#number 1 bae hater

[regulusstarz]

jjust realised i wadnjt following yyou imevil

aanywayh,, mmore yap please ☺️☺️☺️ ttjell me about the others!!!!! NNYYEEOOWWW!!!

You ask and i deliever!!

I wasn't sure what exactly you wanted to hear so i just did random yaps

Nate: he autistically autisms with his autistic eyes /j. I relate to him sm, hes a little cutie patootie to me.. crying in unexpected and overwhelming situations, he doesn't like big and sudden changes, he likes a strict routine, he puts pressure on himself and is disappointed when he doesn't get something perfect.. bro is ME. I have to replay his route sometime soon cause he's such a cutie. I love him 🙁🙁

Bae: #1 bae hater here. I don't even hate him for anything specific. I just remember having such a deep hatred for him that i went crazy anytime he appeared in the game, so now i have personal beef with him.

Shiloh: I don't have much to say about him. I lovingly wanna smash his head into a wall and dump him in the trash

Everett: Sadly, he is also me 🙁🙁, letting people important to him lead his life is so funny. And him being such a mommy's boy that he calls her after every important thing is hilarious. Also his fashion sense is so stupid it's actually good. I lovingly will bully him

Erm.. also.. Nate x Everett is real, i cannot lie. Bro's are meant to be

[mrs-monaghan]

I know Tae is the most popular member but why it's not seen in the results? Or is it because he haven't released the album ? But then JK hasn't released an album either but he's already on steaming lists.

1. In highest debut streams, JK has LR(1), dreamers and stayalive. JM had LC(2), SMF and Face off (VIBE was there recently) While Tae has none. Knowing Tae has twice amount of fans than JM atleast one of his song should be on list right.

2. Fastest streamed OST is With You surpassing other OST's by BTS members.

3. Jimin gets a 100+ #1 in iTunes within 5 hours for past 3 songs while rest, including JK, take more than 10 hours atleast.

4. I thought Tae as one of most fashionable members and high end brands will be lining to sign him with great offers but then it's Jimin who got signed to 2 most luxurious brand and many other brands followed him including Valentino. While Tae got Celine. Unlike JK, who made it clear he likes to sign to brands he actually uses rather than luxury or money factor. Tae doesn't seem to be a person like that given he signed with Siminvest.

5. I remember there was a big poll last year which had the winner gifted a NYC promotion ad or something 🤔 and Jimin won it. Surpassing votes of Tae.

How Jimin is surpassing him in every field with much less supporters than him ?

Like we said,

1) PJMs show up. Jimin is the most hated member but he is also the most beloved member. Its quite funny when u think about it. In a fucked up kind of way though.

Goldy once said even Jimin's haters are obsessed with him and this is true. They will wait 2 hours under the airport lives. There was a lady who went live last night on IG as we waited for Jimin to show up at Tiffany n Co and Tkkrs were commenting. Like why were they there?

2) Jimin gets support from his haters and PJMs. I wouldn't be surprised if some of these jerkwards even buy his merch that's how obsessed they are.

3) No offence to any V biased person reading this but most PJMs are adults. With Jobs. So not only do they not have time on their hands to dick around on twitter all day hating on V, but they will financially support Jimin when it comes down to it.

4) Jimin is the sell out King. Well, him and his bae. 💛💜

5) Which answers your question, Jimin is always number one on brand reputation. He has held that position for years now. So brands will gravitate towards him since he has the most reputable reputation? That sounds wrong. But u get what I mean.

6) V solos are useless.

[tmwcs]

RAEEEEE GUESS WHOS HERE ABOUT DT SUPER LATE🤩

Me😌

Im sorry BUT NOW IM GONNA START READING IT AND YOULL GET ALL MY LIVE REACTIONS🤭‼️

"Gently rubbing his fingertips along your skin, swaying them back and forth"

RAE😭😭 WHAT ARE YOU DOING TO USSSSS, pls pls take our well being into consideration 😔😔

“Good girl... you even know how to pronouce it correctly"

good girl? GOOD GIRL???? AND HE HAS THE AUDACITY TO WINK AFTERWARDS???? im done I cant with this guy

“Maybe….we’ll see.”

Maybe yes, hopefully not😌

“Night sweet thing.”

Boy im no object 🤨🤨 (but since its you saying it, I dont mind as much😋)

“Let us know if you need anything.”

You sir pls?🤯

Gazing at the message that you had just received, you saw that it was from Kurt, who expressed how good it was to see you again. “…Hmm…I wonder….” You mentally noted as you came up with an idea and messaged back.

No no pls dont "wonder" it usually ends bad😨

OMG IM LOOKING AT THE PICS YOU ADDED RN AND IM- SUISHSEESDDD let me suck your dick pls??? (Both)

“You would look so pretty in a wedding dress.”

THIS AND THE PICTURE UNDERNEATH IT????VBYXDGHHHHH, Heejeong does smh unexplainable to me😣

“Yeah?.....I beg to differ.”

SIR???? STOPPPP

“Hey, y/n. I’m finally here, sorry I missed the ceremony, but I’m glad I could make it in now.”

You missed the ceremony what else you here for boy?💀 also rae pls pls dont do what im think you're going to do pls pls dont

You had invited Kurt, as a manner to introduce him to the family since you had recently decided to give him a chance and accept his offer to begin a relationship

Bye.

WHYYYYY TELL ME WHYTYYY???????? I dont even know what to say🤯🤯

Im kurt number 1 hater #kurtkys #kurtleaveynalone #kurtpullasamuelsoicanhaveareasontohateyou

Im never forgiving you for this rae

"Im good Mrs....um..."

Bro doesn't even know the name of his girlfriends mother 💀💀 this is way worse then what samuel did I think I have reason to hate him now😌

Heejeong merely looked down at Kurt’s hand before glaring back up at him….then over to you.

YES BAE IGNORE HIS DIRTY HANDS WHO KNOWS IF HE EVEN WASHED THEM???😨‼️

"Nice to meet you. I’m Kurt.”

No one cares bro you can stop💀💀

You figured they were disappointed that you hadn’t told them about Kurt sooner

Nah babes they're mad bc they want to fuck you

"We’re dating.”

Im so done with y/n

"They were busy.”

Pls keep em busy🙏🏻🙏🏻

"It’s okay….” You bit your lip as you chuckled once more. Leaning in, you whispered out. “Should we try again?"

NO???? how about y'all DONT try again💀

"So..."

FINALLY OME OF MY BAES🤭🤭

"Come again?....”

Y/n bae in the nicest way possible, stfu🤗

"Nuh-uh. Come here, we need to have a little talk, you and I.”

Okay lets talk😋 OMG THE PICTURE????? IM DYING DJJDUDJEJD

“Shhh….come here…..COME HERE.”

Come here and get some~~

ANOTHER PICTURE???? *this user has died*

Okay ill continue dying after i finish this ask 🔥🔥

“Stop! This is wrong! You’re insane, get off!”

Dont stop! This is feels so right! You're not insane, dont get off**** sorry had to fix your typo😰😰

"Dont be like that…..haven’t I shown you kindness and affection?....Haven’t I shown just how much I ADORE you?”

BAE PLS PLS FORGIVE MY DEAR Y/N, SHES JUST BEING SILLY 🤗🤗

"Those are some pretty strong words princess…..are we fighting? Hmm? Tell me…..” placing a hand on your hip, he starts to motion your body to grind against his crotch as he whispers out the last bit. “Are we fighting?”

