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fields-of-lilies-are-pretty · 7 months ago

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see, this is similar to my opinion. i wasnt going to say anything, but someone finally did, so now im going to speak my mind

first, moonshine, not cool. i understand that you were super attached to sob and whatever, but to not only make a post like that, but to also tag the blog it most relates to AND THEN claiming you dont know my nonrp blog is not okay. i was already pretty uncomfortable with you, but now i dont even want to associate myself with you. im done with you. im sorry if this seems rude or like an overreaction, but i dont want your characters to ever interact with mine ever again.

and mod bob. oh boy, bob. im not going to justify how you handled the situation initially. that was just... not cool. you were rude for no reason to so many people who were just trying to help you see the truth. but im not mad at you. im not. imma be honest, i dont really see a reason to stay mad at you. you apologized, and its clear that this whole situation is stressing you out and scaring you and making you feel like a horrible person. theres no reason to add fuel to the flames and stay mad at you. itd only made things worse.

i will say, though. the way some of you guys are treating him over this is awful. i get it, he made some pretty horrible mistakes, sure, but you also gotta keep in mind that most of us are kids here. we are kids who are somewhat socially inept and who all clearly have something going on in our brains that most people would not consider normal. i wasnt going to say anything about this before, but then one of you had the audacity to send him an ask that said "its okay, just dont let it happen again." like, what??? so, what im hearing is, the rest of us now have to approve who hes friends with and who he believes and how he initially responds to situations? is that what youre saying? i mean, its not exactly his fault he fell for moonshines lie. i mean, what if moonshine hadnt been lying? suddenly, all of us who were saying he was would be assholes and mod bob would be the good person here.

all im saying is that we all take a step back for a moment and try to see this from all angles. cause, from my point of view, this whole thing has been a train wreck. but from, say, bobs point of view, this thing started as a horrible thing, to hear that one of his online friends has died, which quickly turned out to be false. he was lied to, and fell for it, and now he thinks hes a horrible person. which, by the way, is NOT a good thing.

so, to mod moonshine, i hope you find somewhere else where you can find some online friends, cause in my opinion, what you did is unforgivable and i dont want to share a community with someone who does things like that. to mod bob, im sorry about everything that has happened to you and im sorry you feel as though youre a horrible person when you arent, but you still have a lot to answer for and a LOT you need to fix. and to all the mods, please, for the LOVE OF GOD, think about what youre going to say to someone before you say it, especially something so finite as "im never going to forgive you," because chances are, you will, and then youll regret saying it, and suddenly everything is awkward.

lily out

A very delayed opinion.

TW: drama, just everything relating to the moonshine situation.

Look, I wasn’t gonna do one’a these, and tbh I am so busy so it’ll be short. But I understand that my opinion holds a tiny bit of weight, so here goes.

Alright, just biting the bullet, that was a very reprehensible decision, Moonshine. And to be honest, with how…divided this community has become, I saw something blowing up from a mile away. Did I expect this? No. But I knew something was gonna happen eventually.

In my opinion, the situation was handled…not the best. Which makes sense, because at the end of the day we”re teenagers on tumblr rping our characters.

and I’m not gonna advocate for Sun/moonshine to be banned or not to be banned. Because I’m not the one who gets to decide that, I don’t have that power.

Same with Bob. But to you, Bob, I will say…you’ve been on thin ice for a little while now for various reasons. It’s not my place to decide either, though. Please just…think before you speak. Please.

This reads like a stream of consciousness but it’s all I have the time to write.

Lily. I am so, so sorry.

I’m leaving the real decisions to those who deserve to make them.

Don’t fake your death over shipping.

#lilyreblogs #tw

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