#nondivergence

[officialromaniantranslatiuni]

directorul: multi copii vin in scoala noastra special pentru doamnele A și H

restul: adica doamna imi-insusesc-munca-altora si doamna rupta-de-realitate

[shadowpuppetteer]

Happy Autism Month! Saw a post about monsters and nondivergence, so I thought I'd share this theme in my life, lol. Love to all those who are just finding their way to their found family. As of posting this I am a few episodes into Delicious Dungeon and it's so good!

[4hourfearlessleader]

Are you forgets you ordered food nondivergent or must obsessively watch the order nondivergent?

[your-best-friend-forever]

CANON NONDIVERGENT MY BELOVED

the inner machinations of my mind are an enigma even i cannot begin to comprehend

[thenightling]

One of those impressively bad “You went to woke you became a bigot” moments

I am so pissed off right now I’m practically shaking.  On a post about the show Wednesday someone said that the school for Outcasts should not have had supernatural creatures and children with powers in it but INSTEAD should have had disabled children, autistic children, indigenous children, and LGBTQ+ children and someone else AGREED with this... “Kind” and “progressive” person.  This is a very false version of being Woke.

Please tell me others understand what is inherently WRONG with this idea!  Please!  I say this as a visually impaired woman who who is not straight.  A segregated rural Gothic school for...  ethnically diverse, nondivergent, children with disabilities and LGBTQ+ children should not be treated the same way as a fictional depiction of werewolves, vampires, sirens, and gorgons.    Metaphorically sure, yes, fine.  But not literally.  You do NOT tell young lesbians or young trans kids or young autistic kids, or kids in wheelchairs that they belong to a category of literal Outcast that will never ever be accepted or loved by “normies.” When I was in kindergarten they wanted to send me to a school for children with visual impairments. There were teachers who tried to talk me into it and thought I’d “feel better among my own kind.”  This was in America in the 1980s.   

And now in 2022 I’m seeing people praising the “Good idea” to swap out the supernatural creatures of Wednesday with LGBTQ+ characters, characters with disabilities, and non-white characters as if that’s the same thing!

Here’s a thought- a genuine one, let the supernatural characters have those mundane / normal traits that you see in most high schools in America.   

And to those who want us in a school for outcasts fuck you.  Fuck you with something hard and sand papery.

[eroticcannibal]

Yanno - honestly? Those shipping fandom fuckers need to shut the fuck up. ON BOTH SIDES. Like, honestly, fuck both parties because I stg, they are so terminally grounded in fantasy they fucking don't know when to separate their stupid make believe arguments from real life shit.

Here is you, talking about how you are tired and fed up of hate-anons involving YOUR REAL LIFE CHILD in their violent fantasies because of their Contempt Towards You. Those people will never be safe around real children because anger and hatred towards a person are very real reasons child abusers have chosen to abuse a child.

You have EVERY RIGHT to talk about how Those People need to fuck of and that there's More Wrong with Them than you because they think you being disabled, nondivergent, queer, kinky/sexually active (WITH YOUR GF), use your child's nickname & pronouns, homeschooling, AND refuse to divulge further and inherently more private information about your child (I've been following you long enough to remember how such "but think of the children! we must protect the children" anon were obsessed and upset when you would not discuss your child's agab or name with them) makes you "unsafe" around your kid because they're "clearly safer"...

And those fandom fucks look at that and decide, "How can I make this about my blorbos? How can I take these very real problems against real people, with real harassment of violent fantasies involving real children, and use it for my side about what two fake and unreal characters from fictional writings should and shouldn't be shipped together?"

Read. The. Fucking. Room.

(Sorry, I'm very angry with how your discussion of real behavior towards real children was entirely derailed by stupid fake fictional bullshit. Anyone who participated in that should be fucking ashamed of themselves. So detached from reality you cannot even understand the gravity of the situation because for once it involves real people!)

Agree 100% and the disregard for real shit (yes on both sides, I know I tolerate more proshippers than antis but I've seen how plenty of ppl behave and I am not picking a fucking side) is why I just can't stand this discourse. Like cool I know fandom is important but GOD shut up for 5 minutes please. There are real life things that I care far more about.

And it happens on so many posts. Anything important will get derailed with bullshit fiction discourse eventually. I'm tired of it. Between making this shit about kid shipping and every fucker making the loss of trans rights in the UK some fandom shit I am gonna unplug tumblr until ppl can BEHAVE.

[konansgirlfriend]

We are now analyzing each others body language during last night is this nondivergent dating

[digimon-posts]

the types of gays each of the adventure Digidestend are

Sora: adorable *picks feral pigeon off of the ground* I’m keeping it

Mimi: mushrooms, frogs, clown inspired makeup, those really cute bead neckless that always look kinda old for some reason, and extravagant kandi cuffs

Izzy: *scrolling through the internet* uh oh *looks up am I gay quiz*

Joe: I’m gonna ignore this for as long as possible *sees Izzy* shit

Tai: everyone likes men dipshit.... I have just been informed I’m bisexual

Matt: his teen scene phase is still to this day being used to catfish people, he is currently in a band that’s trying to revive Punk jazz

TK: nobody knows what exactly his sexuality is and most think he’s an ally before learning he’s married to 4 people, two of which are men

Kari: Fosters kittens and understands them on a elaborately deep nd way

Davis: Bi himbo, any person even slightly queer immediately clocks them as bi

Yolei: Hello welcome to my lizard room, yes it’s venomous

Ken:  him being nondivergent effects his identity so much no nerotypical  understands what the fuck he’s talking about

Cody: “hey what are your pronouns?” “uuuuuuuh psh mmmm huhuh ya know...’