I might have to resume being dead soon bc oh my god i cant handle this

"Tell me baby….since we’re fighting…tell me what I gotta do to fix it…tell me.

Nothing babe you're perfect 😌‼️ #loveyourself #changeyourselffornoone #beyourself

"Come on baby…tell me what I gotta do to fix it….so we can get along…”

OH WAITTTT, that shitty gf of yours💀 we can get along then👍🏻

No princess….dont think I will……I don’t think you want me to…..that’s okay because that’s what I’m here for…..”

You're right, pls dont stop😣

"Boyfriend hasn’t touched you yet…has he?”

THANK GOD NO 🙏🏻🙏🏻

"Let me fix it."

Yeah this is my last straw, im dead 👍🏻

Okay kids, lets all thank rae for the amazing chapter 🤭🤭

Bro the way I laughed at this….this is…this is gold. I’m literacy saving this right now so I can refer back to it bc this was just absolutely hands down the best Silky. Omg. Lol! I loved that enjoyed the chapter. Bro..the part where Heeseung was like “let me beat it up and say sorry to it with my tongue later” I died lol. Could you imagine? I should have chapter 6 posted by tomorrow maybe since im working on HHP ch 20 rn ;)

[bryceslahela]

choices li tag game <33

tagged by the amazing @mvalentine. i love u bestie <3333 also i added commentary, ignore if u want.

also idk who to tag so … @trystcnthorne @kingliamrys @paladinofsol and anyone else who wants to.

across the void - none. book was ass. sorry howdy.

america’s most eligible - the bad boy that wasn’t even bad. the flop boy.

a very scandalous proposal - hate the way british lis are written so stopped playing but i might replay again bc everyone raves abt simon/ava. if that’s their names.

baby bump - rich guy in ill fitting suit. clit covington.

bachelorette party - rich doctor. reed? as much personality as a loaf of white bread. he had rlly big gazongas tho like ik the design team had fun inflating those things.

big sky country - dallas. dallas so beautiful. i love 1 (one) man.

blades of light and shadow - mal volari

bloodbound - adrian raines (didn’t finish tho)

crimes of passion - obviously my #bae trystan thorne

a courtesan of rome - depends on my playthrough, it’s either marc antony and syphax or just marc antony.

desire and decorum - never finished but ernest sinclaire. he’s v pathetic looking and that’s my type.

distant shores - edward mortemer.

the elementalists - beckett harrington (i know he’s a divisive li but idc he’s my nerd 4 lifer 🤞🏾)

endless summer - sean gayle

foreign affairs - y’all already know 🤭 mr blaine hayes. my number one. my shorty. my bae. my boo. my lil doughnut head.

the freshman series - chris bc i didn’t care abt him frfr. james was cute and was my boo for a minute but then he rlly fucking annoyed me. on my replay it was zig, he was hot but i never finished.

hot couture - no one. all were ugly and hazel wasn’t available.

immortal desires - both (but i liked cas more im sooooo sorry gabey wabey 😪)

laws of attraction - gabe ricci. he’s hot, sexy and has a good job unlike some ppl.

mother of the year - thomas mendez. hot single dad ?? purrrrr.

murder at homecoming - black!tyler is sooo pretty but i’m sorry donovan is gonna be my number one.

my first two loves - noah harris. miss him sm but i am not replaying 100 chapters pb got me fucked up fr.

nightbound - none. didn’t finish.

open heart - bryce lahela obviously 🤭. i would write a sonnet abt him but no one would listen 😪romanced ethan and raf for a bit tho

perfect match - everyone. all lis were TOP TIER. damien and hayden were my mains tho.

platinum - raleigh. fine asf. flop mc didnt deserve him.

red carpet diaries - matt rodriguez. no thoughts up there. love that for him frfr.

ride or die - logan? i think.

the royal masquerade - never finished but the pretty boy prince.

the royal romance - liam rys.

rules of engagement - the rich one. forgot his name srry to that man.

save the date - justin mercado (he wasn’t bad at all y’all are just haters)

veil of secrets - i played once when it came out and it was flynn but i replayed and romanced grant even tho he’s bald.

wake the dead - the hot guy. idk i quit playing.

[fpwrites]

can you do the 1-a boys with the rock singer s/o thing??? i loved that one!!!

Rock Singer S/O

Tenya Iida

He’s the brother of a famous hero. Fame ain’t shit, ok.

He’d be hella proud of you for deciding to become a singer instead of a hero. Would say the same sort of thing All Might would (that it was still a heroic thing).

He probably wouldn’t really listen to your music until you date and even then, I can only see him listening to it when he’s at one of your concerts or while you’re practicing. Rock/hard rock just really isn’t his thing.

Thinks you’re hella impressive and hot, even though you tend to be a bit of a rebel and blast everyone out with your electric guitar.

Is constantly reminding you that there is a noise curfew.

Not that you obey it.

Probably the main thing you argue about.

Although it is hard to argue with you when you have an electric guitar strung over your shoulder and you’re wearing one of his t-shirts.

God-damn it, you sure know how to get to him.

Denki Kaminari

Okay, we ALL saw how he reacted to finding out Jiro could play a bunch of instruments. This boi loves music and instruments and shit.

So having an S/O who is also a rockstar? He would be in literal heaven.

I can’t see Kaminari mainly listening to rock, I can see him being that guy who listens to literally everything, especially if his bae does (even more so if it’s his bae singing).

Before ya’ll even dated, he’d def listened to a few of your songs and may or may not be a member of your fanclub. He is.

But then dating you??? LORT. Consider him your #1 fanboy bc he will be your hypeman and be there for all of your concerts, live or not, planned or not.

Even if they’re just a bedroom concert and you’re trying to compose a new song, he’ll be there, looking all  ♡(◕ᗜ◕✿)

Like fr. Also this boi will constantly be giving you ideas for merch and want to be your merch designer and seller. And no, Denki, Dick Slayer is not an appropriate band name or slogan to put on merch.

Honestly loves it when you practice around him. Thinks you’re cute when you just sit and strum on your guitar, or play the drums. His favorite is the guitar though.

Eijiro Kirishima

Honestly, just like Aizawa, he’d be really worried about you when you’re on tour or out in public by yourself.

He’s been on your fansites for education reasons, of course. He’s seen the kinds of weirdos you have for fans and he’s heard stories of celebrities getting like, kidnapped or stalked by crazed fans. It worries him.

As such, he’ll be reluctant to let you go anywhere by yourself. So a lil security team (or him) is required wherever you go, which certainly makes things interesting.

He doesn’t mean to be overbearing; he’s just protective.

As such, he’d be present at all your practices and honestly, he’d just sit there and be in total awe of you and your voice. That and/or your skill on the instruments. Like how can one person be so talented and awesome AND be his?????

Constantly compliment you. Show you your own concerts and then positive comments.

Hide any negative comments, likely because he went on a small rampage against the haters.

Shouto Todoroki

This boy DEFINITELY listens to rock and probably stumbled across your stuff one day in his recommended. From that day forward, your songs were a part of his workout playlist.

He loved how well you played the guitar in your songs. LOVED IT. It was really good for getting him motivated and grooving.

Wouldn’t say he was one of your top fans, but he was def one of them.

Meeting you, he’d be totally starstruck. Unable to form words. You’d have to do all the talking, but that’s mostly normal w/ Shouto anyway.

He’s more of a physical/actions guy.

