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the thing about some men is that they want you to remember, at all times, that you are underneath them. that with one word or look or "joke", you will stay beneath them. that even "exceptions" to the rule are not true exceptions - the commonly cited statistic that one in eight men believe they could win against serena williams.
women's gymnastics is often not seen as real gymnastics. whatever the fuck non-euclidian horrors rhythmic gymnasts are capable of, it's often tamped down as being not a sport. some of the most dominant athletes in the world are women. nobody watches women's soccer. despite years of dancing and being built like a fucking brick, men always assume they're faster and stronger than i am. you wouldn't like what happens when they are incorrect. once while drunk at a guy's house i won a held-plank challenge by a solid minute. the party was over after that - he became exceedingly violent.
what i mean is that you can be perfect, and they still think you're ... lacking, somehow. i hope you understand i'm trying to express a neutral statement when i say: taylor swift was the possibly the most patriarchy-palatable, straight-down-the-line woman we could churn out. she is white, conventionally attractive, usually pretty mild in personality. say what you will about her (and you should, she's a billionaire, she can handle it), but a few things seem to be true about her: 1. she can write a damn catchy song, and 2. the eras tour truly was a massive commercial success and was also genuinely an impressive feat of human athleticism and performance.
i don't know if she deserves the title of "woman of the year," i'm not debating that in this post. what i am saying is that she was named Woman of The Year, and then an untalented man got onstage at the golden globes and made fun of her for attending her boyfriend's football games. what i am saying is that this woman altered local economies - and her dating life is still being made into a "harmless" punchline. the camera panned, greedy, over to her downing a full glass of champagne. congratulations taylor! you are woman of the year! but you are a woman. even her.
fuck, man. write better material.
a guy gets onstage at a college graduation and despite the fact like half the crowd is made up of women, he spends a significant proportion of it warning these people - who spent possibly hundreds of thousands of dollars on their education - that they were lied to. that the "real" meaning of femininity is motherhood. that they shouldn't rest on the laurels of that education-they-paid-for but instead throw it away to kneel at a man's heel. imagine that. sweating in your godawful polyester gown (that you also had to pay for!), fresh out of 4 years of pushing yourself ever-harder: and some guy you've never met - who knows nothing about you - he reminds you this "win" is a pyrrhic one at best. you really shouldn't consider yourself that extraordinary. you're still a woman, even after years of study.
god forbid you are not a pretty woman, but if you are pretty, you must be dumb. god forbid you are not ablebodied or white or cis or straight or good at swallowing. you must be beneath a man, or else they are not a man. the equation for masculinity seems to just be: that which is not a woman or womanly (god forbid). anything "feminine" is thereby anathema. to engage in "feminine" things such as therapy, getting a hug from a friend, or crying - it is giving up ones manhood. therefore women need to be put in their place to ensure that masculinity is protected.
this is something i have struggled to explain to terfs - they are not doing the work of feminism, but rather the patriarchy. by asserting that women and men must be (on some secret level) oppositional and in conflict, they also assume that being a woman is akin to being another species. but bigotry does not stem from observational truths or clarity - that is what makes it bigotry. there was nothing in my childhood that made me fundamentally different from my brother. we are treated differently nonetheless. to assert there is some biological drive that enforces my gender role is to assert that women have a gendered role. men do not see women as equal to them not because of biological reality - but instead because the core tenant of the patriarchy is that women aren't full, realized people.
we are told from a very young age to excuse misbehavior as a single man's choice - not all men. it is not all men, just that one guy. all women are gold-digging bitches who belong in the kitchen - but if a man is mean, bigoted, or violent to you, it's just that particular guy, and that means nothing about men-as-a-whole. it is only one guy who got mad when you gently rejected him. it is only one guy who warns her this trophy is heavy, are you sure you can hold it? it is only one guy who smashes her face into the cake. it is only one guy talking into a mic about hating our bodily autonomy.
i have just found that they often wait until the moment we actually seem to be upstaging them. you sit in a meeting where you're presenting your own findings and he says get me a coffee? or you run to the end of the marathon and are about to finish first and he pushes your kids out in front of you. you win the chess game and they make some comment akin to well, you're ugly away. we can be the billionaire and get the dream life and finally fucking do it and yet! still! they have this strange, visceral urge to say well actually, if you think you're so great -
it's not one just one guy. it's one in eight.