[idgafsfo]

Im nondivergent so lets do this!  Characters in fruits basket who i think are nondivergent / what I think they are.

Akito sohma: Borderline personality disorder / Bpd Yuki Sohma: Autistic  Kyo Sohma: Adhd   Hatsuharu Soham: Gay

[silver-the-rat-royalty]

Hey can someone please explain to me the phrase “tall glass of water” I get that it’s like a complement and something sexual but like... Does it just mean attractive?  Becuse I can’t imagine that fits well with some people. Um so yeah please tell me. -a nondivergent ace/aro individual

[stimming-sim-silica]

I Feel the disability/ nondivergent solidarity in this Chili’s tonight 

No truer words ever spoken

[lynxlite]

I'm ambitious with no drive,

I'm driven with no meaning,

I mean something without something to strive for,

But I'm funny, and that's gotta' count for something.

From: Your local nondivergent.

[arxt1]

Nondivergent deflection of light around a photon sphere of a compact object. (arXiv:2201.01946v2 [gr-qc] UPDATED)

We demonstrate that the location of a stable photon sphere (PS) in a compact object is not always an edge such as the inner boundary of a black hole shadow, whereas the location of an unstable PS is known to be the shadow edge notably in the Schwarzschild black hole. If a static spherically symmetric (SSS) spacetime has the stable outermost PS, the spacetime cannot be asymptotically flat. A nondivergent deflection is caused for a photon traveling around a stable PS, though a logarithmic divergent behavior is known to appear in most of SSS compact objects with an unstable photon sphere. The reason for the nondivergence is that the closest approach of a photon is prohibited in the immediate vicinity of the stable PS when the photon is emitted from a source (or reaches a receiver) distant from a lens object. The finite gap size depends on the receiver and source distances from the lens as well as the lens parameters. The mild deflection angle of light can be approximated by an arcsine function. A class of SSS solutions in Weyl gravity exemplify the nondivergent deflection near the stable outer PS.

from gr-qc updates on arXiv.org https://ift.tt/yhpVD7E

[fishybehavior]

if u click on the detailed results, it breaks down each skill by neurotypical and nondivergent results

Hi min, thank you for being brave and sharing the news about your diagnosis! It's really encouraging to see people getting themselves diagnosed with autism/ADHD as adults, especially expressing the fear that because they've been "high-functioning" their whole lives that nothing was really wrong with them and they'd be wasting a psychiatrist's time by seeking diagnosis. I fear that kind of judgement so much that I can't even talk to my family about the possibility of me being neurodivergent yet. Would you be willing to talk about the steps you took to get diagnosed, and maybe how/if your diagnosis has changed your life since? I know that your personal experiences won't be universal, but it could help undiagnosed followers like me to work up the courage to help themselves.

Thank you for your kind words and for reaching out!

And sure! Here's how I got my ADHD/Autism diagnosis without my parents knowing. Of course, my experience won't be universal but maybe it'll help out somehow. 'Cos the universe knows I couldn't have done it myself without my friends' guidance.

Find a psychiatrist before getting a referral letter from your doctor/general practitioner. Although you need the referral to see the psychiatrist, I found it more practical to book the appointment first. Several reasons for this:

- To find a specialist Looked up psychiatrists specialising in ADHD, because it's what I suspected I had at the time. ADHD is harder to diagnose in adults especially afab.

- Book a convenient time The psychiatrists my doctor referred to were booked up until 6+ months later. I had to call up several different places until I could find an earlier appointment, and that was only because I got lucky.

I did try leaving it up to the GP's judgement (because hey I'm no professional) but some are not particularly experienced in the field so it didn't really go well.

It's easier to just ask for one instead.

Remember, these psychiatric appointments will be expensive. But for a lifetime diagnosis, it's worth it. It was for me at least.

It took several sessions to get a proper diagnosis. During the sessions, the psychiatrist asked a LOT of questions. Goes without saying to answer them as honestly as you can. Some questions might seem irrelevant to ADHD but it's to get a general analysis.

He also asked for blood test and drug test results. Had to get those from another clinic.

Of course it was inevitable for the psychiatrist to ask for my parents to question too.

I had my own reasons for not telling my parents about me possibly being neurodivergent, but it's difficult to get an accurate diagnosis without someone to describe your childhood behaviour. Difficult but not impossible.

Explain your situation to your psychiatrist and they will offer other options. Mine were:

- Provide old school reports

- Questionaire filled by a close associate This one was a tough one too since I was such a recluse that I rarely interacted with even my closest friends. I ended up asking a few of my friends to get as much information as I could. (Thank you so much, guys! <3)

Actually, one of those friends suspected I had autism, something I hadn't considered at the time. They sent me an 'Aspie-Quiz' and suggested sending the results to the psychiatrist too. Here's the quiz if you want to try it out!