So don’t be surprised when he starts showing up at your concerts and shit.

When you guys actually start dating, he’ll try his best to keep doing so and if he can’t, he’ll def watch the lives and be like !!! that’s my S/O !!!!

so fuckin’ proud of u!

def worries about you tho. always keeps a close eye on you when you’re on stage and studies your security team.

loves loves loves loves watching you practice. he could literally watch you practice all day. he LITERALLY does not care. your voice and music is so soothing to him (LMAO!) and the fact that you bare your heart and soul to millions just leaves him in complete awe.

though at times, it gets to him a little too much and he has to take the guitar off of you and make you sing a little differently ;)

Katsuki Bakugo

(Ya’ll know why I picked that gif.)

He has heard of your music, he listens to it...but on the dl. He listens to it when he works out, on his way home, etc.

But upon meeting you, he denies it. He denies it even when you guys start dating.

Only admitted it once. You asked him to repeat it and he refused.

Also will never admit it but he loves your voice. Can fall asleep to it’s sound. Probably has.

He loves playing with you. If your drummer is out or you get an idea in the middle of the night (much to the chagrin of your neighbors), you ask him to stand in and god, he loves it.

He loves how you lose yourself in your music and just sing. It just !!!!!!!! gets him !!!!!!!!

Not surprisingly, he loves the way you look with an instrument in your hands. Thinks it’s simultaneously cute and hot. Is frequently stuck between the two, though he often finds himself leaning towards hot.

Practices are often interrupted for intense make-outs which result in, uh, *cough* ‘y know

Izuku Midoriya/Deku

This boi is 100% your number one fan, S/O or not. Saw a Youtube video of you singing one day and had the biggest crush on you since.

Loves loves loves and I mean loves your music. Thinks your voice is goddess-tier and really wants to attend a concert of yours live.

When you meet, he’s flustered and shy and just !!!

he can’t believe he’s meeting a celebrity who he has a crush on

you def sing for him

he dies (and comes back)

watching you play and sing for him is literally his whole life

thinks of it as his own personal concert

refuses to record them just for the sake of your privacy

worries a lot about crazy fans, sometimes wonders if he’s a crazy fan

you reassure him he’s not.

but god, he’ll never tell you but when you get in your zone, put that guitar strap on your shoulder and start to sing, it gets him a little turned on. a lot turned on.

[wizardessheart-sideb]

[The Meadow of Oblivion]

FINALLY we’re getting Alfonse content! I’ve already gotten through Alfonse’s ending and AHHHH I’m so in love with him T-T I’m hella digging this spin-off!

Quick Facts

Type: Spin-off

# of routes: 1

# of endings: 2

Early bird ends: October 4, 2018

Event ends: October 11, 2018

Basic Overview

Story summary: The MC is cursed and starts to lose their memory, prompting Zeus and Alfonse to try and find a way to stop the memory loss.

Overall, this spin-off is super sweet and just. Alfonse is ABSOLUTE bae and a total sweetheart. Even Zeus has his kind moments, and you KNOW that’s a hella good compliment coming from me, the number one Zeus Brundle hater.

There are 6 early bird items. 3 are from passing chapters, 2 from completing endings, and 1 from completing both endings. There are 5 story completion prizes, 2 for one ending, 2 for the other, and 1 for both. 

As for length, the main portion of the spin-off is a total of 17 parts. Alfonse’s ending is 5 parts long, and I imagine Zeus’ is the same length. 

Checkpoint Items

This is one of the cheaper spin-offs we’ve gotten, although let’s be real, it’s still a Lune sink. One full playthrough (all chapters+1 ending) will cost you 15,000 Lune or 900 Lune. Doing both endings will cost you 23,000 Lune or 1,400 coins.

Outside of avatar and garden items, you will need 6 Magic Keys per playthrough.

Walkthrough

Okay, so once again Solmare has made the choices a bit ambiguous to indicate who you were going to get. This is just going to be a short, endings-only walkthrough. I’ll be writing a more in-depth walkthrough for the WH wiki, so you can check that out, but for now here are the endings I chose. As you can all probably guess, I went (and got) Alfonse.

To get Alfonse

“No, I’m not.”

Take the pill (wow that sounds sketchy without context)

“Alfonse, I love the way you think.”

To get Zeus

Just don’t choose the above options lmao.

Final Thoughts

So tbh, I really do think this spin-off is definitely worth reading, especially if you have spare Lune and keys. The plot isn’t anything we haven’t seen before, especially if you’ve played a certain Goldstein sequel, but it’s soooooooooo cute and fluffy with the right amount of drama. I’ve said it before but Alfonse is just. my DREAM man and honestly, Zeus was actually a decent person in this spin-off. I know, I was shocked too. But yeah. It’s a really cute spin-off! 

[jobone123]

Any were back WHEN I HEARD THE RUMOR some buildings downtown made a personal attack on me Jason vs the house BY SACRIFICING A FOOD PROCESS BABY Vs fell sick due to clearance of YOU HAD THE BEST SON N U KILLED THE WRONG BOY

Was there a blonde building sacrificing of Jasons Vs BLACK PEOPLE ARE ACCIDENTS the only last reason they follow me is because virginity A JOKE AGAINST WHITES did brown eye crackers have their own building sacrificing a food process boy

Most important why didn’t you eat!

Was this a fake fort idea at towards my success

Why isn’t all downtown made like Jason Vs The girls of irack WERE TECHNICALLY JASON

Why does downtown have so much room for accidents

Underwear?

It maybe in the schooling Vs every building had a Jason fan parent WE FUCK UP THE GAME when it came down to WHITE PEOPLE DROPOUTS Vs everygirl had a baby Vs your son in their sleep n overtime THESE FANATICS OF FAKE FORT VS REAL FORTS would kill there family COVER UP did whites put blacks up to this BECAUSE BLONDE GEM PORN we can’t ignore the fact that all the boys downtown were eventually castrated IGNORES THE OBVIOUS BULLSHIT ATTACK ON MY HOUSE Vs Jasons sunrise network WAS THIS AN INSIDE JOB AUTHORIZED BY THE SUNRISE HOUSE

Most importantly why does www hate boys add why is my whole downtown career about a black persons virginity ADD GREAT BLIND DATE PICK UP LINE gets her pussy wet EXPERIENCE

I’m thirty was their a second attack on me vs the house WHY IS DOWNTOWN DEEMED AN ACCIDENT why don’t black People where underwear WHERE IS MY EVIDENCE

Was it all about porn

Too many haters of Jason fear the house YOU DONT DO THAT TO PEOPLE

Why is there so many extra buildings downtown

Why did downtown give up on the transgender process AND GIVE HER ALL THE POWER

It’s was a weapon for the SON I will next you GIRL with my transgender brother AN OFFSET TO HER JOBLESS ENTITLEMENT I have a pussy SQUID PRO CO

Black People opinions don’t matter

I was born blonde

Why was it a black Jason building when the subject was blonde gem porn TO GIVE BLONDE GEM ALL THE POWER OVER BROWN GEM Vs why wasn’t it a blonde Jason building food process sacrificing AKA CUT OUT EYES TOURS add why was it a threat to stop the creation of blonde gem female s BECAUSE A BLACK MAN HATED BLONDE WHITE BOYS RACISM Vs it was a threat to my son black prisoner aka blind dogs Theory ADD BLIND SIDED BY T V

It was an accident to kill the wrong son vs her walls EX. STOPPED THE ENERGY PROCESS OF A BOY TO TRANSFER GENDER right vs wrong process

