situation.

the worst thing you can do to lgbt+ people's self esteem is throw stereotypes and slurs in their face and tell them they're the problem. it doesn't matter if the person regrets the words the moment they're out. what matters is the fact that it sinks in. what matters is the fact that ever since that one girl joked about 'how funny would it be to have a lesbian in here, she'd be like oh let me wash your back' and proceeded to act all sexual i hated myself every time i looked at a girl in the showers, even though there was never anything sexual to it. what matters is the closeted kids who don't know enough about our community think they should somehow forgive homophobes because they're sorry or because they're gay. if i saw this show at 12, if i saw this situation brushed off as a mistake only to acknowledge, i probably wouldn't have thought this is such a big deal. i wouldn't have fought for my friends to stop using gay as an insult and instead just gotten their apology every time they did it next to me.

yes, it can happen. but when it comes to educational shows, especially ones about teenagers, the question should be less about realism and more about what we want to be realistic. because hey, it's also realistic for eva to stay with jonas at the end of the season because she feels pressured to have a boyfriend and it's also realistic for the girl squad to hate sana and be racist and islamphobic. but it's not what we want to be realistic. it's not what we think should be acceptable without truly discussing it, so we don't allow it. yeah, some people would probably forgive being in sander's position. it's the portrayal of this as 'he forgives the moment he hears what robbe has to say' that's the problem.

we shouldn't forgive anyone who disrespects us, who thinks we're a bad word, a slur, an insult. even if this person is someone we like, romantically or not; even if this person is a part of our community.

[veritaserumrpt]

i decided to compile a list of faces that should be considered banned in roleplays. i used a few different resources in order to help with this list that include helpersofindie, duskrph, and dear-indies as well as plenty of research! under the cut, you will find categories describing the reason why the face claim is banned. 

last updated: 5/15/2017

abuse

alex pettyfer

ashley frangipane ( halsey )

austin carlile

austin kerr

camila cabello

carter reynolds

chris brown

die antwoord

donna hylton

emile hirsch

emma roberts

ian watkins

jai brooks

james franco

jared leto

jason viohni

johnny depp

lena dunham

matt prokop

mark salling

marilyn manson

michael clifford

michael fassbender

nash grier

oli sykes

roman polanski

ronnie radke

sam pepper

sean penn

stephen collins

woody allen

abuse allegations

casey affleck

christian bale

cole sprouse

david jesus torres ( dahvie vanity )

evan peters

jake mcelfresh

jamie campbell bower

jason viohni

justin bieber

kalel cullen

matt prokrop

michael fassbender

nicola peltz

deceased

anton yelchin

brittany murphy

carrie fisher

christina grimmie

cory monteith

heath ledger

paul walker

ANYONE WHO IS DECEASED

doesn’t want to be roleplayed

alicia danielle medina

andrea russett

ashe maree

ashley osborn

baek sumin

bård ylvisåker

bertie gilbert

byung-ho park

cameron ugh

ciara bruce

dajana rads

david ghost sola

david henrie

devin sola

emerald gordon wulf

feryn suicide

hiroki narimiya

ian nelson

jarrod alonge

jayde pierce

jenn cino

justine skye

kalani hilliker

kristina pimenova

lara jade

lena muir

lisa ruocco

no yooho

mark eshleman

mary thomson ( supermaryface )

mckenna grace

mia hays

micahel kuza

morgan joyce

oh ki taek

olivia culpo

orion carolto

plum suicide

sarah urie

shin dong-ho

stephen gomez

sydney sierota

taylor nichole dean

thylane blondeau

trey defranco

twiggx

zoe kimball

underaged

amanda steele

aramis knight

auli’i cravalho

bailee madison

caleb mclaughlin

cameron boyce

camren bicondova

david masouz

finn wolfhard

gaten matarazzo

griffin gluck

jazz jennings

kiernan shipka

kristina pimenova

louis hynes

malina weissman

mia talerico

millie bobby brown

millie ramsey

natalie alyn lind

noah schnapp

quevenzhane wallis

rowan blanchard

sabrina carpenter

trey defranco

willow smith

ANY AND ALL CHILD FACE CLAIMS

supported/defended abusers

adrian brody

amy schumer

benedict cumberbatch — ableism, sexist

gael garcia bernal

harrison ford

laurie holden

meryl streep

mickey rourke

natalie portman

paul bettany

penelope cruz

scarlett johansson — calls dylan farrow “irresponsible” for coming forward with her story of molestation

taylor swift

tilda swinton — whitewashing, defends her actions

racist

azelia banks — homophobic

bella hadid

camila cabello

colton haynes — blackfaced

courtney love — murder conspiracy theory

dylan sprouse — islamphobic

gigi hadid — blackfaced

hailey baldwin

harry styles — sexist, blackfaced

heo chanmi

jennifer lawrence — ableism

kwon jiyon — cultural appropriation, ableism

liam payne — sexist

lily macapinlac 

louis tomlinson — sexist

machine gun kelly

mel gibson — anti-semitic comments, homophobic

taylor marie hill

tyle oakley — transphobic, believes in reverse racism

cultural appropriation

doug young-bae

emeraude toubia

kylie jenner

miley cyrus

selene gomez — uses slurs

vanessa hudgens

other reasons

bella thorne — racist accusations

chris colfer — ableism, fat shaming, sexist

daria sidorchuk — homophobic 

donald glover — rape jokes, sexist, racist, abelist

felix kjellberg ( pewdiepie ) — racist, anti-semitic comments, believes rape jokes are okay

floriana lima — whitewashing 

holland roden — defends colton hayes, rape jokes, supports blackface

iggy azalea — animal abuse accusation, racist and homophobic past that she has since apologized for

lauren emma cook ( felice fawn ) — animal abuse accusation only found on wiki page

lorenzo henrie — whitewashing

martin freeman — uses slurs

megan trainor — uses songs against body positive

michelle rodriguez — transphobic

rena lovelis — rape/pedophilia apologist

robert downey jr. — blackfaced, yellofaced, homophobic, defended mel gibson

theo rossi — whitewashing

tom hardy — whitewashing

uriah shelton — sexist

zayn malik — defends gigi hadid, used STD as an insult