#posting my drafts#i want to stress im a taylor swift enjoyer. sorry.#also if someone wants to venmo me for the radfem hate i get daily i need like 60 bucks#someone stole my taylor swift official merch quarter zip :(#the point im specifically making in the tswift paragraphs i hope is clear which is like.#taylor is not threatening their ideas of masculinity or femininity. she is incredibly milquetoast. i mean i love her#but there's nothing about her that challenges the status quo. EXCEPT for her success.#and that's what pisses so many men off: the success.#so if THE VISION of white heteropatriarchy STILL is being treated this way.....#what do you think is happening to minority populations??#i just feel like be annoyed w/her about real things but being weird about her dating someone is like#soooooooooooooooooooooo fucking annoying. like ya know????#[said with the knowledge i need you to be soooo normal about how you interpret this entire piece and also these tags]
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Obsessed with the idea of Xie Lian getting his spiritual powers back and not really using them outside of like subconscious actions. Like in a fight he spent 800 years just straight up throwing hands so it doesn’t really occur to him to use it. But because he’s literally stuffed full of spiritual energy it just results in Puqi Shrine becoming the fairies house in Sleeping Beauty. Like there’s a pot stirring itself while truly toxic ingredients are added to a soup. The floor is being sweeped by a broken broom. The laundry is being done automatically meaning all his white robes are now a faint pink. Hua Cheng is sitting in the bed grinning fondly at the chaos around him. Meanwhile Xie Lian is just sitting outside sorting out his junk piles to see if he can find the pretty comb he wanted to give his husband and thinking of the chores he has to do today because they didn’t leave the bed until noon.
#chaos grandpa continues to cause chaos even with full powers is my favourite#he made all those statues sentient you can’t tell me this isn’t his day to day#xie lian#tgcf#tian guan ci fu#hua cheng#heaven official's blessing#hualian#zee rambles#also hi I’m back I’m on new meds and now have a brain
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The childbearing pills haunt me and raise so many questions
#tgcf#heaven official's blessing#heaven official's blessing fanart#tgcf fanart#hualian#trying to write Qi Rong dialog really made me appreciate just how good the English dub script is#i dont think I got anywhere close to how he speaks with this#side note: kinda a shame we never got Qi Rong commentary on the statue incident#tried my best to give Qi Rong and Xie Lian more or less the same face
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happy bday
#sir crocodile#dracule mihawk#buggy the clown#cross guild#one piece#happy birthday crocodile ❤️#my art#i luv you and crochawk otp#i had so much work to do today but still squeezed in time to work on this#also been watching opla an ep a day#its pretty good im enjoying it#congrats to buggy on official segzyman status
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One of those Hua Cheng reverts to Wuming scenarios where Wuming comes to understand the that 1) He and Xie Lian are sexually and romantically entangled 2) Xie Lian is married to a ghost king named Hua Cheng. The conclusion he derives from this is that he is Xie Lian's lover?? servant he fucks sometimes?? some sort of concubine??? He is trying to figure out how legitimate their affair is.
#qtzl txt#heaven official's blessing#tgcf#what does this hua cheng think about their relationship??#at some point he develops the theory that hc married xie lian as a status symbol to say fuck you to heaven#and thus doesn't really care if xl has an affair#which works for him except his highness is not some ornament to keep#but then he also understands that xie lian had hard times so it's his fault for failing to providethat xl had to accept such an arrangement
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In a world in which Fox died saving the republic from Palpatine, the newly reformed government, maybe out of gratitude maybe out of a publicity stunt, decide Fox should have his own monument.
The corrie guard commanders are initially opposed to this ‘cause they know fox would despise the idea, and they don’t want to remember fox as some martyr, he was a person with thoughts and feelings not a symbol.
After a while though, the want for Fox to be remembered for what he did wins over. They are also promised a large amount of creative influence, unfortunately they have to agree to share this with Fox’s batchmates.
There is, understandably, a lot of friction and arguments during the design process. The Corrie Commanders despise Fox’s batchmates for what they perceive as Fox’s abandonment, they dont think the others have any claim on Fox. The command batch on the other hand are immensely guilt ridden and are torn between doubting their right to be involved and hating the idea that they don’t have a right.
They do come together eventually, after a lot of blood and tears. They may never fully like each other but Little Gods did they love Fox. They really cant help but see little fragments of their lost brother in each other and together they really do manage to capture Fox’s essence and create something even he would struggle to hate.
The monument they settle on is a slightly larger than life statue of Fox, showing him with a rather feral look in his eye and a grin as he flips the middle finger, which they position to face the senate building.
It sends the senators into fits but the Clones adore it and many bring their kids to see it over the years.
#another promise made to get the corries to agree was that fox will still have his name among the official clone memorials#he’s not seperated from his brothers the statue is the secondary memorial#star wars#tcw#star wars au#star wars writing#commander fox#commander thorn#commander thire#commander stone#commander ponds#commander bly#commander cody#commander wolffe#captain rex
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Worship
I've always wanted to make a painting that shows intimacy of Hua Cheng's devotion
#digital art#art#illustration#heaven official's blessing#tgcf#tian guan ci fu#hua cheng#hualian#tgcf fanart#xie lian#simp king#ha what a loser he made a statue to get head pats#can i have one tho#artist on tumblr#nyutaart
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he xuan spending years trying to break out of the kiln: -_-
the massive xie lian statue in the corner:
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#tgcf#tian guan ci fu#heaven official's blessing#i imagine this was before he met hua cheng too#so he probably had zero context#he's just fought(/ate?) his way through the whole gauntlet of mt tonglu#beat the mountain spirits. convinced the kiln to close. started fighting everyone inside#and there's just a mountain-sized statue of... some guy? probably a god???#genuinely a bit impressed that whatever goes down in the kiln during a normal ghost king ascension didnt fuck up the statue at all#...imagine if it had and hua cheng found out that he xuan had damaged his masterwork#tgcf liveblog
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Quan Yizhen, watching Xie Lian make out with a ghost: What an effective way to exchange power, did you see how he got super strong sooo fast?? :D
Mu Qing: Oh for-
Pei Ming, uncle extraordinaire: That's right bud. Very efficient! But see, when two people love each other very much-
#bro really said “not before marriage son”#this whole sequence is such a fever dream#just riding around on a xie lian statue half the size of a mountain and fusing your colleagues into a sword#wielding that blade with the power of friendship#as you do#qi ying my beloved#he is me at any function like idk where i am or what we're doing but i'm happy to be here#my guy beats even mobei-jun at the autism game put some respect on his name 😤#heaven official's blessing#tian guan ci fu#tgcf#tgcf spoilers#xie lian#hualian#mu qing#quan yizhen#pei ming#ive heard of the ho ho thing before which is pretty iconic but this was so much funnier to me
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ABAP - Assigned Besties at Plush
Those plushies are so uggo I’m going to buy both.