All of downtown boys should be Jason vs girls of irack ALL IN TOGETHER

Where was he schooled vs veil

This sounds like a set up from a fake fort ATTACK ON JASON N NOT THE HOUSE racism downtown apartment was about apartment houses

Most importantly was the whole building or buildings MY PERFECT PROCESS or did drop outs AGAIN INFECT GIRLS MINDS Jason process WITH A SICK SLEEPING BABY Vs your son couldn’t know a computer baby IS THIS ANOTHER ATTACK FROM BLACK MAN ON A WHITE SLEEPING BABY aka it was me IAM JASON

Does downtown have too much buildings to just throw away bodies of boys but steal their wives AT WHAT COST DOES A BUILDING FULL OF WOMEN GO FOR $

MOST IMPORTANTLY AFTER I BUILT THE SUNRISE NETWORK NOW IM A ACCIDENT BEING FOLLOWED BY AN INKED WALL DEAD BLACK GIRL army of black men

We will take this as downtown is an accident jealous cowards underwhere a failed BUISNESS plan vs fake fort attempt to make me work sixteen extra years over land because a boat Theory Vs Free trips to an island DID CUBA KNOW what happened to jersey

Correction kill rumor time ATTENTION #mass IT WASNT A UNDERWEAR it was a drink #accident I GOT YOUR BACK SAID BLONDE GEM HOUSE TO BLACK DOWNTOWN go ahead n ruin Jasons career we have fake forts WITH MORE POOR PEOPLE FANS for the win

Was it the trade war

We can blame the Chinese or Italians but never the Spanish WAS THE SACRIFICE D FOOD PROCESS JASON BABIES Spanish WERE THEY ALL CASTRATED BEFORE

Seems as if another YOU DONT DO THAT TO PEOPLE BLACK LIES MATTER MOVEMENT aka welfare scheme FROM A BLONDE FAMILY TO SABOTAGE MY SUNRISE NETWORK by helping black People make this FOOD PROCESS JASON SACRIFICING for old sixteen year old blonde women when the house is done FUCKING THEM

Now it was a distraction because the accident was killing the wrong son ALA THAT BASTARD GOT AWAY WITH IT but will never HER WALLS

Don’t bother me with failed attempts at my ACCIDENTAL SUCCESS after all my nasa murders HAVE SACRIFICED AT LEAST TWO TO THREE TIMES that example building WHERES MY EVIDENCE

Is Jon or mic telling you this I GOT YOUR BACK THEORY why didn’t trump towers do the same but Steve Hilton did but wyn didn’t either SHE DIDNT EITHER

Not my first mass murder

You know Miami castrated twice as many boys as Boston

Can I move to have a blonde family WHEN WE GET DONE WITH THIS BULLSHIT NIGGER IDEOLOGY welfare game AKA I WAS BORN BLONDE here crackers 1 trillion dollars but half goes to black gem

Most importantly you killed the wrong son for an example downtown to be a house bastard aka he didn’t have a sister THEORY THAT SWEAPT EVERY INMATE BOY DOWNTOWN TO DEEM ME AN ACCIDENT Vs you gave her all the power by not saving this building for PROPER N RIGHT ENERGY OF A MALE TO COMPLETE THE TRANSGENDER FORMATION why you failed at impregnated the transgender male your transferred NOT ENOUGH ENERGY yikes n whoops CLEARANCE clearance EXCUSES excuses

You wonder why I hate blacks for killing my family THEN YOU WONDER WHY THEY WOULD MAKE A BUILDING OF SCARIFIED FOOD PROCESS BOYS n not eat ADD LETS ALL FORGET they suffered almost no pain SIXTEEN YEARS OF BLISS TO THAT ONE TRAGIC MOMENT can we kill all the queen satogates from the sarogates

Now if these scarified babies food process were all black BLAME BLONDE RUNNER better yet blame red head runner BUT DONT BLAME BRUNETTE RUNNER!

Black mic drop 🎤 Vs white mic drop 🎙

Does black dick matter more then white dick SPOILED BEEF Vs Milk

Ok we’re done

You people make me sick to think this attack came from my fort base

Can I get a red head family when this is done I WAS BORN BRUNETTE

I was born French ish

I’m from Ireland

Does anyone else notice THEY CASTRATED EVERY BOY DOWNTOWN INCLUDING THE JASON FOOD PROCESSING BUILDING vs the drop out building s attack on my sunrise DONT EVEN GET ME STARTED ON THISE 8 bedroom houses aka work release from buildings Jason accidents

For underwear or porn WHY WERE ALL THESE KIDS BORN N LIVED blind n dead DID YOU TELL THE BASTARD

How did the son learn of me

Did he know WHITE Jason was a church n not a real runner IRAN MORE TECHNICALLY HES A FAKE GEM anyways

We’re done

Sixteen years bs thirty years add one more generation YOUR SYSTEM PORN CASTRATION IS PARTICULARLY BIRTHRIGHT one plane Vs international porn site was a number s possessen SPECIAL COUNSEL VS SPECIAL INTEREST I’m international FAKE FORT TECHNICALLY IS LOST dEads secret Private family NEVER LEFT PRISON the boys didn’t suffer as much as bae did WHOOPS

Did the house do the same WE KNOW FAKE FORT SUNRISE WILL CLAIM YES poor mother lost two to three sons because of a sunrise competition NO WOMAN TREATED WORSE like black woMAN throwing white dicks away FICTIONAL THEORY picture a black man throwing white girls away

Swoh that’s a lot

After all it was a failed attempt vs someone to blame OTHER THEN BLACK PEOPLE JERKING OFF TO Blonde GEM PORN now picture it a little black girl CARAMA BITCHES for the attack on me JAYSIN VS JAYSON gov vs street name

Why doesn’t brown eye crackers give all the blacks to blonde gems

#shoutsouts Colorado YOUR INVOLVED threw in the church for free Vs a whole building for me NOT MY FIRST MASS MURDER sixteen years n nasa getting better at this RUMOR HAS OT COLORADO ONE IS LAND LOCK COLORADO TWO IS ISLAND Vs car theory DOES WYOMING DOWNTOWN HAVE THE SAME MAP where is Michigan really DO YOU THINK FLORIDA IS AN ACCIDENT TOO ice downtown said agriculture vs patches of grass are grown inside a building Vs making a food process boy accident against Jason n not against the orange fruit network MAKE AMERICA GRAPES AGAIN since you were throwing out them boys anyways WHY NOT GIVE THEM A PURPOSE to ruin successful Jasons career vs dEads most successful failed sons

We can only honor the of age appropriate sacrifices that suffered n we’re eligible vs my process CLEARED ENOUGH vs food process Jasons that we’re sacrificed Vs it was almost like a bullet ALA THEY DIDNT LOOSE AN ENTIRE FAMILY OF SUNRISE they never left or knew what sunrise was DID THEY THINK SUN Vs satellite through the light outside the window CANT SACRIFICE A BUILDING OF FOOD THROWN AWAY for I shit out your entire family to make a point TURD vs cows n chicken s MILK Vs you could of just used one drop of jizz in her WE GOT THE POINT didn’t need to sacrifice an entire baby in her vagina WHY DOES WWW hate to suck women clits UNDERWHERE DOWNTOWN Is an ACCIDENT I think the mask were for drain that swamp Vs that black building smells like a dead body WHY DID THE CHINESE INVENT THE MASK

Ok we’re done

[wayneooverton]

How to stop sucking at budgeting so you can travel more – part 2

Welcome back, budget-makin’ friends! Or, sorry – maybe we’re not friends yet, because I made you look directly at your money situation and then look at it harder and you hate me now.

