#nodoublelife

[madamemerola]

✨THE FOLLY OF LIVING A DOUBLE LIFE. ⁉️What do I mean by a double life? This is when a person leads two different lives that are kept separate from each other, usually because one of them involves a secret or often unscrupulous activities. ➡️When you are one way with a certain group of people or in a particular place but another way with another group of people or place, you are LIVING AND LEADING A DOUBLE LIFE. 💎I spent the greater part of today meditating about why people chose to lead double lives. As a Christian leader and Total Transformation Life Coach, I have seen many cases of double living. 📌Quiet and submissive in the office; spiteful and cantankerous in the home. 📌Dignified and righteous in a religious setting; narcissistic and mean spirited at home. 📌Decent and simple dresser in the day time; sexy vixen at night. You get the picture now, right? I struggle to find any long term benefit to living a double life but I found one common denominator with all the people who choose to live this kind of life. 📌SELF ACCEPTANCE. ➡️Many people struggle to accept the way they are and instead of getting help, they have another persona that is an outlet for them to be that person they don’t identify with. 📣That’s why I am a firm believer in personal mastery. It starts with facing the truth about yourself and recognizing the areas you need help like anger issue, addiction, fear of abandonment, low self esteem, gender crisis, sexual perversion, kleptomaniac issues, etc. ➡️Pretending will not help you because you cannot sustain that pretense for a lifetime. Hiding your flaws will not help either because it will only get worse. ➡️Get the help you need to be able to work out the issues you have and choose to live a wholesome life rather than a double one. 💜Don’t struggle on your own any longer. Let God in and let Him help you. He knows all. I’m able to live a wholesome life today because of Jesus Christ. You can too. XoXo from #madamemerola #thebangcreator #wisdomnuggets #wholesomeliving #nodoublelife #betruetoyourself #wisdomnuggetsbymm #christianlifecoach #faceyourself #dealwithyourdemons #stophiding #totaltransformationcoach #empoweringlives (at Wholesome Life) https://www.instagram.com/p/Chsl7ADjPyd/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=