#invader zim#dib membrane#zadf#zadr#to me at least I’m making those plush kiss immediately#I would like to personally thank whoever at youtooz wrote dibs description text#i see you and i appreciate you#been so busy at work that I haven’t had time to do much art but I immediately wanted to doodle something to commemorate their bestie status#it’s Facebook official now uwu#chellos art tag#the brainrot is terminal
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"I am forever your most devoted believer"
I also post some of my stuff on bluesky :))
#hualian#tgcf fanart#tgcf novel#tgcf#mxtx#xie lian#hua cheng#i ignored so many responsibilities to finish this piece#if i had a statue of xie lian I'd probably be acting the exact same way#they make me sick i love them so much#thinking of rereading tgcf#heaven official's blessing#fanart#by the heaven officials blessing no paths are bound#no paths are bound#xie lian statue
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Assume this character can eat steak OR there is a substitute they can eat that cooks equivalently
#how do they like their steak#susan taxpayer#i thought i had official art saved but i only have the statue i made sorry#punkitt#punkitt is here
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the thing that sets apart hua cheng from most other devotee/worshipper-type relationships in other media is that hua cheng would actually throw himself on his knees and crawl across the floor if xie lian wanted to, he would demean himself without shame because shame comes from the perception that you have done something wrong or foolish in another's eyes, and hua cheng would never see his god's will as either, nor care for anyone's else's opinion
#i was so happy when i read tgcf because this is what i mean when i want hopelessly devoted love interests#too many of these (dark) fantasy male love interests dont even treat her with basic respect#like what do you MEAN they drag her around and demean her#theyre often assholes at best and abusers at worst#there is no devotion or worshipping to be found#''he would kill for her'' but would he make peace with his enemies for her?? would he SAVE his enemies for her??#hua cheng would#hua cheng also wouldnt dream of ordering xie lian around#he told xie lian once not to get involved with the wind and water master but when xie lian did that anyone#all he said was ''thats okay baby i told you before: just do what you want to do ill be here for you either way<3''#he only intervenes more forcefully for xie lian's protection and he clearly HATES doing that#sorry for the vent but im tired of seeing the worshipper trope done so badly!!#where are the statues!! the murals!! the devouring need to be with them!! why arent these men on their knees!!!#hua cheng#tgcf#heaven official's blessing#tian guan ci fu#xie lian#hualian
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that post that basically said suits was about how the entire elite male population is desperate to fuck harvey but the only guy he wants to fuck is mike, who refuses to fuck him? i think about it constantly.
#the idea that both mike and harvey could’ve been bi but mike wasn’t into harvey is both comedy and tragedy like#the ONE guy he wants loves and adores him but absolutely refuses to fuck him#that brooklyn loser NEEDS to let my babygirlfail hit//mike im begging you#it would be funny is mikes type is pathetic men#so harvey is simply not his type#he did let trevor and harold hit tho#harvey has an aneurysm the day he finds out#harvey specter#mike ross#marvey#only bc the day mike realizes harvey kept his apartment he had officially reached pathetic softie status and thus was officially his type
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Perspective of Reader holding the destroyed small statue of the Creator.
#genshin impact#sagau#genshin sagau#genshin impact sagau#genshin x reader#genshin imagines#self aware genshin#yandere genshin impact#Yes Reader did indeed destroy the statue in an emotional state after everything they had gone through#Reader is the Creator but unaware#I did not want to do the background so I just took it from the official game lol#The sagau au of the creator being hunted by the characters
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Hang on I got a cool pic I took that might be relevant!
Context: the wild clouds in the background were the front of a massive storm cell encountered while driving. Inside it, the winds were so fast it was shoving cars off the road, rain so heavy you couldn't see three feet ahead, non-stop lightning right overhead. This picture was taken while we were ahead of the storm. Looking at it, you could see it rolling towards you. Wrong Way, indeed.
Official ominous sign
#oooo a case where the environment around elevates a relatively normal sign to ominous status LOVE THISS#thank you for sharing!#official ominous sign#o.s asks#sign#signs#wrong way
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