I’ll accept this, because you’re a hater on their way to an actual, adult-life budget! (We’ll be friends later) and it’ll help you save money for travel.

How to stop sucking at budgeting so you can travel more – part 1 here

Last time, I walked you through a few steps that changed up the way you think of paying your monthly bills.

If you’ve followed along, that means you’ve identified your bill-paying Bae Day, listed out all of your Bae Bills that we’re now paying every two weeks, and promised yourself you’d take care of your Bae Bills the true BAE way: Before Anything Else.

That feeling when your car note is due but you’re fully ignoring it (Picton, NZ)

There are just two more things to do before you’re on that budget hype. Spoiler alert: I think you’ve already done the hardest parts. Don’t stop now! There’s wine at the end (if it fits in your new budget)!

Before we jump in, one more reminder that I created a Google doc to make these steps hella easier on you. Make yourself a copy and go to town using this link.

Let’s put this puppy to bed, shall we?

Final Two Steps to Build your Budget System: 

Conquer dat budget like this glacier hike conquered my sweat glands (Franz Josef, NZ) 

1. CALCULATE YOUR RATCHETRY FUND

I know, I hear you: “Berna, you’ve made me stare at my boring adult bills for hella long. Where in your system do I get to have, like, actual fun?”

We’re headed there with this step, which tells you how much fun money – that do-whatever-you-want money – your budget gives you. But for those of you who didn’t catch it, let me emphasize: Your budget tells you how much fun money you get; you don’t get to make that number up or improvise it with every paycheck, contrary to Millennial belief.

I call my fun money my Ratchetry Fund, simply because I let myself whatever ratchet things I want with it, whether it’s cashing out in dollar bills and throwing it in the air at Da Club, or eating my weight in Thai food for two weeks. I highly recommend you name this fund whatever makes you most excited to live your best life.

First, remember your Bae Bills – all your monthly bills that you cut in half to pay every two weeks? Add all of those every-two-week bills up. We’re looking for the total dollar amount you will be paying towards your bills every Bae Day.

Once you’ve done that, use this brutally simple formula to see what fun money your current budget allows:

[Your paycheck every two weeks] – [Your total Bae Bills] = Your Fun Money.

So, if you get paid $1000 every two weeks, and your Bae Bills have you paying a total of $800 every two weeks:

$1000 two week paycheck – $800 total Bae Bills = $200 Ratchetry Fund

It’s a simple concept: You get paid every two weeks, you pay all of your Bae Bills first (like you promised!), and whatever is leftover is what you get to have fun with. This Ratchetry Fund is meant to last you two whole weeks – until your next Bae Day, when you get paid again, repeat the bill-paying process and replenish your fun money.

Now, this is where a lot of people get sad, reach for wine, and claim their calculators have been possessed by demons. Stick with me.

You tellin’ me I’m supposed to support my bubble tea addiction on $4 a week?! (Rotorua, NZ)

Your Ratchetry Fund may be tiny. It may seem impossible to last two weeks on that fund. It may even be a negative number, like mine was when I first budgeted.

It does not mean you can’t have a budget – but welcome to another big money-clarity moment.

If you are like I was, trying hard to live a fun life but wondering why you always feel broke and can barely pay your bills? It’s probably because you spent more Ratchetry Money than your budget actually allowed.

You might have been spending as if you had $400 extra dollars to play with, when in budget-reality, after paying all of your bills, you really had $40. Now you’re looking right at the problem – this is what folks mean by “spending beyond your means.”

Yes hello, emergency? This woman is attacking my bank account. (Titirangi, NZ)

This might be the first time you have ever laid out your bills next to your fun-money life, so be nice to yourself, and take a breath. There are ways to fix this, and it means taking a hard look at your bills.

What’s in there that you can cut down? What number can be smaller, if you really tried? Can your rent be cheaper with roommates; can you nix the gym membership and (gasp) take up running?

I want you to remember that you’re in control here – you’re in control of your money, your whole budget, the fun stuff and the serious stuff. So, think honestly about this, remembering that you hold the power:

What are you willing to give up in exchange for having a bit more fun and flexibility in your life?

Budgeting takes balls. … I’ll show myself out (Moeraki, NZ)

2. WRITE OUT SUPER DETAILED INSTRUCTIONS

WOW. Feel that? A little bit of nausea mixed with a little clarity and empowerment, and two scoops of just wanting to lie down? You’re doing it right, and you’re almost there. This last step will automate everything we just talked about so that next time, all you have to do is follow your own steps.

Your last step is to write out exactly what you earn every Bae Day, and exactly what you are going to do with that money. And by exactly, I mean eggs-act-lee. Pretend that you are instructing a total stranger how to treat your Bae Bills on Bae Day, with exact dollar amounts and all.

I’ll show you an example from one of my past-budgets:

Every two weeks, I get paid $1000. When that paycheck hits, here’s what I do Before Anything Else:

Put away $400 for when rent is due.

Log onto Sallie Mae and pay $200 towards my student loans.

Log onto Chase and pay $25 towards my credit card bill.

Log onto the Toyota Thing and pay $125 towards my car loan.

Log onto T-Mobile and pay $50 towards my phone bill.

Put away $5 for when Netflix is due.  

Pay my Savings bill by transferring $100 to my Savings account

AND THEN, AND ONLY THEN…

Transfer $95 to my Ratchetry Fund.

Feel free to use my exact structure and wording, or change it up – whatever feels good for you. Put your instructions at the top of your new Felicia’s Wallet Budget document, where you’ll see it every time you sit down on Bae Dae to pay your bills and get your money right.

Now that you’ve got a full-on walkthrough of exactly what to do every time you get a paycheck, you’ve really done the dirty work. It will feel freakin’ excellent to not have to think too hard when you set time aside to deal with your money.

You’ll be out here budgeting mindlessly like weeeeeeeee (Ubud, Bali)

3. CELEBRATE YO’SELF!

BOOM. You freakin’ did it, magical wizardly money budget slayer of the modern world! Middle-fingers to the haters and all those years of being budget-blind. You are officially out of the “I don’t know jack squat” place.

Pause to love on yourself real quick, because you just took a huge step forward.

Give yourself a few cycles of Bae Days to see how this system feels. It took me at least 3 months and tons of revisions and tweaks to get into a groove that felt right for me. That’s the great thing: This budget is yours now, to customize in whatever way you see fit.

Budgeting is not a thing you do once; it’s a muscle you train over and over until it’s a straight-up habit. But now that you’ve got your whole routine down, all you have to do is flex.

First, we flex our budget muscles. Then, we flex our butt muscles. (Gili Air, ID)

Budgeting and money shouldn’t take up your life – it should support it, decorate it, and remind you that you’re the empowered one, and you’re in charge.

The point of this system is to grind a little so you can make regular budgeting as easy on your future-self as possible, which gives you more freedom and time to do what you want.

Freedom and time, after all, is the realest, most ratchet-tastic kind of wealth.

Have any budgeting tips of your own to help you save money for travel? Share in the comments!

Full breakdown of this process in video form, below!

How to stop sucking at budgeting so you can travel more – part 1 here

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[regulusstarz]

(written by me, on the way to school.)

Jeremy king: He's a pessimistic downer, who constantly talks about how miserable himself and the world is. He's also usually described as "mopey" or a "defeatist". He sighs and even says "sigh" out loud a lot. Hes a major pushover, so you'll get him to do mostly anything (if it doesn't have to do with germs) you want and he doesn't really have the energy to complain or say no for very long. Jeremy canonically suffers from insomnia, causing him to accidentally fall asleep and take naps in places he should (out in the courtyard of the school, in class, etc.). He has germaphobia, to the point he wouldn't even let his girlfriend touch him unless she washed her hands two times infront of his eyes, and it would take until college to get him to give you a kiss (even then it's only under the shower for probably a long while). He dislikes overly sweet people because he feels guilty over being an asshole and he hates the hobby shop he works at, which is also owned by his parents.

Pran taylor: Pran is a stubborn asshole who doesn't do anything that is asked of him. His usual replies are either "no" or "i don't care". Though he is somewhat open to physical touch when you get closer to him, and he gets more sociable when he becomes an adult. He thinks everyone in the world is horrible, even himself. The only person he actually likes is Jeremy. Pran has incredibly low self-esteem and openly hates his parents. He doesn't do well at school and sometimes actively breaks the rules, for example: skipping classes and not doing his homework.

Shiloh fields: He's a manipulating little snake, known in the group for lying. Nobody there really takes what he says seriously. Though he acts like he's incredibly happy, social and likes to interact with everyone. He makes good connections, but is a bit of a snitch. He's ready to throw someone else under the bus if it means getting himself out of trouble.

Everett gray: He's incredibly obnoxious and self-centered, not wanting to like whats considered mainstream, to the point he owns a flip phone instead of a normal cellphone. He brags about how people wouldn't know the stuff hes interested in, but does somewhat show his interest in some popular things enough so that he isn't considered weird by people. He's lazy and rarely does homework, much less study for tests. His mood can change harshly randomly, so it's extremely hard to be on the right foot with him. He also has a habit of complaining about everything and anything, and playing things off as not a big deal. He swears a lot, the only time he doesn't is infront of his own mother. He openly talks about how amazing his mother is and how he loves her. He grapples with his low and fluctuating self esteem, occasionally being very confident or not with himself, but he tends to bury these feelings until he has to deal with them later.He is quite popular and has many friends as well as flings throughout the school. People have also called him out for being a pushover and unable to make his own decisions as he almost always relies on his mom or Nate.

Nate lawson: He's an perfectionist and constantly working. He puts a lot of pressure on himself to be perfect and do many after-school activities, and could be seen as a somewhat assistant for teachers. He’s shown to be emotional and prone to breaking into tears if under enough stress or is in unfamiliar situations. He takes school and rules extremely seriously. Nate is extremely competitive and does not engage in any game or competition because of it and belives he is always in the right and refuses to believe otherways. He takes great effort to look after Everett and JB (if you befriend or date him) by ensuring they perform at least the baseline requirements of school like passing a quiz or doing homework.

Bae pyoun: Hes incredibly annoying to other people. He talks down to them, constantly uses petnames for people and treats them like they're children. He see's himself as more mature and "adult-like" than all the other high schoolers. He does have a love for his family and children in general, and is able to handle kids pretty well.

Pran has little information because i love him too much to remember much and need to replay his route. And im Bae's #1 hater so he's getting only basic information.

[beautifulmessesofchaos]

Introduction to CHAOS: Just Right Era

(I am 110% Dae came up with the title for this mini album when she saw her new bandmembers, don’t fight me on this, I will win)

Hello Messes! It’s me, the number #1 CHAOS fan (jk we all are the #1 who am I kidding.) A quick pause between the introduction of the members, I will start a new series for each CHAOS Era thus far for both entertainment. For old Messes: let’s read this and think of all the good time when we first met CHAOS and for the new Messes: I hope this helps you understand the fam a little better.

Let’s go!

So, CHAOS debuted on the 7th of July 2020 (just two months after BTS can you imagine the stress we all had.) On that day they also released they’re first (mini) album, Pretty Woman. The album had 7 songs, three music videos and also 7 dance practices (they are called queens of fanservice for a reason.) It’s their first of three mini albums before their first big album and world tour.

Their song As If It’s Your Last got promoted as its lead single and was the first mv and performance CHAOS ever did. The tracks “Rookie” and “Just Right” were also promoted. Let me just say what a risk the band and BigHit took with having three promoted singles but boy did it work. Tbh I really think it helped become CHAOS so popular in such a short time.

However. They also made some... regrettable decisions in their first work on which we will get back soon enough. It’s not as bad as BTS’ first stuff, I don’t think Chae and Ryung would have let that happen, but still a great source for great memes.

Leading up to their debut BigHit the band posted a lot of videos and messages on their twitter and website, as well as that of BigHit itself. They are very cute and I highly recommend you watch them bc especially the maknaes were so tiny. 

Also they released a countdown clock that started on May 22nd and in between that and the actual debut, also a (teaser) trailer for the album. 

In the videos I mentioned before we see the group prepare for their debut and also introducing themselves to us. It is here that we meet the final members of the group and discover they are a 7, not 5, member group, as Pureum and Areum (the two maknaes) were added at the last second. Literally still one of the best decisions ever bc really how is CHAOS without LM and A-. I mean how. Kudos for Papa Bang.

Around that time also the concept photos were released and the track list for the album too. 

With that all said and done, let us now turn to the three music videos which represent actual CHAOS. Let me tell you at first their concept. They were going, and later it turned out this was not CHAOS’ decision but that of BigHit, for a very traditional kpop girl cute concept. 

They had three themes inside this concept and has photoshoots for them. These photoshoots are actually iconic and to this day one of the greatest thing that exist. The themes were classy cute, quirky cute and cuddly cute and just ugh, my babies.

So the As If It’s Your Last music video doesn’t really have that much of a storyline, as does their mv for Rookie. It’s mostly the band being themselves but dressed up and made-up faces in pretty, aesthetically pleasing places. But even though the mv is decent but not all that spectacular, let me just say that these girls did such an amazing job at their debut show bc damn, I think that’s where they hooked and took most of the fans they still have today. Bless them.

Rookie was just an overall gem but I don’t think anybody knew what the heck was going on there. But the mv as much as some of the band members reactions are the best and most memeful thing that happened. Especially Dae and Ryung, or DYU and RY, had a lot of problems with Rookie. Unlike their other songs, this was the only one completely written for them and I think they felt really uncomfortable with the overall very stereotypically girly feel of it. Tbh I think only Pureum and Myung really liked this song, and Dae a little later when she was told they would be flying in space aircrafts. That girl was not meant to be human, who stole this alien. But also Ryungs salt over that entire song is the only thing that keeps me alive sometimes, bless my salty child. 

The mv for Just Right, which is now also the name for that era and also was chosen as fan favourite song of the album, was released about two weeks after Rookie and about a month after their debut. 

And now let us please discuss what the hell these children are doing in that clip because honestly, I don’t even think they know. First of all, Areum in that drawer. If you stop the video as she is wiggling her legs, you can put her in the Titanic scene of “draw me like one of your French girls” and no one would notice. This child honestly. This music fit in very well with their cuddly photoshoots and chestnut haired Areum is one of the best Areums don’t argue with me. It makes her skin even paler and I think I might have a thing for people who look like corpses (looks at Min Yoongi and Park Pureum.) Plus that scene where Areum licks that yoghurt and then does that dance move is just so her: inappropriate and random. 

I am also one hundred percent convinced that Bae Ryung is the only one who can still be cool whilst sitting on a clock rapping. Like the only one. This is science, a simple fact. Even in this cute concept I think we were all quick to notice that Ryung is the only one in that entire group who is actually, none-ironically cool. 

Myung is just goals. I wish I had her as sister or as mother because I think she would be so good at it. Also her vocals are just amazing and she pulls it off to be in such a weird video without it being weird. If a tiny Myung were to walk across my desk I wouldn’t question it. 

And then we have Chae. Chae-ha who is so pretty I don’t know if I want to be her or be with her because literally I’m so confused. BigHit was very, very, very right to make her visual. I know all the girls are really, exceptionally good looking, but tbh Chae is just otherworldly. Also I just love how they gave mother Chae who, sorry Ha-ha, wasn’t that good a dancer back then, the main dancing part. 

I also think the entirety of Dae’s personality can be summed up in this one video. She lays in food, likes weird dances way too much, smiles so brightly her cheeks become too little suns and makes a mess of her sisters room. OMG I FORGOT TO SAY

THE GIRL IN THE JUST RIGHT MV IS DAE’S YOUNGER SISTER, NAYA. THE BEHIND THE SCENES OF THIS MV ARE JUST THE BEST BECAUSE THE BAE SISTERS ARE ICONIC BUT THE YU SISTERS ARE JUST AMAZING. 

Also Naya, who is still a trainee, thanking her sister and the band for letting her in the mv is the cutest thing ever I love this child she did not deserve that band she was put in and tbh I love her even more as solo artist.

But also I love Dae in this mv bc her associations with food but mainly because her of facial expressions during both dance practice and music video because I swear there is something so wrong with her face that is so right.

MOVING ON. I HAVE NOW MADE IT A LIFE GOAL TO GET MY NOSE BOPPED BY PARK PUREUM AS SHE SITS ON A HORSE. Speaking off personalities summed up, that dance she does in the car behind Chae (who looks wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy too good riding that Barbie car) is so her I have been laughing for about 4 years now. 

Little Lea is so cute in this with all her oversized clothes in makes her even tinier. Also the fact she takes away that Barbie doll all sneaky is gay activity and I’m like 500% sure she did to make Dae laugh. This band is so gay Korea wasn’t ready.

But now, the first category. Style.

They kept it very very simple in this and wore a lot of blouses and sweaters (except for the two sleeveless tops Lyung and Dae wore, who do I thank?) They also kept their make-up and accessories to a very minimal. I personally think Myung and Chae played a very big part in this because they had already been idolized once before in this other girl group called “Rookie” (coincidence, I think not) and they knew how to make decisions they didn’t regret. 

Most of the members didn’t even have radical hair colours or even changed their hair colour during the duration of this album and promotion. Only Lyung, Ryung and Dae had hair changes. Lyung already had it short before debut (as had Dae) and had the same colours in As If It’s Your Last and Just Right, but had it a little darker brown in Rookie. Ryung went from silver to a light orange to a pure white between all the mvs and shows. Idk, I just think they felt like changing her hair a lot. Tbh I think the orange looked the best on her. And Dae went from a chestnut brown, to a silvery brown to a very dark brown. The styles of their hair didn’t change much either. 

Only Lyung and Dea kept it shorter and the latter was immediately exposed as having curly hair which was just very cute especially bc she was so young at that time. 

Then the second category: their personalities

This was their first era so we first got to meet CHAOS here and let me just say what babies they still were here. 

Let’s start off with our main unnie Chae-ha.Chae was quite serious in this era, always pushing the girls to do more, do better. But she also showed her insecure side sometimes because she wasn’t a very good dancer back then, but had received a couple of main dancing parts which I think really stressed her out. Also I think she took care of the band in her own very special way by protecting them from potential haters and annoying people. 

There are a couple of videos that really show her protective side and just ugh… can she be my mum. But tbh I really think Chae was under a lot of pressure to take care of this chaos of girls as the oldest and because she had some real kpop experience. 

Myung was very quiet in this era but I think it suited her very well too. Her concept is very cute so she owned in a very natural way. She was also such a responsible sister in this era, helping Chae out so much by getting these girls ready. This is also the era where we see her bond with Ryung very much, who was having a lot of trouble getting adjusted to the attention and lifestyle and I swear their relationship is just goals. 

But Myung is such a sweetie and I honeslty can’t imagine anybody ever being mad or upset at her. She also told the fans that she was so happy to be in a group with people she could finally call friends and feel safe around because I think she felt very out of place during her “Rookie” days. Overall just such a sweet person I can’t. 

Lyung and Dae were the first members of the sunshine squad and really they resemble over excited puppies ever since, because that really hasn’t changed. It is clear immediately that Lyung, stagename: Lea, is a very down to earth person, very different than her sister, and a very supportive person. She is actually also very vocal of how hard the trainee time is and how lucky she is to share it with her sister. 

Also her doing some her old songs with Dae from their “Hyped” days can literally resurrect people. But she is also one of the sole reasons the band worked from the beginning because she had rules and schedules from day one bc tbh I think the band might have fallen apart without her, I mean they are a literal chaos. 

Her sister Ryung is the opposite and also nicknamed the Salt of the group. A lot of people dislike her for being quite negative over the group and the other members and their work but tbh I really just think she wanted to prove to everyone she could be successful and was very hard on herself because she wanted to succeed to desperately. 

In like behind the scenes you might get the wrong impression of her but I assure you that when you watch some of their vlogs and videos of the CHAOS household it will change your mind. She is such a cuddly and soft person really she just has trouble showing it. 

As much as I love BigHit and Mr. Bang for all they have done for both CHAOS and BTS, I really just want to know who the hell came up with the plan to make Dae the leader of the group as she is one of the maknaes. But tbh I think Dae was very brave these first few months because she immediately came out and took all the hate like a pro and also kudos for the other members for supporting her so much. 

But really I just like her humour and especially her cheeks because they are so round and full and she’s just such an overall squishy person. Let me also add that now I am so glad Dae is the leader because she’s doing such a good job at it.

Areum is the oldest of the maknae and can, still, go from being very very deep and mysterious to very very dirty. She’s such a meme honestly and I love her both during the late night videos of her questioning everything and everyone but also as the one who makes so many jokes with Dae about their lengths or about the lengths of the other, shorter, members. 

She is very much a member that if I think Lyung and Chae wouldn’t have been around, she wouldn’t have made it because she really needs structure and clarity and I’m just glad she had five amazing unnies to guide her because I love her so much in this band. 

Baby Pureum, or Little Monster as she is also called, is really the baby of the group. On camera she is a very good dancer, like amazing is an understatement, and makes inappropriate jokes and tries to really fit in with the older unnies, off camera and especially without the other members, she was a very shy and insecure person who really was the youngest member. 

She was our bias is so many things in the beginning I think it was a lot for her to handle, but she did and I’m so proud of her. Also let me just say that if Ryung and Myung were the first ship to sail in this fandom, they are closely, closely, followed by the Pureum and Dae ship because honestly these two are so shippable there were so many rumours they were dating it was unreal.

Category three, memorable moments

- The CHAOS household where there was one golden rule: WHEN IT COMES TO HOUSEHOLDING, YOU LISTEN TO BAE LYUNG.

- Pureum and Dae sharing a bed and the first time Lyung found them in the same bed

- “YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT THEY DID IN THAT BED!”

- Chae cooking for her children

- Myung baking cookies for her children

- Those times where Myung and Dae were stuck in the studio writing and the others waited for them with re-heated dinner in their pyjama’s

- Ryung always near Myung

- Areum and Dae always having a shorter member lean on them when doing anything tbh

- Baby pureum commanding the others to drink and eat enough, literally splashing water in their face when they don’t do it with a plant spray

- “I have thirsty” when she finally needs a sip of water herself

- Dae’s coming out + all the supportive things the members said

- “Is she gay? I mean, maybe you’re gay? Huh, maybe you’re gay and you don’t want anyone to know so you’re asking Dae but we’ve figuring you out. Check and mate.”

- The birth of ryung’s eyerolls

- Chae’s panic face whenever dealing with the girls

And that was that for this era. See you in the next!

[viralhottopics]

In defense of ghosting: It’s a valuable dating tool, not a problem to be fixed

Image: Christopher Mineses/Mashable

Ghosting is everywhere, and dating apps are desperate to put an end to this disappearing act. But ghosting doesn’t need a solution it is the solution.

If you didnt already know before plunging into the deep, dark depths that is online dating, you certainly learned quickly thereafter: dating is a numbers game. And when youre messaging with what turns out to be your third lamest match of the day, ghosting becomes a necessary tool to manage the exhaustion that is mining through the hundreds of (probably boring) people at your fingertips.

For the record: This isnt the nicest way of looking at people.

For the record: This isnt the nicest way of looking at people. But neither is the meat-market display of the swiping mechanism employed by the most popular apps. It is, as they say, what it is. If youre going to partake, this objectification is an inherent and unavoidable aspect of dating app culture.

SEE ALSO: We’re so tired of dating apps but we just can’t quit them

There are a literal million reasons why a match can flop. You can chalk most failed conversations up to lack of spark you either have a connection or you dont. Not everyone wants to partake in games of witty one-upmanship (*raises hand*) or blatant innuendo (*puts hand down*). You might just be on completely different pages right off the bat.

Some people are lazy swipers. Theyll casually swipe right before really analyzing your profile only to later discover oh, wait they actually really hate people with cats and ew thats a cat in your last picture and they missed it the first time. It happens.

Other people are coming off their last breakup sore and just looking for the validation, comfort and ego boost that newcomers tend to feel from the matching experience they were never there to meet up anyway.

See: a literal million reasons.

So when someone doesnt chat you back, the rejection isnt necessarily personal. Its cheesy but its true: Its not you, its them. Youre not a fit, and thats okay.

Its cheesy but its true: Its not you, its them.

Ghosting isnt unique to the online world. Weve done it countless times in person, it just doesnt seem as pointed. If you were at a party full of single people and chatted briefly to someone before pausing to chat to another, and then turned back to discover the first person had disappeared, you probably wouldn’t think too much of it after all, it’s a big party and you’re all there to mingle, a 45-year-old single writer who uses a combination of Tinder, Happn and Bumble told me.

Speaking briefly with someone in person does not imply an investment, and neither does an online greeting. You havent met, you can barely remember this persons name without going back to check their profile, and youve made no promises or commitments.

As a 32-year-old single software developer said, I think that’s why people feel okay ghosting. I hardly know this person. Do I really have to go through the exercise of telling them why I’m not interested? And thats the main issue: formally cutting off every conversation you might have with a stranger online would be exhausting.

Even as someone who only casually flips through dating apps, I have 200+ matches that I do not speak with, either ever or any longer. Some I stopped replying to, some stopped replying to me. Thats online dating.

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I have so many conversations going on at the same time that don’t result in actual dates that I can’t actually reject all of them. So I ghost, a 29-year-old investment professional told me. I don’t think the person really devoted any resources to chat me along with other multiple people at the same time online.

Ghosting is easy. Sitting down to explain why you arent interested in continuing a conversation with someone you barely know is not.

And what good would come of it anyway? As much as some people might feel like understanding why the other person disappeared would be helpful, there are too many variables.

Even with the best intentions, some criticism might read as offensive. Or they might just not know what the hell theyre talking about. (They dont actually know anything about you, after all.) Or it might be one of those incredibly personal literal million reasons that would have no impact on your future involvements.

As the 29-year-old investment professional put it, How would the other person possibly benefit by an internet stranger saying he or she doesn’t wanna meet up because I find you boring. The 45-year-old writer said something similar: If I hardly know a person, I think I have little right to judge their behavior. It’d be massively egotistical of me to judge them after so little interaction.

Its just not feasible for every match to answer your requests for feedback.

Online dating moves quickly. One day youre all about one or two threads of interaction, and the next its an entirely different set of people. Its just not feasible for every match to answer your requests for feedback.

I think it’s slightly unrealistic to expect people to pour their hearts out to you when you hardly know them, the 45-year-old writer said. The problem is that one person might just not be into it (call it chemistry, call it feeling, call it vibe, whatever) while the other person is projecting all sorts of stuff on the other person and building up the proto-relationship in their mind.

The only effort we can reasonably expect from a match is to take a stab at an honest-to-goodness conversation. If it doesnt pass the initial chemistry test, anything else is unnecessary.

There are, of course, scenarios where ghosting is bad. If youve been dating someone even casually for a chunk of time, for instance. But when youre just chatting, gauging who the hell this person even is? When you havent even committed to a first date? Its not rude its just part of the process. Its expected, as the 29-year-old said.

Dating apps like The League and others are rushing to try to “solve” the problem of ghosting. Theyre offering features like read receipts or expiring messages that feel more like shaming. Those features, along with other attempts to engineer social interactions between matches (like limiting how many people you see, especially with The Leagues penalization of people who dip into any kind of inactivity) are manipulating your behaviors by controlling your experience.

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So why are these apps even bothering? Ghosting is always going to be a part of online dating, as long as its a numbers game. But neither of those things are inherently bad. Dating apps, as abhorrent as they can be, are at least convenient and manageable. You can gauge a potential match from a safe and fairly anonymous distance, and you can decide when to pull the plug without the risk of them continuing to have unfettered access to you.

The fact that online dating is on your terms is one of the few things it has going for it.

The fact that online dating is on your terms is one of the few things it has going for it. The best feature these apps introduced was making communication gated rather than leaving it open to a wild west world of negging and sexually-charged commentary. Thats done. But theres certainly still room for features that would minimize the need for ghosting.

The most cumbersome part of all this is swiping through the piles of profiles some of which are joke accounts or spam to get to someone you could see yourself liking. Anything that would help that experience vague and magical algorithms, for instance would be more effective than these features that feel like yet another opportunity for a cash grab (with paid-for member accounts nabbing extra flexibility) rather than a service to the user.

If, one day, apps were able to accurately detect and record your most personal-interest swiping habits to better predict who you would like as in, be an actual matchmaker wed probably spend less time swiping and ghosting in favor of more time actually dating.

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Most of the current algorithmic qualifiers dont have much of a bearing on what kinds of people personality, look, style, character youre looking at. Tinders voting-as-ranking system, based on what we know about it, seems far too much like a Black Mirror Season 3, episode 1 popularity contest than a personalized matching system.

For now, were left with an imperfect system. Theres plenty about the culture of online dating that would deter any number of people. Ghosting, I would argue, is one of the less offensive ones a tool of efficiency rather than rejection. But its up to you to decide if its worth the hassle.

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